“代沟”也就是指两代人之间的价值观念,心理状态,生活习惯等方面的差异。它就像一道无形的墙,始终无法打开心窗沟通。毕竟父母与子女已经相隔了几十年,“几十年”这又是一个什么概念呢?它足以使一个国家的诞生,也可以使一个国家毁灭。在这遥遥漫长的几十年里,世界将发生怎样的变化,谁都无法预料到。
教育是每一辈人都关心的话题,但在这千千万万的家庭中,谁又能做到人格与学问齐发展呢?在奶奶那一年代里,教育的概念就是要求晚辈具有良好的品格;在妈妈那这一代人中,教育就是腰包能鼓起来;而在我们这一代人中,品格又要与知识齐发展。可见在这短短的几十年里,教育在人们的心中发生了如此大的改革。它不是在于想起时就给与子女长篇大论,要求子女该怎样,而是在无形中给晚辈们树立良好的作风,你的每个思想都将通过语言、神态、动作等方面表现出来,从而使子女在自己的大脑中形成坚固的堡垒,遇事能迅速反弹出来,以次给予子女正确的引导。但是,父母往往都没有认识到这点:一味的相信“黄金条下出好人”这无疑是给自己与子女之间加上隔离装置,反而使子女不敢与父母说出心里话,父母也更加不能理解到子女们的内心世界,这样就使后果与想法背道而驰。
家长不是圣人,他只是以一个后来人的身份起到一个警戒的作用,在子女的思想出现分歧后进行开导。也并不是一张日程表,约束子女,让子女按照自己的意愿生活。然而家长的做法正是现在的少年所痛恨的,仿佛自己就是一个木偶,任人摆布。
回想过去做的错事,假使听信父母的话就不会出现如此种种难堪。可是,人就是有点古怪,任何事情偏要自己亲自尝试,初生牛犊不怕虎嘛,家长的种种不也是从实践中得到的吗?为何偏偏要干涉子女呢?
或许家长们都还没有认识到,当今世上的某些不法份子犯罪的原因不是别的,而是因为与父母之间的代沟太深,时间越久,压抑感就越大,最终有一天火山爆发,而一发不可收拾。
Dear Mom and Dad,
Although we can only keep in touch with each other by the telephone or the Internet, I wish I could let you know how much I love you and how much I’ve appreciated the things you’ve done for me. It is never too much to say thank you to you, my dear parents.
First and the most important is that thank you for bringing me to this world. During the 20 years, you have done a lot for me, but I haven’t realized how much I love you until I left home to the university. I understand how much effort you have cost to bring me up. Now, I have grown up, I can look after you.
Second, I want to thank you that you give me a good environment to grow up. There is an old saying “Parents are the first teacher to their children”. In my life, you are the typical ones. Because of your good examples I formed the good habit of learning at an early age which benefits my life.
At last, I want to say “thank you” is that you always support my choice. You never forced me to do anything I was not interested in. You told me to pursuit my own dreams without hesitation and you would support me forever. You also told me to how to be a human. Now I become an optimistic and cheerful girl and I feel happy every day.
I really miss you when I am writing this thank you letter. I can’t wait to go home to share more time together with you.You are my most important people in the world and I will love you forever.
Yours,
XXX
Dear mom and dad:
You are good!
This is the first time I write to you, I want to write down the words of my heart.
You I had many of the night was up all night, you how many tears flow to me. I paid you for how much, I return you from, I also know, you must not think I return you anything, but I'll never forget you in mind, the old I will return to the best of your ability, when I grew up in the sun, but you will gradually ageing, worry about and sad that wrinkles climbed up you originally carefree face.
Mom and dad, in your care, I have spent a full of joy for ten years. You have been the best things to me. I have a beautiful bedroom, delicate study materials, the conditions of the outstanding school... I like the little princess "in fairy tale, as well as the growth of carefree. Mom and dad, I want to say to you, you is very kind to me.
For ten years, and you carefully nurtured me, so that I grow up happily day by day. And your own but don't know how much I flow for the sweat and the tears. Mom and dad, I'll never let you down, is you to me put a pair of wings, I'll use that for the most powerful wings and fly, to the vast ocean of knowledge.
For the father loves the mountains, big love speechless. Dad you in my memory is always strict.
I and you seem to be very few joked about. Occasionally you talking and laughing, but with total to feel very at odds after. You are always a mountain that composed speechless. But anyway, I know you did all that is good for me.
When I came to this strange world by accident, the heart also carries a afraid, with wen run is you with love I meet, your love is I came to this world have received the first gift. How many covered the morning mist, you surprise and incredibly staring at me that WenXiang such as roses of little face, in my mind I meditate on to the my blessings. Early morning sunshine through the window, hazy gently in your face evenly spread on a layer of holy golden.
Love is like the silent running water, exquisite moistens at every point. Blustery, sun rises fall, winter passed on, flowers blossom, thanks in your words, I know the world, start gradually thinking. You not only living I to raise me, but also teach me the person, the given me knowledge and tao is "who grass-inch heart, reported in the apartments". Daughter with a mind always touched, but only in small to care and considerate, academic work harder in return. Just as weak grass can only add three points for spring green, and repay the natural nourishing; Autumn leaves only to be born for mud, to repay the tree of raising.
I usually very like reading, you never against, but to buy me a lot of books. By now I can put full of books have a bookcase. You again afraid I read many of the eye sight, and broke in bed to buy a lamp that beautiful the lamp that shield an eye.
Mom, remember the paint of time? Can't stand practice to paint of bitter, you also can really hit me, forced me to go on. Have a period of time, the time to practice painting overload I almost collapse, drab repeatedly that I find very boring. Many times, I almost want to go to all the paper I ripped, but then I was able to hold back. Want to come now, drawing not only gave me to understanding of the love, and paint with the fingers of flexible and the development of the brain, the more developed my perseverance will and persistence. Mother, daughter really grateful to you!
Dad, perhaps you rarely like mother like that teach me what, but you can really affect me a lot. You never is so honest, kind, brave, strong, dedication, and can endure hardships and profound knowledge, you use your good quality affects me, always doing my model. Each time talking with you always make me benefit, always make me understand some of the life philosophy, always important to make my in confused when suddenly enlightened. Dad, daughter really grateful to you!
Mom and dad, you are in their industry elite, and daughter from urinate will you as a proud. You are all so devotion and perseverance, in their children's education is also a method. Mother, it is you that give me the most important a habit: a love of reading. Reading is to my self education is the best way I know to widely browse, many all aspects of the knowledge, people doing things will also be more mature. Mom and dad, daughter really appreciate you!!!!!
Love is the most beautiful in the world language, let us each other love each other forever to pass by stormy night, watch for the arrival of the most beautiful day.
Your daughter
二十一世纪,我们这些青少年的思想,与我们所敬爱的上一辈人,永远无法融在一起,似乎没有为什么,也不知道为什么。大人们喜欢把他们的思想强加在我们新一辈人的身上,而我们,也必须接受这种“无理”的思想,如若不接受,也许,在大人的眼睛里,我们的行为就是所谓的叛逆、不懂事、翅膀硬了,可是,你们永远不会知道我们心中所想的一切,只能默默地承受这一切,埋藏我们自己的思想,不动生色。
我们是这个时代的——未来。我们有自己的梦想,我们有自己的未来,我们有我们自己的生活要过,这一切,要我们自己去承担,你们永远不能陪伴我们一生,往后的路,还要靠我们自己去走。请你们放开你们那宽厚的手,让我们自己飞翔吧。
时代在变,生活也在变。不同的时代,不同的人,有自己的路。亲爱的——爸爸,妈妈,我们长大了,学会走路了,前面坎坷的路,让我们独自面对吧,十几年的养育之恩,我们不会忘记,你们也该休息休息了。
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