11月9日晚上,我院邀请了师范学院张教授来为我们的心理健康给予正确的引导,让我们体会到了一场视听震撼。
整场演讲内容丰富多彩,语言幽默风趣。张教授在台上的自信与从容深深的感染了我,他幽默亲切的话语敲击着每一个人的心脏,每一句话似乎都说到了我们的心尖上。那些催人奋进的事例,那些让我们感触良多的事例,仿佛我们都希望自己是那故事中的主角,拥有他们坚强的意志,拥有他们走向成功的经历。但我们又都在止步不前,我们都在怕什么?都在畏惧什么?是前方的路太坎坷吗?还是我们自己内心有障碍?
视频中的刘伟是一个从鬼门关爬回来的人,他因触到高压电而失去双臂。从此,他只能靠双脚来生活。然而,他现在是一个拥有很多粉丝快乐生活着的人,他的一双脚弹出最动人心弦的钢琴曲子,他的歌声配合双脚的弹奏让我们感受到生命的美好与纯真。曾经,他的生活是多么灰暗,遭过多少嘲笑的眼光,经过这样的打击是什么造就了今天的刘炜?是他坚强的意志和不向命运屈服的信念!让我铭记于心的是那句“要么赶紧死,要么精彩的活着。”就是这种意志让他战胜了自己!战胜了命运!他,成功了!
刘伟他向所有人证明了他生活着,而不是被生活。在人生这门课程中,在大学这个大课堂上,我学到了什么?来到大学有两个多月了,这两个多月我似乎觉得过了很长的时间,不是时间过得慢,而是经历了太多的事。开学之前,我带着一种希望一种信念,告诉自己:这里是新的起点,我准备好了。我要充实自己,我要多彩的大学生活。然而,当我在大学这个大校园里,我还是会不知所措,还是会迷茫。告诉自己:别忘了最初的梦想,别丢了自己。
“如果你不能,你一定要;如果你要,你一定能。”
这一个多小时的讲座,我受益终生。
我觉得这个讲座的主要意图就是把“大学生不要轻易谈恋爱”说的拖沓委婉点而已,恋爱并不意味着结婚,我觉得爱恋是个过程,而婚姻是个结果。
我觉得大学生完全可以敞开心恋爱,当然,我只赞成那种友谊式恋爱,不要那么暧昧、无需太多言语、凭心交流、坦诚相待;空闲时聚一聚,繁忙时理智性分开、两情若是长久时,也不在乎朝朝暮暮了。自然一些,应该宣扬一种低调而又高雅的爱情观。
当然,女孩子的心像云雾中的太阳一样,让人追摸不透,嬉笑怒骂也不知是否夹杂着爱恨情仇。恋爱中,男孩通常投入在前期,而女孩往往倾注于后期。所以,爱上一个人是短暂的,但爱着一个人却是漫长的。闪电式结婚来的快去的也快,但毕竟是少数,谈恋爱,就是开口谈的,一件钟情只是小说、电视的表述而已。
“大学生谈恋爱,只不过是为毕业积攒一些眼泪罢了。”这句话或许说的有些牵强,或许结局很不完美,但会有个完美的过程,这就足够了。
大学生不必将恋爱天天挂在嘴边,毕竟人还是要为以后的事业着想的,当然我认为爱情和事业并不是矛盾的,都可以同时存在或先存在。先有爱情,奋斗事业更有动力;现有事业,寻找爱情更为踏实。“事业”是“爱情”避风的港湾,“爱情”是“事业”休息的场所。
目前,校方既不提倡恋爱,也不反对。而学生群中却是很普遍存在恋爱现象,至少也是心有所属。而且这种现象在中学也是屡见不鲜,这或许是潮流的走向,思想的倾式。校园情侣真的是随处可见。
能够称得上朋友的又有多少呢?何不把男(女)朋友当朋友看待!那些名义上的朋友,看似聊的热火朝天,话多的永远说不完,实际只是表面交谈罢了。真正朋友是交心,更多是将忧伤一其分担,把烦恼相互交谈,心平气和的谈论一些触及内心的话题。看似漫无边际,但是却是最实际,最真实的,也是我最欣赏的一种状态。真正的恋爱,不需要太多的暧昧话语,一个短信就表示“我想你了”,不需要太多的解释,一切都可以表明。胡老师说恋爱是“男性是靠眼睛看,女性是靠耳朵听”,是的,每个女生都是浪漫的,内心世界是充满幻想的,希望得到对方的赞美,而男生通常是希望看到对方对自己的关怀,为自己的付出。
爱情不是一个人的.事情,而是需要双方共同经营的。所以,凡事三思后行,当真爱来临时,不必刻意拒绝,但要学会珍惜身边的一切,无悔去爱,无悔生活。
有幸聆听了来自市里的三位专家的讲座,仿佛经历了一场心灵的洗礼,很多知识是我未曾接触过的。专家告诉我们,心理健康教育是现代教育的一项重要组成部分,而作为教师的我们更应了解学生的心理状况。只有在心理健康的情况下才能提高教育教学的实效性。日常工作中,了解学生的心理状况,发现问题及时解决,对学生的发展有很大的好处。要使学生心理健康,教师心理首先要健康。在教育学生的同时,教师必须调节好自己的心理状况。
在讲座中,几位心理学老师给我们做了几个游戏,让我们感受很深,并且从这些小游戏中我也获得了一些启示。印象最深的游戏就是红黑游戏。它的规则是这样的:将培训的老师分成a、b两组,分别到不同的教室去,再由一个心理学专家作为通讯员。有红黑两种颜色供大家选择,每轮每个小组选其中一种颜色,由通讯员公布出来。若双方均选黑色,则双方都为3分;若均选红色,则双方都为—3分;若一方选红色,另一方选黑色,则选红色方为5分,选黑色方为—5分。最后以累积的正分最多的一方获胜,是双赢。前四轮里,两组都是选红色,也就是我不赢你也别想赢的做法。但大家静下心来一想,这样结果不是双赢而是双输了。但双方又不敢轻易换成黑色,经过一番激烈的讨论,我们决定选黑色,另人高兴的是,我们的对手也是选择了黑色,这时教室里响起了一阵热烈的掌声,这是对大家的互相信任的一种赞美。结果双方都得了正的3分,但回过头来想一想,如果一开始,大家就抱着这种让对方也赢的心态的话,我们会得到33分。从这个游戏中大家应该明白:什么是“双赢”?大家是处在同一个环境中,并且是有交集能够互相影响的,不管是哪一方都不可能永远把对方踩在脚下。顶多这次我算计你成功,但是下次呢,别人就扳回来了。不让对方有好日子过,你自己也没有安宁的生活。这就是个互相成就的问题,互相给机会大家都能发展。鱼死网破对大家都没有好处,损人不利己的愚昧行为还是少做为妙。再推广一点,这个地球是一个大环境,整个地上的生物包括动植物和人类都是栓在一条绳上的蚂蚱,和谐平衡的局面若无法建立和保持,那么地球上生物的绝路也就不远了。
这次讲座的所得所获对我的帮助应该说是非常大的,培训结束以后我将会细细体会,不断实践,提高自己的素养。引领孩子们朝着健康、正确的方向不断发展。
网课,是疫情时美丽的流行;关怀,是生活中永恒的经典。——题记
E-learning is a beautiful epidemic in the epidemic; caring is an eternal classic in life. ——Inscription
疫情的肆虐使今年的.寒假出奇地漫长。为了让我们“停课不停学”,老师们都摇身变成了“主播”或线上“客服”。一时间,网课成了美丽的流行,而老师们隔空的帮助让学生觉得这个寒假不太冷。
This years winter vacation is surprisingly long because of the epidemic. In order to let us "stop classes and never stop learning", teachers have become "anchor" or "customer service" online. For a while, online classes became a beautiful fashion, and the teachers help in the gap made students feel that this winter vacation was not too cold.
网课之初,我们学生大部分还可以管控好自己。可“路遥知马力,日久见人心”,有些同学渐渐显示出了本色,私底下约定时间玩游戏、跟同学聊天,甚至忘记了上网课。可是你们知道吗,老师为了让我们“不停学”,费尽了心血。
At the beginning of online classes, most of our students were able to control themselves. However, some students have gradually shown their true colors. They have privately arranged time to play games, chat with their classmates, and even forget about online classes. But did you know that the teacher made great efforts to keep us going.
就说我们班的黄老师吧,每天傍晚,都要为我们准备第二天的所有学习任务清单。老师要先把视频课看一遍,如果效果不好,又会继续搜寻,一定要寻找到最好的学习资源,争取不给学生留下一丝漏洞和不好的体验。
Lets say that Mr. Huang in our class prepares a list of all the learning tasks for us every evening. The teacher should watch the video lesson first. If the effect is not good, he will continue to search. He must find the best learning resources to avoid leaving any loopholes and bad experience for the students.
接着随时监督学生的作业完成情况,那一份份电子作业发出去,每一次都收到写55份作业图片。是图片啊,你能想象得到,老师在屏幕上认真批改每个同学作业的情景吗?不仅有勾画圈点,还有批语呀。张同学哪个字写错了,李同学这个句子不通顺,王同学的字迹太潦草……老师都会一一批注,还经常出现鼓励性语言,为同学们加油,而且几乎不重复。
Then monitor the completion of the students homework at any time. When the electronic homework is sent out, 55 pictures of the homework are received each time. Its a picture. Can you imagine that the teacher carefully corrects each students homework on the screen? There are not only sketching circles, but also comments. Whats wrong with Zhang? Lis sentence is not smooth. Wangs handwriting is too scrawly Teachers will annotate one by one, and often use encouraging language to cheer students on, and almost no repetition.
那次小朱同学忘提交作业了,老师便马上用短信提醒,收到作业图片后,又马上批改,并督促订正。面对作业质量差、态度不认真的同学,老师还会进行电话家访。老师还会在百忙之中抽时间解答学生的疑问呢!
That time, Zhu forgot to submit his homework. The teacher immediately reminded him with a text message. After receiving the pictures, he immediately corrected them and urged them to correct them. In the face of the students with poor quality and not serious attitude, the teacher will also make a telephone home visit. The teacher will take time out of his busy schedule to answer the students questions!
那一次,我在学习文言文《掩耳盗铃》时遇到了困惑,便发了一条信息咨询老师。知道老师很忙,根本没指望老师马上能回复。可出乎意料,不到一分钟,竟然收到了老师的回复,回复中不仅有文字,还有查证的图片,最后还附上一段让我信心满怀的鼓励性话语:很高兴你能这么积极主动地钻研,老师为你的发现和大胆质疑叫好。以后学习上遇到有分歧的问题,不要迷信权威,只管大胆求证。为你的探究精神点赞!
That time, when I was learning the classical Chinese "hiding my ears and stealing the bell", I met with confusion and sent an information consultation to the teacher. Knowing that the teacher is very busy, I didnt expect the teacher to reply immediately. But unexpectedly, I received the teachers reply in less than a minute. There were not only words but also verified pictures in the reply. At the end of the reply, I also attached a piece of encouraging words that made me confident and full of confidence: Im glad that you can study so actively, and the teacher applauds your discovery and bold query. In the future, if you encounter different problems in your study, dont believe in authority, just dare to prove it. Praise your spirit of inquiry!
我不知道这次疫情还有多久才能结束,但网课却给我们的学习增添了新时代的快乐,已成为我成长中遇到的最美丽的流行;老师的付出和大爱,让我们的心通过互联网这根神秘的丝线,紧紧地联系在一起,那无微不至的关怀,已成为我生活中永恒的经典。
I dont know how long it will take for the epidemic to end, but online classes have added a new era of happiness to our learning, which has become the most beautiful fashion I have ever met in my growth. The teachers efforts and love have made our hearts closely linked through the mysterious thread of the Internet. That meticulous care has become an eternal classic in my life.
现在疫情当前,为了学生安全,不集聚在一起,我们不能到学校上课,历史上放得最长的一次寒假。为了我们学习,老师在网上直播辅导我们学习。
At present, for the sake of the safety of students, we cant go to school without gathering together. Its the longest winter vacation in history. For our study, the teacher tutored us live online.
为了这次疫情,全国各省各地展开“停课不停学”老师直播上课行动,许多教育机构推出各种学习软件。名师在线免费教学,帮助学生学习,在线辅导。
In order to deal with the epidemic, all provinces and regions across the country launched a live action of "no suspension of classes" for teachers, and many educational institutions launched various learning software. Famous teachers online free teaching, help students learn, online tutoring.
因为上网课直播,各省老师出现了不同的争论。湖南哪吒“对多数学生说,网课的授课效果根本得不到保证,这种形式主义何必存在?”我觉得湖南老师说得不错,上网课,有一部分爱学习的学生能坚持上网课,但是有一部分不自律的同学开着直播就该干嘛干嘛去。所以说上网课不一定得到学习效果。
Because of the live broadcast of online classes, teachers in various provinces have different arguments. Hunan Nezha said to most students that the teaching effect of online courses is not guaranteed at all. Why does this formalism exist I think Hunan teachers are right. In the online class, some students who love learning can insist on the online class, but some students who are not self disciplined can do what they should do when they open the live broadcast. So online classes dont necessarily get learning results.
我个人是觉得上网课没什么学习效果,上网课,老师在线直播辅导各同学,但是人数多,老师又不能每一个人都顾及得到,每个人的问题不一样,只能挑重点讲。一个人在房间里学习,没有在学校教室里学习氛围好。作息时间混乱,晚上熬夜,晚睡觉,预定多个闹钟。早上起来打完卡接着睡。上网课老师不能面对面教导,许多同学都是敷衍了事。老师与同学之间缺乏互动,对于学习好求者可能受益匪浅,但是对于厌倦学习者,学习上没有一点效果,需要老师面对面教导,当面监督学习情况。
Personally, I dont think the online class has any learning effect. The online class and the teachers live online tutoring for each student have a large number of students, but the teacher cant take everyone into consideration. Everyones problems are different, so we can only focus on them. A person in the room to study, not in the school classroom learning atmosphere. The schedule is chaotic. Stay up late, go to bed late, and reserve multiple alarm clocks. Get up in the morning, punch in and go to sleep. Teachers cant teach online lessons face to face, many students are perfunctory. The lack of interaction between teachers and students may benefit those who are good at learning, but for those who are tired of learning, there is no effect in learning. Teachers need to teach face-to-face and supervise learning face to face.
上网课对贫困家庭来说,不方便,有可能老是断网,要是家庭人口多的家庭,孩子都在上网课有可能网络卡。住在农村里的有一些没有信号不好的同学来说也麻烦,不能好好上网课。对上小学的同学们都是没有手机的,父母要出去工作,根本起不到学习作用。
Internet class is inconvenient for poor families. It is possible to always disconnect from the Internet. If there is a family with a large population, it is possible for children to use Internet cards in Internet class. Living in the countryside, some students who dont have a good signal are also in trouble. They cant have a good online class. There is no cell phone for the students in primary school. If parents want to go out to work, they cant learn at all.
学生的专注不在直播上,面对着QQ、微信、游戏、电视的诱惑,有很多学生难以拒绝诱惑,没有吧精力放在上网课上。老师也不知道学生在干什么,人数过多,有的学生一边手机上网课,一边睡觉。或者手机上网课,而学生却在看电视。手机电脑电视对眼睛视力有一定影响,对眼睛不好。
Students focus is not on live broadcast. Facing the temptation of QQ, wechat, games and TV, many students are hard to resist the temptation and have no energy to focus on online classes. Teachers also dont know what students are doing. There are too many students, some of whom are sleeping while taking lessons on the Internet. Or mobile Internet class, while students are watching TV. The mobile phone computer TV has certain influence on the eyesight, but it is not good for the eyes.
所以我觉得,上网课不一定取得到老师授课学习效果,有一些学生未能适应网上学习。学习情况未能得到提升。但是在这个特殊时期,我们现在只能在网上学习了,无论如何,还是希望各位同学们认真上网课,能学一点是一点了。希望学校开学通知早一点来,开始怀念在教室里面学习的日子了。
So I dont think that online classes can achieve the effect of teaching and learning by teachers, and some students cant adapt to online learning. Learning has not been improved. But in this special period, we can only learn online now. In any case, I hope that all the students will take online classes seriously and learn a little bit. I hope that the school notice will come earlier and start to miss the days of studying in the classroom.
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