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作为一个遵纪守法的好人,也许我们从来没有想过和“暴力”扯上关系。不过如果稍微留意一下现实生活中的谈话方式,并且用心体会各种谈话方式给我们的不同感受,我们一定会发现,有些话确实伤人!言语上的指责、嘲讽、否定、说教以及任意打断、拒不回应、随意出口的评价和结论给我们带来的情感和精神上的创伤,甚至比肉体的伤害更加令人痛苦。这些无心或有意的语言暴力让人与人变得冷漠、隔膜、敌视。
《非暴力沟通》中著名的马歇尔·卢森堡博士发现了一种沟通方式,依照它来谈话和聆听,能使人们情意相通,和谐相处,这就是“非暴力沟通”。非暴力沟通能够疗愈内心深处的隐秘伤痛,超越个人心智和情感的局限性,突破那些引发愤怒、沮丧、焦虑等负面情绪的思维方式,用不带伤害的方式化解人际间的冲突;学会建立和谐的生命体验。
马歇尔提出了NVC。他指出,“NVC的基础是一些沟通方式——即使在逆境中,它们也有助于人保持人性。NVC没有任何新的主张,它所吸纳的内容,都有悠久的历史。它的目的正是提醒我们已有的知识——关于什么是符合人性的交往方式,以及帮助我们活出这一点。”就像作者在书中写的:非暴力沟通没有任何新的主张,它所吸纳的内容,都有悠久的历史。书里面没有学究式的细说这历史是如何传承的,从作者书中字里行间我们可以体悟他的博大精深和厚积薄发。
有些人对这种沟通方式有些人觉得不以为然,和那种强调推销,强调话术,强调控制的理念比起来软绵绵的。那我想说,你好好用用这种方式,再作比较。什么理论都要回归到实践的检验中。
我觉得非暴力沟通很强大,这种沟通方式的观察,感受,需要,请求这四个要素,不管是用于倾听,还是用于表达。这四个过程可以概括为两大步,也是催眠中的两个大原则:跟随和引导。观察和感受属于跟随,需要和请求属于引导。在这种方式下,我们的心就变得无比的平静和顺从。很多厉害的沟通高手,比如心理咨询师,谈判专家,催眠师日用而不知。书里讲到的这种沟通模式对我触动很大,让我有哗然大悟的一种感觉。对于咨询过程中的问答,一直找不到合适的指导的书籍,看的有关书籍要不讲的事无巨细,显得杂乱无章,要不就笼统的让人不着边际。而这本书让我醍醐灌顶,对以前的有关知识上下贯通,把前两者系统起来了。
这本书讲的那种沟通方式,让人与人之间的互动客观冷静,让心与心之间的距离更近。会让我们彼此之间感受到对方的需要,感受到对方的爱。会让我们彼此消除误会,化解敌意,让我们相互包容和接纳,互助和友爱。
There is a news that makes me shocked. It is said that there happened a violent event in compus which cause 4 students injured and 2 dead. Some reasons arouse in this event.First, schools should try to avoid things like this, if the students are injured or dead, the schools have responsibility to them; second, families, especially parents should educate their children well, give them a good guide and take care of them; third, the society should control violent events. If the above three try their best and pay enough attention to them, things like this should be avoided.
《校园暴力》讲述的是一位叫祥翔男孩的故事。一天,妈妈叫祥祥出来吃饭,叫了半天,却没有看见他出来,走进房间,发现祥祥昏倒在地上。妈妈赶紧把他送到医院,医生说:“祥祥是因为暴饮暴食才昏倒的。”妈妈觉得很奇怪,在妈妈一直追问下,苏醒后的祥祥只好向家人说出了自己遭到敲诈的真相。原来祥祥受到高年级同学的敲诈,每天都要给他们钱,,而且一次比一次多。每次祥祥给他们钱后,回到家就猛吃东西,不敢告诉父母和老师,才造成今天的后果。
同学们,如果这件事发生在我们身上,你们会怎么做呢?有的同学说:“我可以抓住一切机会,撒腿就跑”。假如跑不掉呢,难道像祥祥那样,乖乖的把钱奉上吗?有的同学说:“我和他们拼了,就是不给他们钱。”这样一来,可能自己的生命安全就要受到威胁了。有的同学又说:“告诉爸爸,让爸爸狠狠地揍他们一顿!”……。那么到底哪一种方法才是最可取的`呢?我觉得最正确的做法是,当遭到第一次敲诈时,假装妥协,把钱给他们,记住他们的相貌,佩戴的校徽,然后告诉班主任或家长,甚至可以告诉警察叔叔,让他们保护自己!
我们一定要牢记祥祥的教训,要学会保护自己,只有这样我们才能健健康康地成长!
It is shocking to notice that extreme violence has occurred with frequency on campus in recent years, home and abroad.
In November this year, a college student from a prestigious university stabbed to death a professor who was preparing for his teaching. In the US a deadly shooting by a Korean American college student resulted in 33 classmates’ death. These tragedies seem to be unimaginable when college students are regarded as the elite of the society. Some people claim that the higher education do not improve moralities of those college students. Others believe that college students are fragile in their internal minds. These opinions do make sense when we take the overloaded pressure imposed on college students into consideration. While there is no way to rid totally the world of such violence, it is more important to take measures to avoid those occurrences.
Among those solutions, psychological aid is one. If psychological consulting had been resorted to, those tragedies should have happened with less possibility.
我墙裂推荐大家去看这本书!就算你觉得自己跟别人的沟通不存在任何问题,没有任何的矛盾,这本书也值得你一看,它会让你对沟通产生一种全新的认识。
如果你苦恼于自己总是不能正确的表达观点,如果你觉得别人不理解自己,亦或是心情不舒畅,都应该看这本书,它能解决你的问题。
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