当幸福降临时,你能感受得到吗?你想要怎样的幸福呢?你知道幸福是怎么来的呢?你知道什么是幸福?当你听完这个故事也许你就明白了。
远在美国的旧金山,曾流传着这样一个故事。
有一位父亲叫史迦威纳·夏阁。他为了养家糊口,在一个小矿场作苦力,妻子在一个棉花加工厂工作,他们有一个7岁的孩子叫汤姆。他们为了给儿子交学费攒下来,将一个月工资的百分之八十都出在了上面,剩下的都不够一个月的伙食费。就这样他们欠下了许多房租费。直到有一天,不幸的事发生了:夏阁所在的矿场***了,这个消息对夏阁一家人来说如同“五雷轰顶”,被逼无来,他们只好让汤姆退学,一家人只能靠妻子辛苦赚来的一点钱来维持生活。好心的房东同情他们,把他们留了下来,并给了他们1000元资助金,夏阁一家人感激不尽。也许就是这样的动力启动了这辆“夏阁幸福跑车”:身为一家之主的夏阁从此准备要用自己辛苦赚来的钱去还这份“情债”。夏阁去了纽约,准备东山再起,又做起来矿工,平时妻子老在电话旁为丈夫鼓气,而夏阁平时也挺节约的,一天吃饭只吃一顿饭,剩下的时间都在工作,他的努力总是别人的2倍,就因如此,矿长看中了他,准备让他成为接班人,并给她加了工资从原先的900到了现在的20xx。5年后,矿场发财了,夏阁当上了矿长,赚足了钱,兴奋得回到了旧金山。
这天,夏阁跑到了家里,疯狂地按着门铃,妻子一开门,夏阁就拥上去抱住妻子,说:“我有钱了,我有钱了,我们不用过穷日子了”!他们泪流满面,高兴地跑到房东家里把这几年欠的债都还上了,这债里不仅是钱还是一种关爱。
其实这就是最终的幸福,只有辛苦努力才能得到你想要的幸福,就如文章最后所说的:当幸福来敲门时,只有历尽艰苦的人才能来开这扇门。
Happiness? Whenever I see these two words, there is always a nameless impulse in my heart, if I ask: Are you happy? Im afraid most people would say: Im happy. What is happiness? Happiness is the pursuit of ideals, family harmony, children well - behaved. If you dont think you are happy then go out of your way to let happiness knock on your door.
Chris, the hero of The Pursuit of Happiness, is a clever salesman who works hard but can never make his family rich. His wife, Linda, held multiple jobs by herself, but finally could not bear the pressure of life and left. His career failed. Chris was forced to pay taxes by the government after he sold all the money for the scanner. Fortunately, After a lot of hard work, Chris finally got an internship with a stock investment company. There was no salary during the internship, and very few people would be hired. But Chris knew that this was his last chance. Although the poverty of his life was devastating, Chris worked his way up to become a successful investment specialist.
Chris is a man who dares to face reality and accept responsibility. He is a good father who always protects and creates happiness for himself and his son. After watching this film, I couldnt help but ask myself: Can I do that too? Can I face and go through as much misery and misery as Chris? Have you always believed and been moving towards your goals? I will tell myself a simple test failure, will make you give up? If I had cried before, but now is not the same, I grow up, I can confidently tell myself: no, not. I will certainly be like Chris. Chris can achieve success not only because of his hard work and positive attitude, but also because of the goals he identified and fought for, even if the road is hard. Happiness and dreams are inseparable, set a goal, have a clear pursuit, there is a dream, this is also happiness.
There is a good saying: things are other peoples fate is their own. Since I cant change the world, but I can change myself; I dont know others, but I can control myself; I cannot predict tomorrow, but I can dominate today. Even if my flowers are very light, they are valuable and precious. My future is up to me. Every little bit should be fully invested. In fact, happiness is very close to us, sometimes, just need a hand out of the action, you can harvest happiness.
As Chris said to his son at basketball: \"We should want something, we have to get it, even if someone tells you cant.\" Each of us is unique, we only brave big step forward, one day, we will also hear happiness before the door of \"dong Dong Dong dong\" sound, please must firmly grasp it, do not let it slip away in the hands.
最近在课上观看了根据当今美国黑人投资专家ChrisGardner真人真事改编的电影《当幸福来敲门》,起初听到这部电影名字的时候以为是爱情片,观看之后,发现原来是一部励志篇电影,在这部片子中感悟到了很多。
影片主要描写了主人公克里斯积极向上、奋发拼搏,最终从一名普通的推销员变成了他梦寐以求的大公司的员工的经过。面对命运的坎坷、面对生存的艰难以及面对生活的那份态度,那份淡定、从容、执着所深深震撼。他的梦想是成为一名投资专家。然而,面对生活的困苦,妻子决然的离开了他。他的忧伤与无助一次次刺疼了我,生活在煎熬着他,看着房东因为他交不起房租而愤然将他和他儿子的东西丢在房外,而他却只能带着疲惫的心,拖着心爱儿子,开始流浪,四处找寻住所。当父子两人在公共卫生间的角落依偎着,有人想近来方便之时,而他用脚抵着,反锁着门,不敢出声,痛苦伤心的泪水顺腮而下时,我一阵心酸!生活,为何要如此折磨这样一个努力着的人。一方面他要努力通过没有薪水的6个月实习期;一方面他要卖医疗仪器借此糊口;一方面他要保护好儿子的幼小心灵。付出了艰辛,总会有收获的。克里斯最终得到了幸福,当老板告诉克里斯·加纳正式加入公司时,他眼中充满了泪水。克里斯·加纳冲到托儿所与儿子深情相拥。他觉得自己不再对儿子愧疚,不再对生活失望,不再只经历挫败。终于苦尽甘来了!
一个人通过自己的努力,可以实现自己的梦想,幸福,会来敲门。很多人往往会关注对于梦想的树立,而往往忽略过程的艰辛。特别是,当面对一个看似无望的现实的时候,有多少人会坚持,而多少人会放弃呢?生活总是在不断地修正,并且提醒我们,顺应大潮的人总是较有可能抵达成功的彼岸。可是,确实是有些人,愿意逆流而上。
这部影片对我的启示:学会人生中目标的选择是非常关键的。它决定着一个人的努力是否会有成效。锁定目标,积极进取,有目标的奋斗,有目标的劳苦,正是生活的价值所在。坚定既定的目标就有可能成功。影片中克里斯·加纳是努力追求,积极进取的典范。
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