这个阶段,尤其到了初二初三,你会发现,自己的***好像比过去更多了,也更复杂了。你的眼前,会有许多你以前未曾想要,现在却特别想要的东西。你的身边,一定有人在千方百计追求这些***的满足,并享乐其中。这是一个充满***和诱惑的阶段。——一个大孩子渴望享受像“大人”那样享有许多“权利”的阶段。
这里我所说的***和诱惑,包括对物质享乐的贪恋、对游戏玩乐的迷恋、对异性的好奇、对某样不适宜的兴趣或爱好的过度痴迷等等。这些都会让一个人丧志斗志,走向堕落。
这个阶段,那些提前享受“成人”世界的快乐的孩子们,常常会迷失其中,然后在某个角落里重重跌倒。也有许多孩子,并不完全出于个人真正需要,而是出于虚荣和盲从,觉得“别人都这样”,而“这样”有面子,所以,就亦步亦趋,迷失自己。——世界上每天都在发生这样的悲剧,也每天都有许多人因此而走上一条截然不同的平庸之路,终身碌碌无为。
所以,一定要警惕那些看起来特别诱人的一切东西。更要抵制那些许多人都热衷其中的东西。——那些失败的人们,通常不是被自己厌恶的东西所害,而是被自己喜欢的东西所害。
据科学统计,卓越的人最多占人群的百分之二十,而堕落的人占百分之十,其余的百分七十则通常是平庸的人。人之所以堕落,是不能拒绝那些引诱你堕落的东西。人之所以平庸,是不能抵制那些干扰你卓越的东西。——但这学
When I was a freshman in college I watched the film Gua Sha Treatment for the first time, now I am a junior student and I come back to review the movie from a multicultural aspect, I have many different feelings after watching the film again.
At the beginning of the film, XuDatong is given an award and later he delivers a speech. What makes me impressed most is in his speech he says “one day I will become one of you, a truly successful American, today this award proved that America is a true land of opportunity and I am the living proof of that.” At that moment Xu thinks he has realized his American Dream totally with his lovingly wife and adorable son. However, I think it is ironical that to make a speech like that and I assume it is made on purpose to hind a clue for the story's development. How many non—American people have such a beautiful American dream? One of my classmate studies in American now and before he went aboard he told me his American dream is he can stand at the top of the New York. To be honest, I also dream that one day I can get the Green Card living there happily and successfully maybe working at the Wall Street. When Xu gets the award he thinks he entirely melted in the melting pot neglecting the multicultural obstruct, later the plot goes against the way he thinks. And later Quinlan asked Xu'why you be the scapegoat of your father?' Xu answers 'because he is Chinese.' Then maybe Xu knows that there is always a wide gap between Chinese and American cultures.
The second scene is Xu hit his son Denis because Denis hit the son of xu's boss, at the middle of the film xu tells his boss that he hit his own son is only to show his respect to his boss John Quinlan, that time Quinlan feels puzzled “what a Chinese logic”,yes, American can never understand such a logic full of Chinese characteristic, because they respect everyone including the children, they won't beat a child to please the boss, and there is no such a conception of degree between employee and employer, they feel everyone is equal, which is quite different from china.
Connected to the second scene, the third difference I want to analyze is the care for the children. In America, people pay more attention to the right of children which can be seen from the law—leaving children alone at home is illegal, while in China it is so common that almost everyone may experience such loneliness. And Children Welfare Agency does work in America which shows the importance Americans attach to children's right. What's more, I remember a line 'No one won the case, especially the child.' In my opinion, it also manifests the universal concern from the American public to the children.
The fourth aspect is following the procedure, in the film, more than there times, the people focus on the rule, the law, the procedure. At the Christmas Eve Xu wants to return back to his home pretending as a Santa Claus, what a pity, the security recognizes him and persuades 'you are always a good tenement, never causes troubles for me.' And another scene is at the end of the film , the judge says 'I have to follow the procedure.' However, in China people always have to ask for a favor to do something, and later you have to pay back the favor,for myself, I prefer the American style, strict to the procedure.
The fifth and the last point is the humors, Quinlan says 'you can't fall, your health security is the company paid.' 'Datong, welcome home, maybe next time, you can come from the front door.' 'dady, why you come from the window' ' because we don't have a chimney.' I really adore this distinguished American humor, especially in dangerous situations, which is quite rare in China.
That's my whole reaction to Gua Sha Treatment.
这个阶段,尤其到了初二初三,你会发现,自己的***好像比过去更多了,也更复杂了。你的眼前,会有许多你以前未曾想要,现在却特别想要的东西。你的身边,一定有人在千方百计追求这些***的满足,并享乐其中。这是一个充满***和诱惑的阶段。——一个大孩子渴望享受像“大人”那样享有许多“权利”的阶段。
这里我所说的***和诱惑,包括对物质享乐的贪恋、对游戏玩乐的迷恋、对异性的好奇、对某样不适宜的兴趣或爱好的过度痴迷等等。这些都会让一个人丧志斗志,走向堕落。
这个阶段,那些提前享受“成人”世界的快乐的孩子们,常常会迷失其中,然后在某个角落里重重跌倒。也有许多孩子,并不完全出于个人真正需要,而是出于虚荣和盲从,觉得“别人都这样”,而“这样”有面子,所以,就亦步亦趋,迷失自己。——世界上每天都在发生这样的悲剧,也每天都有许多人因此而走上一条截然不同的平庸之路,终身碌碌无为。
所以,一定要警惕那些看起来特别诱人的一切东西。更要抵制那些许多人都热衷其中的东西。——那些失败的人们,通常不是被自己厌恶的东西所害,而是被自己喜欢的东西所害。
据科学统计,卓越的人最多占人群的百分之二十,而堕落的人占百分之十,其余的百分七十则通常是平庸的人。人之所以堕落,是不能拒绝那些引诱你堕落的东西。人之所以平庸,是不能抵制那些干扰你卓越的东西。
This is my first week in ** Senior Middle School.Everything here is new for me.Our school is an old school but it`s very beautiful.I have 50 new classmates in my class.They`re all very excellent, I think, and I felt a little sad.Because I`m too common.But come to think of it,it`s a very good thing.I believe I can also be very excellent if I study with such excellent classmates.I didn`t know why Ms *** chose me to be the committee of study.But I know it`s a good chance for me to raise my ability.All I can do is do my best in the future.I am sure that Ms *** and my classmates can help me when I do something wrong. Because they`re all very kind.It`s a pleasure to work and study with them.I`m really very happy.I`m not an outstanding student in this class,but I can do the same thing like others.I believe I won`t make anyone disappointed.
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