Beloved father:
It’s a long time no contacting with you since last e-mail. And I miss you so much. Recently I luckily turn to the third officer working on board MV Blue Whale,which is a container ship. I intend to introduce you what Ido on this big vessel in this letter.
I am the third officer working in the deck department. As you know, the third officer is responsible to the master for the proper performance of his assigned bridge watchstanding and navigational duties.
On board, my first daily work is wathckeeping from 8 to 12 and from 20 to 24. my second daily work is in charge of the maintance of the fire-fighting equipment and life-saving equipment. The third , I am also responsible for fire and boat drills, I have to design a muster list and make crew to know the best escape route clearly. Additionally, there are also some simple things I have to do in daily work. For example, I have to assist the Chief Officer in supervising cargo handling operation 、to measure the draft at the discretion of the Chief Officer or the Master、to assist the Master on the bridge with anchoring and mooring and unmooring operation is underway and so on.
In the end, I strongly believed that you must be very familiar with my special work through what I said. And I hope you can stand my back and make me stronger. We will have a reunion soon.
Your ,ZJH
你们好!在这里我感谢你们这么多年来给予我这么多爱,让我感到了家的温暖。爸爸、妈妈,你们辛苦了!
自从一阵阵哭声在产房响起,你们就挑起了重担。当时,你们望着刚诞生的女儿,是什么感受呢?喜悦、惊讶还是什么呢?虽然我不知道,但是我相信少不了喜悦吧。
从那一天起,你们一把屎、一把尿得把我拉扯大,教我走路、说话你们无论有多辛苦,都从不提苦说累。每每叫妈妈提起当年,便如春风佛过脸庞,一股暖意浮上心头,随即眼角饱含泪花。那时候,我什么都不懂,今天我知道那就是爱,那就是幸福。一年四季,从早到晚,我吃喝玩乐,享受着天上人间的生活,是多么幸福。但是你们呢?却一天到晚忙个不停。夜里,还要不时地照顾我。总而言之,你们总是难得空闲的时间。
爸爸妈妈,我已经长大了,你们也比以前轻松多了,脚步也不像以前那么沉重了。但是你们知道吗?你们轻快的脚步只能让女儿感到你们肩上的重担越来越重了。因为我长大了,对人对事渐渐有了自己的看法,有些想法难免与你们有分歧,产生摩擦,对你们发点小脾气,和你们赌气。但是,爸爸妈妈请你们相信,女儿不是有意惹你们生气,更不是女儿懵懂无知,我和你们争得面红脸只是为了一个正确的答案有时候我好玩,受到爸爸您的批评。虽然感到委屈,但我知道您是对的。严父慈母,严厉,就是父爱的体现。
爸爸妈妈,你们是我最好的老师。因为你们就是女儿精神上最好的支柱,你们就是女儿树立了勤劳自勉、不怕困难、勇敢直前的生活作风,你们教女儿懂得了怎样面对生活、面对人生。有了你们,女儿对打造辉煌前途就有了充足的'信心。
爸爸妈妈,你们的女儿只是一个平凡的女孩,这也只是一封平凡的信,但他却饱含着一颗真挚的心。这颗纯洁的心心和一滴滴水晶般的眼珠构成了一幅心灵之画。此时,这封平凡的信已不在平凡了,他寄托着女儿对父母的爱,寄托着把三颗心牵连在一起的愿望。
爸爸妈妈,Iloveyou!你们对我的爱,我永远都无法报答,但是我愿意用一辈子的时间来孝敬你们。
我永远爱你们!爸爸妈妈!
祝愿你们:
事事顺心!
你们的女儿:蔡望衍
2006年6月10日
Dear parents,
“You always say that I am naive. In your eyes, I am always the little girl who will never grow up”. This is my favorite song and also the sound from the bottom of my heart. You made me feel so lucky to be your child. But I find our hearts getting further apart as time goes by.
You strictly forbid me to do entertaining activities even if I finished my homework, such as watching TV or playing computer games. Based on this, I couldn’t get any grade less than A. It is said that genius only means hard-working all one’s life. But I think combining exertion is the best way for learning.
The most important thing to me was that I feel frustrated for having few friends to confide in due to your strict rules. I can’t have a play date, participate in a school play or even choose my own extracurricular activities. Who will accept such a boring and troublesome person? I am just an ordinary girl who can’t stand loneliness, so I always feel contradictory.
On the one hand, I’m grateful to have you in my life, to disappoint you was the least I would do. On the other hand, what you asked for me made me felt like a puppet rather than a real person. I appreciated your efforts to pull me away from a self-indulgent life, but your obsessively extravagant strictness has pushed me into an isolated and insensible one. I need a little freedom so that I will concentrate on something I really interested in.
Father and mother, these words were hid in my deep heart for a long time. I love you, and I believe if you change some harsh rules. I will have a wonderful life.
Best wishes.
Yours, daughter
每个孩子接受的教育有四种:一是家庭教育;二是学校教育;三是社会教育;四是自我教育。笔者认真思索了这四种教育的任务、目的、原则、途径等,发觉自我教育是孩子真正走向成功的教育形式。也就是说,家庭、学校、社会三种教育最终应该让孩子能进行自我教育,只有如此,孩子才能回归社会,才能展现自己的价值。所以,伟大的父母在家庭教育中一定要想方设法,让孩子认识自我,利用自我,形成自我,发展自我,完善自我,形成可持续性发展的自我。
首先,引导孩子认识自我教育是一种平凡之教育,是大自然赋予人的教育。到过黄果树瀑布的人都会被其壮美之气势所吸引,但这么美的瀑布却来自于一条平凡的河,宽四五十米,不太深,水中的石头隐约可见,浅水处还有大一点儿的石头裸露出水面。这平静的河没有浪花,没有激流,恬静、安详、温柔、默默无语,使人根本无法将它与雄奇壮观的黄果树瀑布联系在一起。自我教育就如这平凡的河,它不会像学校教育那样井然有序;也不会像家庭教育那样被父母不断地要求;更不会像社会教育那样,提供丰富的大型场馆、资料。所以自我教育就是引导孩子自己思考每天行为,综合社会多方面信息,改变自己,提高自己,以最终形成一个“最大、最美的瀑布”。
其次,自我教育还让孩子懂得坚持的价值。为了让孩子懂得其价值,我为孩子讲了这样的故事:有学生问大哲学家苏格拉底,怎样才能修学到他那般博大精深的学问。苏格拉底听了并未直接作答,只是说:“今天我们只学一件最简单也是最容易的事,每个人把胳膊尽量往前甩,然后再尽量往后甩。”苏格拉底示范了一遍,说:“从今天起,每天做300下,大家能做到吗?”学生们都笑了,这么简单的事有什么做不到的?过了一个月,苏格拉底问学生们:“哪些同学坚持了?”有九成同学骄傲地举起了手。一年以后,苏格拉底再一次问大家:“请告诉我,最简单的甩手动作,还有哪几位同学坚持了?”这时整个教室里,只有一人举了手,这个学生就是后来成为古希腊另一位大哲学家的柏拉图。
人人都渴望成功,人人都想得到成功的秘诀,然而成功并非唾手可得。我们常常忘记,即使是最简单最容易的事,如果不能坚持下去,成功的大门也绝不会轻易地开启。成功并没有秘诀,但坚持是它的过程。柏拉图的坚持就是自我教育的结果。
Dear mom and dad:
You are good!
This is the first time I write to you, I want to write down the words of my heart.
You I had many of the night was up all night, you how many tears flow to me. I paid you for how much, I return you from, I also know, you must not think I return you anything, but I'll never forget you in mind, the old I will return to the best of your ability, when I grew up in the sun, but you will gradually ageing, worry about and sad that wrinkles climbed up you originally carefree face.
Mom and dad, in your care, I have spent a full of joy for ten years. You have been the best things to me. I have a beautiful bedroom, delicate study materials, the conditions of the outstanding school... I like the little princess "in fairy tale, as well as the growth of carefree. Mom and dad, I want to say to you, you is very kind to me.
For ten years, and you carefully nurtured me, so that I grow up happily day by day. And your own but don't know how much I flow for the sweat and the tears. Mom and dad, I'll never let you down, is you to me put a pair of wings, I'll use that for the most powerful wings and fly, to the vast ocean of knowledge.
For the father loves the mountains, big love speechless. Dad you in my memory is always strict.
I and you seem to be very few joked about. Occasionally you talking and laughing, but with total to feel very at odds after. You are always a mountain that composed speechless. But anyway, I know you did all that is good for me.
When I came to this strange world by accident, the heart also carries a afraid, with wen run is you with love I meet, your love is I came to this world have received the first gift. How many covered the morning mist, you surprise and incredibly staring at me that WenXiang such as roses of little face, in my mind I meditate on to the my blessings. Early morning sunshine through the window, hazy gently in your face evenly spread on a layer of holy golden.
Love is like the silent running water, exquisite moistens at every point. Blustery, sun rises fall, winter passed on, flowers blossom, thanks in your words, I know the world, start gradually thinking. You not only living I to raise me, but also teach me the person, the given me knowledge and tao is "who grass-inch heart, reported in the apartments". Daughter with a mind always touched, but only in small to care and considerate, academic work harder in return. Just as weak grass can only add three points for spring green, and repay the natural nourishing; Autumn leaves only to be born for mud, to repay the tree of raising.
I usually very like reading, you never against, but to buy me a lot of books. By now I can put full of books have a bookcase. You again afraid I read many of the eye sight, and broke in bed to buy a lamp that beautiful the lamp that shield an eye.
Mom, remember the paint of time? Can't stand practice to paint of bitter, you also can really hit me, forced me to go on. Have a period of time, the time to practice painting overload I almost collapse, drab repeatedly that I find very boring. Many times, I almost want to go to all the paper I ripped, but then I was able to hold back. Want to come now, drawing not only gave me to understanding of the love, and paint with the fingers of flexible and the development of the brain, the more developed my perseverance will and persistence. Mother, daughter really grateful to you!
Dad, perhaps you rarely like mother like that teach me what, but you can really affect me a lot. You never is so honest, kind, brave, strong, dedication, and can endure hardships and profound knowledge, you use your good quality affects me, always doing my model. Each time talking with you always make me benefit, always make me understand some of the life philosophy, always important to make my in confused when suddenly enlightened. Dad, daughter really grateful to you!
Mom and dad, you are in their industry elite, and daughter from urinate will you as a proud. You are all so devotion and perseverance, in their children's education is also a method. Mother, it is you that give me the most important a habit: a love of reading. Reading is to my self education is the best way I know to widely browse, many all aspects of the knowledge, people doing things will also be more mature. Mom and dad, daughter really appreciate you!!!!!
Love is the most beautiful in the world language, let us each other love each other forever to pass by stormy night, watch for the arrival of the most beautiful day.
Your daughter
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