表哥去当兵了。当全家人正为考上初中的我而欢呼庆祝时,承诺过带我去旅游的表哥丢下伤心的姨妈和姨父应征了。
我很不解,同时也有点讨厌表哥。他不是承诺过我只要我考上初中,他就带我去旅游吗?他看看白发苍苍、泪流满面、满脸不舍的父母不会心痛吗?他可以放着一本的大学不上而当兵吗?可是在车站上,表哥还是一脸刚毅地走了。走之前,他满怀歉意的抚摸着我的头,说:“你不了解,可是表哥一定要去的。表哥答应你,回来一定带你旅游,好不好?”毕竟是小孩心性,我被哄了哄就没事了。
初中上了政治课,我才渐渐理解了表哥。那节课的课题叫做“公民的权利和义务”。当中有一条是这样说的:年满十八周岁的公民要根据国家的需要来服兵役。书上还插入了一个故事。这个故事的原型太像我表哥了。我越看越气愤,眼前像是出现了姨父和姨妈两张泪痕交错的脸。老师这时候问了一个问题:“你们是赞成这个人丢下父母去服兵役呢还是在家里孝敬父母?”我回答道:“老师,我觉得他应该在家孝敬父母。”老师看了我一眼,说道:“你的眼光太狭隘,为祖国服兵役是一件光荣的事。舍小家保大家是一种难得可贵的精神,唇亡齿寒的道理你不懂吗?”我一时怔住了,无言以对。
我升初中的那一年是奥运年。当我窝在床上看到电视里的五星红旗慢慢升起时,我作为中国人的自豪感油然而生。看到那些精神饱满的中国军人时,我觉得表哥当初的选择真的很对。如果不是军队,奥运会怎么会举办顺利呢?那些国家元首怎么会如此相待呢?我暗暗下定决心,下次等表哥回来,我一定不会再苦着脸看他,请求他留下来了。
我在到姨父姨妈家玩时,发现表哥有一篇日志在他书桌抽屉的夹层里,上面写者:“从小我的理想是当兵,因为上了历史课,看到中国在列强的铁蹄下受尽侮辱,看着祖国签订一个又一个不平等条约,看着日本侵略者那丑恶的嘴脸,我在心里暗暗发誓,长大后一定要保家卫国。可是爸妈老了,让我犹豫,我很想在父母身边敬孝道,使他们安享晚年。理想与亲情让我徘徊……我最终还是选择了理想。”
我看完后百感交集,提笔写了一封信给表哥。告诉他我的整个心理变化过程以及对以前不懂事的羞愧。
我学会了理解,学会了换位思考,有时候,理解会获得最多的和谐。
法国作家莫洛亚说,“人人能因被人认识而得益”,网络传播使这种效应呈几何级数扩大。在利益驱动中,不可避免地会产生网红自我炒作和投机的行为,由此催生网红商业模式的泡沫。
中国人民大学经济学院教授李义平认为,网红现象会助长一部分人通过各种途径试图一夜暴富的浮躁风气,当这个社会中人都不那么平静、都想一夜暴富的时候,这个社会就是不正常的,再者,迅速成名的网红又多是昙花一现。因为真正的“红”在现代社会需要持续的能力的支持,网红不会提供这一方面的知识和能力。如果说网红可以创造价值和GDP的话,它只会推高GDP的泡沫。相比之下,农业方面的GDP涉及到“谁来养活中国”,制造业方面的GDP涉及到“中国的强大预付”,网红不创造任何物质财富,只不过是物质财富的一种再分配。
对照古典经济学的说法,劳动是创造财富的一个重要途径,“网红商业模式对GDP是否有贡献?”值得我们去思考,但毋庸置疑的是,内地的经济增长需要高质量的经济效益。而网红在用人气换取物质财富的同时,作为传播主体也在传递着不同形式的文化。作为欧洲万像电影节主席,贾振丹希望网红中能够出现更多对社会有正面影响力的人,来引导产业、习俗或是社会道德。
在虚拟的网络世界中,人们展示着对艺术、游戏、运动、美食等领域的演绎,但网络直播门槛的降低,使得网络直播内容良莠不齐。中国播音主持业界学术元老、中国传媒大学播音主持艺术学院退休教授吴郁认为,过去的直播是针对正在发生的新闻事件,现在的直播门槛降低了,年轻人在网络直播平台上记录生活或自我表现时希望得到首肯,是对“成功”较片面的理解,同时使得这一虚拟世界出现踩底线和打擦边球的情况,应该多向积极阳光的方向去引导。
Last night, I read an American inspirational article "when happiness knocks on the door", I feel a lot. Each of us has experienced some hardships before we know what happiness is. Chris experienced the most difficult stage in his life. From the step by step to the final success of the ordeal. The film also became popular applause of the American inspirational article. Perhaps inspirational articles have a common plot, all is the master, through the rough life course, finally to success. But if thats not the case, can it be inspirational?
When happiness knocks on the door, Chris. Gardiner represented a medical device, his main job is to do the work of medical device salesman, every day is carrying a scanner shuttle in the street, around to sell. Sales promotion is not so smooth. He goes out every day, but he comes home with money every day. He has a wife and a son. His wife works for 16 hours a day in a factory. He lives in poverty, and is often subject to various economic pressures, such as rent, car fines, taxes, etc..
Chris had a chance to see a group of stockbrokers working very happily, and he was determined to become a stockbroker. But he has only a high school diploma and has no experience, even if he makes an application. So he took the initiative to go to the examiner, hoping to achieve his wish. And it was his effort to make it happen. He got the chance to interview. He didnt get any income after the interview. The wife watched him unable to get out of the trouble and left him. It was another test for him. He decided to live alone with his son. At this point, he had no income during the 6 months practice of the stockbroker company. He could only take his son to the shelter when he was in a desperate situation. Despite this frustration, one after another, the difficulties ensued, and he never gave up. His belief in success and happiness remained unchanged. With this dedication, he worked hard, every effort to seize every opportunity, sincere treatment of his customers, and finally he ushered in the dawn of happiness.
The most impressive part of the movie is running. There are a lot of running scenes. Chris was running when he saw the stolen instrument; he was running to pay for the taxi fare; he was running for the interview; he was queuing in order to go to the hospice. Running in our lives is also possible, in order to squeeze into the bus, in order to quickly arrive at a certain place. And when Chris was running for his life, we thought of more bitterness and his effort to live. The film is the use of such a run of the subjective action, showing peoples most tenacious ability to survive and never yield spirit. We will also encounter difficulties, setbacks, whether we can correctly treat, and whether we are in the face of all this, can calmly think of ways, can take the initiative to beat the difficulties? If we can, we are the strong person in life.
The film left me with one of the deepest impression is Chriss tears. When he and his son were evicted from rental housing, he led his son to find a place to live. His friend refused him. So they came to the subway station. He came up with a story to coax his son to accept the difficulties he faced. So they went into a public lavatory and spent a night in the sound of a barrage of crashing sounds. Chris cried. He didnt cry for such difficulties. But let his son suffer with him, make him feel sorry for his son. This point of view is that he is a kind and respectable father. Treat his son, his affection is so strong and deep. Another scenario is that he was hired as the official broker, he cried, wanted to share this happy moment of the man is his son with him, can feel how much he loved his son.
We see these scenes can not help tears trickling down cheeks. A touching scene, from a subtle point can feel the power, we lack is such a force. We want to succeed, we want to become brave, and we face difficulties and setbacks, we also indomitable will and faith to support it? So, when it comes, we dont panic anymore. Because we think the world is nothing to fear. The terrible thing is that you believe in what you can do if you believe in what you want and what you will do.
理解万岁!”是啊,理解即使目前没有万岁,恐怕也已几千岁了。中国古时有“伯牙破琴谢知音”的典故;有“海内存知己,天涯若比邻”的诗句;理解还曾以“他乡遇故乡”的名义,荣列人生四大喜事之一。可见,理解这一词古往今来源远流长。理解别人是如何之重要,被人理解更是如何之幸运。
记得我曾有一段时间酷爱读小说,有空没空就向图书馆跑,往书堆里钻。一开始得到了我班几个同学的响应。可是,我们老师为这方面极不满意,说我们不抓紧时间复习,只知道去看闲书,开始我们还不以为然,暗暗认为老师不理解我们,但是随着一次数学测验的成绩略有下滑。老师便借题发挥,要我们停止看“闲书”,把精力放到学习上。在老师严厉的管教下,我们中的很多人动摇了,最后只剩下我一个人“孤军奋战”了。更令人难堪的是,我成了班里公认的“异类”,“孤家寡人”,没有人支持我,没有人理解我。
一个寒冬天气里的一天,老师已经向我发动了近三五十次“进攻”,我望着窗外梧桐树光秃秃的,心里有说不出的痛苦,在这几十天里,我天天、时时、分分、秒秒都被一群异样的目光围视着,仿佛他们看的是外星人似的。我的处境就好似窗外的梧桐,没有帮助,有的只是狂风骤雨。
是去还是留?我扪心自问。这些日子我去的目的是什么?我确认我是为了获得知识而去的,而且我已得到了一定的成果。我下定决心,去!我拿起笔记本,向图书馆直奔……
从三楼跑下一楼,再从三号楼奔向一号楼,再从一楼登上四楼,我早已气喘吁吁,图书馆的爷爷边笑边给我开门。“又来充电了!”老爷爷嘿嘿笑道,“快两个月了,嗯,有毅力!”啊,这时我的内心倍受一种宠爱似的,大为感动,我的行动,真正得到了别人的理解,一位图书馆的老爷爷。多长的时间,我第一次听到这样的话。我的眼睛有点犯潮,心里很美。我在寒冬腊月得到理解,就像太阳照在身上般暖洋洋的……
在当代互联网时期,网红也成为了新业态,新话题之一。有数据显示,越来越多的人通过贩卖低俗劣质的内容走红,且有大量网民的支持。这种社会现象应引起各界人士的警惕。何时才能让低俗劣质的网红无限扩大划上休止符,走出劣质文化的困境。
一个社会的表象文化流行是一个民族与国家的精神现状的体现。卢梭曾言:人生而自由,却无时不在于枷锁之中。我们的社会又岂不是处于低俗劣质文化的牢狱之内,莫让低俗劣质网红侵蚀你的精神,荡涤清风正气,人人有责。
平息焦躁的内心,让灵魂跟上。我国经济飞速发展,但人们的精神世界却远远落后于物质水平。当下网红的流行是社会的一个真实写照。网络红人以互联网为中介,以贩卖低俗劣质的内容为依托而吸金的同时,网民对网红的大力支持,其实也反映了网民们精神上缺少了积极向上的精神文化,所以这才造成他们精神空虚的焦虑现状。缺乏了强有力的精神支柱,物质上的满足并不能达到网民的要求,填补人们内心的空虚。因此,网红之所以流行,是因为网红有生存与繁殖的社会土壤。我们只有稍稍停下脚步,认真阅读优秀文化,才能充实内心,让灵魂跟上,才能彻底消失网红生存的土壤。只有这样,我们才能还社会精神文明的浩荡清风。
莫让网红助长社会污浊风气,引导网红服务精神文明的建设。网红的发展也有一个历程与变迁。由经历了从靠个人才华博得关注,到后来的借助出位言行与贩卖低俗劣质内容成为网络红人。如今我国网红已经达到百万人,其扩张迅速,一时之间并不能制止其发展势头,我们就应引导那些靠贩卖低俗劣质网红向弘扬社会正气转型升级,勿再助长社会不良风气,应是“吾将上下而求索”,努力为弘扬社会正气尽一份力,共建美丽中国与健康中国。
如今低俗劣质网红的泛滥是历史的一个变迁中的一种文化粗糙现象,应具体问题具体分析,抓住矛盾来解决问题。让低俗劣质网红在侵蚀社会生活开始之时就划上一个休止符,来努力提高网民的自我思想修养。
当今低俗劣质网红的盛行,我们不应熟视无睹或习以为常,应该引起全社会的反思,还社会一片清风正气吧。我愿掬一杯盈盈月光,为网民们增添一份安康。
After watching this movie, the heart can not be calm, it let me see the heros optimistic, strong, confident and never give up, but also understand the worlds apathy, helpless and uneasy. The cause of the failure, his wife abandoned, life distress and defeat Chris, on the contrary, the suffering experience made him become more self-confidence, he never give up faith, in trouble, finally it comes to firmly grasp their own happiness.
How could we not be so in our life? Life is a long journey, and no one on this journey is smooth sailing, and no one can predict what will happen on this journey But one thing we can believe is that when God closes a door for you, she opens a window for you.
This story reminds me of the scene thirteen years ago. Thirteen years ago, just graduated, I left home with longing and hope, came to the provincial capital of Jinan, then only in the pocket of my mother gave me one hundred yuan. After a lot of trouble, I found a job of selling commodities for a trading company. Every day carrying a packet of small streets, hard to imagine. The scene of the first customer rejection, the scene of being scolded by the customer for the first time, a man hiding in the corner crying...
Still fresh in memory. That experience made me realize that when were in trouble, letting go of our self will only make us worse, and we can get nothing except a little sympathy. On the contrary, this is the moment we make efforts, energy savings, firm belief, lock the target, hold on and never give up, you can in the happiness comes and firmly grasp her. No one has ever been alone. Recently, a colleague has passed his own effort to enter a financial institution in the city. In the eyes of everyone, he is a lucky man. But perhaps no one saw the hard work he did in the process. In this world, everything is a process from quantitative change to qualitative change. When we envy other peoples luck, we may not see how much others pay in the process When were watching TV, when were having fun, when were chatting......
Perhaps others are studying business, perhaps is study of professional knowledge, perhaps is to fight to win or die......
We often see the success of others, but rarely see the hardships of others behind the success. One hundred people, one hundred people, different lifestyles, there are one hundred different interpretations of happiness, you choose what kind of life, what kind of action. So dont blindly envy others success, if you want to succeed, if you want to decide your own happiness, it starts from a little bit, starting from your nearest goal, adhere to! Insist! Insist again!
When one day happiness knocks at the door, you can catch her without hesitation, and then you will also become the lucky person in the eyes of others. In daily work, we should always remind ourselves, when happiness knocks at the door, are you really ready?
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