My name is Wu Yuwei .I’m 13 years old. I’m a Chinese girl .I study in Xinqi PrimarySchool.I’m in Class 3,Grade 6. I’m in Row 3. I have many friends in class.For example, Che Lei is my best friend . She is 13 years old , too. She is a good girl. We often help each other.There are four people in my family .They are my father, mother, sister and me .My parents are formers . They work hard. My sister is a student . I love them and they love me ,too.
How was your day off?Did you have fun playing volleyball?Iwas very happy in my day off.I went to the movie with my friends.That movie was interesting,and I went to my cousin's home.I played computer game with him.It was so great .I went to the gift shop and saw many nice gifts.Of course.I bought a gift for my friend. It was a really nice gift.Oh,that day was so great!See you soon!
Love,
Jack
Life has its ups and downs, and only true friends always stay around. Like anyone else, I have got many friends. They often help me when I’m in trouble. Especially, when I fail in an examination, they always care for me and encourage me to study harder. Last year, when I was hurt in a basketball game, my friends took me to the nearby hospital at once and look after me by turns. In my eyes, friends are the most precious wealth that one should treasure all his life.
您好!
今天我看了一个小故事《鞭子和青草》,想和各位家长一起分享。
故事的内容是这样的:一个农夫在牛棚前用力抽打着他的耕牛,想把耕牛赶进牛棚,但倔强的耕牛就是纹丝不动。一个过路人看到后,拣起一把青草,走到耕牛前面,耕牛抬起头,乖乖跟在他的后面进了牛棚。
不知您听了这个故事有什么感想?作为一名心理老师,我只想说:请您相信爱的力量!没有爱,我也无法工作。 每次上课都能听到孩子的欢呼声,我能感受到他们是那么喜欢我的课,他们可以在课堂上畅所欲言,我经常是那么认真的聆听他们的心声,你们知道吗?他们心理有多少的委屈多少的困惑多少的无奈(我经常接到孩子们的电话)……
您可能工作很忙,压力很大,下班后感到精疲力竭,还要做家务;您可能目前失业,常常为生计总是很烦;您的孩子可能课业很重,放学很晚,回家要写作业,您为了给他省时间,尽量不打扰他;您可能给孩子规定了课余要练琴、上舞蹈课、学画画,让他几乎没有和您坐下来聊天的机会。总之,您和孩子交流的时间很少。
您或许会说:我还是很注意和孩子沟通教育孩子的,特别是当我发现他有坏毛病时,我会严厉地纠正他。的确,在您的孩子咬手指、挖鼻孔、说脏话、乱丢东西、或者纠缠得您很烦时,您很不客气地对他说“NO”。这时您表现得是一位严母或严父,您也必然为这样一来的效果满意。可是,也许您没时间,您没有告诉他为什么不能这样做,应该怎样做。在孩子没有咬手指、挖鼻孔、说脏话、乱丢东西、或者纠缠您时,您却很少注意他,更不用说表扬他说“OK”了。何况,您和您的爱人都不能保证在生活中、在孩子面前不挖鼻孔、不说脏话、不乱丢东西,也没有在发生这些事的时候对自己或孩子说“我不对”。而我们这些“大人”却叫孩子们在我们不愉快时说“我不对”。
作为孩子,他有理由认为,您让他做连您也做不到的事,这多不公平!但他怕您的训斥,于是只好努力做下去。而他做得很好时,却得不到您的夸奖和认同。他失望了,再做下去就不像以前那么卖力。“反正没人说我好”,他这么想。当他再一次做得不好、令您心烦、遭到您的批评时,其实他很委屈。但他也许还不会或不敢跟您顶嘴,只能自己给自己找答案。最后,他告诉自己:“爸爸妈妈是不可信的!”
时间一长,您在孩子心中失去了威望。当孩子连父母都不信任时,他还可能对谁信任呢?这将是一个严重的问题。随着年龄的'长大,他会怀疑您,怀疑老师、同学,怀疑整个社会。他会把自己封闭起来,对很多事情毫无兴趣。他说学习没劲、弹琴没劲、舞蹈没劲、画画没劲,甚至吃饭没劲、睡觉没劲、活着没劲。望子成龙或望女成凤将难以实现,而且孩子越来越不正常,您这时才意识到了问题。您问我:“这是怎么一回事?”
您不必急着问我:“那么,我该怎么办?”其实也许很简单,要知道,现在的结局可能就是从孩子咬手指、挖鼻孔、说脏话、乱丢东西这些小问题开始的。所以,您要做的,至少应该是尽可能的多和孩子在一起,陪陪他玩,听他想对您说什么,鼓舞他,奖励他,让他把您当朋友。难道这很难么?只要有耐心。当然,您要做孩子的榜样,如果做不到,要敢于当着他批评自己。别怕害羞,这样孩子只会更相信您,更爱您。这样,当您的孩子真的犯错误时,您的说教才有力度,因为他知道,这是出于爱。您的孩子会越来越喜欢您,喜欢和您在一起,讲他的想法,听您的意见。当您和他真的成为朋友时,您所谓的“代沟”就消失了。
“我发现,我才是孩子的最亲密的朋友!”大胆地讲出来吧,不必藏在心里。这正是我想告诉您的。大胆地开始做吧,越快越好!让我们一起来爱我们的孩子吧!
祝您工作愉快,家庭幸福!
您的朋友:xx
20xx年3月10号
I have a lot of friends in Simon English School. One of them is my best friend. His name is boyd.
He and I are both thirteen years old. but I am older than he, and I am fatter than he too. He is shorter than I, and he is thinner than I. He wears a pair of glasses but I don't.
He likes to eat pocket-food, and he is a gentleman in a sense that when he has pock-food he will share them with us.
He and I are in the same school and in the same class. So, we can help each other. We alway play in the school together. he likes to do thing I like. He lives in the Ningbo Jiangdong, so he hardly came to my home in Zhenghai but I alway go to his home on weekends and he sometimes will come to my home on weekends. Sometimes we will fight but we alway get along well.
His mother is a doctor in the Li-Hui-Li hospital and I know where her office is. His father is a worker in the Bei-Lun power plant. He is a head of a group. So, his father has a lot of work to do.
He and I are in the same school. We usually have a good time so he is my best friend.
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