“吃的苦中苦,方为人上人。”这句话一直是一条真理。
小的时候,妈妈一直教导我:“吃的苦中苦,方为人上人呀!你以后一定要做一个这样的人。”当时我什么也不懂,只知道一边点头,一边:“哦。”妈妈也非常高兴,满意地笑了笑。而现在,妈妈再说这句话时,我已经懂了许多,现在我就要实践“吃得苦中苦”。
刚开始时,我想来想去无从下手,忽然看到了院子里的一些砖,便锁定了这个“苦”:搬砖。说时迟那时快,我飞奔过去拿起砖从这个地方搬到另一个地方,还想着:哈哈!太简单了,我要增加一点难度。于是我从一块砖增加到了三块砖,可想着容易做起来难啊!刚搬起来,就发现自己想的太简单了,我走了几步,就开始摇摇晃晃起来,好像手上有一座大山似的,我受不了这种痛苦了,就把砖轻轻地放在地面上,并用手扶着双膝大口大口地喘着气。
我想换一种方式来吃苦,但却想不出比这件事更苦的其他事了,于是就跑过去问正在做饭的妈妈。
妈妈听了这些话,开始哈哈大笑,过了一会儿才给我出了个主意:“吃得苦中苦是吧?苦可以是手苦、脚苦、头苦,口苦……你先口苦苦吧!这里有一碗苦瓜,你先吃完再说。”我一边接过苦瓜一边想:太小瞧我了,吃苦瓜有什么难的,刚想完便拿起苦瓜开始吃。结果刚吃一口眉头就从舒展变成了紧皱的,苦瓜实在太苦了!我本想不吃了,但是为了吃得苦中苦,还是坚持把苦瓜吃完了。
只有吃得苦中苦,方能成为人上人。以后我要更加吃苦,成为坚持不懈的人。
一说到家,就会觉得很温暖,是在桔红色灯光下被照到的感觉,暖暖的。家也是幸福的标志,不管自己飞得多高,家永远是可以停靠的地方……
小时候,我对家的看法很简单,感觉就是大白兔奶糖,甜甜的,充满浓郁的奶香。家就是爸爸、妈妈和我,是大手拉小手的幸福。我生病了,爸爸、妈妈会背着我往医院里赶,顾不上头上的汗水往眼睛里滴,会守在我的床前,会给我买很多的玩具;我在学校里得奖了,
他们会不停地夸奖我,眼睛里全是笑意,开心得合不上嘴;周末会带我去公园,陪我骑木马,陪我坐旋转秋千,给我买很多很多的`吃的,会满足我一切一切的任性。
所以,我认为家就是甜甜的大白兔奶糖,放在嘴里,让它慢慢地溶化,溶化出的全是充满奶香的幸福。
长大后,对家的看法不一样了。觉得家是一杯柠檬汁,开始觉得甜甜的,到了口中又会觉得酸酸的,还会有一点苦涩。爸爸、妈妈不会再满足我任性的要求,却要要求我很多,看不到他们的笑脸,取而代之的是满脸的严肃。他们会说:“你长大了,以后很多事要靠自己。”成绩下滑了,他们会严肃地教育我,会不准我再看电视,会给我报很多的课外的班,会让我学这学那。我明白,小时候的幸福一天不回了,要面对的是一杯酸酸的柠檬汁。
后来啊,我的看法又变了。家,不过是一杯白开水,淡淡的,没有任何味道。你往里面加糖,它就会很甜。同样,你往里面加盐,它就会咸。酸甜苦辣,都由自己决定。学业变重了,好像不到父母的关心了,好像觉得父母不关心自己,也没有一家三口那种轻松愉快的气氛。可是,在我熬夜学习时的一杯热牛奶,在天冷时的手套、围巾……,太多太多的细小的关心,只是我没有留意而已。
家就是一杯白开水,味道由你自己定,一切都是冷暖自知,家的味道自己慢慢体会。
不管飞得多高,就像牵着线的风筝,风筝这头就是家,家的味道也永远不会忘。
如果我问你:“眼泪的味道是咸的吗?”你一定会回答:“是!”
在许多人看来眼泪是咸的。当眼泪不小心划到嘴角的时候,你尝到的`眼泪的决是咸的,但实际上你在流泪的时候,已经忽略了内心的感受。
当你面对病魔的残酷折磨时,你总会流下眼泪,表面上看来眼泪是咸的,而你的内心感受呢?在你饱受病痛的折磨是流下的眼泪并不是咸的,而是苦涩的,因为你的内心是那么地痛苦,流下的眼泪怎么会觉得是咸的呢?
当你在做一个发明或一个实验时,你凭着自己的努力与才干、智慧顺利地完成这个发明或这个实验的时候,你因兴奋、激动而流下眼泪,那么你的眼泪不是苦涩也不是咸的,因为你的心中充满了喜悦、高兴,你品尝到了成果的果实,所以你的眼泪一定是甜的,就像甜筒冰淇淋一样。
当你为了一件事或是一个人付出了你的所有或者是青春,最后你什么东西包括你的青春都失去了,但你付出的却得不到应有的回报时,你可能会发疯地大哭一场,泪水如汹涌的洪水一般涌出来,这是你的眼泪就像是柠檬一样酸,因为你的心中也是那么地酸楚。
当你为了自己心中的梦想奋力前进的时候,你一定会碰到许许多艰难坎坷,总会有人阻挡你前进,总会在梦想的岔道迷失了方向,但你不怕困难,坚持自己心中的梦想不畏艰苦向前走,当你经历了一切的艰难困苦,终于实现了自己的梦想,成功到达了梦的彼岸时,你总会情不自禁地潸然泪下,那么那个时候你的眼泪是苦涩的是辛酸的,同时又是甜的。因为你在梦想的道路上经历了各种痛苦、各种艰难和付出,最后终于成功了,心中总会有许多感慨却不能用言语表达,只好流下眼泪,那么眼泪的味道就不止单单一种。
在科学的角度来看眼泪的确是咸的,但我认为眼泪真正的味道不是嘴巴能品尝到的,而是要你自己用心去、去感受的。在你流泪的时候,请慢慢闭上眼睛,放松自己,用手捂住心口,用心去体会和感受眼泪的味道……
When I was a freshman in college I watched the film Gua Sha Treatment for the first time, now I am a junior student and I come back to review the movie from a multicultural aspect, I have many different feelings after watching the film again.
At the beginning of the film, XuDatong is given an award and later he delivers a speech. What makes me impressed most is in his speech he says “one day I will become one of you, a truly successful American, today this award proved that America is a true land of opportunity and I am the living proof of that.” At that moment Xu thinks he has realized his American Dream totally with his lovingly wife and adorable son. However, I think it is ironical that to make a speech like that and I assume it is made on purpose to hind a clue for the story\'s development. How many non—American people have such a beautiful American dream? One of my classmate studies in American now and before he went aboard he told me his American dream is he can stand at the top of the New York. To be honest, I also dream that one day I can get the Green Card living there happily and successfully maybe working at the Wall Street. When Xu gets the award he thinks he entirely melted in the melting pot neglecting the multicultural obstruct, later the plot goes against the way he thinks. And later Quinlan asked Xu\'why you be the scapegoat of your father?\' Xu answers \'because he is Chinese.\' Then maybe Xu knows that there is always a wide gap between Chinese and American cultures.
The second scene is Xu hit his son Denis because Denis hit the son of xu\'s boss, at the middle of the film xu tells his boss that he hit his own son is only to show his respect to his boss John Quinlan, that time Quinlan feels puzzled “what a Chinese logic”,yes, American can never understand such a logic full of Chinese characteristic, because they respect everyone including the children, they won\'t beat a child to please the boss, and there is no such a conception of degree between employee and employer, they feel everyone is equal, which is quite different from china.
Connected to the second scene, the third difference I want to analyze is the care for the children. In America, people pay more attention to the right of children which can be seen from the law—leaving children alone at home is illegal, while in China it is so common that almost everyone may experience such loneliness. And Children Welfare Agency does work in America which shows the importance Americans attach to children\'s right. What\'s more, I remember a line \'No one won the case, especially the child.\' In my opinion, it also manifests the universal concern from the American public to the children.
The fourth aspect is following the procedure, in the film, more than there times, the people focus on the rule, the law, the procedure. At the Christmas Eve Xu wants to return back to his home pretending as a Santa Claus, what a pity, the security recognizes him and persuades \'you are always a good tenement, never causes troubles for me.\' And another scene is at the end of the film , the judge says \'I have to follow the procedure.\' However, in China people always have to ask for a favor to do something, and later you have to pay back the favor,for myself, I prefer the American style, strict to the procedure.
The fifth and the last point is the humors, Quinlan says \'you can\'t fall, your health security is the company paid.\' \'Datong, welcome home, maybe next time, you can come from the front door.\' \'dady, why you come from the window\' \' because we don\'t have a chimney.\' I really adore this distinguished American humor, especially in dangerous situations, which is quite rare in China.
That\'s my whole reaction to Gua Sha Treatment.
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