i think students should share some housework with their parents. the reasons are as follows. first, doing some housework can enable the students to have some sense of responsibility. there is a lot of housework in each family. as a member of the family, each one should do his or her share. since a student is a member of the family, undoubtedly, he is of no eception. in the second place, doing some housework can give the student opportunities to get to know his parents better. by doing housework, a student will know how hard it is for his parents to go to work everyday while raising a
family. he will make even greater efforts in his study later on. finally, doing some housework can give the student a chance to do some physicaleercises. since the student has to sit studying most of the time, this is certainly beneficial to his health.in light of the above, i strongly recommend that those who are not in the habit of doing housework start doing some right now. your parents will be pleased and you will learn something from it.
these young people are wrong. in my opinion every student should have a knowledge of housework. after all, they will have a family of their own, and they should do their part in keeping a good home. boys should also learn to do housework, for what will they do if they remain single? though not all boys remain single, yet they will be very helpful in the family if they know some housework. anyhow they will not lose anything, but, on the contrary, they will gain something useful.
for what i said above, we can find some eamples of our fellow-students studying abroad. all young men do housework as girls do. someone would argue that we can employ servants. this is true. however, what shall we do if the servant leaves us and all things are left to ourselves? we just cannot leave our clothes as they are and let worms and ants eat them up. and what can we do it we go and study in a foreign country where servants are out our means to employ? we must work for ourselves. why not start to learn to do housework now or else it will be too late? everyone should learn to do housework. what do you think about my idea, boys and girls?
有影响力的人第三种能力是有节制说话。你会发现,真正有影响力的.人并不是滔滔不绝的,有可能越是口若悬河的人,往往会降低我们对其信任度,显得轻浮与浮夸。
相反有影响力的人说话重点是说话比较到位,他们懂得节制的力量。节制并不是想说就说,而是懂得什么场合该说什么话,他们不会逞口舌之快,无意中可能触犯了别人内心的忌讳。
说话节制的内涵是把主动权归给别人,而不是喧宾夺主,抖落自己的机灵。在成长中,我们需要知道的是每个人都该对自己负责。
说话最重要是点拨别人,但是对于他人来说,自己的人生依然需要自己做主,不说过多的话,就是让对方对自己负责。
有节制的说话,并不是没有原则,而是一种尊重别人的生活态度,深知每个人的不易,内心具有极大的慈悲之心,才会懂得节制说话,这是内心的一种操守。
总的来说,真正有影响力的人,一定是具备这三个稀缺能力,有深度思考能力,才会发现别人所不能发现的;
不过于在意别人的认同,才会拥有自己强大的信念与定力;第三个方面,则是懂得有节制的说话,内心具有极强慈悲之心,才会洞悉世间人情冷暖,看清人性的真实,说出最真实有力的话语。
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