其实世间本无沟,只是随着时间的推移、人心的距离也就成了沟。
唱歌是真诚自由的诉说,是情感的流露。在众多歌曲中,一定有一首歌能与你产生共鸣。它也许唱出了你的期待,唱出了那些身后不为人知的故事。当你苦恼,当你失落,当你心烦意乱,不妨试试,一个人,一首歌,一只麦克风,让压抑着的心情得到释放,也许会让你活得更舒服些。
我喜欢音乐,也喜欢唱歌。正如史铁生说:“一个人只能唱他自己认为真诚的歌,这是由他的个性和历史所限定的。”抗日战争时期的歌曲,多是英雄战歌。新中国成立后,又歌颂伟大领袖,而我们这个年代,生活条件不错,人们不用担心衣食住行,歌曲当然是多描写生活流行歌曲,当然也少不了民谣和古典纯音,各种曲风。
每个人的喜好不同,每首歌都会有喜欢它的人。然而母亲却似乎不愿让我听歌。她说,现在的流行音乐都是情情爱爱的。所以一家人自驾游,车里的收音机有关爱情的歌她都关掉,甚至连听到什么爱情的歌都会皱眉。
然而,“少年情怀总是诗”。为了能听到自己喜爱的歌,我用积攒了很久的钱,偷偷地买了个MP3听歌。那时,家离学校远,来回每天都搭乘两个来回的公交车。为了攒下那搭车的两块钱,我选择了放学后步行回家,每每到家,傍晚的天空已是灰蒙蒙的。当然,选择步行不只是为了攒钱买MP3,放学路上,还可以在许多商店门前听到自己喜欢的歌。由于母亲连我看电视时,听到电视传来的流行歌都敏感,那时的我就感觉家是个没有音乐、没有乐趣、灰蒙蒙的地方。我也曾试着和母亲说,流行音乐也有不是情歌的呀,她总是皱皱眉,摇摇头,说她就是不喜欢。
好吧,我也很无奈。也许这是时间造成的代沟。再后来,终逃不过母亲的法眼。一天,我正在房间听着MP3,沉醉于音乐的我,被逮个正着。
我的小秘密暴露了,我解释,我不仅听流行音乐,我还喜欢古典音乐,但她不听解释,MP3终被没收了。
想起小时候她常教我唱“红星闪闪放光彩……”“小小竹排江中游,巍巍青山两岸走……”现在却忙得连唱歌的情趣都没有了。
沟,不是什么坏东西,有山有水就有沟。地球如果都是平展的,虽然希望都是良田,但事实那可能全是荒漠。
二十一世纪,我们这些青少年的思想,与我们所敬爱的上一辈人,永远无法融在一起,似乎没有为什么,也不知道为什么。大人们喜欢把他们的思想强加在我们新一辈人的身上,而我们,也必须接受这种“无理”的思想,如若不接受,也许,在大人的眼睛里,我们的行为就是所谓的叛逆、不懂事、翅膀硬了,可是,你们永远不会知道我们心中所想的一切,只能默默地承受这一切,埋藏我们自己的思想,不动生色。
我们是这个时代的——未来。我们有自己的梦想,我们有自己的未来,我们有我们自己的生活要过,这一切,要我们自己去承担,你们永远不能陪伴我们一生,往后的路,还要靠我们自己去走。请你们放开你们那宽厚的手,让我们自己飞翔吧。
时代在变,生活也在变。不同的时代,不同的人,有自己的路。亲爱的——爸爸,妈妈,我们长大了,学会走路了,前面坎坷的路,让我们独自面对吧,十几年的养育之恩,我们不会忘记,你们也该休息休息了。
Dear Mom and Dad,
Although we can only keep in touch with each other by the telephone or the Internet, I wish I could let you know how much I love you and how much I’ve appreciated the things you’ve done for me. It is never too much to say thank you to you, my dear parents.
First and the most important is that thank you for bringing me to this world. During the 20 years, you have done a lot for me, but I haven’t realized how much I love you until I left home to the university. I understand how much effort you have cost to bring me up. Now, I have grown up, I can look after you.
Second, I want to thank you that you give me a good environment to grow up. There is an old saying “Parents are the first teacher to their children”. In my life, you are the typical ones. Because of your good examples I formed the good habit of learning at an early age which benefits my life.
At last, I want to say “thank you” is that you always support my choice. You never forced me to do anything I was not interested in. You told me to pursuit my own dreams without hesitation and you would support me forever. You also told me to how to be a human. Now I become an optimistic and cheerful girl and I feel happy every day.
I really miss you when I am writing this thank you letter. I can’t wait to go home to share more time together with you.You are my most important people in the world and I will love you forever.
Yours,
XXX
今天去三院复查眼睛视力,复查完后就去了对面的一家肯德基,妈妈点完菜,我们就开始吃,我吃得津津有味,嘴都忙不过来了。当我想吃"鸡块"的时候,发现酱拿错了,我起身去洗手池洗了洗手,就拿着"甜辣酱"去换"糖醋酱",刚好点餐台那边挺空的,只有一个顾客,却有三个服务员,于是便兴高采烈的说:"阿姨,换一下酱,换成糖醋酱!"那位"小姐"没听见的样子跑到后厨去了。我心里顿时波折了一下:好吧,算我声音小,全当您没听见。我刻意提高了一倍嗓音地对右边的服务员说了同样的话,那"第二位小姐"对我左边正在给顾客点餐的服务员说了声:"我来帮你!"冥冥之中,就把我当成了空气,我想说的是:您不需要空气吗?我的心脏暂停了5秒,我咽了一口唾沫,看了看我旁边的这位顾客,她没表情地看了我一眼,这时,那"第一位小姐"从后厨回来了,我就又立刻叫了一声:"阿姨……"话还没说完,这位"小姐"就低下头去拿袋子帮忙装可乐,我有点火了:不到一米的距离,我叫那么大声您听不见?
在她装可乐的时候我又连叫了她三声阿姨,她愣是装聋子,相信我旁边的那个顾客都快看不下去了,我顿时觉得特别尴尬,于是,就不喊了,干脆靠在了台子边等她们"空下来"。突然,余光发现"第一位小姐"空下来了,居然宁愿看着那位正在招待顾客的人打包,也不理我,也不问我需要什么我转过身,凑上去,说:"阿姨,换酱。"她却还是当作什么也没有发生。我扭头细声说道:"居然敢不理我!"
于是乎我又提高了一倍嗓音,接着把手里的酱"啪"地放在了她面前,说:"阿姨,换……"也许是听到了我刚刚的细语,又也许是我提高了两倍的声音,她装聋子装不下去了,没等我话说完话,她就帮我换了酱,但是换给我的酱居然放在桌上甩给我的,给酱来了个漂移。我拿着酱,气冲冲地回到了座位,恶狠狠地咬了一口"鸡块"。妈妈问我怎么回事,我用十几个字回复了妈妈。妈妈居然拿着手机,打着"斗地主",对我说:"又不是像你想的那样:每一个肯德基的服务都很好,现在的服务业就这样,你要是不满意,可以投诉的。"我大口大口的吃完了"鸡块",一口气喝下了半杯滚烫的咖啡,妈妈看我气成这样,居然说:"你就这样的承受能力,以后怎么在社会上怎么生活啊!"我表示不语。
突然,我身后走过一个老奶奶,她对我旁边一桌的单独吃的小女孩说:"奶奶我先走了,你在这里等你外婆!"声音超大,还是土话,周围人都看着她,弄的女孩超尴尬。女孩点了点头表示明白了。不料,那位老奶奶还拜托旁边的服务员,让他看着她点儿不要让她先走了,要等她外婆来了,女孩瞬间苦笑:难道这她不懂吗?然后又皱起了眉头,我真为她感到悲哀:成了所有人的焦点。
不到五分钟的时间,我和妈妈出了肯德基,边走边聊,无意中聊到了那个女孩。妈妈说:"那个小女孩就和你们现在的小孩一样,冷漠对待长辈。"我说:"那是因为那位老奶奶不将她的自尊心放在眼,你不知道现在青春期的孩子自尊心很强吗?"妈妈说:"那只是你们不尊重长辈的一种借口罢了……"
我顿时石化,为什么长辈与晚辈的遇事的看法都是不同的,甚至是相对的?
难道,这就是代沟吗?
Beloved father:
It’s a long time no contacting with you since last e-mail. And I miss you so much. Recently I luckily turn to the third officer working on board MV Blue Whale,which is a container ship. I intend to introduce you what Ido on this big vessel in this letter.
I am the third officer working in the deck department. As you know, the third officer is responsible to the master for the proper performance of his assigned bridge watchstanding and navigational duties.
On board, my first daily work is wathckeeping from 8 to 12 and from 20 to 24. my second daily work is in charge of the maintance of the fire-fighting equipment and life-saving equipment. The third , I am also responsible for fire and boat drills, I have to design a muster list and make crew to know the best escape route clearly. Additionally, there are also some simple things I have to do in daily work. For example, I have to assist the Chief Officer in supervising cargo handling operation 、to measure the draft at the discretion of the Chief Officer or the Master、to assist the Master on the bridge with anchoring and mooring and unmooring operation is underway and so on.
In the end, I strongly believed that you must be very familiar with my special work through what I said. And I hope you can stand my back and make me stronger. We will have a reunion soon.
Your ,ZJH
“代沟”也就是指两代人之间的价值观念,心理状态,生活习惯等方面的差异。它就像一道无形的墙,始终无法打开心窗沟通。毕竟父母与子女已经相隔了几十年,“几十年”这又是一个什么概念呢?它足以使一个国家的诞生,也可以使一个国家毁灭。在这遥遥漫长的几十年里,世界将发生怎样的变化,谁都无法预料到。
教育是每一辈人都关心的话题,但在这千千万万的家庭中,谁又能做到人格与学问齐发展呢?在奶奶那一年代里,教育的概念就是要求晚辈具有良好的品格;在妈妈那这一代人中,教育就是腰包能鼓起来;而在我们这一代人中,品格又要与知识齐发展。可见在这短短的几十年里,教育在人们的心中发生了如此大的改革。它不是在于想起时就给与子女长篇大论,要求子女该怎样,而是在无形中给晚辈们树立良好的作风,你的每个思想都将通过语言、神态、动作等方面表现出来,从而使子女在自己的大脑中形成坚固的堡垒,遇事能迅速反弹出来,以次给予子女正确的引导。但是,父母往往都没有认识到这点:一味的相信“黄金条下出好人”这无疑是给自己与子女之间加上隔离装置,反而使子女不敢与父母说出心里话,父母也更加不能理解到子女们的内心世界,这样就使后果与想法背道而驰。
家长不是圣人,他只是以一个后来人的身份起到一个警戒的作用,在子女的思想出现分歧后进行开导。也并不是一张日程表,约束子女,让子女按照自己的意愿生活。然而家长的做法正是现在的少年所痛恨的,仿佛自己就是一个木偶,任人摆布。
回想过去做的错事,假使听信父母的话就不会出现如此种种难堪。可是,人就是有点古怪,任何事情偏要自己亲自尝试,初生牛犊不怕虎嘛,家长的种种不也是从实践中得到的吗?为何偏偏要干涉子女呢?
或许家长们都还没有认识到,当今世上的某些不法份子犯罪的原因不是别的,而是因为与父母之间的代沟太深,时间越久,压抑感就越大,最终有一天火山爆发,而一发不可收拾。
Dear parents:
You are good! Thank you for you when I was growing up, to my care and meticulous care, what I have to ask you can satisfy me. Its always hot in summer, I kick a quilt, every time you gently help me cover the quilt, winter will give me a cup of hot milk before you go to sleep at night.
But your weight to all have no standing in my point of view, only think about how I. Now I have grown up, is not a two year old the child, I want your decision and judgment. Please dont pressure me again, had a lot of pressure on learning, you can put the gas pressure can reduce the?
Although you do not perfect, but what are the parents in the world perfect? Youll always be my favorite people. Is you give me life, let me come to this beautiful world and everywhere is full of love. I must study hard, to repay you.
Dear parents,
How is everything these days? I miss you very much.
I am very happy at my new shool. My teachers and shoolmates are very friendly to me .They ofen help me with my study.Now I am not worried about my English because I make a lot of progress in it anb I become more and more intrested in it. My shool life here is also wonderful. I take part in many part-time activities . I make many friends there and learn lots of learning methods.
Now final exam is coming. I am busy preparing it . I will try my best to do well in it.
I am glad that the summer holiday is coming. I want to take part in a GREEN CITY GROUP.I think I should make a contribution to protecting our environment.
It's hot these days but I can take good care of myself.You should pay more attention to your health.
Best wishes to you.
Love you,
XXX
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