我常和学生说,有事说话,有一说一有二说二,说谎一次要用十次谎话弥补,投入太大不值。和我说谎就是视老师为弱智,弱智者从不按常理出牌,学生听后哈哈大笑。
一次午睡到班级看学生,发现两个学生在厕所中小声闲聊。我没有理他们而是直接去了教室,除这两个人其他人的都进了教室准备午睡,班长见我来了还有两人没有回来就想去找他们,我当时制止了班长的行为,让其回到座位上。两个晚来的同学发现我在教室中就分开进来了,先进来的是一个班干部李同学,我问他怎么回来晚了,他说外出吃饭人太多结果晚了。我说www.i1766.com以后要注意这样的事,在学校食堂吃比较好,他边说边回到自己的位置上。不一会另一个同学进屋了,我又问为何晚来了,他说和刚才进教室的\'同学去厕所蹲坑了结果晚了,同学们哄堂大笑,我发现先进来的同学脸腾的红了,我什么也没有说就走了。下午自习那个说谎的同学找我承认错误,我告诉他没有必要这样说谎,其实我看到你们在厕所中了。我说如果在未来的工作中,你要是这样对待你的上司,可能他不会当面批评你,但是可能就在他心里埋下了你不诚实的种子。
我对班干部很重视,不论从选拔到培养都很重视。刚做班主任的时候选班干部就是为了帮我管理好班级,后来思想逐渐发生了变化,主要还是从培养学生有管理能力入手。有一年高一接班,新选了个卫生委员,此学生姓刘。这个孩子忠厚正直肯干,工作细致但没有方法。每天早晨亲自把班级分担区都仔细的检查一遍,等学校检查完了他再回教室自习。每到学校大清扫的时他都身先士卒带领大家完成任务。我跟他说做干部先是管理者,应该带头做但不是事必躬亲,你的工作是布置任务引导同学按时完成自己的任务,执行学校的命令反馈下面的问题。你事必躬亲就会陷在事物之中,不能脱离此事而总览全局,这样就会只见树木不见森林。
刚当班主任不久的时候,一个学生因学习困难所以总是在班级生事,我就让他担任班级干部,本想通过这个促进他的学习同时也让他能够管理其他的同学和约束他自己,但是后来发现这个方法不行,学习成绩不好的学生在同学中没有威信,后来选班干部再也不这样了。
有位贫寒学子,考上了北京的一所大学。他爱好文学,喜欢写作,在校期间经常发表文章。大四下学期时,学校要举办校庆活动,准备出一部书,专门介绍本校近百名有影响的专家教授。在系领导的推荐下,他欣然接受了任务。尽管毕业在即事务繁多,他还是尽力去做这件事。他的同学笑他傻,大家忙着写留言、找工作,而他马不停蹄地走访这些教授,采访他们的.同事、学生,积累了丰富的第一手资料,出色地完成了任务。毕业前夕,学校分到一个进国家部委的毕业分配名额,这近百名教授联名向学校推荐了他。
有家招聘人才的公司,对一群应聘者进行复试。尽管应聘者都很自信地回答了考官们的提问,但结果都没有被录用,只得怏怏而去。一位即将离开的应聘者,看到很干净的地毯上,有一个纸团,与周围的环境很不协调,就顺手捡了起来,准备把它扔到纸篓里。这时考官发话了:“您好朋友,请看看您捡起的纸团吧!”这位应聘者迟疑地打开纸团,只见上面写着:热烈欢迎您到我们公司任职。几年以后,这位捡纸团的应聘者成了这家公司的总裁。
这些故事告诉我们,小事其实不小。用心做好每一件微不足道的小事,也许成就你非凡的人生。生活并不总是轰轰烈烈,它本质上是平平淡淡的。那些平凡小事,才让生活更加丰富多彩。如果我们认为事不关己,高高挂起,或者认为小事无足轻重,敷衍了事,那么我们将与美好失之交臂。
很多人一生平庸,认为上天没给自己干大事的机会。其实,这世上没有多少惊天动地的大事,所谓的大事,也是由一系列的平凡小事构成的。世界上没有任何一个人天生就是干大事的,很多伟人名垂青史做了一番惊天地、泣鬼神的大事,但在此之前,他们也认真做了无数的小事,有了这些平常生活的磨练和基础,才渐渐具备干大事的素质。孔子曰:吾少也贱,故多能鄙事。他在强调自己的能力,源于小时候的底层历练,并非天生所致。你爱生活,生活才会垂青于你,也许,一件不经意的小事,就改变了命运。小事做到极致,量变就会引起质变,就会做出一番大事。正如古人云:一屋不扫,何以扫天下!
人,每天所做的事,都是为以后发生的事做铺垫。如果我们多一些爱心,多一些热情,多一些责任,用心做好举手之劳的小事,就能让别人记住你,给你带来一个精彩绝伦的全新世界。
Dear parents,
“You always say that I am naive. In your eyes, I am always the little girl who will never grow up”. This is my favorite song and also the sound from the bottom of my heart. You made me feel so lucky to be your child. But I find our hearts getting further apart as time goes by.
You strictly forbid me to do entertaining activities even if I finished my homework, such as watching TV or playing computer games. Based on this, I couldn’t get any grade less than A. It is said that genius only means hard-working all one’s life. But I think combining exertion is the best way for learning.
The most important thing to me was that I feel frustrated for having few friends to confide in due to your strict rules. I can’t have a play date, participate in a school play or even choose my own extracurricular activities. Who will accept such a boring and troublesome person? I am just an ordinary girl who can’t stand loneliness, so I always feel contradictory.
On the one hand, I’m grateful to have you in my life, to disappoint you was the least I would do. On the other hand, what you asked for me made me felt like a puppet rather than a real person. I appreciated your efforts to pull me away from a self-indulgent life, but your obsessively extravagant strictness has pushed me into an isolated and insensible one. I need a little freedom so that I will concentrate on something I really interested in.
Father and mother, these words were hid in my deep heart for a long time. I love you, and I believe if you change some harsh rules. I will have a wonderful life.
Best wishes.
Yours, daughter
Dear mom and dad:
You are good!
This is the first time I write to you, I want to write down the words of my heart.
You I had many of the night was up all night, you how many tears flow to me. I paid you for how much, I return you from, I also know, you must not think I return you anything, but I'll never forget you in mind, the old I will return to the best of your ability, when I grew up in the sun, but you will gradually ageing, worry about and sad that wrinkles climbed up you originally carefree face.
Mom and dad, in your care, I have spent a full of joy for ten years. You have been the best things to me. I have a beautiful bedroom, delicate study materials, the conditions of the outstanding school... I like the little princess "in fairy tale, as well as the growth of carefree. Mom and dad, I want to say to you, you is very kind to me.
For ten years, and you carefully nurtured me, so that I grow up happily day by day. And your own but don't know how much I flow for the sweat and the tears. Mom and dad, I'll never let you down, is you to me put a pair of wings, I'll use that for the most powerful wings and fly, to the vast ocean of knowledge.
For the father loves the mountains, big love speechless. Dad you in my memory is always strict.
I and you seem to be very few joked about. Occasionally you talking and laughing, but with total to feel very at odds after. You are always a mountain that composed speechless. But anyway, I know you did all that is good for me.
When I came to this strange world by accident, the heart also carries a afraid, with wen run is you with love I meet, your love is I came to this world have received the first gift. How many covered the morning mist, you surprise and incredibly staring at me that WenXiang such as roses of little face, in my mind I meditate on to the my blessings. Early morning sunshine through the window, hazy gently in your face evenly spread on a layer of holy golden.
Love is like the silent running water, exquisite moistens at every point. Blustery, sun rises fall, winter passed on, flowers blossom, thanks in your words, I know the world, start gradually thinking. You not only living I to raise me, but also teach me the person, the given me knowledge and tao is "who grass-inch heart, reported in the apartments". Daughter with a mind always touched, but only in small to care and considerate, academic work harder in return. Just as weak grass can only add three points for spring green, and repay the natural nourishing; Autumn leaves only to be born for mud, to repay the tree of raising.
I usually very like reading, you never against, but to buy me a lot of books. By now I can put full of books have a bookcase. You again afraid I read many of the eye sight, and broke in bed to buy a lamp that beautiful the lamp that shield an eye.
Mom, remember the paint of time? Can't stand practice to paint of bitter, you also can really hit me, forced me to go on. Have a period of time, the time to practice painting overload I almost collapse, drab repeatedly that I find very boring. Many times, I almost want to go to all the paper I ripped, but then I was able to hold back. Want to come now, drawing not only gave me to understanding of the love, and paint with the fingers of flexible and the development of the brain, the more developed my perseverance will and persistence. Mother, daughter really grateful to you!
Dad, perhaps you rarely like mother like that teach me what, but you can really affect me a lot. You never is so honest, kind, brave, strong, dedication, and can endure hardships and profound knowledge, you use your good quality affects me, always doing my model. Each time talking with you always make me benefit, always make me understand some of the life philosophy, always important to make my in confused when suddenly enlightened. Dad, daughter really grateful to you!
Mom and dad, you are in their industry elite, and daughter from urinate will you as a proud. You are all so devotion and perseverance, in their children's education is also a method. Mother, it is you that give me the most important a habit: a love of reading. Reading is to my self education is the best way I know to widely browse, many all aspects of the knowledge, people doing things will also be more mature. Mom and dad, daughter really appreciate you!!!!!
Love is the most beautiful in the world language, let us each other love each other forever to pass by stormy night, watch for the arrival of the most beautiful day.
Your daughter
每到年底学校搞联欢会时或者合唱比赛时,我就对班级同学讲,我说“我是什么也不懂,唱歌不但跑调,更主要是能吓死人,这次活动全盘由文艺文员李同学负责,目标就是争取拿到前三名,能达到目标就是你们自己组织的好,达不到目标就是你们没有遇到好的老师,这是命运的安排别怪自己啊”。其结果是班干部忙前忙后的,每次成绩都不错。
Dear parents,
How is everything these days? I miss you very much.
I am very happy at my new shool. My teachers and shoolmates are very friendly to me .They ofen help me with my study.Now I am not worried about my English because I make a lot of progress in it anb I become more and more intrested in it. My shool life here is also wonderful. I take part in many part-time activities . I make many friends there and learn lots of learning methods.
Now final exam is coming. I am busy preparing it . I will try my best to do well in it.
I am glad that the summer holiday is coming. I want to take part in a GREEN CITY GROUP.I think I should make a contribution to protecting our environment.
It's hot these days but I can take good care of myself.You should pay more attention to your health.
Best wishes to you.
Love you,
XXX
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