This years Spring Festival, I read" the old man and the sea", is a famous American writer Hemingway wrote. I admire the old fisherman in the novel very much, he lets me understand that a person must have unremittingly spirit, could succeed. This novel is a description of a nearly sixty years old, alone in fishing, caught a big fish, but can not draw. The old fisherman and fish deal after several days, they find it is a big Malin fish over several times their own boats, while knowing that it is difficult to win, does not give up yet.
To Wang Lun is written by Li Bai who among other poets stands out in the halls of glory.
One day, Li Bai goes on abroad. He is about to sail when there’s stamping and singing on shore.
Oh! Here comes Wang Lun to see him off, who is Li Bai’s best friend. Li Bai is very excited to see his best friend at this leaving moment. But he is sad, either. So he can’t say a simple sentence. He knows that words can’t express their friendship. Although the Peach Blossom Pool is one thousand feet deep, it can’t match Wang Lun’s love for him.
Little Prince
This is a fairytale whose distribution volume is only second to The Bible. It’s been translated to versions of many other languages. And I gather there must be something special, something really great about it. It’s this conviction that drove me to read it at the first beginning. Well, with due respect to the author, I failed to see how this fairytale be worthy of our attention, despite the fact that many readers claimed this book to be designed for adults.
Anyway, as a well-acknowledged book, it must possess unique feature to maintain it’s position. And it’s reputation and popularity will by no means be destroyed by what an unknown man says. I will talk about the main contents of the book, and the inspiration it renders as usual.
This book mainly tells us the experience of a prince from a tiny planet, who traveled to many other planets and finally came to the earth and met the pilot in a desert. The prince and the pilot became good friends, and the pilot gradually got to know the feeling and experience of his friend. Before he came to the earth, little prince had been to other 6 little planets where he made acquaintance with some strange people. The first man he met was a king on a little planet, yet he claimed to be the king of the space and ridiculously justified his unshakable governance over all. The second person was a man of vanity, who enjoyed compliments of any form without considering whether it’s sincere or not. The third person was an alcoholic who tried to forget the fact that he’s addicted to acohol by drinking like a fish. The fourth person was an abosolute money-oriented businessman, who cared nothing but his fortune. Next came the lamp-lighter who performed his duty blindly. The last one was a geographer who knew too much about geography to solve a real problem related to it. These six people each represented one kind of person like us. The author satirized people’s conceit, emptiness, fakeness, innocence and blindness through the tone of a child.
I see eye to eye with the author in that the cause of people’s loneliness can be concluded to the negligence of the bonds that connects them. People are supposed to care about each other, cherish what’s really important for them, and be grateful for the happiness that they’ve gained. We all believe knowledge and experience enable us to see clearly and make right judgements all the time. But we may sometimes lose the right to speak straighforwardly, think creatively or love courageously resulting from what we’ve experienced. That why in our middle school textbooks, it’s the little kid that breaks the illusion of the emperor by saying ”but mum, he ain’t were anything”.
When I was a child, I was definitely a good boy who went home on time after school and did his homework and never tried anything without mom’s permission. And now I am a grown-up, and still I am a good man, at least, that’s what I heard. Sometimes when I was lonely and I began to think about my childhood, then all the happiness and care-free
life came back to me as it were yesterday. Kids that once accompanied me during my childhood now become fathers and mothers of their kids and I myself am a child no more. Thinking about all these things have made me moody. There’re changes happening in our lives whether we are happy about it or not.
People told me life is a journey which will never stop once it’s started. What’s left behind are happiness and sorrow, pride and shame, success and regret. There’s good old time to reminisce and there’s sad hours that reminds us of the pain. Your feeling makes them real, and you know you lived.
I want to conclude by saying some positive words that each yestersday used to be today, and each today is the future of yesterday, so making the most of today is the best way to cherish your lives. Our mortal beings are doomed to die. It’s not sad, instead, death it’s just a process of our lives. After all, we’ve lived our lives and it’s what we do and how we think that determine who we are.
(when you look at the above passages, don’t regard it as a composition or an article, because if you do, you will be puzzled at the structure. It’s just a few words that come to my mind at the moment and I type them.
Have a nice day!
Dear Daddy,
亲爱的爸爸,
Thank you very much for your letter written to me. In your letter , you not only expressed your expectation to me , but also showed all your love to me . I was deeply moved . Thanks again ,Daddy .You said ," I hope you get bravery and perseverance, and can quickly grasp living skills like a lion ". Now I want to tell you that I will try my best to do everything well and live up to your expectations . Dear father , you are a great lion in my mind .
谢谢你给我写信。在信中,你不仅仅表达了你对我的期望,还展示了你对我所有的爱。我深深感动了。再次谢谢你,爸爸。你说,“我希望你能够变得勇敢和有耐心,并且能像狮子般快速的掌握生活技能。”现在我想说我会尽我最大的.努力把所有事情都做好来达到你的期望。亲爱的爸爸,你是我心中的狮子。
When I am absent mind , when I am depressed, you , my dear father is always there . Your advice and encouragement guide me through many difficulties . Thank you , Dad, for your help and understanding. I love you , Dad ,forever!
当我茫然、绝望时,是你,我亲爱的爸爸永远都在我身边。你的建议和勇气引导我克服许多的困难。谢谢你,爸爸,谢谢你的帮助和理解。我永远爱你,爸爸。
This is my first week in ** Senior Middle School.Everything here is new for me.Our school is an old school but it`s very beautiful.I have 50 new classmates in my class.They`re all very excellent, I think, and I felt a little sad.Because I`m too common.But come to think of it,it`s a very good thing.I believe I can also be very excellent if I study with such excellent classmates.I didn`t know why Ms *** chose me to be the committee of study.But I know it`s a good chance for me to raise my ability.All I can do is do my best in the future.I am sure that Ms *** and my classmates can help me when I do something wrong. Because they`re all very kind.It`s a pleasure to work and study with them.I`m really very happy.I`m not an outstanding student in this class,but I can do the same thing like others.I believe I won`t make anyone disappointed.
夜深人静,万籁俱寂。听着钟表传出的“滴答滴答”的时间的声音,靠着温软的散发着太阳味道的被褥,在柔和的灯光下,手捧褐色封面的《心灵处方》,与作者一同感受人生的悲欢离合,一起体味生活的酸甜苦辣,一起思考身边的小故事带给我们的生活启迪,予我来说,是毕淑敏带给我的“悦读”幸福。
我欣赏毕淑敏。她的作品总能浸润到我的内心深处。《红处方》《血玲珑》是我最早读到的她的作品。随着她细腻柔软的笔触,我总能与书中的主人公一起经历命运的跌宕起伏。作为一位女性作家,毕淑敏以敏锐的目光描摹着人们的各种生活状态。
《心灵处方》是一本抚慰心灵的散文随笔集,《流露你的真表情》《保持惊奇》《我很重要》等73篇作品反映了现代人在生活压力之下造成的心理伤害和精神迷惘,教人如何面对生活中的困境和成长中的彷徨,让人在困境中找回自信。
毕淑敏46岁时开始学心理学,之后她以自己的名字命名了一个心理诊所,但就在她的诊所门庭若市时,她却激流勇退,彻底告别心理咨询师的身份,再次回归文坛。究其原因,按她自己的说法便是:“来访者太多,让人产生了精卫填海般的绝望”,于是她重新拿起了笔,推出了这本《心灵处方》。书中有一部分素材是源于她的心理诊所接待的来访者,它将这些故事经过强烈的变形和浓缩,抽取了其中的典型,辑录成册。
我曾质疑毕淑敏。因为毕淑敏的一些观点乍听起来是令人咂舌甚至是违背常理的,但细细咀嚼,却又拍案,不禁为她超乎常人的深邃洞察力而叫绝。推开另外一扇窗口,从另外一个角度看问题,人的思维往往有着别样的风景。于是,我又佩服毕淑敏了。
对于婚姻,毕淑敏在《婚姻断想》中提到一位心理学家曾经这样说:“婚姻关系是人类所有关系中,最为亲密和最为紧密的关系。”我初次看到这话,和作者的第一反应是一样的,觉得不以为然。因为我也以为,母子关系、父子关系甚至祖孙关系,难道不是更为亲密和紧密的关系吗?
但是作者认同了这位心理学家的看法,并且后面对她进行了大量的阐释:“爱一个和自己有血缘关系的个体,这在某些动物,完全可以做到,近乎是一种本能。比如一只母鹿在饿狮袭来的时候,宁愿牺牲自己,也要保护仔鹿的生命。动物界重复过无数次这样可歌可泣的场景,向来谁都不会怀疑的。但是爱一个和自己没有丝毫血缘关系的个体,直至结成相濡以沫、生死相依的关系,这只在人类社会中才存在。”读到此处,自己恍然大悟。
在《飘扬的长发与人生的幸福》中,毕淑敏是这样看待婚姻的:“其实在婚姻这件事上,绝对的好或是绝对的坏,大约是没有或是极少的,有的只是常态,只是平衡,只是相宜。……我很喜欢一个词,叫做‘志同道合’,人们常常以为这句话是指事业,我觉得写予婚姻更妙。……恋爱婚姻是一个寻找对方更是寻找自己的过程。你整个的价值观和思想体系,都在这种亲密无间的关系中,得以延伸和凸现。”
就连平时我们觉得微不足道的烟灰,毕淑敏都能把它与人的修养联系起来。她在《像烟灰一样松散》中这样写道:“烟灰,尤其是那些优质香烟燃烧过的烟灰,非常松散,几乎没有重量和姿态,真一个大象无形。他们懒洋洋地趴在那里,好像在冬眠。其实,在烟灰的底部,栖息着高度警觉和机敏的鸟群,任何一阵微风掠过,哪怕只是极清淡的叹息,他们都会不失时机地腾空而起驾驭飞行。他们的力量来自放松,来自一种飘扬的本能。这些本身没有结构,没有动力,可以说是微不足道的粉末,在某一个瞬间却驾驭能量,飞向远方。”
对烟灰细致入微的描述,正是为了做好向它学习的铺垫:“在危急时刻,能保持极端的放松,不是一种技术,而是一种修养。是一种长期潜移默化修炼提升的结果。我们常说,某人胜就胜在心理上,或者时候某人败就败在心理上,这其中的差池不是指在理性上,而是这种心灵张弛的韧性上。没事的时候,看看烟灰吧。他们曾经是火焰,燃烧过沸腾过,但它们此刻很安静了。它们毫不张扬地聚精会神地等待着下一次的乘风而起,携带着全部的能量,抵达阳光到达的任何地方。”
我总是不由自主地被她娓娓道来的叙述所诱导,就像书的腰封上所说的:“毕淑敏以她敏锐的目光,宽厚的心怀和智性的文字,像是在月光下、小溪边给我们缓缓地道着一个个神秘的小故事。这些故事会让你在走投无路的时候看到一线柔和的晨光,你将因此找到心灵的出口。”而毕淑敏为我们打开这些出口,是通过多种因素综合作用形成的路径。
创作基于情感。“人生有情感,遇物牵所思”,情感是人适应生存的心理工具。喜、怒、忧、思、悲、恐、惊;爱情,亲情,友情;真感,善感,美感,这些情感寄居在我们的头脑中,流淌于我们生活的每一个角落中。运用那些普普通通的常用汉字,毕淑敏能把这些情感表露出来,能把满腔的震撼塞进我们的胸膛,能搬走我们心头坚硬的磐石,也能让我们变得柔情似水。这,就是文字的力量;这,就是情感的魅力。
创作基于生活。每时每刻,不同的人身边都在发生着不同的故事。书中的故事,有些是作者自己亲身经历过的,有些是她所听到或见到的。“己方”和“他方”的经历,共同构成了文章的骨架,共同诠释生活带给我们的无尽思考。在这些朴实庸常的生活故事里,毕淑敏以医生的独到眼光,细致入微地一点一点地将生活的苦痛和“病因”找出并解剖,颂扬了人生的美好,但也不回避人性的黑暗。正是因为有了黑暗的存在,我们才会更加珍惜阳光带给我们的光明。
创作基于思考。生活中不是缺少美,而是缺少发现。毕淑敏以一个女人的细致观察,对生命的本质进行鞭辟入里的分析,有对人的本性进行入木三分的剖析,对幸福、仇恨、苦痛进行心灵深处的探究。这些,都是在情感和生活的基础之上进行的思考,是对生活素材的提炼升华,是经过自己的“大脑兵工厂”深思熟虑概括总结出的人生哲理。“有些事情我们年轻的时候不会懂得,等到我们懂得的时候已不再年轻”,而毕淑敏,使我在年轻的时候就懂得了一些我不再年轻的时候才能懂得的事情。
《心灵处方》让我对周围有了更确切的感知,我能够随着作者细腻的笔触目光清澄地注视着书中故事每一个主人公的眼睛,倾听心与心碰撞的清脆声响。这让我更加珍视与我有着“血缘之爱”的亲人,因为我们共同承载着醇厚绵长的亲情;我也会好好把握与我有着“非血之爱”的爱情,因为我们共同为着理想的生活和生活的理想携手并进;我也更加庆幸自己身边有这么多让我时时感到温暖的友人,他们用不求任何回报的友情为我的生命增添活力。还有师生情、同窗情,还有同事们对我的关切和包容,甚至是陌生人一句礼貌的话语,一个会心的微笑,都足以让我感到这个世界的美好。
我常常慨叹自己当不了一个作家,因为我没有毕淑敏她们那些作家那样丰富的阅历;也常常懊恼自己没有她们那样睿智的思辨,因为我没有如此这般深厚的文化底蕴。但是,他们的文字,使我的阅历增加,使我的视野开阔,使我对人生、对生命、对生活有更深层次的认识。既然自己不能亲历祖国的山山水水,不能亲自经历那些刻骨铭心的爱恨情仇,那,我就从她们灵动的文字中寻找答案吧。
“悦读”,何尝不是一种生活的幸福?
Tonight I watched the movie for the third time. I really enjoy this film so much.
So what's your choice between being a common person or a hero with people's reects? Most people will choose the latter. But what will be your choice if the cost is laying your lover among the risks? What will it be if the cost is you can never tell the girl, who you love so much, that you love her? The ider man had this contradiction. But finally he still chose the latter, not in order to be a hero, but to make this word peaceful.
I was so moved by the words the Aunt Mary said:
You will never guess what he wants to be, the ider man. He knows the hero when he sees one, too a few characters out there, flying all around out there, saving old girls like me. Lord knows kids like Henry need hero courageous, sacrificing for people, setting examples for all of us. Everybody loves a hero. People enthrone them, cheer them, scream their names and years later they will tell how they stood in the rain for hours just to get a glimpse the one who taught them to hold on to stand longer. I believe there is a hero in all of us. They keep us be honest, give us strength, make us noble, and finally allow us to die with proud. Ever though sometimes we have to initiatively give up the thing we want most, even our dreams. Spider man did that for Henry, so he wants to know where he is gone. He needs him.
The ider man got much from these words, so did I. And what about you? what's the hero lying in you?
Reading Notes of Pride and Prejudice
“It is a truth universally acknowledged that a single man in possession of a good fortune must be in want of a wife.” This beginning sentence of the book seems to tell us the main story of the book is about the marriage of rich men. The heroine of the book is Elizabeth and at the chapter One, we are told that the father Mr. Bennet prefers Elizabeth among his daughters, in this case, Elizabeth must be a girl who is more special and intelligent.
The story is about love and marriage. Charlotte married Collins because his fortune and she feels nervous about her age even the man is so old-fashioned and ingratiating. However, their marriage is about money and they do not get the real happy. The other man Wickham is a handsome but a man who is a liar. He lies to Elizabeth to gain her appreciation. And his love with Lydia is shallow and about appearance. The love of Jane and Bingley has a better ending. They have love in the relationship and appreciate each other because of the deeper virtue. But they do come through a lot because the misunderstanding they had before.
The love of Elizabeth and the hero of the book Darcy responses the title Pride and Prejudice. In the eye of Elizabeth, Darcy is no doubt pride and arrogant. Darcy falls in love with Elizabeth and proposes marriage to her, but he is still very arrogant so Elizabeth refuses him directly. Darcy
feels hard hit and regrets of being arrogant. However, Elizabeth has a prejudice about Darcy at the very beginning and mistaken believes in Wickham but she finally knows the truth and feels shame of her family. Darcy moves Elizabeth with his pleasant virtue in the end.
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