老鹰会把自己的雏鹰在空中抛下,让它学会飞翔,自己觅食,独立生活,日后才能体会搏击长空的快感。不只是动物,人也不例外。幼年蹒跚学步的我们,如果不是母亲的循循善诱,我们怎么会跌倒后一次又一次爬起,培养了顽强的性格,树立独立面对困难的意识。
所以,学会独立是我们在生活中必须具备的一项技能。独立,是指依赖自己的能力通过各种方法和途径,来获取某些事物或达成某些目的,是我们应该每个人都具备的。
目前大多数是独生子女的我们,最依赖父母。吃、穿、用都需要父母准备,我们只是习惯于衣来伸手,饭来张口的日子。残酷的事实摆在我们面前,父母并不能陪伴我们一生,面对离我们而去的父母,为我们营造的安逸环境也随之消失,我们应该怎么办呢?近年社会上被人们称为“啃老族”又将去“啃”谁呢?在我看来,只能“啃”自己。我们要使自己在长期的生活中学会独立,在面对艰难困苦的环境,我们可以凭借自己的力量闯出挫折,冲出坎坷,拨开被乌云的阴霾所掩盖的胜利的光芒。
独立意识的培养不仅在于我们主观的努力,更在于客观的推动。母亲若不肯将自己的孩子从她温暖的臂弯中放出,怀中懵懂的孩子又有什么办法呢?所以客观的力量也起着重要的作用,我们不应该盲目做出判断。
花与果是相互关联的。果一定是经过风雨的千锤百炼所形成的,但花最终却不一定结成果,就是因为它离不开枝***荫蔽,终日蜷缩在阴暗处,当风雨的一丝冰凉沾染着它,它就会萎蔫不振。
是想成为甜美可口的果,还是黑暗中的花,每个人心中都有自己的选择。倘若选择了果,我们就当直面生活,不管酸甜苦辣我们都需自己品尝,不要等待别人把东西送到手边,你都觉得把它拿起是浪费力气。学会独立,总能让我们体会到一些常人所感受不到的事情,例如,努力竞争的不易,收获成功的怡然,毕竟,这是自己的劳动成果,增添了不一样的价值。
花开半夏,赴我青春。——题记
十四个春夏秋冬,转瞬即逝。七年少先队员,离我而去。
童年就像一朵云,飘向远方,留下了回忆,刻在空中,永远抹不干净,最多飘来另一朵云,将痕迹遮挡,可这个回忆依然在。
尽管心中有再多的不舍,也无力挽回那胸前曾经飘荡的红领巾。最多将它放在抽屉中,想到了,就拿出来看一眼。
这个六一,我告别了孩童时的幼稚;这个六一,我告别了原来的冲动;这个六一,我也告别了往日的依赖。
“妈妈,你帮我拿一下那个杯子!”正在书房做作业的我向客厅喊道。
“你就不能自己拿吗?你看看才几步路啊,这么点路都不高兴走……”
听吧,我妈又在那边长篇大论了。我只好以“乌龟”式的速度穿好鞋子,慢慢悠悠地走出书房。迎面而来的,却是我的妈妈,她手中拿着我的杯子。
她又语重心长地对我说:“你都这么大了,自己的事情要自己做,不然将来怎么办啊?”
对呀,我长大了,那,父母也就老了,时间在一天天过去,可,却很少发现早已爬上父母脸上的皱纹。
小老虎长大后,虎妈妈会教它独自捕食,小麻雀长大后,鸟妈妈会让它尝试飞行……而我长大后,我的妈妈教我学会独立。
一生中的最后一个属于我的六一,我收获了很多,也明白了很多。母亲,感谢你,在我孩时教我依赖,在我长大后教我独立。
依赖,再见。独立,你好。
这个夏天,我不再依赖。十四五岁,我也不再依赖。
Dear parents,
How is everything these days? I miss you very much.
I am very happy at my new shool. My teachers and shoolmates are very friendly to me .They ofen help me with my study.Now I am not worried about my English because I make a lot of progress in it anb I become more and more intrested in it. My shool life here is also wonderful. I take part in many part-time activities . I make many friends there and learn lots of learning methods.
Now final exam is coming. I am busy preparing it . I will try my best to do well in it.
I am glad that the summer holiday is coming. I want to take part in a GREEN CITY GROUP.I think I should make a contribution to protecting our environment.
It's hot these days but I can take good care of myself.You should pay more attention to your health.
Best wishes to you.
Love you,
XXX
Dear parents,
“You always say that I am naive. In your eyes, I am always the little girl who will never grow up”. This is my favorite song and also the sound from the bottom of my heart. You made me feel so lucky to be your child. But I find our hearts getting further apart as time goes by.
You strictly forbid me to do entertaining activities even if I finished my homework, such as watching TV or playing computer games. Based on this, I couldn’t get any grade less than A. It is said that genius only means hard-working all one’s life. But I think combining exertion is the best way for learning.
The most important thing to me was that I feel frustrated for having few friends to confide in due to your strict rules. I can’t have a play date, participate in a school play or even choose my own extracurricular activities. Who will accept such a boring and troublesome person? I am just an ordinary girl who can’t stand loneliness, so I always feel contradictory.
On the one hand, I’m grateful to have you in my life, to disappoint you was the least I would do. On the other hand, what you asked for me made me felt like a puppet rather than a real person. I appreciated your efforts to pull me away from a self-indulgent life, but your obsessively extravagant strictness has pushed me into an isolated and insensible one. I need a little freedom so that I will concentrate on something I really interested in.
Father and mother, these words were hid in my deep heart for a long time. I love you, and I believe if you change some harsh rules. I will have a wonderful life.
Best wishes.
Yours, daughter
每当我看到漫画,都会哈哈大笑。但看到这幅漫画时,我却怎么笑不起来,它引起了我的深思。
在厨房的炉台上,烧着一壶水。水已经烧开了,在不停地冒着白烟,发出刺耳的噪音。炉台旁,站着一个小女孩。她把头扭向厨房外,大叫一声“妈,水开了!”
水烧开了,她只用顺手把煤气开关一按,就行了。但她连这点小事情,都不会做,大声叫着妈妈依赖妈妈,真是被父母宠爱过度了啊!现在的孩子,基本上都是独生子女。个个都是家中的“小公主”,“小皇帝”什么事都衣来伸手,饭来张口。
其实,我也做过一个衣来伸手,饭来张口的人。记得那是在一个炎热的夏天,我在外婆家玩,口渴了,我直接叫到:“外婆,帮我拿
支巧乐滋来。”刚说出口,我就后悔了,我都这么大了,拿支冰糕也要别人帮。在学习上,遇到了做不起的难题,我想也不想就去问同学,有时甚至抄他们的。这样下去我能学到什么知识呢?总不能开始时也抄同学的吧。
如果小时候,我们这样依赖父母,依赖同学,就没有得到自己锻炼的机会,没有学会独立,每一件小事情都靠父母帮忙。我们如果依赖父母,长期下去将离不开父母了。每个人都有离开父母的时候,那当我们离开父母时,该怎样在社会上立足呢?
依赖不仅会使人丧失独立生活的能力和精神,还会使人缺乏生活的责任感,造成人格上的缺陷,只想过不劳而获的生活,贪图享受,就不能适应社会生活,甚至危害社会和他人,走上违法犯罪的道路。
德国诗人歌德曾说过:“谁若不能主宰自己,谁就永远是一个奴隶。”我不愿做一个奴隶,今后我一定要独立,告别依赖。
Dear mom and dad:
You are good!
This is the first time I write to you, I want to write down the words of my heart.
You I had many of the night was up all night, you how many tears flow to me. I paid you for how much, I return you from, I also know, you must not think I return you anything, but I'll never forget you in mind, the old I will return to the best of your ability, when I grew up in the sun, but you will gradually ageing, worry about and sad that wrinkles climbed up you originally carefree face.
Mom and dad, in your care, I have spent a full of joy for ten years. You have been the best things to me. I have a beautiful bedroom, delicate study materials, the conditions of the outstanding school... I like the little princess "in fairy tale, as well as the growth of carefree. Mom and dad, I want to say to you, you is very kind to me.
For ten years, and you carefully nurtured me, so that I grow up happily day by day. And your own but don't know how much I flow for the sweat and the tears. Mom and dad, I'll never let you down, is you to me put a pair of wings, I'll use that for the most powerful wings and fly, to the vast ocean of knowledge.
For the father loves the mountains, big love speechless. Dad you in my memory is always strict.
I and you seem to be very few joked about. Occasionally you talking and laughing, but with total to feel very at odds after. You are always a mountain that composed speechless. But anyway, I know you did all that is good for me.
When I came to this strange world by accident, the heart also carries a afraid, with wen run is you with love I meet, your love is I came to this world have received the first gift. How many covered the morning mist, you surprise and incredibly staring at me that WenXiang such as roses of little face, in my mind I meditate on to the my blessings. Early morning sunshine through the window, hazy gently in your face evenly spread on a layer of holy golden.
Love is like the silent running water, exquisite moistens at every point. Blustery, sun rises fall, winter passed on, flowers blossom, thanks in your words, I know the world, start gradually thinking. You not only living I to raise me, but also teach me the person, the given me knowledge and tao is "who grass-inch heart, reported in the apartments". Daughter with a mind always touched, but only in small to care and considerate, academic work harder in return. Just as weak grass can only add three points for spring green, and repay the natural nourishing; Autumn leaves only to be born for mud, to repay the tree of raising.
I usually very like reading, you never against, but to buy me a lot of books. By now I can put full of books have a bookcase. You again afraid I read many of the eye sight, and broke in bed to buy a lamp that beautiful the lamp that shield an eye.
Mom, remember the paint of time? Can't stand practice to paint of bitter, you also can really hit me, forced me to go on. Have a period of time, the time to practice painting overload I almost collapse, drab repeatedly that I find very boring. Many times, I almost want to go to all the paper I ripped, but then I was able to hold back. Want to come now, drawing not only gave me to understanding of the love, and paint with the fingers of flexible and the development of the brain, the more developed my perseverance will and persistence. Mother, daughter really grateful to you!
Dad, perhaps you rarely like mother like that teach me what, but you can really affect me a lot. You never is so honest, kind, brave, strong, dedication, and can endure hardships and profound knowledge, you use your good quality affects me, always doing my model. Each time talking with you always make me benefit, always make me understand some of the life philosophy, always important to make my in confused when suddenly enlightened. Dad, daughter really grateful to you!
Mom and dad, you are in their industry elite, and daughter from urinate will you as a proud. You are all so devotion and perseverance, in their children's education is also a method. Mother, it is you that give me the most important a habit: a love of reading. Reading is to my self education is the best way I know to widely browse, many all aspects of the knowledge, people doing things will also be more mature. Mom and dad, daughter really appreciate you!!!!!
Love is the most beautiful in the world language, let us each other love each other forever to pass by stormy night, watch for the arrival of the most beautiful day.
Your daughter
Dear mom:
A: hello!
Mom this is my first time to write to you, so some shame.
How are you recently? Have a smooth work! How your mood these days, I have no dont care you one day.
How much I miss you, do you give me the rice, how delicious, I often dream of in the evening I went to the kitchen to steal to eat the food you do.
Mom you sit down and rest for a while! Dont be so hard to cook for us after work every day, every day we wash clothes... Every time after the meal, I want to help you wash the dishes, you say you dont have to tube chores, you just mind your own learning. Himself out of one eye, I am full of tears.
Ah! Mother I love you.
I wish you the best
Healthy body, the work is smooth.
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