When you look back on yourself in the past – 10, 20, 30 or more years ago – it’s surprising to see how much you have changed over time. Your experiences, your friends, your family and your work have all shaped who you are right now. But where will you be in another few years? How will you have changed? Reflective writing in your journal is an excellent way to think about what you want out of the future.
当你10年、20年或更多年后回顾过去时,你会吃惊地发现,随着时光的流逝,你也发生了很大的变化。你的经历、朋友、家庭和工作造就了现在的你。但是再过几年你会在哪里呢?你会如何变化呢?这样反思性的写作,会是思考未来你想要什么的一种好的方式。
You may have already written a letter to your younger self before, conveying all the wisdom and perspective you wish you had had at the time. Now consider the opposite end of the spectrum; what would you say if you wrote your future self a letter?
你也许以前试过给过去的自己写信,向年轻时的自己传授一些人生的智慧和观点,你希望那时候的自己就能知道这些。现在我们换个角度看问题,如果让你给未来的自己写封信,你会写点什么?
Just imagine writing a letter to your future self 5 years from now, then opening it at that exact moment 5 years down the road to see how much of it resonated with you. It is a useful supplementary tool to be used in goal achievement, because when you write the letter to your future self, it helps crystallize exactly how you anticipate yourself to become at that specific moment down the road.
想象一下,给5年后的'自己写一封信,当5年后你打开那封信时,你会产生多少共鸣。这是实现目标的一种有用的辅助工具,因为当你给未来的自己写信时,你会慢慢理清希望自己在人生旅途的那个特定时刻变成什么样子。
As you read the letter in the future, you can assess how many things match up (or not vs. your expectations in the past and think about why that’s the case. Often times, the goals we set and our goal achievement process are subjected to a lot of changes along the way, due to varying obstacles, unanticipated circumstances and changing priorities. The letter gives you a macro-view of your initial vision and lets you recognize how your current vision differs from the past.
当你在未来读这封信时,你可以看看有多少事情是像你过去期望的那样,你也会思考为什么会这样。很多时候,我们设定目标在实现的过程中会受到沿途中各种因素的影响,因为会遇到各种各样的困难、各种意外情况并需要不断调整优先级。这封信能让你从宏观的角度上去看自己最初的愿景,让你意识到自己现在的想法和过去相比有多么不同。
When you open the letter in the future, you as your future self gets to compare how you used to be in the past and compare with how you are currently. This lets you see in totality how much things have changed since then – and this can be a really intriguingexperience. It’s interesting to just see how much you have grown/changed since you wrote the letter.
当你以后看信时,你会把过去的自己和现在的自己进行比较。这会让你看清从写信时起你发生了哪些变化,这种体验是非常有趣的。光看看从你写信开始发生了哪些变化就很有趣了。
What appearance is prospective car?You do not know!That le,it is like train of magnetism in suspension in sky travel.There is a guide in the car -- satellitic navigation system.The glass of the car can prevent ultraviolet ray,make the person\'s eye is not harmed.The car is to rely on to compress the reactive force that air releases to fill the car,rely on another compression again air is in a rear eduction,the car runs quickly to ahead like jet aircraft.Car rate of future is very rapid,one hour can run hundreds of kilometers,even thousands of kilometer.You let it open way of how many kilometer,want to say to the car only,the car can bade by yours go doing.Prospective car has a lot of advanced places:There is same thing in the car,can control the steering wheel of the car.
You should say where to go to only,it can take you automatically where to go to.It can operate steering wheel,need not you worry about.Reached that place,the car can stop automatically,next,can give out automatically \" toot toots \" sound,remind you to had arrived stood.Car shell of future is very beautiful.Whole car is yellow.But,you look carefully,there can be one to above discovery the horizontal line of multicoloured,match very equably.There is a thing in the car,can make the car has invisible effect.How!Prospective car is magical!Believe you like very much certainly!
不到我的那串假项链,竟然把你从一个美丽、十指不沾阳春水的人变成这样。我恨自己当初为什么不告诉你这项链是假的!我真的很对不起你啊!
让娜,算,这一切都已经过去,现在再谈起来已经没意义。假如当初不是因为你借我一条项链,我也不会去参加那次舞会,那风光一时的***全靠你的那条项链帮助我实现。我既然借你一条项链。自然有义务完璧归赵,而且当时你并不强迫我要哪条,是自愿地让我自己选的。就当我自己倒霉,选中那条让我一见钟情的假项链,是我自己眼光铸成的大错。
至于那条项链,是你付出十年的时间所买回来的,它使你人老珠黄。难道你不恨它吗?不想拿回自己的东西吗?
算,那条项链,我送给你,就已经属于你。这项链现在对于我来说,已经没有什么利用价值。它现在只能给予我悲伤,不能还我当年的风采啊!这条项链送给你,就当帮我忘记这痛苦吧。所以,你受之无愧,你就当这是你原来的那条链子吧!
可是,你想不想变回以前的'样子啊,就像现在的我,那么幸福啊?你只要把这么名贵的项链给卖,用这些钱来重新把自己装扮一下,一定会变回以前那样的。算,十年的磨练,使我不得不向命运低头。以前为炫耀自己,才会铸成今天的大错,我怕,不想再发生同样的事情。我现在的生活比以前更充实,我满足。我不想再多要物质上的美丽,只要有精神上的美丽,我就足够。
好吧!那算,既然你这样说我再劝也是没用的。总之,先谢你。以后,你有什么需要我帮助的地方,你尽管出声,我一定会帮助你的
好的,我们还是好朋友,那我就心满意足。
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“唉!我可怜的玛缔尔德!可是我的那一挂是假的,至多值五百法郎!……”
“玛缔尔德,玛缔尔德,你说话啊,你怎么了!……”
“哦,我的朋友,玛缔尔德,可怜的人啊!……”
此时的玛缔尔德仿佛别一块巨大的石头压倒了,压的她喘不过气,压的她变傻了……
又过了许久,玛缔尔德才说了一句话,慢慢地轻声说了句:“恩,过去了,都过去了……”她的眼睛茫然的望着远处,静静地走了,空旷的极乐公园里,玛缔尔德一个人默默的走着,朝着她家的方向,也许此时的她已不在乎了一切,真的,一切都过去了……
她回到家,她的丈夫关切的问到:“外面的人多吗?公园……”玛缔尔德似乎明白了什么:“恩,很好,再好不过了!”她没有把刚才的事情告诉她的丈夫,也许告诉了也没有任何意义,她做的也对。
就这样,一年又一年的过着平淡的生活,没有太多的负担,养育了一对儿女,也算是幸福的一家吧!
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