When I read "when happiness knocks on the door", this film makes me feel how hard it is to have no money in the world. When Crete Gadens wife left, homeless, took his son to sleep in the toilet, he cried, he felt he was incompetent, helpless, even down to the toilet. He said to his son: "you are the best, to adhere to your dream, no matter who can not control your dream, that is, your father can not write." In him, I saw that he was in a very clean suit even though he was down and out. Because he knows, only professional, in order to attract more customers. He tried to make a phone call, not a phone. In order to make a phone call, not even drink water, so you dont have to go to the toilet. And at any time in the role of the younger brother, for the manager of tea, buy food for the manager. But even so, he is still very optimistic, because although his wife left him, but also his son, the son is the backbone, the son can live a good life, have a good education, being wronged, tired by the point and is what?
Finally pays off, he finally found a big customer, in order to get close to him, Crete Gaden accompanied the customers to watch the game, the game introduced a lot of customers in the customer for him, said: "the big customers in a short time, I wont let you control my money. But I appreciate you, so I am willing to make friends with you, after 100 days of hard work, Crete Gaden finally passed the examination, he won the first performance, he became the only one who was admitted to government securities company. When Crete Gaden entered the directors office, a securities company executives told him that you have become a formal securities agent, his heart very excited, tears in his eyes, in addition to the 3 top repeat saying thank you, he can not say a word. He thought that he and his son would never have to sleep in the toilet again, and no longer go to church workhouse, and he couldnt help but shed tears. It was tears of happiness. He thought of the future to give his son the best life, the best education, and he tears, gave a happy smile, he ran to his sons school, a Chinese opened for poor children studying in the school, hugged her son, thought: "son, Dad after you can get good life, have a good education!" By 2005, Crete Gaden had become a million dollar banker.
This is the "pursuit of happiness", their happiness will never knock on our door, we want to fight for their own, as long as the hard work, unremittingly, happiness will come knocking never yield in spite of reverses, our door.
Last night, I read an American inspirational article "when happiness knocks on the door", I feel a lot. Each of us has experienced some hardships before we know what happiness is. Chris experienced the most difficult stage in his life. From the step by step to the final success of the ordeal. The film also became popular applause of the American inspirational article. Perhaps inspirational articles have a common plot, all is the master, through the rough life course, finally to success. But if thats not the case, can it be inspirational?
When happiness knocks on the door, Chris. Gardiner represented a medical device, his main job is to do the work of medical device salesman, every day is carrying a scanner shuttle in the street, around to sell. Sales promotion is not so smooth. He goes out every day, but he comes home with money every day. He has a wife and a son. His wife works for 16 hours a day in a factory. He lives in poverty, and is often subject to various economic pressures, such as rent, car fines, taxes, etc..
Chris had a chance to see a group of stockbrokers working very happily, and he was determined to become a stockbroker. But he has only a high school diploma and has no experience, even if he makes an application. So he took the initiative to go to the examiner, hoping to achieve his wish. And it was his effort to make it happen. He got the chance to interview. He didnt get any income after the interview. The wife watched him unable to get out of the trouble and left him. It was another test for him. He decided to live alone with his son. At this point, he had no income during the 6 months practice of the stockbroker company. He could only take his son to the shelter when he was in a desperate situation. Despite this frustration, one after another, the difficulties ensued, and he never gave up. His belief in success and happiness remained unchanged. With this dedication, he worked hard, every effort to seize every opportunity, sincere treatment of his customers, and finally he ushered in the dawn of happiness.
The most impressive part of the movie is running. There are a lot of running scenes. Chris was running when he saw the stolen instrument; he was running to pay for the taxi fare; he was running for the interview; he was queuing in order to go to the hospice. Running in our lives is also possible, in order to squeeze into the bus, in order to quickly arrive at a certain place. And when Chris was running for his life, we thought of more bitterness and his effort to live. The film is the use of such a run of the subjective action, showing peoples most tenacious ability to survive and never yield spirit. We will also encounter difficulties, setbacks, whether we can correctly treat, and whether we are in the face of all this, can calmly think of ways, can take the initiative to beat the difficulties? If we can, we are the strong person in life.
The film left me with one of the deepest impression is Chriss tears. When he and his son were evicted from rental housing, he led his son to find a place to live. His friend refused him. So they came to the subway station. He came up with a story to coax his son to accept the difficulties he faced. So they went into a public lavatory and spent a night in the sound of a barrage of crashing sounds. Chris cried. He didnt cry for such difficulties. But let his son suffer with him, make him feel sorry for his son. This point of view is that he is a kind and respectable father. Treat his son, his affection is so strong and deep. Another scenario is that he was hired as the official broker, he cried, wanted to share this happy moment of the man is his son with him, can feel how much he loved his son.
We see these scenes can not help tears trickling down cheeks. A touching scene, from a subtle point can feel the power, we lack is such a force. We want to succeed, we want to become brave, and we face difficulties and setbacks, we also indomitable will and faith to support it? So, when it comes, we dont panic anymore. Because we think the world is nothing to fear. The terrible thing is that you believe in what you can do if you believe in what you want and what you will do.
人是为了活着本身而活着,而不是为了活着以外的任何事物而活着。
形形色色的人们在这个叫做活着的故事里一一死去,这宽广又沉重的话题压抑得欲哭无泪。是的,它太沉重,害怕它刺痛我的心。是的,它太宽广,凝聚了太多责任和使命。
还太年轻,尚未丰满的羽翼还未曾感受过天空的宽广。年轻的心还未曾思考过生存的意义却被绝情地卷入这个叫做活着的故事里。紧接着,当那个贯穿全文的线索让我扪心自问时,我无从以答。然后,那颗年轻的心渐渐平复躁动,开始思考,人为什么要活着?
余华用一种近乎冰冷的语调带我们走进这个叫做活着的故事,然后绝情地否定了那些年少的轻狂岁月。
余华对每个走进这个叫做活着的故事里的人说,活着的力量不是来自于叫喊,也不是来自于进攻,而是忍受,去忍受生命赋予人们的责任,去忍受现实给我们的幸福和苦难,无聊和平庸。是否现实生活的残忍远比我们想象的宽广,总是承受再多苦痛,依然要坚忍,这是否便是这个叫做活着的故事想要告诉我们的?所以在黑暗的故事里,那些悲伤的情节之间,那个人儿仍然在死亡的伴随下活着。
最后终于捋清,萦绕在心头久久无法散去的那种思绪,走出这个叫做或者的故事而堆积在心里的那抹思绪,是震撼,是感动,是对生存意义的顿悟,正如当你两鬓雪白时,再忆起那些年少轻狂、玩世不恭,才会明白他们终将臣服在宿命脚下。
还太年轻,尚未丰满的羽翼正感受着天空的宽广,年轻的心正思考着生存的意义咀嚼着那个叫做活着的故事。紧接着,当那个贯穿全文的线索再次让我扪心自问时,我淡笑不语。然后,那颗年轻的心终于不再躁动,开始明白,开始面对那个叫做活着的故事外的叫做活着的,现实。
“天生我材必有用”。——唐李白《将进酒》。
这是一句多么增强信心的诗句啊!既然世间孕育了我,那我必将成为一位对国家有用的人才。可是有些时候我们为自己制定了非常远大、宏伟的理想,却又是一种呢?那是因为你的“材”不是在你的理想里。
我的妈妈是一个出生在农村里的女娃,没见过什么世面,却有一颗孝心,决心长大以后给养育了她的父母最好的。后来一次偶然听她的同学说当医生可以赚很多钱,她便立下雄心壮志要当医生,可她高中还没毕业就辍学了,被拉去当了一个蛋糕店的学徒,她不想辜负爸爸、妈妈的一片苦心,就认真学习这门手艺,摸索精髓。终于白手起家有了她刚刚开始的蛋糕店,才有了我们今天这个家,这些我们的'成就。
这不就更应正了“天生我材必有用”了吗?可能你不能在一些地方找到你的有用之处,但命运总会帮助你,并让你发现你自己的有用之处。
再比如说我吧,命运有时也给我信心,有一次,我在做练习册的时候,有一道奥数题把我难住了,我当时有一种想爱攻破它的感觉油然而生,我便开始用我学过的解题方法一步一步地解答,当我用了半个钟头,费了九牛二虎之力,终于把它攻破了。让我有一种成就感。我也有数学天赋啊!再难的题我也能够解开大案。
我的理想是当一位大酒店的大老板,我想我当老板也一定会遇到许多困难,有可能是从酒店最底层干起,但我不会退缩,如果我干上其它职业,那我也不会灰心丧气,因为那可能是我的生活位置,我不会嫌弃它,因为那是我在生活中的"材".
其实我们生活中有很多例子:像有些人崇拜的篮球,足球明星;全世界都知名的亿万富翁,百万富翁,所有人都喜爱的明星,绝大多数都是只读完小学和初中就去闯荡的吧。
每一个人在被命运打扰的时候,不用带惊慌了,它可能是来帮你的,因为“天生我材必有用”。
浩瀚无垠的宇宙中,无论是恒星、行星还是彗星都有其运转的轨道;包罗万象的大千世界中,无论是花鸟鱼虫还是山川湖海,都有其生存演化的规律。人法地,地法天,天法道,道法自然,世间万物皆有自己的生存法则,而这些生存法则中无不透着生存的智慧。
生存的智慧是身处逆境却拥有坚忍不拔的毅力。“千磨万击还坚劲,任尔东西南北风”,岩竹在石缝中求生存,根须紧紧抱住岩石,任凭风吹雨打,不移分毫。“不是一番寒彻骨,哪得梅花扑鼻香”,梅花在凛冽的寒风中独自盛开,傲雪枝头,任凭寒冬的侵袭,在银装素裹的世界里,散发着阵阵幽香。
生存的智慧是拥有博大的胸怀。“泰山不让土壤,故能成其大;河海不择细流,故能就其深”。山高海深皆是因为它们有那海纳百川、有容乃大的胸怀,方显出山之巍峨,海之辽阔,生命之可敬。蔺相如“以先国家之急而后私仇”,面对廉颇的恶语相向,一再忍让,才成就了“将相和”的千古美谈。
生存的智慧是面对屈辱时的隐忍。“苦心人,天不负,卧薪尝胆,三千越甲可吞吴”。越王勾践忍辱负重,被俘吴国,他丝毫没有放弃,没有心灰意冷,而是卧薪尝胆,静待时机,终成复国的梦想。孙膑苦心研究兵法,虽遭奸人嫉妒陷害,却隐忍苟活,终于运用自己的智慧在历史上留下田忌赛马、围魏救赵等名篇,成为中国历史上唯一一位躺在辎车上的军事家。韩信面对他人的恶意挑衅,堪忍胯下之辱,这不是胆怯,而是洞明世事的睿智。
生存的智慧是坚守自我的自信与豁达。李白追寻自我,对权贵不屑一顾,发出“安能摧眉折腰事权贵,使我不得开心颜”的感叹,因为他相信“天生我材必有用”,相信“长风破浪会有时”,寄情山水之间,终成一代诗仙。
人生路漫漫,只有找到最适合自己的生存之道,才能在瞬息万变的世界中守住最真实的自己。只有坚持自己的生存方式,才能活出别样的精彩,品出生存的智慧。
没错,她是电视上的莉薇―知名的电影少女明星,全世界的红人童星。
所以,才会在她让我当她的朋友时,那么的惊奇和受宠若惊,还有―不信任。
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