提起笔写这封信,是我在读过两遍《窗边的小豆豆》后突然冒出的想法。我同意联合国官员的看法:再也没有人比您更了解我们孩子们了。
我毫不犹豫地买了这本书。当看到封面上那个梳着童花头的小女孩时,我不禁想起了我的童年。利索的短发,自信的笑脸。索性,我把自己变成了5、6岁般大小,切身体验了一把巴学园生活。
当读到小豆豆在与宣传艺人打招呼时,我不禁想起了自己小时候。我们教室的后面是大操场,总有许多大哥哥、姐姐在上体育课。我靠窗,总喜欢用手托着下巴看着他们玩耍。老师屡次训斥我,可我总也改不了这个毛病。不过,我并没有被退学。但我想:如果那时候我也被退学了,接着被转到一所像巴学园那样的学校该有多好。
“山的味道,海的味道”的午饭一定很好吃吧。我们学校离家很近,因此午饭都是在家里吃的。即使在学校吃,也没有像小林校长一样的1人陪我们度过愉快的午餐时间,自然就不会唱那首“好好嚼啊”的饭前歌。不过现在每次吃饭前我都会唱这首歌。妈妈说:“巴学园是小学。你是初中的学生,难道还想上小学啊?”管它呢,我觉得,只要心中有巴学园,无论在什么地方,都会是巴学园吧。我闭上限,轻轻地唱着:“好好嚼啊,把吃的东西;嚼啊嚼啊嚼啊,把吃的东西……”
当然环绕在小豆豆身边的不仅仅有快乐,还夹杂着丝丝缕缕的悲伤。比如泰明,比如洛基。
对于泰明和洛基的死,我也很难过。每读到这里,总觉得自己就是小豆豆,自己最好的朋友突然去世是太大的打击,泪水也止不佳地流。泰明也一定和我们一样悲伤,不愿意离开这个美好的世界;但相信他也一定是很满足的,因为有像小豆豆一样的好朋友。巴学园的结局是不尽人意的.,但它留给人的记忆却是最美好的。虽然我没有上过巴学园,也不可能再上巴学园,但总觉得自己得到了在巴学园学习的孩子应该学到的知识,耳边也总萦绕着小林校长的谆谆教诲:“你真是一个好孩子!”“你们大家都是一样的,无论做什么事情,大家都是一样的。”每当被自卑感充斥时,忽然想起这两句话,便觉顿悟,变得快乐起来。
这本书,我想我会继续读下去。我会感受到更多巴学园带给我的不同的体验,同样也谢谢小豆豆这名出色的向导,跟着你,巴学园是百看不厌的!
一个喜欢小豆豆的中国学生
Dear Future Husband,亲爱的未来老公:
I'm not yet sure whether you exist, though I'd like to believe that you do. While it may not make much logical sense, you've been on my mind lately. I haven't thought much about what you'll look like, how tall you'll be, or what type of car you'll drive — I'm not too concerned with the minor details. However, I have been thinking about a few things I want you to know.我尚不确定你是否存在,虽然我愿意相信你的存在。虽然有点不太符合逻辑,但你最近总出现在我脑海里。关于你的长相、你的身高或者你开什么车子我都没想太多,我不太关心这些无关紧要的细节,然而我一直在想有几件事你需要知道。
I want you to know that I am happy — right now — as a single, 26-year-old "millennial" who lives in a small apartment with a roommate and eats Chipotle for dinner more times than I care to admit. I love my job, I love my crazy friends and family, and I love spending quality time alone. I want you to know that my life has purpose apart from and before you. When we do meet one day, I want you to understand that I do not expect you to complete me, or to be my God. That's way too much pressure for anyone to bear. I am already complete.我想要你知道,现在单身的我很幸福,一个26岁的千禧一代,和室友一起住在一个小公寓里,晚餐吃墨西哥便餐的次数多得我自己都不愿意去想。我喜欢自己的工作,喜欢疯狂的朋友和家人,喜欢独处的宝贵时光。我想要你知道没有你的时候和遇到你之前我的生活都有目标。某天我们遇见了,我想让你明白我不需要你来使我变得更完美或主宰我的生活,那样我们的压力都太大,我的生活已经很完整了。
I want you to know that I am not a trophy. Apparently, a lot of guys think this is a compliment. However, I want you to know that I have no desire to be seen as a trophy — a symbol of your own perceived success. I was not raised just to sit and look pretty on anybody's shelf. I want to have intellectual conversations. I want to help you chase your dreams. I want to be your partner, not your prize.我想要你知道我不是你的战利品。显然很多男孩都觉着这是恭维,但我想要你知道我不想被人当做战利品来象征你自己的`成功。我的成长不是仅仅为了坐在别人的架子上成为漂亮的摆设。我想要有头脑的对话,想帮你追求梦想,想成为你的搭档,而不是你的奖品。
I want you to know that I am a feminist, and I want you to be a feminist, too. This doesn't mean I am anti-men, and it doesn't mean I think myself superior to you. It merely means that as a woman, I believe that I should have the power and the choice to define what it means to be a female. Maybe I will continue to work a full-time job for the duration of our marriage. Maybe, one day, I'll decide to take on the onerous yet rewarding task of being a stay-at-home mom. Either way, I'll be "working." I am hopeful that you and I will be able to come up with a solution that works best for our relationship, and for our future family, free from societal expectations.我想要你知道我主张男女平等,希望你也是。这不是说我对男人反感或感觉自己比你优越。我只想说,作为女人,我相信我应该有权力选择去定义一个女人的意义。可能结婚以后我还会继续全职工作,也可能有一天会决定选择繁重但却值得的全职太太的任务。无论选择哪一个,那都是我的工作。我满怀希望地认为你和我能找到最适合我们自己和未来家庭的方式,而不会为世俗所累。
I want you to know that while your opinions will be valuable to me, I will try my hardest not to exchange my personal identity for your stamp of approval. It has taken me over two decades to become comfortable in my own skin, and I don't ever want to compromise that. I hope that you will love me whether I decide to wear my hair long or short. I hope that you will think I am beautiful whether I choose to walk around with a fresh face or eyes adorned with mascara. If we choose to have children, I hope that you will appreciate my body post-pregnancy just as much as you did the day we met.我想要你知道虽然你的想法对我来说很重要,但我还是会尽最大努力不用自己的身份来换取你的认可。我花了20多年才适应自己,我可不想做出让步。我希望无论我是决定留长发还是短发你都爱我;我希望无论我是选择素颜还是刷上睫毛膏出门你都觉着我很美。如果我们想要宝宝,我希望你会像刚遇见我时那样喜欢我生完宝宝后的身材。
I want you to know that I am not concerned with the size of my future engagement ring, and I will never pressure you to propose. Sure, I've thought about those things. I'm inundated daily with images of blushing brides and fairytale weddings. But at the end of the day, my goal is not to get married, but to stay married. If you promise to be my best friend for life, I promise not to get caught up in all the wedding madness.我想要你知道我不在乎未来订婚戒指的大小,也决不会给你压力让你求婚。是的,那些我都曾幻想过,我每天都不停幻想红着脸的新娘和童话般的婚礼。但最终我的目标不是结婚,而是维持住婚姻。如果你答应作我一辈子最好的朋友,我就答应你不会陷入对婚礼的狂热追求。
Most importantly, I want you to know that when we do fall in love, I will love you unconditionally. I don't expect you to be perfect, and I can guarantee you that I won't be either. I do, however, expect you to accept me fully for who I really am, and I promise to do the same for you. I will never try to change you, I will never let you feel unseen, and I will always be your number one fan.最重要的一点就是,我想要你知道恋爱时我会无条件地爱你。我不期待你很完美,我敢保证我也不完美。然而我真地希望你能完全接受真正的我,我保证也如此对你。我永远不会努力去改变你,永远不会让你感觉被忽视,我永远都是你的头号粉丝。
Yours truly,爱你,
Perfectly Imperfect Me.完美却又不完美的我。
亲爱的妈妈:
你好,你生下我,养育了我12年。在这12年里,你一直是我的避风港,当我受到委屈时,是你在安慰着我;当我在玩耍时受伤了,是您在为我涂药水;当我生病时,是你无微不至照顾我;当我考砸时,是你在身后鼓励着我,;当我没带雨伞时,是你为我送来那把伞。
记得有一次,你带我去西安看病,检查完肚子便回到了宾馆。半夜12点我突然发高烧,你抱起我穿上拖鞋狂奔出宾馆。这时夜幕早已降临,狂风吹着大的枯叶,像是在发泄着自己的怒气。乌云遮住了月亮,没有一丝光,显得十分寂静,不禁让我想起了可怕的鬼,我打了一颤,你把我抱得更紧了。你赶紧拦下一辆出租车,坐上出租车,赶往医院。到了医院后,你把外套脱下来紧紧地裹在我身上,抱着我在诊号所排队。医院的人十分多,大厅都被塞满了,你站在队伍的后面慢慢地向前移动,直到凌晨3点才排到诊号所。等着去打针,你在病房床边无微不至照顾着我,时不时地摸摸我的额头,拿手帕擦我头上的汗珠,在这样的关怀下我渐渐睡着了。我起来时,你已经在床边睡着了。
现在我每次生病去医院时,总会想起那时你摸我的额头和擦我脸上的汗珠的画面。你就和太阳一样,寒冷时给我温暖。
你为我付出了很多,我感激不尽。但我总是辜负你对我的期望,还经常顶撞你,在此我想对你说一声对不起。有一件事,我虽然很委屈,但你再给我涂药时,我就把委屈抛到脑后了。
那天早上我起来,吃完早饭,坐在沙发上稍作休息了一会儿,正准备去写作业,爸爸就说我很懒,一点儿自觉心都没有,不知道去写作业,大发雷霆,把你叫回来。你回来后,二话不说,就拿了一个椅子打了我一顿,我觉得自己十分委屈,一直跟你置气,直到你从抽屉里拿出一瓶药,在我脸上轻轻地喷了一点,用棉签在脸上轻轻地涂匀,我的心里一下子暖暖的。
妈妈,谢谢你,谢谢你12年的养育之恩,12年的辛苦付出,12年一直做我的避风港。
妈妈,今天是三八妇女节,我送的礼物虽然不贵重,但这封信一定是最好的,你说是吧?
最后,我还想对你说:妈妈,我爱你。
祝你青春常在,平安幸福。
你的女儿:王心怡
20xx年3月8日
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