客观的说,8-8.5分之间。
我相信因为松松而看这部剧的、非广粤地区的观众,大部分都是80后。剧播出后,我发现一个很有趣的现象,就是不少80后在微博和豆瓣说你们都是因为松松姐姐或情怀看这部剧的吧?你们打高分也是为了她或情怀吧?
然后又有不少90后甚至00后超喜欢这部剧(有些并不认识松松),还有就是70后们,这些人纷纷表示中毒太深,几个月出不了坑。
为什么呢?
我想90后、00后喜欢这部剧是因为她们见识了真正的霸道总裁与灰姑娘(不是傻白甜)的故事,发现以前看的都是假的、毫无营养的,而这部剧既反童话又有童话色彩,她们get到罗丽晶的正能量,又被中偶CP戳中了萌点,被两人的甜蜜打动。
而70后们经历了太多现实,深知40+的感情需要什么,同时中偶CP的甜蜜也激发了她们的少女心。另外,她们过了前半生,可能迷失了方向,可能遗忘了初心,可能被生活磨出了厚厚的盔甲,可能怕展露自己的纯真,罗丽晶给了她们方向、勇气。
而80后们可能正被生活搞的焦头烂额,自以为已经长大、懂得生活,很多人充满了抱怨,抱怨社会、抱怨工作;她们按照自己的标准来评判别人,对正能量的东西不以为然,觉得40+的人怎么可能还有少女心。
可是我要说啊,不管你们经历过怎样的人生,未来的生活可能会遭10倍,直到你无语。你以为生活越来越糟糕,现在还只是线性的下降;再过几年,是几何级的下降,只是很多人不会再抱怨。
所以呢,不妨换个角度,现在的你,是余生状态最好的你了,除非你走出舒适区,不断挑战自己,学习新技能也好、换个挑战性强的工作也好、健身也好。
另外,只要你愿意,80岁时仍可以活的像少女,即使你已鹤发鸡皮。我见过几位50+的少女,她们活的通透、想的明白,跟罗丽晶一样,积极的面对生活、充实自己。
Dear Mom,
I recently read the book, Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mom by Amy Chua. I found that you and Ms. Chua have a lot in common in parenting. Today, I d like to share some of my views on this topic.
Childhood memories of your strict dos and don ts came flooding back. Because count- less hours were invested on practicing musicalinsUu- ments, there was not even a slim chance for me to participate in parties and school plays, let alone fully enjoy the authentic pleasures of family life.Moreover, deprived of the freedom to choose hob- bies, I sometimes felt that I was just like a lonely pup- pet manipulated by others. Dear mother, do you be- lieve that time and time again I woke up from beau- tiful dreams with tears streaming down my face?
However, though I ve labeled it as a brutal regimen when I was young, as I became heavily involved inme outside world, I ve come to realize that it was quite rewarding to have been tiger trained. As George Eliot putslt, It never rains roses: when we want to have more roses, we must plant trees . This is as true of 0ur growing up, especially in an unprecedentedly stressful so- cietyr, Fortunately, tiger parenting has equipped me with exceptional study habits,thus helping me stand out in the intense competition. Furthermore, it has endowed me with strong willpower as well as inner self-poise, which bas proved to be a most pre- cious quality of mine. Finally,thanks to your firm discipline, not cmly have I cultivateda discerning taste in art, but I ve also built my own set of moral values. In view of all these facts, tiger parenting has benefited me in the lorlg run despite the cost of the immediate joy of a normal carefree cbildhood.
A letter to my mother
Oct. 17th
Dear mother,
I have been good at school. I often think of you when I go to bed because we always go for a walk before go to bed at home. So I miss you everyday. Do you miss me? Why don’t you call me? I’ve got a lot of things to tell you. One of the things is about foreign teacher’s daughter. Her name’s Skyler. She lives in Canada. She comes to our class to learn Chinese and English with me in my class. This afternoon, when it was art and craft class, our class were cleaning the gymnasium. And she did it with us too. So I usually talk to her when she doesn’t know what to do? But when the class is over, I always haven’t got enough time to talk to her. And I usually can’t find her. So we don’t have time to introduce to each other. But it is the first time that I have a foreign student. So I’m very happy! Mum, you often tell me, “If you are happy, I’ll be happy, too.” So you have to be happy, because I’m happy! I like you when you are happy!
In the end I wish you everything is just fine!
Yours,
Sophia.
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