Time flies like an arrow before we realize it .It is known that nothing is more precious than time. The good old proverb "time is money" reminds us that time is valuable. When time goes by, it will never return. However, it is a pity that some people don't make full use of their time .They spend a lot of time in sleeping, chatting playing computer games or other unmeaning matters. . They don't realize that wasting time is actually equal to killing themselves. They always regret not having made great achievements. One of the reasons may be they do not make good use of time. Therefore, in order to be successful, they should first get into the habit of being on time. It’s a sign of cherishing time. Don't put off what can be done today until tomorrow. Being lazy will eventually lead to failure. Don't wait, because you don't know how long it will take when you put off your plan.
The more we are aware of the significance of this famous saying, the more benefits we will get in study or job.
When I read \"when happiness knocks on the door\", this film makes me feel how hard it is to have no money in the world. When Crete Gadens wife left, homeless, took his son to sleep in the toilet, he cried, he felt he was incompetent, helpless, even down to the toilet. He said to his son: \"you are the best, to adhere to your dream, no matter who can not control your dream, that is, your father can not write.\" In him, I saw that he was in a very clean suit even though he was down and out. Because he knows, only professional, in order to attract more customers. He tried to make a phone call, not a phone. In order to make a phone call, not even drink water, so you dont have to go to the toilet. And at any time in the role of the younger brother, for the manager of tea, buy food for the manager. But even so, he is still very optimistic, because although his wife left him, but also his son, the son is the backbone, the son can live a good life, have a good education, being wronged, tired by the point and is what?
Finally pays off, he finally found a big customer, in order to get close to him, Crete Gaden accompanied the customers to watch the game, the game introduced a lot of customers in the customer for him, said: \"the big customers in a short time, I wont let you control my money. But I appreciate you, so I am willing to make friends with you, after 100 days of hard work, Crete Gaden finally passed the examination, he won the first performance, he became the only one who was admitted to government securities company. When Crete Gaden entered the directors office, a securities company executives told him that you have become a formal securities agent, his heart very excited, tears in his eyes, in addition to the 3 top repeat saying thank you, he can not say a word. He thought that he and his son would never have to sleep in the toilet again, and no longer go to church workhouse, and he couldnt help but shed tears. It was tears of happiness. He thought of the future to give his son the best life, the best education, and he tears, gave a happy smile, he ran to his sons school, a Chinese opened for poor children studying in the school, hugged her son, thought: \"son, Dad after you can get good life, have a good education!\" By 2005, Crete Gaden had become a million dollar banker.
This is the \"pursuit of happiness\", their happiness will never knock on our door, we want to fight for their own, as long as the hard work, unremittingly, happiness will come knocking never yield in spite of reverses, our door.
对此,执掌此项研究的美国旧金山州立大学心理学助理教授赖安·豪厄尔表示:“为什么花钱和花钱做什么一样重要,如果仅仅为了令他人印象深刻而消费某种生活体验,其中的乐趣就会一扫而光。这种外在的动机削弱了体验本身满足人们心理需求的能力。”豪厄尔此前的研究已经发现,如果消费者花钱购买的是某种生活体验,往往能够获得比购买物质产品更大的心理幸福感,因为这种购买可以帮助人们满足某些对个人成长至关重要的心理需求,如对自我胜任感、生活控制感和社会化联结的`需求。
在这项新的研究中,豪厄尔及其同事设计并启用了一套新的问卷,以测量被测者消费生活体验的动机,并将该问卷链接到一个名为“超越消费”的网站上。研究者通过该网站采集研究所需的数据,并向公众提供免费的心理测试,以判断被测者属于哪一类消费者,以及他们如何受到自己购买选择的影响。
通过对241位被测者的数据进行分析,研究者发现人们的消费动机决定其关乎个人成长的心理需求能否得到满足。那些出于自己内心的向往、兴趣或价值观取向而消费特定生活体验的人,表现出更强的满足感、幸福感和与他人之间的联结感,并感到精力得到了振奋;为了获得他人的认同而选择消费某种体验的人,则报告称感到身不由己和人际疏离。
豪厄尔举例说:“如果我是一个棒球迷,你让我把钱花在某种人生体验上,而我去买了棒球比赛的门票,这就是我忠于自己的选择,它会为我带来幸福感;反之,如果我对博物馆并不太感兴趣,而我花钱前去参观,仅仅因为它看上去是正确的选择,那么我并不会因此真的感到高兴,因为这是与我兴趣不符的选择。”
“你要问自己最重要的问题是,我为什么要花这笔钱,”豪厄尔提醒人们,“因为动机既可以增强也可以削弱购买行为带来的愉悦效果。”
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