对于生涯咨询的理解可以从两个比较概念中了解。一个是职业指导,一个是生涯教育。职业指导基于的是个人特质与职业选择的适配理论,基于的是各种测评量表,基于的是现状表现和所展示出来的特质。生涯教育则是帮助一个人展开对于生涯的认识,提前了解各个生涯阶段,并为下一个阶段做准备。
职业指导追求的是尽快做出一个相对确定的选择,之所以说是确定的,是因为假设可以找到“最合适的”的匹配项、假设所有的'特点都是“不容易变动的”、假设个人人格特征是“可以测量的”。于是,这样的选择就可以尽快做出了。这样的生涯辅导方式最适用于初入职场的人,他们正处于角色转变期,需要的不是“准确选项”,所以恰恰需要一个“准确的”开始。这样的选项,会让人不至于纠结,会比较投入,从而可以尽快开始积累最初的职业经历。这正是职业指导的价值。
我也很熟悉生涯教育,我受邀去很多中学做过调研和讲座,我多次强调,在基础教育阶段,不是做一个匹配或者确定的标签,极端一点,任何分类的区分都不要在学生中产生固定的链接。因为,我的基本信念是,处于成长的人有我们所不知道空间和可能,不要因为“专业权威科学”的标签而抹***了这样的可能性。与此同时,需要传递出去的是生涯的意识和全局视野,进而对青少年的价值观、能力、性格、兴趣等形成产生影响。教育,就是要影响人的,只是这次是生涯视角。
生涯咨询呢?本身不应是知识,不应承载着教育和指导的任务。所以,督导时每每看到有咨询师把咨询做成了一对一培训,都很让我捉急。咨询有沟通的维度,也有关系的维度,整合在一起说,就是在咨询关系中,通过沟通的方式来解决来询者的问题与困惑,满足期待,建构未来。在关系中,咨询师不是教导者,也不是布道者,是一种专业的陪伴,梳理、澄清、直面、建构等等。
说来话长,不要小看对于咨询的理解,这直接决定了咨询领域发展的可能性。
the summer vacation had come round again. i was happy that i could forget about school at least for a while. lest i fool around all through this summer vacation, i made a plan as to how to spend it. first, i thought i should go over all those things my teachers taught in the previous term so that i could have a better understanding of them.
then i thought i should take up some forms of exercise, such as walking, running and rowing, to keep me physically strong. it stood to reason that with such a good plan i should make the best of my vacation time. i did, because i lived up to what i had planned.
I had a summer holiday from Jule to August.I was very happy ,because I could da many kinds of things.
I went to the beach and I swam in the sea.I called my friend and played with them.I visitde my grandparents and ate much delicious food.But in August,there is a first tyhoon.With terrifying fear and my mother bought some food.I was very unhappy,because I could not played out side.
Then I went to the zoo whit my sister.I was very happy.Because I saw a lot of animals.They were very lovable.So I took photos of all animals.I loved the butterful the best.They were colourful and beautiful.My sister liked it too.
In summer holiday,I went to the places where the sun shines brightly.I went to where the see is blue too.All students had a happy summer holiday.
My holiday life will be busy but interesting. I am going to do my homework every day so that I can finish my homework on time.I am going to the library to borrow some books and go to the shops to buy some books so that I can read some interesting books. I am going to play sports such as playing basketball, table tennis, swimming and so on . Of course I am going to help my parents do some housework because they are busy with their work every day.I am going to spend a week in Shanghai with my parents so that we can see the expo. I am sure I am going to have an interesting and happy summer vacation.
文心同学,看来这件恼人的.事是一场误会,只是当时你没有处理好。
首先,应该等老师把话说完。你当时激动地打断老师的话,不尊重老师,这是不对的。试想,如果你听老师把话说完,自己说话再心平气和一些,结果也许就不是这样。
其次,应该抑制冲动。数学老师“最烦学生上课玩镜子”,你带着怒气反驳太直接,致使师生关系恶化。人非圣贤,孰能无过,老师一时判断失误,也是正常的。
最后,适时说明原委。假若你能在事后跟老师讲明白,或委托一位当事人或班委成员替自己去解释,效果会更好,这样就能避免不应有的误解。
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