深感时间不够用的中年父母,读到一本高质量的书,才不会觉得浪费生命。学习了几年育儿知识后,明显感觉到各类育儿博主的局限性,即使是最真诚的博主,为了转发量和体验有时也不得不牺牲内容。更不要说碎片化阅读不可能让学科成体系融会贯通了。碎片化阅读只适合头痛医头,脚痛医脚。
参考了许多学霸的建议后,发现无论学习哪个学科,阅读内容都是需要分级的。
1、最好能直接阅读高质量期刊的论文。
2、其次是经典教材。
3、接下来科学家本人写的科普书籍。
4、有丰富经验的一线实践者写的真诚的分享也可供实用参考。
5、非专业的深度业余爱好者写的内容
以上内容的含金量有先后次序。(其他既不专业也不爱好,纯靠转发量驱动的内容不计算在内。)
只是对于非学术圈的父母来说,不仅很难找到含金量高的论文、书籍,即便找得到,这些内容几乎都是专业的英语,普通人真的很难读下来,结结巴巴的读下来了也要花很长时间消化理解。最重要的是还要辨别优劣,来者不拒不仅浪费时间,万一学到错误、过时的内容就得不偿失了。
偶然看了魏坤琳博士的得到专栏,随后买了这本书来看,心里忍不住雀跃啊。一是开心,自己总结的路子是正确的,书中的内容印证了看过的论文、教材。而是好多内容似乎以前读过,但不甚理解。经过叨叨魏的解释和实践,不仅帮助理解,还能举一反三了。
我个人觉得这本书最值得买的原因是,在大多数人看一手资料困难的前提下,这本书里的理论和原理,都来自被反复验证、最新最前沿的科学研究成果。换句话说,所有的理论都能在高质量的论文里找到来源。这就足够让信息不畅的非学霸惊喜了。
除此之外,叨叨魏举的各种例子和建议的方法,也都更符合中国国情,更贴近中国父母的养育环境。对于即使阅读了论文却苦于理解和实际操作的我来说,这些案例甚至无需思考,不仅可以直接用还能再激发我创造更适合自己的方法。
认识了爱贝睿觉得很幸运,并不完全是为了孩子。如果不是为了功利的目的而只是出于兴趣爱好,学习真是件有趣的事。前提是学习方法、学习内容是不是可行、是不是正确。不必在众多被反复演绎的知识中推理辨别真伪,能直接靠近优秀科学家的结论,真的是节省了太多时间。虽然想要学习真正的一手知识,还是绕不开英语能力,但一边练习英语一边学习最靠近源头的知识,听从真正权威的专业人士指导,是目前最好的选择。
关于育儿,从新手一路摸爬滚打已3年有余,但坦白讲仍旧所知甚少。看似一直努力学习,可都是临阵磨枪,有了问题才四处查漏补缺。育儿成了十万个怎么办,成了一堆琐碎零散的问题集合,消磨考验着有限的精力和耐心。
为寻找答案,常被巨大的信息流裹挟,迷失在商家炒作和冒牌专家的民科理论里。“年度八大育儿误区”、“别再拿无知折腾你的娃”这些触目惊心的大标题,看的人肉跳心惊。万一不幸中招,恨的直拍大腿怎么躲着躲着还是一脚踩坑里了?身边一位家长直接放言,谁说的我都不信了,反正我妈也把我拉扯大了,没痴没傻……可这一时的痛快又能豪言几次呢?
所幸遇到这本育儿秘笈,“智力、情绪、运动、语言、创意”,五脑全面助攻。从表面现象问题入手,揭示本质,让读者更接近更真实的世界,了解更底层的思维。
书中以科学实验依据的各种反常识,教你辨别靠谱科学,练就火眼金金,厘清育儿路上的迷障。原来论文怎么看还有大学问;都是实验研究,结论可靠性却有讲究。还有经典的棉花糖实验,原来真正应该吸取的经验是这些!
当别人蜂拥追逐右脑开发,当家长群大谈特谈一万小时理论,当小区妈妈们纷纷探讨着该上什么补习班,看完本书可以气定神闲,有的放矢,将有限的精力和时间放在最值得付出和投资的方向。
比如,目前孩子班上同学还没有开始识字,因为老师家长担心过早识字,破坏孩子想象力。由于知道早识字会启动阅读的马太效应这个反常识,给孩子的3岁礼物就是爱贝睿出品的小刺猬识字游戏盒子。有时候几天没玩儿,孩子还惦记没给小刺猬喂汉字会饿着。小家伙目前已经学会一些汉字,走在路上偶尔看到自己认识的字,会大声念出来,还忙不迭的说,妈妈我会认字啦!那自豪的小神情,令你欣慰自己的孩子获得了一项先发优势。
又如学钢琴这事儿,身边父母要么因为经济条件有限自责会不会让孩子错过发育,要么孩子不喜欢钢琴你一句为他好就赶鸭子上架硬逼。可弹钢琴到底为啥对孩子好?当在书中知道学钢琴主要是能促进大脑胼胝体发育,这时可以松口气了,因为除了钢琴,学习其他乐器也能达到同样的效果。
summer can be very hot in southern taiwan where the temperature usually goes up to 32"c or more. because of the heat it is a trying experience to go to school or do anything else in a place that is not air-conditioned. also because of this i stay at home most of the time during the summer vacation and only occasionally go to the beach to plunge myself into the cool water as a way to keep my body less sticky.
actually i like swimming and think nothing is more refreshing than a swim. in the summer vacation that has just ended i went swimming many times with my classmates and we all had a good time. this summer vacation, however, was not spent entirely in seeking fun. as a second-year senior student i had to prepare myself for the college entrance examinations that were only a year away. in other words, i must find time to study, too.
so i divided my time between work and play during the summer vacation and derived much benefit from this arrangement.
I have a great mother. She cares much about me in my life and study.
In the morning, she gets up early to make breakfast for me. When I was little, she prepared my schoolbag. But now, she tells me to do it by myself. Because she thinks I have been old enough to do it. Besides, she always checks my homework. When I finish my homework, she checks it and points out the mistakes. She is very careful and helps me a lot.
I love my mother.
My winter vacation plan
My winner vacation is coming soon .I am so happy I decide to make a winter vacation plan .First, I will do my homework carefully Second ,I am going to help my mother with housework .Then,I want to play with my best friend.I will also visit my grangparents with my parents .We will spend Spring Festival with them.I think every day during my winter vacation will be happy.
I am sure I willhave a wonderful vacation. I can not wait.
我非常的害羞的孩子从后台推到前台,强迫孩子,在别人面前表演不害羞。这是很有害的,是典型的拔苗助长。
how time flies,unconsciouslthe next winter vacation will soon come.in order to improve myself awell aenjoa happholiday,i made the winter vacation plan.
firstli want to continue with mstudy,i think studia life process,so no matter what the situation i am in,i will look for chanceto continue it.i have bought several new book,including those bookon mmajor(专业and some novel,i will trto finish reading them in the holidaand write notes. j
secondly,since it ithe holiday,i will share it with mfamiland friend.you know the spring festival will soon come, i believe i would chatting and plagamewith mfriendand famil.i think i will enjothe vacation.
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