我的妈妈身材中等,长着一头乌黑油亮的长发,一双明亮的大眼睛,一张红润的嘴,经常都是笑容满面的。
妈妈的工作非常忙,经常要开会、出差,但是她对我的照顾还是无微不至的。平常,妈妈有时是我的老师,总会不厌其烦地教会我很多东西。有时,妈妈又是我的好朋友,她有空的时侯就会和我一起玩游戏等等。妈妈对我的要求很严格,特别是思想品德方面,她总是要求我做一个好孩子。
有一次,我和妈妈一起去同福超市买东西。我看见一盒橡皮十分喜欢,但是又害怕妈妈不让买,就偷偷地拿走了。后来,出了超市,妈妈见到我把手收到身后,神色有点慌张,就轻轻地问我:“滢滢,你的手里拿着什么?”我低下头小声地说:“没什么!”然后妈妈就叫我把手伸出来。于是,我把那只没拿东西的手伸出去。妈妈一见,马上说:“把另一只手也伸出来!”我只好不情不愿地伸出了另一只手了。妈妈看了,就问:“滢滢,你为什么有一盒新像皮呢?”我低着头不敢出声了。过了一会,妈妈又轻声地说:“你想不想人家把你当小偷,叫警察叔叔把你抓回警察局呢?”我听了,马上摇着头说:“我不想做小偷!”“要不你回去跟超市里的姐姐说你忘记付钱了!”我听了,马上就回到超市里面,把钱补交给收银的姐姐了。想不到姐姐还连忙夸我是个好孩子呢!从超市出来后,妈妈语重深长地对我说:“滢滢,我们从小就要做一个光明磊落的人,千万不能做这些小偷小摸的事情啊!俗话说得好‘小时偷鸡,大时偷牛啊!你要记住啊!”我连忙点点头。
这件事虽然过去了很久,现在每当我回想起来,我就想当时幸亏是妈妈,否则我做了一回小偷呢!我的妈妈真是一位好妈妈啊!
When you look back on yourself in the past – 10, 20, 30 or more years ago – it’s surprising to see how much you have changed over time. Your experiences, your friends, your family and your work have all shaped who you are right now. But where will you be in another few years? How will you have changed? Reflective writing in your journal is an excellent way to think about what you want out of the future.
当你10年、20年或更多年后回顾过去时,你会吃惊地发现,随着时光的流逝,你也发生了很大的变化。你的经历、朋友、家庭和工作造就了现在的你。但是再过几年你会在哪里呢?你会如何变化呢?这样反思性的写作,会是思考未来你想要什么的一种好的方式。
You may have already written a letter to your younger self before, conveying all the wisdom and perspective you wish you had had at the time. Now consider the opposite end of the spectrum; what would you say if you wrote your future self a letter?
你也许以前试过给过去的自己写信,向年轻时的自己传授一些人生的智慧和观点,你希望那时候的自己就能知道这些。现在我们换个角度看问题,如果让你给未来的自己写封信,你会写点什么?
Just imagine writing a letter to your future self 5 years from now, then opening it at that exact moment 5 years down the road to see how much of it resonated with you. It is a useful supplementary tool to be used in goal achievement, because when you write the letter to your future self, it helps crystallize exactly how you anticipate yourself to become at that specific moment down the road.
想象一下,给5年后的'自己写一封信,当5年后你打开那封信时,你会产生多少共鸣。这是实现目标的一种有用的辅助工具,因为当你给未来的自己写信时,你会慢慢理清希望自己在人生旅途的那个特定时刻变成什么样子。
As you read the letter in the future, you can assess how many things match up (or not vs. your expectations in the past and think about why that’s the case. Often times, the goals we set and our goal achievement process are subjected to a lot of changes along the way, due to varying obstacles, unanticipated circumstances and changing priorities. The letter gives you a macro-view of your initial vision and lets you recognize how your current vision differs from the past.
当你在未来读这封信时,你可以看看有多少事情是像你过去期望的那样,你也会思考为什么会这样。很多时候,我们设定目标在实现的过程中会受到沿途中各种因素的影响,因为会遇到各种各样的困难、各种意外情况并需要不断调整优先级。这封信能让你从宏观的角度上去看自己最初的愿景,让你意识到自己现在的想法和过去相比有多么不同。
When you open the letter in the future, you as your future self gets to compare how you used to be in the past and compare with how you are currently. This lets you see in totality how much things have changed since then – and this can be a really intriguingexperience. It’s interesting to just see how much you have grown/changed since you wrote the letter.
当你以后看信时,你会把过去的自己和现在的自己进行比较。这会让你看清从写信时起你发生了哪些变化,这种体验是非常有趣的。光看看从你写信开始发生了哪些变化就很有趣了。
看这张画,那是我上中班时候画的妈妈画像。
现在,我的妈妈有一头卷卷的长发,一副“自行车”一样的眼镜架在她的鼻梁上。在她长长的睫毛下,有一双大大的眼睛。妈妈喜欢写童话故事,因为她有一颗童心!妈妈最爱讲笑话,在我伤心的时候,她的笑话总能让我破涕为笑。
妈妈是世界上最爱我的人,妈妈也是世界上我最爱的人!
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