尊敬的家长:
您好!您的孩子结束,顺利离校返家,寒假生活已然开启。学业成绩将由班主任随后(发放寄出,敬请查收。如果我们用庄子“无用方为大用”的观点来谈孩子的教育和成长,或许会被当下的社会斥为无稽之谈,因为实用主义哲学早已深入人心。成绩至上、目标第一的教育论或已洗去了许多人头脑中养孩子的乐趣,现在一些父母总是在盼望孩子快点长大,快一点达成父母心中的期盼。操劳的父母总是在工作和家庭的两端来回奔波,年复一年,日复一日,疲惫地感慨“时间都去哪儿了”,时间可以被工作、事业、人际交往挤满,可就是没有更多的时间去陪着孩子慢慢的成长。总有一天,那些父母们会意外的发现:没有晾着儿女衣服的阳台有点空荡,少了一副碗筷的饭桌有点寂寥,茶几上不再摆设可爱的玩具有点冷清,听见邻家的小姑娘喊爸爸时总怀念曾经的温馨……这才意识到孩子的长大其实是父母的落寞。
那时才多么希望时光可以慢流,时间可以不像现在这样急不可耐,能够慢下来,听听孩子说一些天真烂漫的故事,道一些可爱单纯的想法。静静的陪伴,就像是在一个冬日阳光照耀的下午,一家人坐在阳台上晒着太阳,父亲慵懒的躺在摇椅上打着瞌睡,母亲和女儿说着体己的话儿。这样的时光才是最值得回味,最需要典藏在沧桑的岁月中。法国自然主义哲学家卢梭曾说:“大自然希望儿童在成人以前就要像儿童的样子。
如果我们打乱了这个秩序,就会造成一些早熟的果实,既不丰满也不甜美,而且很快就会腐烂;我们将造就一些年纪轻轻的博士和老态龙钟的儿童。”当我们环视周围,不正是看到一群因为速度、高效所教育的伪成熟的孩子么?三岁学舞蹈,四岁学钢琴,五岁学绘画,六岁背唐诗,学习是孩子们生活的唯一,丢失了童年的乐趣、少年的轻狂、青春的热情。为了成绩、名次,为了全能的素质而拼尽全力。待到他们毕业之时并不知道自己需要什么,不知道生活的乐趣所在,他们只会在压抑之后的毕业季,在疯狂之后挎着行囊朝着高校走去,却不是朝着志趣前行,他们也只会在大学毕业之时才会因为生活、工作而茫然不知所措。因为他们从来都没有慢下来认真的发现自我、认识自我。我们的父母心里其实非常清楚一段旅行好过一次培训,一本好书胜过一套试卷,一次促膝长谈重于一夜挑灯苦战。
但父母往往因为社会的趋势而瞻前顾后。孩子只有一个,人生只此一回,选择仅有一次。当家长们在手足无措之时便会将目光投注到成绩。其实,成长永远都是一件不急于求成的事情。当我们对孩子成绩患得患失的时候,引导孩子整理知识、系统分析,或许远胜于空洞的鼓励或责备;当我们忙着催促着孩子完成作业,培养孩子的契约精神,赏罚分明,或许更能锻炼孩子的自理能力;当我们周末呆在家里苦了自己,也累了孩子的时候,或许一次爬山更能换回一家人大好的心情。放慢孩子成长的节奏,才是对生命的尊重。患得患失、急功近利的教育只会让孩子在拘谨的狭小空间里迷失自我。亲爱的父母们,成长的生命需要的从来都不是一个结果,而是在过程中享受着属于自己的乐与苦、喜与悲。在这个过程中,没有任何人能成为孩子的替代者。优秀的父母只会营造环境,提供契机;成功的父母只会在漫长的岁月中享受养育孩子的快乐。因为,孩子是父母一生中最美的礼物,也是父母命运中最持久的陪伴者。当你放慢奔波的脚步,平复等待的焦急,才会有更多的时间和耐心来思考孩子的教育和人生。因为教育的艺术不在于传授本领,而在于唤醒和鼓舞。xx的教育从未否定学业和成绩的作用,xx的教育还强调不断唤醒孩子的自律、自觉、自省,激发他们潜藏的能力、志趣、爱好,用“无用”的阅读、思考、交流来充实更加厚重的人生。当他们走出xx以后,不会因为生活的艰辛而失去创造的灵感,不会因为大学的自由而变得松散怠惰,也不会因为前途的迷茫而失去心中的信念。
他们知道一个理想的实现需要漫长的过程、静静的等待;一段芳华的润育需要破茧成蝶的生命周期。父母养育孩子,不正是在等待、守护一朵花的盛开么?不管他们是迎春而笑、凌寒而开或是含苞待放,他们都是独一无二的孩子,我们唯一能做的就是慢慢的呵护、静静的等待。中国台湾作家龙应台的《孩子,你慢慢来》不正是一位慈爱的母亲最温暖的长久呼唤?
一部《傅雷家书》不正是一位睿智的父亲最虔诚的漫长付出?请相信,没有多少孩子愿意自己的梦幻童年戛然而止,没有多少青年愿意自己的青葱岁月稍纵即逝,他们用自己童稚、狂热的行为在述说着对美好岁月的爱恋,就像我们对过往岁月的眷恋一样。那么,我们是否也该像审视自己的生活一样去审视对孩子的教育呢?我们是否会在深沉的思索中看到生活中的无用种种,却是孩子以后人生中宝贵的点点滴滴呢?祝您的孩子在静好的岁月中,自在生长!
春节将至,在此也祝您及家人万事如意!
Has the winter vacation year after year, all is often different. Formerly, I all only was busy in the winter vacation is making merry, but this difference, not only I have not played, but also almost closed the confinement. Asked how I do fall so the fate, ya, all is the calamity which wants to play all the time annoys!
That day clear and boundless sky, solar especially beautiful, my in high spirits running to the maternal family, father and mother and the relatives and friends disappears for a long time, therefore particularly is excited. After finished eating the lunch to chat a meeting, they on full of enthusiasm played the playing cards. I am idling the safe, a person exits the extension, and brought a cigarette lighter, several dozens firecrackers along with; Transferred had not seen any interesting thing, thereupon I put the firecracker on a person in the courtyard. But that day wind especially big, I originally want to lose on the place the firecracker actually and I do to, rode the wind but has flown on the side haystack, a detonation, unexpectedly a ten feet high flame for to ignite the haystack, I was startled immediately had, hurried brushes with the bamboo pole, but the haystack roasted in the overpoweringly hot hot sun roasts has dehydrated completely, in addition that wind helped an evildoer do evil in the one side, the flame fled in a twinkling Lao Gao, I was scared immediately, got a sudden inspiration nearby the discovery well to have a washbasin suddenly, hurried the water used fire fighting, just has irrigated a trough, That presses the hydraulic engine also to press did not sail upstream, really awfully, this heaven resembles is intending to oppose with me resembles, my anxious tear has all fallen, wants to let loose the throat to shout, can how also shout does not make noise; The younger sister comes out by chance asks me to play, she hurried the human has all called, everybody busily has opened immediately, barrel barrel trough trough water straight upward irrigated. This water is originally may suppress the fire, but this fire gentle breeze becomes the ally, the fire has borrowed the circumstances, the wind helps the fire prestige, the situation is not more and more wonderful. By now although greatly burnt down was the haystack but likes actually is burning my heart, from caught up with the villagers in all directions which put out a fire also to, they did not know lifted a small water pump from where, finally, this water pump drew up the water has all supplied, was seeing this fire had to irrigate extinguished, but did not know how, the water broke suddenly. We run as soon as looked that, the original water source is far, that splices the pipe joint place 散架, Shui Zhenggu 汩 braved to outside, to flow place. When we fix the pipe, this is irrigated the fire which extinguishes to resurge quickly. Has not been good, this time wind has gotten up greatly, again does not take the measure, not only this haystack has not guaranteed, all must suffer disaster including the side on haystack and the house. In this critical moment, sees only the uncle to take up the pipe, flushed the haystack which burnt, he did not attend to the intermittent thick smoke to destroy completely the exterior fire diligently outside, also let the public hoe push aside the haystack, the water used to has Mars the place pouring to go, but most was anxious certainly is I, one side me was snatching the fire fighting, at the same time unceasingly the mouth read "the amen", really was turns to any doctor one can find when critically ill. But, this move resembles also very is effective, soon, the wind really has stopped down, this fire also naturally extinguished. My deep sigh one breath, in a heart big stone finally fell to the ground.
Although the fire extinguished, but my responsibility feared was the inescapable, I have finished the full psychological preparation, in just a little bit, the maid ablaze with anger walked, very far away I the smell of gunpowder, but fortunately, the maid has not begun, otherwise I also could write the thesis in this? Oh, I now really regretted that, I do must put that to provoke the right and wrong to me the firecracker?
译文:
年年有寒假,一切往往不同。以前,我只在寒假里忙得不亦乐乎,可这次不同,我不但没玩过,还差点关上了禁闭。问我怎么会落下这样的命运,哎,都是一直想玩的祸烦!
那天天空晴朗无垠,阳光格外美丽,我兴高采烈地奔向母家,爸爸妈妈和亲戚朋友久久不见了,因此格外兴奋。吃完午饭聊了一会,他们就兴致勃勃地玩起了扑克牌。我在闲逛保险柜,一个人从分机出来,带了一个打火机,几十个鞭炮一起;转移到没有看到任何有趣的东西,于是我把鞭炮放在院子里的一个人身上。可是那天风特别大,我本来想把鞭炮丢在地上却和我做对了,乘风却飞到了旁边的草堆上,一声爆响,竟有一股十尺高的火焰为草堆引燃,我顿时吓了一跳,赶紧用竹竿刷了刷,可是在烈日下烤的草堆已经完全脱水了,加上风在一边扶着一个恶人作恶,火焰瞬间就窜了老高,我顿时吓了一跳,突然发现井边有个脸盆,急忙用水救火,刚灌完槽,那压着液压机也压不上船了,真是太可怕了,这天堂像是要和我对抗似的,我焦急的眼泪都掉了,想放开嗓子喊,可怎么也喊不出声来;妹妹偶然出来叫我玩,她赶紧把人都叫来了,大家马上忙开了,桶里的水直往上灌。这水本来是可以压制火的,但这火和风成了盟友,火借了情,风助火威,情不愈妙。这时虽然大火烧成了草堆但却像是在燃烧着我的心,从四面八方赶来的村民扑灭了一场火也到了,他们不知道从哪里举起了一台小水泵,最后,这台水泵抽上来的水已经全部供应了,看到这场火已经被浇灌扑灭了,但是没有不知怎么,水突然破了。我们一跑就看,原来水源远,那拼接管接头处散架,水正鼓汩冒到外面,流向处。当我们修好水管时,这是浇灌灭火后迅速复活的火。一直不好,这次风大了起来,再不采取措施,不仅这草堆没有保证,连草堆上的`边和房子都要遭殃。在这危急的时刻,只见叔叔拿起水管,冲着烧焦的草堆,他顾不上时断时续的浓烟努力把外面的火烧得干干净净,还让众人锄起草堆,把曾经有火星的地方浇去,但最着急的肯定是我,一边我在抓紧救火,一边不停地嘴里念着“阿门”,真是转危为安时找不到任何医生。但是,这一举动似乎也很有效,很快,风真的停了下来,这场大火也自然扑灭了。我深深的叹了一口气,心里的一块大石头终于掉到了地上。
虽然火扑灭了,但我的责任恐怕是无法推卸的,我已经做好了充分的心理准备,就在一点点,女佣怒火中烧地走了,远远的我闻到了火药味,幸好女佣还没开始,不然我还能在这写论文吗?哦,我现在真的很后悔,我一定要把那个挑起我是非的鞭炮?
It is obvious to everybody that the only way to achieve one's goal is to work hard. Just as the old saying goes "no mill, no meal". Have you ever seen a man who succeeds just by idling about? Of course, the answer is "No". So we know if you want to gain something, you will have pains.
The farmers harvest by a year of arduous work; the scientists gain achievements by years of devoted researches; students get good marks by working hard; even the little ants have their food by working hard day and night. 1 know there are always some people who wait for the opportunities falling on them. They may attribute their failures to lack of good chances. Therefore, there are so many people gaining nothing at last. Clever men know that the more effort they make, the bigger chance they will have to be successful.
So, when others achieve their aspirations and you still gain nothing, don't complain about the unfair fate and don't give up, either. Remember: no pains, no gains.
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