重庆协和心理顾问事务所所长、首席高级心理咨询师谭刚强说,如果一个孩子对家庭即将到来的新成员非常排斥,可以让他和其他小朋友玩在一起,让他接受更多的小伙伴,让他知道姐姐哥哥的好处,明白“接受”和“宽容”。
孩子在照顾其他伙伴时,家长要有意识地赞扬孩子的这种行为,逐步消退“自尊超前意识”,培养“兄弟姐妹感情”。
在日常学习、工作或生活中,大家或多或少都会接触过书信吧,书信是生活中常用的一种文体。书信要怎么写才能发它的作用呢?以下是小编精心整理的写给二胎弟弟的一封信,希望能够帮助到大家。
亲爱的弟弟:
你好!
你比我小三岁,在这个“三岁一代沟”的时代,我们似乎不会有太多的交集和话题,但这个定理在你我身上,并没有什么用。
小时候,你很调皮,总是一言不合就和我吵架,有时甚至还会动起手来。那时,我总是嫌弃你,总觉得你太小,什么都不懂。那时父母也总是偏向你,其实我也是有些嫉妒你的。我还总认为是父母偏心,爱你更多一点呢!也不知道你是否还记得了,那时你还小吧。
后来你上了小学,我也更大了些。但那段时间却是我们闹得最凶的时候。还记得有一次,事情的起因我也不记得了,反正结果是你无赖似的躺在地上大哭。我心里一阵厌烦,就一脚踹在了你头上,我当时踹完就懵了,很心虚的在一旁悄悄的看着你。没想到你却渐渐停下了哭泣,从地上爬起来,若无其事的走了。那时的我也比较冲动,毕竟青春期嘛!也正是那次让我看清了你伪善的真面目,看到了你吃硬不吃软的本质。
随着你一天天长大,你开始和我有了共同话题,在家里,也有了个可以说话的伴。我也开始庆幸拥有你这个“二胎”弟弟。
我是个“人来疯”,总是时不时做出一些比较过分的事情,可你总是包容我,在这一点上,我丝毫没有一个作为姐姐的自觉。还记得有段时间我犯了懒癌,中午上学时让你骑单车载我上学。你总是嘴上嫌弃我,却最终还是任劳任怨的继续载我上学。还记得我坐在后座上,看着旁边路上飞掠过的认识的同学,笑得一脸无害。我被他们羡慕了好久呢,想想还开心呢。
你可能不知道,我在班上是个炫弟狂魔。毕竟我弟弟长得一表人才,风流倜傥,那脸白嫩得都能掐出水来,简直不给我们这些糙汉子一点活路。于是她们都成了我的`弟弟粉,我还记得她们第一次见你那上下其手的动作,以及你一脸懵逼的表情。
呐!这么想来,有你这个弟弟也还不错嘛!我就勉强把父母的爱分一半给你吧,你可不要不知珍惜呀!
如今你也是个大男孩了,我希望你能懂事些,给我找个漂亮的弟妹回来!哈哈哈!不胡说了,我要严肃、正直。你要好好学习,成为学霸。嗯,然后才会有漂亮的弟妹跟你。我在说什么呀,就这样吧!
此致
敬礼!
你的姐姐:丁
20xx年4月17日
“单纯从作文的角度来讲,其实还真的不错啦。”吴女士笑言,其实,虽然身边很多朋友一直在讨论生二胎这个话题,但对于38岁的她而言,确实没有考虑过再生一个的问题。
她掰着手指列数现实的门槛:“家里老人年岁大了、经济情况不允许、我的年龄也大了……”吴女士说,她翻看作文的时候,无忧表现得非常淡定。之后,她也只是跟无忧就作文本身探讨了几个写作上的小问题。
不过,当吴女士把无忧的作文发到朋友圈里后,大家的反应超乎她的.预料。有朋友点评说:“通过举例子、作假设、用反证、旁证法等修饰手法,言简意赅、语重心长、目标明确地表达了作者的观点。特别是幼小作者在结尾处拍着幼弱的身躯提出全文核心观点,人不在多、关键是质量!进而信誓旦旦向父母作出保证:有我一个,一个顶俩!进一步深化了文章的格调!不愧为老大反对老二的最佳檄文!可供很多单独子女学习传阅!”
“其实无忧是个心思单纯的孩子,虽然他一直坚持反对生二胎,但他也常常说,生了就算了,并没有其他太极端的想法。”吴女士说,虽然没有生二胎的打算,但接下来,她肯定会就这个问题,与无忧好好沟通一下,毕竟,作为独生子女的无忧,今后要面对的还不仅仅是二胎的弟弟妹妹这一个问题。
Emerging from the cartoon is an eye-catching scene that the parents are willing to have a second child, while their only child do not agree because of his worry that he doesn't want to have another child, even his own sibling, share toys with him. Simple as it is, the symbolic meaning revealed is profound and thought-provoking.
We are supposed to place our attention on, instead of its funny appearance, the implied meaning of the cartoon: as the overall second-child policy expands throughout China, some only children are so selfish that they cannot accept the second child in their family. What can account for this undesirable situation? For one thing, they, as the only child at home all the time, have no awareness of sharing what they like with others due to the fact that all the family members give their love to the only child. As a result, when faced with the problem of whether they are willing to have a sibling, their first response is to refuse it. For another reason, some couples are eager to have a second child as soon as possible, which makes them neglect to communicate with their only child to let them realize the advantage of having a sibling companion in their childhood.
From what has been discussed above, it's safe for me to conclude that it is urgent to take some immediate and effective measures. What I recommend is that parents should let child know the importance of sharing with others, which is beneficial for them in future life. In addition, it's better for parents to have more communication with their only child once they want to have a second child.
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