春节期间,大多时间窝在家里,也就趁机看了几本书。《妈,亲一下》这本书我读了两遍。该书作者是柯景腾,笔名九把刀,因《那些年我们一起追过的女孩》而名声大噪。此书记录了九把刀兄弟在医院里照顾母亲的点点滴滴。
“哥在妈的肚子里多呆了一星期,是舍不得离开妈;我在妈的肚子里少呆了一星期,是想快点见到妈;弟从妈的肚子里一日不差地蹦出,是跟妈约定好了。”
三个兄弟以不同的方式深深地爱着母亲。第一次读到此处,我微微一笑;第二次再读此处,竟想流泪。朴实的文字,细腻的情感,把母子情深的画面深深地雕刻在我的心里。
不幸的是刀妈得了血癌,幸运的是自己的孩子日夜不分的守护着自己,更加幸运的是刀妈生了一个感情细腻的儿子。
“妈,还没亲。”
“好啦,过来。”
这个画面更是深深地刻在我的心里。我无数次的见证母亲把自己无私的爱轻轻地“亲”在孩子的脸上,却很难见到成年的孩子亲自己的母亲。我无数次的想象九把刀当时跟母亲说话的腔调以及刀妈幸福的笑容,此时即便病魔折磨,刀妈也一定在笑着。
于是又有两幅画面涌上来:
画面一:热气腾腾的饭菜摆满了桌子,儿女们却接连打来了电话,说了各种不回家的理由,老人叹了一口气:忙,忙,都忙……
画面二:父亲正在接电话,“你不用担心,我和***都很好……”放下电话,两双老手握在了一起,老伴正在医院里……
树欲静而风不止,子欲孝而亲不在。也许在九把刀的心里不需要浮华的繁眩急管,而是一片恬静的市井烟火,在妈的身边,干着自己热爱的事业这便是足够了。“浮华只是过眼云烟。但上帝总是奇怪的,越是想得到的越是要夺走,九把刀差点没有机会再去爱刀妈。现实不也如此吗?当我们每天习惯于炊烟在老屋上空弥漫,空气中飘落着饭菜的香味,当我们每天一如既往的习惯于母亲叫我们起床念书……也许习惯了便淡然,就如上边的那两幅画面。
“人生总是在不停的战斗,一刻也不停息”,这是九把刀从这段难忘的经历中领悟到的深刻感想,忙碌啊,奋斗啊,没错,年轻人应该找寻自己的人生价值,但千万要记住母亲在养育我们的时候留下的那无数个吻,记住父母对我们的体贴理解与照顾,长大的我们是否也学会“亲”一下自己的母亲?设身处地地考虑一下父母感受?
先从亲一下妈做起吧。
雨过天晴的空气中掺杂着一丝泥土特有的芳香,明媚的阳光无私的照耀着每一个事物,天与地之间的一切都褪去了阴雨时的沉寂气息。而我和她初次相识,正是在雨过天晴的一棵桃树下。
她一头乌黑而又充满光泽的卷发,月牙形的带着灵气的小眼睛,高高的鼻梁,薄薄的小嘴很是惹人喜爱。
小时候的我一点也不灵活,当看见别的小朋友在双杠上灵活地翻身,心中便有一种说不出的滋味。而恰巧,在我和一群伙伴们玩耍时,路过一棵桃树,上面结了几个发青的小桃子,许多伙伴们一跳、一抓,又向上爬几步,便轻松地站到树顶,其中就包括聪明灵敏的她。看着小伙伴在桃树上耀武扬威,我也跃跃欲试,但当手触碰到冰冷的树皮时,我只能望而却步。
不一会儿,除我以外的所有人都坐在了桃树上,那三四个人手中也紧紧攥着未熟透的桃子。看着他们,那种不甘心、失落和自卑涌上心头,毕竟在这个本就该放肆玩闹的年纪,谁又想被人嘲笑呢?
“喂,你怎么不上来呀?上面好玩着呢!”一个伙伴问道。我红着眼圈,茫然地看着他。“就是呀,怕是上不来吧?哈哈哈,胆小鬼!”另一个伙伴似乎猜中了我的心思。兴许是那时年幼无知,他们并不知道这一句句不经意间的玩笑与嘲讽,宛如一把把利刃,插进了我脆弱的心灵。我只有蹲在老桃树下,默然地哭泣。而她,也只是盯着我。突然,又好似下了决心,轻捷地跳下树,一把拉住我的手,发绳上的铃当欢快的摇动着。“我带你上去。”她坚定地说,树上的人都看呆了,而她不顾别人的眼神,拉着我,缓缓向上爬。中途好几次,笨拙的我踩空了,向下滑去,她不顾自己,用力拉住我,她抽出手用力抹了一下脸上的汗珠,冲我笑了笑。
从这以后,她便成为了我生活中最好的朋友。而我每当走过那棵桃树,脑海中便浮现出她热情洋溢的笑脸和伴着涔涔铃音的背影。那个不顾自己的女孩似乎又在树上坐着冲我招手。
A simple dcussion about Up
Pixar Animation Studios a superior about talking story at all times: Toy Story a story about deeply fraternal affection. Finding Nemo a story about a father’s introspection about h education road. The Incredibles a story about middle-aged man and wife’s life cr. Cars a story about moralities in physical education’s world by telling a star’s experiences. Ratatouille a story about a spirit that never gives up and you can realize your dream. Because of those wonderful cartoons, Pixar makes itself become an excellent symbol in cartoon sphere.
Therefore, Up worth being expected. And the truth that it’s a fantastic cartoon. To my mind, dream, commitment and responsibility the key of Up’s successful.
Children’s dreams are the easiest and the most romantic, on account of they always have deeply interest and passion for new things and strange world. But sometimes it’s difficult to realize their dreams by themselves; they usually need adults’ help. And those behaviors are not only their promes, but their commitments and responsibilities.
Russell and Carl’s relationship a key of Up. They have many differences: age, characters and background. And Up explains the relationship between adults and children by them.
Though Carl and Ellie’s love story just a few minutes, it impressive
and affecting. And it’s my favorite part in Up. Every man and wife wants to live a happy life, but true life usually makes it difficult to realize. But it doesn’t mean dream unpractical, prome untrue. Through Carl becomes unsociable and eccentric, he still remember h prome to Ellie. In my opinion, the thing which flies not the house, but a heart which brave and insts on its dream and prome.
And the adventurer, Charles a special role in Up. I think he stands for the people, who just care about their own benefit, totally forget social benefit and their roles in the society. There are so many kinds of dreams, so there are some persons make fame and wealth to be their goals. In fact, it reasonable, but it’s wrong to damage the social benefit. Th way of doing things terrible, shameful and lamentable. In the film, Charles forges sample at first, then kills many innocent men, and tries h best to get the animal, a kind of big bird. Everything he does for h own fame and wealth. The film has hit the right and wrong on the nose. In the final battle, empty-handed Charles fell down into a so deep cliff. It’s not only a punhment to him, but a satire to th kind of people.
Dream likes a check, prome likes an acceptance. Once you prome, you must try your best to make it come true for it your responsibility and duty.
一看到这本书的书名《妈,亲一下》,我的视线就深深的被吸引住了,这是一本纪录陪伴母亲化疗、治病的过程。
作者得知母亲因“积劳成疾”而罹患血癌后,有很深的感触,因而让作者回忆起幼年时期母亲细心的呵护与照顾,及对家人的温柔与体贴。也因为母亲是家里唯一的精神支柱,所以三兄弟相互轮替的照顾着他们挚爱的母亲,即使遇到种种挫折,也要克服,陪着母亲一起走向未来的每一个明天。
有人说,上帝因为不能一次照顾我们这么多人,所以,他创造了叫“母亲”的天使给我们。平常母亲对我们的关心及照顾,都对此视为理所当然,很难体会到母亲的辛劳,等到母亲老了、病了,再也没有办法为我们做饭洗衣烧菜,我们却也才会突然惊醒,原来母亲多么重要,为了爱、为了我们,对待家人的付出是如此的多,给了我们有了家的温暖。
时光不会因为任何人的任何理由而停留,即使再重要、在敬爱的人,终将会变老,身体不再想以前一样强壮、一样硬朗,就像机器用久了,还是会生锈,最后被淘汰。生老病死,是人生必经的路程,谁也逃不了,更何况是我们的父母长辈们?父母努力辛苦赚钱,牺牲了自己最宝贵的青春,为的都是我们,想给我们更好的生活品质,身为晚辈的我们,应该更加倍的回报、感激及孝顺,若是非要等到失去后,才慢慢得去了解,那就太迟了!
所谓“树欲静而风不止,子欲养而亲不待”的这句话,我们虽然并非能决定任何人生命的长短,但至少我们可以趁现在还有机会时好好地孝顺他们,即时行孝,就算只是一个温暖的拥抱、轻轻的吻。
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