怀着无比复杂的心情读完了这本书,相信大多数读者和我的心情一样,都经历了羡慕阿里萨和费尔明娜忠贞不渝的爱情,惋惜有情人不能终成眷属而败给现实的无奈,痛恨阿里萨为了填补心中的空白而寻花问柳甚至毁掉了16岁女生的前途,深思最终他们虽然在了一起却已经不是我们心中所愿。
也相信大多数读者跟我一样是冲着马尔克斯这个伟大的作家来读的这本书,我也曾被它的封皮和名字深深吸引,认为这一定会是一个伟大而凄惨的爱情故事,甚至我还打算将这本书连同百年孤独送给一个人,很庆幸我没有,如果我是在读了这本书之后再选择,我一定不会这么做,这本书打破了我对爱情最完美的遐想,有时不得不承认这本书中的情节其实是非常现实的,但也非常让我之愤慨,它揭露了爱的一个本质,那就是得不到的才是最美好的,失去了也才会感到没有好好珍惜,与其说书中的阿里萨为爱终身未婚,不如说他是为自己而活,现实中的人们又何尝不是如此?
爱总是伴随着盲目和欺骗,所以,与其费心费力爱别人,不如先关心关爱自己,最终在不在一起已经不重要了,重要的是是否遵从了自己的本心,为自己而活,这样的爱才会有意义。因为自己内心的声音会告诉你,谁才是你内心想真正守护和依托的人。
关于《霍乱时期的爱情》豆瓣书评有个点赞极高的短评:不夸张地讲,这本书包含了所有有关爱情的全部答案,全部。阅读这本书的好处是,让人重新开始相信爱情;坏处是,让人意识到,即便相信也无济于事。受这段话的影响,在读这本书之前我一直保持着一种敬畏感,这种感觉又让我对它敬而远之,不敢读。
这本书讲了一段跨越半个多世纪的浪漫的爱情故事,男主阿里萨饱受爱情的折磨,为等待他的“花冠女神”又减轻自己心灵伤痛,他在情感上忠贞,在肉体上放荡。就像薰衣草的话语一样,“等待爱情”成了他一生的宿命,霍乱、女人、事业、死亡,岁月无情的流逝让他对生命和爱情有了更深刻又热烈的理解。
这本书我读的很慢,有的内容反复看了两三遍。在这本书里,除了痛彻心扉、缠绵悱恻的各种爱,让我更深刻的是关于衰老的描写,虽尚不能感同身受,但也惆怅泪流。开篇的那个自***者雷米亚﹒德圣阿莫尔,就是因为恐惧衰老而在生命的中途自行了断。我曾一度感觉这本书的每一页都在宣扬衰老的可怕:记忆的流失,身体的酸味,褶皱的皮肤……衰老和死去是每个人生命中无法抗拒且必须承受的事实,在永恒的爱情面前也一样,谁也无力与岁月抗衡。合上书入睡前,我试着去想象四十年后的自己,除了衰老的体貌外其他都想不到也想不清楚,但很害怕。后来读到最后,当老态龙钟的费尔明娜和阿里萨躺在一起,在黑暗中摸索对方的双手并坚定地握在一起的时候,才发现他们终于释放了这一生恒久的寂寞的灵魂,我对衰老的态度突然勇敢了起来。想到阿里萨的妈妈对他说:趁年轻,好好利用这个机会,尽力去尝遍所有痛苦,这种事可不是一辈子什么时候都会遇到的。痛苦也是一种生命的馈赠,没有白吃的苦,只不过是另一种付出。
情不知所起,一往而深。
阿里萨的爱情就像霍乱一般令他困苦迷惑,历经生死离别。费尔明娜的爱让人疑惑甚至反复思索,不知是怎样的思维历程让她采取截然不同的态度,而且坚定决绝。说不清为什么,总觉得这本所谓的“爱情的百科全书”不像是在写爱情,也可能是轰轰烈烈的爱情从不按常理出牌?
仍有与一大堆关于爱情的疑惑诶,那一定是因为我还小。
总之,不负时光,为爱生长。
"Freedom and progress are the goals of art, just as they are the goal of our whole life," said the great musician Beethoven.
This winter holiday, I read a great book - celebrity biography. The book touched my heart deeply. The author of celebrity biography is French romain rolland. The book is composed of three biographies of Beethoven, Michelangelo and Tolstoy.
Each of these three biographies enlighten me. One of the things that struck me most was Beethoven. Beethoven devoted his life to music, but fate always played a trick on him. He was sickly and sickly in his childhood. At the age of 3, hearing gradually declines, as a musician, this is a fatal blow, and his character, determined, does not bow to fate and continues to advance on the music road. Middle-aged, he hearing has completely recession, can only use to communicate with people, but this does not make him stop writing, but not to abandon all, into the arms of nature, continue to compose the immortal music chapter.
"Man, you must strive for yourself!" This is one of the words Beethoven tells people. Yes, people can't cling to vegetation, create life with tough, bold heart and create art! Read more book notes in YJBYS!
This "celebrity biography" is about the tribulations and difficulties of the three famous men on the road to fame, from the power of persistence to the disintegration of power even to despair. They abandoned a lot of love and friendship on the way to fame. Finally, they set foot on the road to success.
The first is a belief that, suffering from pain, still does not put down music -- Beethoven. Although he was deaf, he said proudly, "listen to my heart music, you don't understand how I feel! A band can only play music that I expect to write in a minute!" Yeah! His music set of classicism is the beginning of romanticism, and its creation reflects the progressive thoughts of the rising period of the bourgeoisie.
Then a tragic, still sculptural belief - Michelangelo. His pain came from human malice. He was born to fight, to conquer! It is precisely because of this that his artistic creation has been deeply influenced, often with the realism of the civil class at the time of the patriotism and freedom of the struggle of the spirit of the painting. This kind of cup is presented in grand and magnificent form, and his hero is both an ideal symbol and a reflection of reality.
The last is a mirror that Lenin once called "the Russian revolution." Looking around Tolstoy's life, he was not only a literary giant, but also the narrative of life, religion, and society that made him a world-leading thinker. Tolstoy never laid down his obsession with the meaning of life.
The biography of the famous is composed of the famous French writer romain rolland, the biography of Michelangelo and the biography of Tolstoy, all of which were created in the early twentieth century. These three are famous people all over the world, but they do not give in to their fate and fight against their fate.
The first was Beethoven, a German musician who was born poor and dropped out of school. His life was rough and he was brave to fight his fate. His only family had failed him, and he was badly hit, but he survived. The great musician wrote an immortal masterpiece after hearing the deaf. He conquered the disease and overcame the difficulty. Beethoven was successful because of his spirit, unwilling to yield to his fate, and his spiritual values.
The second was Michelangelo, an Italian composer. He was born to a richer family in Florence. He has a high culture and artistic foundation. He spent his life working for the church. And his family kept asking him for money, and Michelangelo never refused their demands. The Pope had erected a monument to himself, which made Michelangelo less than his ideal. He encountered many difficulties in his life. He insisted that he lived to be in his seventies for his own ideal. Only a man with dogged perseverance like Michelangelo will succeed.
The third is Leo Tolstoy, a Russian writer. Tolstoy was born with a silver spoon in his mouth. He has a happy family. He has a high literary talent. He had been successful before, but he didn't care about what he had. He would not enjoy life, he would not spend his life, he would like to reflect the value of his life through human beings. Tolstoy was one of those people who let us see the different sides of the writer, the kind of inner shock that made me feel a lot.
This book tells us to fight our fate bravely, as long as you don't give in to your destiny, one day you will change your fate. There is an old saying that "destiny is in your hands".
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