现在的情况下我也不说什么放不下的话了,实话给你说吧我放的下,什么都放的下!更何况一个让我伤心至极、流泪无数、深受失败恋爱打击和让我感到自卑的人呢!现在才醒悟不算太晚吧!也许爱火本来就不应该重燃,重燃后以前的那些快乐就会烟消云散,我感觉这样的恋爱真的很累,所以我想通了,还是分了吧,谈什么谈啊?我感觉很没意思,其实我俩的爱情我从心里觉得很荒谬,分分合合、冷战你也没有一次主动承认不对的,可能因为那些冷战都是我的错吧!既然这样,我干嘛还要忍痛维持呢?从另一方面讲吧,我不愿在忍耐你的那些莫名其妙的无理取闹和排斥,其实最近你也没有说过什么排斥我的话,就是我没事的时候看着自己本上的往事,感觉我们太不适合了,我想我的忍耐以到了该不忍的程度了,已到极点了,你我是严重的性格不符,我从以前的哪个没有一丝忧伤的人变到现在的烦恼,这些都是爱给的,都是你促进的,我想我应该留下一些没有“施舍”给你的爱和精力去迎接我人生中其他的美好事物和情感。你是我的过客,我也是你过客,相伴只有一时,相爱只有这一段,如今一晃已有一年半之久了,爱情的酸甜苦辣我都吃够了、爱够了、受够了、忍够了、再尝试下去结果更加难堪。你根本就不明白我的心,渗不透我的意,更不可能是我的今生的伴侣,你的人生中还会遇见很多爱你的人,他们都在等着你选择,我也会有一个女孩在等着,一个多愁善感的女孩、一个能听我的话、一个能渗透我的意的女孩、一个在我有心事的时候慰问我而不是给我对着***女孩,一个不说我烦的人,这些你不能全部都给我,应该是永远都给不了。
记得你说过结婚后不同居的事,当时我让你答应我一件事,你追问了好久我都没有说,就是离婚,既然横竖都要分开,干嘛还要去丢那不该丢的脸呢!
对一切事物和情感都不要太过天真特别是初恋,我的初恋很美,但我却深感失败、我的初恋很累,但我却深感幸福、我对初恋很投入,却暗藏绝望,这两面性的爱情就放弃吧!同样我来为你找几个借口,我不能给你快乐、让你烦、你和我在一起太累、更让你伤心的是我太爱管你了、太多心了,太多、太多的借口都可以让我离开你,其实在你的心中还有很多的借口,只是放不下,只是舍不得,只是害怕没有另一个人的日子,这些都是多余的恐惧,你会很快适应环境的,这是你自己说的,2007年6月11日下午在华虹新厂四楼西边的那个窗户边对我说的,我记的很清楚,很牢,“很快适应环境”我会记一辈子,我也要向你学习这句很快适应生活的内涵,相信会有一点作用的。
时间会让你忘记一切,总结下你的改变还是很多的,虽然我们分手了,但你的那些改变会对你今后的恋爱有帮助的,我相信你还会恋爱的,你又不愿意下嫁给一个不能爱你一辈子的人,你一定能找到世上少有的人,我也想取一个能相爱一辈子的人,但我不相信会有那样的人,你要找到了就要好好珍惜他,别在像对待我这样对待爱你的人,他不一定能比我能忍,用心去懂他,我相信你会的,会比我想象的好!惟独我,消耗了太多的精力、爱心、关心和耐心,多了那么多的伤感和痛心。我对这份爱很用心,你没有发现,错过了就别在悔过,什么都晚了,命运是这样定的,再背叛下去也不会有结果,真的没有结果。我们太不合适了,一个没有一点脾气而能忍的人,另一个充满着傲气和倔劲,更严重的是你内心全是对着***意识,没有一点给对方安慰的想法,我就是在能忍又能忍多久呢?一辈子是不可能的!你犯错我可以原谅你一次、两次、三次、……,我说话你可以不听一次、两次、三次、在多就没有意义了,其实这学期我没有怎么管你和约束你,我给你完全的自由,现在放弃你是我自己的一个自私的解脱,也不能说我不爱你了,只是我无能为力了,你想要的爱是那么的苛刻,我真的不是你想象的斯守一生的人,不知道怎么才能让你听信我的话。最后这几天我不太理你,其实我是看过你在我笔记本上写的那些话后,在你撕毁之前我就看过了,试试你是不是真的想珍惜我,不管你想珍惜多久,只要你这么想我就很满足了,但是你的反映出乎我预料了,你不理我了,纵然你对我的做法很生气,可是我已经不想想那些了。
总之,我不想看到你勉强的笑容、和你强忍在内心深处的挣扎,我就是想通了、开窍了,是该给你解脱的时候了,我不就不约束你了,从现在起一是你个完全自由的女孩,心情的好坏自己调节,我相信你会比我在你身边还要快乐,这几天我在心中下一次决定,又取消一次决定,最后看着你那么快乐,我决定离开你,因为我不能给你快乐了,你也就不在需要了,我早说过在你不需要我的时候我会自己走开,这也算吧!
亲爱的老公:
距我们分开又有一个多月的时间了,你为了这个家挑起了生活的重担。远走他乡,整天与那些冰冷的机器为舞,与寂寞相伴,为着你向我承诺的未来隐忍过活,叫我怎能不怜惜,叫我怎能不心疼。你走了,我整个人也变的混混沌吨,犹如虚度光阴,没有你的生活我变的无助,你走了却也似带走了我的心。
都说百年修得同船渡,千年修得共枕眠。你我穿过茫茫人海,踏过芸芸众生,相遇,相知,相恋,那是多么微乎其微的概率。最终走到一起,更是难能可贵。那真真切切是千年修来的缘分,我倍感珍惜。常常在回忆的间歇忘记了时间的概念,我的时间与我的人都为有了你的存在而静止。有你存在的故事里,怎样的结局都好。我翘首期盼……
嫁给了你,我的名字被你的一声声老婆取而代之。被你叫过千万次的老婆在你心里已然根深蒂固。说实话,很喜欢你的一声温柔的老婆。有时候我总是假装没听见,让你不厌其烦的再叫一次,那也是因为我愿意被你叫着,愿意听你叫我。所以会偶尔的使坏。
嫁给了你,我不再惧怕寒冷的冬天。每每到了冬季,那彻骨的寒冷总会让我不寒而溧,刺骨的寒气也总是无孔不入。让人手脚冰冷。一到夜晚,你总会早早的替我准备好暖手宝,放在被窝里,让我暖暖的享受其中。你的身体更是我不可或缺的取暖器,毫无怨言的任我狂冰,你还乐在其中。却也真真切切的暖了心。
嫁给了你,让我懂得了被爱是另一种更奢侈的幸福。你的全身心的,不求回报的付出。心里心外都装载着你的满满的爱意,被你的挚爱包围着,我倍感满足。也因此心生感恩,感恩一路有你的爱相随,感激你为我倾其你身心的所有。让我收获着你的限量版只属于我的幸福。
嫁给了你,我懂得了生活本是柴米油盐的另一种诠释,让不食人间烟火的我重返世间,做着世俗无鞠的小女人。都说婚姻是爱情的坟墓,世俗的婚姻总离不开最后的黑白底色。可其间,你却赋予了它的多彩斑斓。你总会记住每一个特殊的日子,用你的特殊方式给我不一样的惊喜。每一个惊喜都适时的为我们的生活带来了或深或浅的美好回忆。烙在我们一起牵手走过的岁月里,任我缅怀。
嫁给了你,让我知道了包容其实是个没有深度的量词。你的胸襟总能装下我的任性,无理取闹,我的固执,得寸进尺。当我把满腹委屈,不依不饶浇你个淋漓尽至,你却总会在最后用你的大手揽我入怀,给我暖暖的拥抱,让我深陷其中,却也是让我安静的最好方法。我默许着,心却在偷笑。
因为有了你,而有了与世无争的我;因为有了你,而有了倔强傻傻的我;因为有了你,而有了幸福满满的我……你我就象存在与因果关系里一样,是一种必然所在。让我欣慰,让我满足。你知道吗?我最喜欢看着你对未来憧憬的样子,你的未来满满的充斥着的都是我的影子。我也总是会喜欢想着你的好,用你的好掩盖那些星星点点的坏,那样一览无遗的全都是你的好,我很坏吧?!
希望老公再接再厉依旧好好脾气,爱着笨笨的我。虽说世俗难免风风雨雨,可我们总能迎来雨过的那一轮另人憧憬的彩虹,不是吗?人生漫漫,没有走不过去的坎,有的只是我们更深刻的人生阅历,不是吗?
我还希望我们守着彼此,谁也不许掉队。那样,我们就可以一起慢慢变老,相濡以沫,手拉手一起走到夕阳西下的.那一天。那是我的梦想,也是你一生的梦想,不是吗?
我的文字你的魔,好几次发现,你总在我的文字里偷偷掉泪,身临其境般,感受着我的感伤,伤感着我的善感,希望这次也不例外,如我所愿。眼泪流完记得扬起你的嘴角。哈……
你的最爱
20xx年x月x日
初稿
As is shown above, a leader father is sitting in the chair with a seal grasping in the hand, and a lot of money beside him. He seriously said to his son that there is more to life than just money -it is power. Simple as the picture is, but a profound truth is reveled in the picture.
I surely disagree with father ’s philosophy. As a leader, he shouldn ’t use his power to make money. It is his duty to serve people wholeheartedly, just one person said “with great power comes great responsibility ”. If he stick to his philosophy. I believe that he will spend the rest of his life in prison. What’s worse, he could affect his son ’s philosophy, guiding him in the opposite direction , nothing can be done to reverse the trend itself. The only solution is to change father ’s philosophy. Because of many greedy officials in China, it is time to reverse the trend itself by establishing new policy. As Chinese always has been our confidence that we can change for the better and better.
In my opinion, there is more to to life than just money -it is happiness, nothing is important than happiness. We can live a colorful life in our spare time.
自评
As is shown above, a leader father is sitting in the chair with a seal grasping in the hand, and a lot of money beside him. He seriously said to his son that there is more to life than just money it is power. Simple as the picture is, but a profound truth is reveled in the picture.
I surely disagree with father ’s philosophy. As a leader, he shouldn ’t use his power to make money. It is his duty to serve people wholeheartedly, just one person said “with great power comes great responsibility ”. If he stick to his philosophy. I believe that he will spend the rest of his life in prison. What’s worse, he could affect his son ’s philosophy, guiding him in the opposite direction , nothing can be done to reverse the trend itself. The only solution is to change father ’s philosophy. Because of many greedy officials in China, it is time to reverse the trend itself by establishing new policy. As Chinese always has been our confidence that we can change for the better and better.
In my opinion, there is more to life than just money it is happiness, nothing is important than happiness. We can live a colorful life in our spare time.
评分:23
互评(刘兴顺评)
As is shown above, a leader father is sitting in the chair with a seal grasping in the hand, and a lot of money beside him. He seriously said to his son that there is more to life than just money it is power. Simple as the picture is, but a profound truth is reveled in the picture.
I surely disagree with father ’s philosophy. As a leader, he shouldn ’t use his power to make money. It is his duty to serve people wholeheartedly, just one person said “with great power comes great responsibility ”. If he stick to his philosophy. I believe that he will spend the rest of his life in prison. What’s worse, he could affect his son ’s philosophy, guiding him in the opposite direction , nothing can be done to reverse the trend itself. The only solution is to change father ’s philosophy. Because of many greedy officials in China, it is time to reverse the trend itself by establishing new policy. As Chinese always has been our confidence that we can change for the better and better.
In my opinion, there is more to life than just money -it is happiness, nothing is important than happiness. We can live a colorful life in our spare time.
评分:23
互评(战越评)
As is shown above, a leader father is sitting in the chair with a seal grasping in the hand, and a lot of money beside him. He seriously said to his son that there is more to life than just money it is power. Simple as the picture is, but a profound truth is reveled in the picture.
I surely disagree with father ’s philosophy. As a leader, he shouldn ’t use his power to make money. It is his duty to serve people wholeheartedly, just one person said “with great power comes great responsibility ”. If he stick to his philosophy. I believe that he will spend the rest of his life in prison. What’s worse, he could affect his son ’s philosophy, guiding him in the opposite direction , nothing can be done to reverse the trend itself. The only solution is to change father ’s philosophy. Because of many greedy officials in China, it is time to reverse the trend itself by establishing new policy. As Chinese always has been our confidence that we can change for the better and better.
In my opinion, there is more to life than just money -it is happiness, nothing is important than happiness. We can live a colorful life in our spare time.
评分:
互评(李春霞评)
As is shown above, a leader father is sitting in the chair with a seal grasping in the hand, and a lot of money beside him. He seriously said to his son that there is more to life than just money it is power. Simple as the picture is, but a profound truth is reveled in the picture.
I surely disagree with father ’s philosophy. As a leader, he shouldn ’t use his power to make money. It is his duty to serve people wholeheartedly, just one person said “with great power comes great responsibility ”. If he stick to his philosophy. I believe that he will spend the rest of his life in prison. What’s worse, he could affect his son ’s philosophy, guiding him in the opposite direction , nothing can be done to reverse the trend itself. The only solution is to change father ’s philosophy. Because of many greedy officials in China, it is time to reverse the trend itself by establishing new policy. As Chinese always has been our confidence that we can change for the better and better.
In my opinion, there is more to life than just money -it is happiness, nothing is important than happiness. We can live a colorful life in our spare time.
评分:
没有感情基础的婚姻磨合期异常的艰难而漫长。猜忌,指责,委屈…种种负面情绪就是每天充斥在我们屋顶上的刀枪剑戟,双方都是剑拔弩张,遍体凌伤。
是女儿的降生给风雨飘摇的家注入了新鲜空气,又或许是为人父母后心胸变得宽阔,心态变得平和,这时才能客观的认识自己,改变自己。
其实幸福就是一种心态,换个角度想结果就大不一样。你把自己定位为凤凰,面对窝里的那只公鸡,你只有自怨自艾牛嚼牡丹鲜花插在牛粪上。而当你认识到自己也只不过是只母鸡时,才庆幸窝里的这个家伙不是异类,当你饥饿时准确的叼来虫子,而不是小鱼小虾反你的胃。
不知不觉已相伴着走过十年,仍然和爱情无关,可我的日子是越来越甜,窝越来越暖。
老公不善言辞,沉默寡言,不会说甜言蜜语哄我开心,他也很懒,把家务看做洪水猛兽,能不沾就尽量不沾,可他用无边的宽容表达着对老婆女儿的爱,受尽压迫也甘之如饴。
老公,谢谢你这些年来凤凰一样的把老婆捧在手里,尽管我也只不过是只母鸡!
老公,老婆也不会说甜言蜜语,只想对你说:嫁给你,我不后悔!
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