同学们,我们生活中离不开火。但是假如用火不当,或者治理不好火,就往往很轻易发生火灾。火灾给我们的`生命财产安全和国家建设发展造成很大的损失,消防安全十分重要!在我们的日常工作和生活中,应时时刻刻注重消防安全,小心谨慎地用火,只有这样,我们才能建设美好的家园。
记得有一天,我和妈妈正在午睡,忽然闻到一股很浓的烧焦味,妈妈就起床,看看厨房是否忘记关火,没有呀,妈妈又到处查看一遍,仍没有发现什么,于是又继续睡觉。再过几分钟,烧焦味越来越浓,妈妈又起床查看,这时,妈妈往窗外一看,天呀!楼下阿姨家冒出一串串的浓烟。“楼下着火了,传煜,快起床”。火苗迅速地往上窜,我和妈妈马上用湿毛巾捂住鼻子跑到楼下。小区的保安已撬开阿姨家的窗户,用灭火器向着火的地方喷,不一会儿,消防官兵也赶来了,他们用消防水枪灭火,很快火灾就被扑灭了,我们终于松了一口气。原来,阿姨中午在煮汤,出门时忘记把煤气炉关掉,于是造成了这次火灾。
同学们,消防安全系万家。一点点很小的火星,一不小心也许就会造成灾难。所以,作为小学生,我们要熟悉到消防安全的重要性,小心用火,果断不玩火,同时要把握火灾发生后一些基本的逃生知识,减少灾难事故的发生
人们有不同的家庭环境、文化背景、生活经历以及不同的人生观和世界观,造成了个体的.差异性。然而,大多数人看世界,总是从自己的角度出发,以自我为参照,生活中就容易因此而造成人与人之间的相互误解,于是就有了一千个读者就有一千个哈姆雷特的说法。
怎样才能消除误解呢?
消除误解,首先要分析产生误解的人是什么类型的人。有人固执己见,有人通情达理。对前者,要说服他们放弃偏见往往是不现实的,但只要自己问心无愧,又对工作生活无大妨碍,完全可以不必多作解释。这类人注重事实,当事实证明一切后,误解自然就消除了。对后一种人采用适当有效的沟通方法,基本上能达到消除误解的目的。
有效的沟通方法主要包括以下几点:
1、时间。一^般是越早越好,最好是在误解刚产生之时,这时人的看法往往是摇摆不定的,哪种意见占多数,就容易偏向哪一边。
2、场合。场合很重要。谁都要面子,有时明知自己不对,但在大庭广众之下,为了维护面子,也要强词夺理,争个输赢;还有人脾气暴躁,也不适合在众目睽睽之下与他争辩。
3、方式。如何实现由误解到沟通,不可不注意方式。有人性格外向,坦诚直率,就宜开门见山,以诚相待;有人生性内向,喜怒不形于色,就不妨含蓄一些,点到为止。
4、态度。消除误解时的态度需要诚恳,且不可过多指责对方的错误,更不要逼对方承认错误。待人要宽容,要允许别人有不同的甚至错误的意见或看法,这才是做人立于不败之地的根本所在。
俗话说:人间自有真情在。当我们最终消除误解达到相互谅解和理解时,自己的生命也会变得美丽。采取正确的方式消除人与人之间的误解,对于自己和别人都有好处,何乐而不为呢?
Pride and Prejudice is my favorite novel, which impresses me for a longtime. It describes a love story mainly between Elisabeth, who I like the best,and a rich and proud man, Darcy.
The story began with the arrival of a crowd of rich men who rent a housenear the Bennet. In a ball, Elisabeth gave such a bad impression on Darcy’sfirst pride that she refused Darcy’s first proposal. Darcy was so surprised byElisabeth’s refusal that he loved Elisabeth more deeply. And Elisabeth’santipathy made Darcy realize his shortings. He was not angry about Elisabeth’scensure, but also he changed his previous proud attitude.
During Elisabeth’s travel in Darcy’s manor. Darcy was very nice to heruncle and aunt, different from previous proud attitude. When one of Elisabeth’ssisters ran away with Wickham, Darcy helped Elisabeth find her sister andprevent her sister from the loss of reputation, with nobody knowing that it washe who helped the Bennet. So many changes in Darcy eliminated Elisabeth’sprejudice. At last it end with their marriage.
Taking the daily life as its material, this story reflected the life andlove in a conservative你 and blocking England town. It reflected the author’sview about marriage that it is fault to marry for property, money and status andit is also foolish to take these elements into account. In fact Darcy’s pridemanifested the gap between their statuses.
Since his pride existed, there is no ideal marriage between Elisabeth andDarcy. From the different attitudes from Darcy’s two proposals, it reflected thefeminine pursuit of personality independence and right equality, which is aprogressive character from the image of Elisabeth.
There is no doubt that Pride and Prejudice is well-known, the book that iswritten by Jane Austen has an influence on the culture.As far as I’m concerned,the ending of the fiction is wonderful, Elizabeth and Darcy won theirhappiness, leading a colourful life .
First of all, let’s learn about the author who is Jane Austen .She wasunmarried all her life. She was born in a mid-class family and was brought up ina fortable environment with harmonious surroundings, so there’s not too manyconflicts in her sight neither in her novel. In Pride and Prejudice she talkeddifferent ideas about love and marriage through different characters.
Jane Austen disclosed mid-class young ladies’ different ideas of marriageand love through describing the different ways in which the Bennet girls doingwith their marriage problems,and this undoubtedly shows the writer’s idea aboutlove and marriage: it’s wrong to get married just for property, wealth andstatus while neither would it be without caring about those elements.Jane Austenjust attached great significance to marriage through her novel
by telling people that marriage should be regarded carefully.
Then, let’s get close to story.The details is that Mr. Bennet is an Englishgentleman with an estate in Hertfordshire. He has five unmarried daughters butno sons while his inheritance must be inherited by a male, so Mrs. Bennet hasbeen keen to seek husband for her daughters with great enthusiasm.
One day the Bennets had a new neighbor called Bingley who was a wealthybachelor and followed be the target of Mrs. Bennet. At a ball Bingley fell inlove with Jane Bennet who’s the oldest daughter of the Bennets. Bingley’s friendDarcy also came to the ball and struck the sights, many girls liked him while hethought all of them couldn’t suit his preference, including Elizabeth. Mr. Darcyalways shows others a impression of pride, having found this Elizabeth began tohate Mr. Darcy.
Before long Darcy fell in love with Elizabeth Bennett because of her lovelybehavior, while Elizabeth is disgusted by his pride and has a prejudice abouthim. The official Wickham was weled by the villagers, and Elizabeth also took ashine to him. Wickham told someting about darcy,which increased Eli’s prejudiceabout Mr. Darcy. At
another ball Mr. Darcy invited Elizabeth to dance with him, but Eli refusedhim. Eli’s elder male cousin Mr. Collin came to Hertfordshire to inherit theBennett's property by rules, he wanted to marry with one of the Bennets. Havingknown that Jane was already engaged with Mr. Bingley, he asked Elizabeth tomarry him but was seriously rejected. At last he proposed to Charllote who wasEli’s friend.
Mr. Collins was good at flattering and he got the pastorate with the helpof Lady Catherine. Once his family was invited to Rosings Garden by LadyCatherine. Elizabeth also went there with Mr. Collin and Charllote. There shemet Mr. Darcy who’s Lady Catherine’s nephew.Then Mr. Darcy came to the Collins’and confessed his love for Elizabeth, of course he was rejected impolitely.
Afterwards Mr. Darcy wrote a letter to Eli in order to remove hermisunderstandings of him. Elizabeth’s uncle and aunt were also impressed by Mr.Darcy’s politeness. Gradually Eli’s prejudice of Mr. Darcy disappeared.Eventually they became couple.
In my opinion ,on the one hand,I think Elizabeth has personality ethicwhich caused her independent idea about love and marriage and in consequence sheearned a happy
life. There’re also Eli’s sisters’ love stories served as contrasts to thefemale subject’s ideal marriage, such as Charlotte and Collin’s life: they dohad a luxury life, but there’s no real love between them and this kind ofmarriage is surely a tragedy of society.On the other hand,Darcy is brave ,he diddo his best to pursuit his love.
As a matter of fact,everyone has shortings ,after reading the story ,I didrealize that we should find our advantages and disadvantages byourselves.Moreover,it’s necessary for us to try our best to get over shortings.Iam aware that we ought to get along with others with the same attitude.The rightthat seeking for happiness is equal for everyone.therefore,we should value thethings that we have,and cherish the chances.
昨夜饮茶过度,睡意全无,读罢钱老(钱钟书之作《一个偏见》,正值丑时三刻,鄙人浮想联翩,几生幻想……“偏见”,并非站在比萨斜塔上张望(玩笑话,而是对客观事物的某种主观认知。具有偏见,说明有独到的思想见解,就胜于人云亦云之流。
鄙人倒有一套自己的“偏见”。何谓“偏见”,成见乎? 非也非也。“偏见”乃是蕴藏真理之思想,具有主见之凭证,不苟同于他人之行为,且非它也。
众所周知,早在公元前 340 年,希腊哲学家亚里士多德就认为地球是静止的。公元 2 世纪,这个思想被托勒密的“地心说”所代替,并被基督教会接纳。然而,1514 年,波兰教士尼古拉·哥白尼破天荒地提出了一个“偏见”——“日心说”(这当然是建立在近十年天文观测和研究的基础之上的,由此,“地心说”的理论开始逐渐宣告死亡。
由此可见,一个“偏见”可以产生一种理论,一个“偏见”可以改变人的一生,一个“偏见”可以推动人类文明的进程。
“日心说”在 16 世纪之前是个“偏见”,尽管它的提出推动了天文学的发展,现在看来也依然是个偏见——太阳并非宇宙的'中心。哥白尼凭着对宇宙有限的认知程度而提出“日心说”,此大谬也。
“地球、太阳乃至银河系,都不是宇宙的中心”——这是如今科学的说法。然而,史蒂芬·霍金在其著作《时间简史》中说道:“在一个无限的宇宙,每一点都可以认为是中心,因为在它的每一边都有无限颗恒星。” 并且,人类目前并未真正掌握宇宙的轮廓、结构,尽管宇宙中存在光谱的红移现象,也很难排除万有引力定律的干扰,又如何去证实“地心说”与“日心说”的荒谬所在呢? 难道它们完全没有正确的可能性吗? 也许在若干年后,“地球、太阳乃至银河系,都不是宇宙的中心”这句话又是一个偏见。
我们在对未知事物的探索与研究中的确需要一些偶然因素,正如第一颗小行星的意外发现,一个当时被看作是“偏见”,却可能是引燃真理的一簇小火苗。
“偏见”,并非智者的专利,它广泛地存在于人们的思想意识中。“横看成岭侧成峰,远近高低各不同。”你我都可以是畅想家和预言家,因为我们都多少有一些“偏见”。留下的,是用行动去努力验证它、支持它,然后就请岁月来检验它吧。
then man treat GREat event in one's life with punishing, Demonstratedifferent attitudes to the love question of the marriage of young girl of thefamily origin of middle class of villages and towns, Thus reflected authorsoneself's marriage view: It is wrong to get married for the property, money andposition; Get married and does not consider that above-mentioned factors areunwise too .
So, she objects to getting married for money , objecting to regarding themarriage as a trifling matter . She emphasizes the importance of the idealmarriage , and regard men and women's emotion as the foundation stone whichconcludes the ideal marriage.
the woman protagonist in the book Elizabeth es from the little landlord'sfamily, reaches the west to have deep love for for the rich and powerful peoplesons and younger brothers. Reach the disparity of ignoring family status andwealth of the west, propose to her, but is refused. Elizabeth's misunderstandingand prejudice to him are a reason, but a main one is the arrogance that shedislikes him.
Reach the thes of the west in fact status' the reflections of difference,exist this kind arrogant, Not having mon thoughts and feelings between he andElizabeth, the marriage that can not have lofty ideals . Elizabeth watchesconducting oneself in society and a series of behavior of reaching the westpersonally afterwards, See he change the proud conceited expressions of passingby, dispel misunderstanding and prejudice to him, Thus concluded the happymarriage with him.
I’m forced to read this novel at the beginning, but I can’t wait to finishit subsequently.
"It is a truth universally acknowledges that a single man in possession ofa good fortune must be in want of a wife." This is just as Leo Tolstoy’s famousstarting in 《Anna Karenina》: "All happy families resemble one another, eachunhappy family is unhappy in its own way". To begin with such a design, JaneAusten has her deep meaning. Marriage and money are inseparable. The undertoneis very clear: the foundation of the marriage at that time is not emotion butpossession. The author does not deny this. So she uses typical Bennets to provethis truth.
The story takes place in the class-conscious England of the late 18thcentury. The five Bennet sisters--including strong-willed Elizabeth and youngLydia--have all been raised by their mother with one purpose in life: finding awealthy husband. So when a wealthy bachelor shows up in their lives, the wholefamily is turned upside-down. But when Elizabeth meets up with the handsome butsnobbish Mr. Darcy, the battle of the sexes is joined.
As we all know, Austen, in this novel, through the five Bennet daughters’attitude towards love and marriage, shows the relationship between mentalfeelings, such as love, and material possessions , which also reflects theauthor''s attitude: Marry for the sake of property, money or status is wrong;marry but do not take into account the above factors is foolish. As a result,she not only opposed to marry for the purpose of money, but also opposed totreat marriage as child''s play. She stressed the importance of an idealmarriage. But in modern society, although the marriages of economic needs havedecreased rapidly, the concept of “money determines everything” is still rootedin some people’s mind.
Then let’s e to talk about the meaningful topic of this love story: 《PrideAnd Prejudice》
Pride and prejudice are our mon problems and weaknesses. In fact, everyoneis very easy to be driven by his own subjective impression and thus easy to makeincorrect ments on others, and then led to misunderstand between people. One’sfirst impression can affect a lot of things for sure, but it doesn’t mean itcouldn’t be changed. The deeper you get to understand someone, the moreobjective points you will have on him or her. The changing of Elizabeth’s pointof view towards Darcy just proved this perfectly: no pride, no prejudice, andthese two married just because they love each other, just because they need eachother instead of need each other’s possessions. Austen is smart, becauseElizabeth got beauty and intelligence while Darcy is handsome and rich. I evenwonder if such a perfect marriage could take place in modern society.
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