上大学用不用父母送作文【一】
这不仅仅是找工作的需要，更是立身成事之本。
要想学习好，紧扣几个环节：一是，根据老师的引导，找到学习内容的侧重点，找到学习能力的侧重点，而非“眉毛胡子一把抓”。比如，可以听听学长的学习，老师的学习要求，看看往年的题（学校的、招考的）等等；二是，要有有效的学习、思维形式。比如，坚持做笔记，针对某些敏感话题进行论述（刚开始比较幼稚，随着岁月的增长、社会的积累、分析能力的提高，水平会大幅度提高，前提条件是，要认真对待这件事不是应付敷衍）等；三是，要与学习好的同学多接触，不是一味学习别人的学习方法，而是有一个稳定的学习氛围，影响、督促自己不断学习。有一个好的圈子很重要。
学习是一件枯燥的事情，也是提高自己的捷径。努力丢掉那些患得患失的想法，我的经验，没有多少好事不期而遇，多是努力也不一定有回报，但，不努力一定没回报。
上大学用不用父母送作文【二】
一是，多看、多想、多练、多写、少说。这样对问题把握得更客观，说话更具影响力；二是，说话做事有条理、带逻辑。这需要平时就要对问题分类整合，不是随口而答，更不是信口开河。当然，讲笑话除外，讲笑话是调节剂，不是生活的主食，更不是工作的主色彩；三是，养成做笔记的习惯。我的经验是，它可以大大提高写作水平，可以积累素材，可以寄托自己的情感，可以记录自己的人生轨迹。长此坚持，不出五年，大受脾益。可能刚开始时，语言少而乏味，逻辑混乱且分析肤浅，内心被动且不情愿，久了，情况就会向相反的方向转变。作为一个人，总有拿得出手、看得到的结果吧，笔记就是你的劳动果实。四是，可以将一天必做的事情记在笔记本上，做完一件勾掉一件，没法做完的'留到下一天。当预计的事情做完了，就可痛痛快快做一些自己喜欢做的事情，不要老是被很多繁杂的事情所困扰。这对自己的时空自由和情绪调剂大有好处。五是，想方设法为自己的观点找到三个以上的理由。这是督促自己积极思考的好办法，这样坚持下去，就会练就很快找到论证理由的能力，那时，理由就不止四条五条了。六是，有意识缩写一些文章，这可训练自己的分析概括能力，不至于言而无物。
上大学用不用父母送作文【三】
“You always say that I am naive. In your eyes, I am always the little girl who will never grow up”. This is my favorite song and also the sound from the bottom of my heart. You made me feel so lucky to be your child. But I find our hearts getting further apart as time goes by.
You strictly forbid me to do entertaining activities even if I finished my homework, such as watching TV or playing computer games. Based on this, I couldn’t get any grade less than A. It is said that genius only means hard-working all one’s life. But I think combining exertion is the best way for learning.
The most important thing to me was that I feel frustrated for having few friends to confide in due to your strict rules. I can’t have a play date, participate in a school play or even choose my own extracurricular activities. Who will accept such a boring and troublesome person? I am just an ordinary girl who can’t stand loneliness, so I always feel contradictory.
On the one hand, I’m grateful to have you in my life, to disappoint you was the least I would do. On the other hand, what you asked for me made me felt like a puppet rather than a real person. I appreciated your efforts to pull me away from a self-indulgent life, but your obsessively extravagant strictness has pushed me into an isolated and insensible one. I need a little freedom so that I will concentrate on something I really interested in.
Father and mother, these words were hid in my deep heart for a long time. I love you, and I believe if you change some harsh rules. I will have a wonderful life.
Best wishes.
Yours, daughter
