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小船升起云帆,横济沧海的航程中难免会有风吹浪打;小树初有新芽,茁壮成长中难免会遭受雨雪风霜;小溪向前奔流,一路上不只有泉水叮咚,也有险滩漩涡。
青少年的成长亦如此。成长的过程便如登山的旅程,难免会跌跤,会有荆棘的划痕,会有一次次的摔打和磨砺。这些都是正常现象,家庭、学校和社会都不必太在意,以一颗平常心去看便好。
正如一艘扬帆起航的小船,自会在风雨的磨炼中变得坚强。太多的关心、保护,反而会给它小小的船舱添上无谓的负荷,成为前进的压力与障碍。在父母的羽翼下寻求庇护的日子早已过去,我们已经渴望敞开胸膛,拥抱雷雨闪电,享受自然的阳光。当孩子在人生路上开始迈出自己的步子,家庭应给予理解和支持,请解除目光的锁链,让孩子乘着自己的人生之舟与风浪一搏吧!当前进的路上遭遇坎坷,当孩子受到挫折时,我们的家庭要保持一颗平常心,不要急于代劳,不要过分关爱,更不要小题大做,只需微笑着看着孩子爬起,那叶小舟自然会顺着信任的目光扬帆前行。
希望孩子们十全十美的学校也不应过分苛求。“人非圣贤,孰能无过?”微小的失误在所难免,其实是架起了一座通往成熟的金桥。不要将目光聚焦于孩子的小小失误,不要在孩子摔跤时投去指责的目光。用信任和宽容去对待孩子的小失误吧,这样,他们才会成为带着成熟微笑的舵手,从胜利的彼岸带回满意的答卷。
最后,我们的社会也应重新审视对青少年的态度。从早先的反对溺爱,到现在的提倡挫折教育,社会的整体教育观念已有了可喜的变化。对于孩子们的偶尔跌跤,社会不应给以过度的关注,更不能大肆炒作。初登处女航的小船,还在对这个社会知之甚少的轻微恐惧中微微颤动。太多的镁光灯突然一齐聚焦,只会让小船疑惑和恐慌,云帆在航行中倾斜一下,社会可以淡淡一笑,放下过多的牵挂,自立自强的一代自会崛起。
成龙的孩子房祖明曾写过一首叫作《请让我摔下去》的歌,道出了千万个孩子困扰的心境。在人生路上跌一跤本在所难免,可怕的是家庭、学校、社会的目光立刻蜂拥而上,织成一张密密的网,让孩子在迷惑中百般挣扎而不能自己站起,只得在无奈中成为目光的俘虏。
可是快看,那艘为目光所缚的小船,正拼命地向远方鼓足云帆。就请家庭松开过度关爱的目光,请学校放下过分指责的目光,请社会转移过于关注的目光,将它们换为理解与宽容,放那一叶云帆去济沧海吧!
面对摔了一跤后引发的关注,我想问一下,
为什么要关注我的摔跤?
为什么只关注我的摔跤?
为什么要等到我摔倒了才来关注?
我知道,作为祖国新一代,我们背后有无数双关注的眼睛,但一次次的关注事件让我想问:你们的过多关注是正确的吗?你们正确地关注我们了吗?
首先,从关注的范围过大看,有些关注的确是多余的。拿摔跤这一事件来说吧,人走路谁没有摔跤的经历,至于那么杞人忧天吗?你们关心我们的学习与生活,我们感激不尽,但过多的关心只能是束缚我们前进的锁链。我们只想在天地间无忧无虑地尽心地走,摔倒了再爬起来。看看地形以防再摔。然后立刻继续前进。而你们就不应该在溪流的短暂停滞处再建个水坝,你一句我一句的教导一番再放行。
其次,关注的对象有时太有限。我们不是摔跟头长大的,关注的也不应只是摔跤。我们的成长是吃饭、睡觉、学习、娱乐以及不时的烦恼与年少的莫名的闲愁以及早年心理阴影留下的负作用,甚至是无病***,自哀自怜。我们快乐向上也有时消沉;我们乐观活泼有时也陷入沉思;我们有时很马虎,有时也很认真。所以关注我们不应是只关心我们的失落与错误;不应该只是关注我们的消沉与堕落;多关注我们的阳光与荣耀吧,我们会因此而备受鼓舞。
最后,从关注的技巧上看,防患于未然乃是最有效的方法。虽然只有亲身经历和承受了错误带给我们的后果,我们才会更深切的认识错误,纠正错误。但我们深切地希望你们是不变的导航灯,是亲切的向导,而不是我们犯错后的警示灯。青春是叛逆的也是经常犯混的,我们可能会明知故犯,但你们的教导也不应因噎废食,在我们的心中,你们仍旧是向导,是导师,是迷路时的路标,灯塔。
你们的关心,我们很感动。但你们过多的关注,扭曲的关注,方法不恰当的关注我们难以接受。
亲爱的家人,亲爱的老师和社会的朋友,我真心的希望,下次别关注我的摔跤,别只关注我的摔跤,下次不要等到我摔跤了再提醒。我们年轻,也可以有为。也可以安稳走路的,也同样需要关心,请正确地关注我们!
last weekend we went to the countryside to have a picnic.we took several sandwiches and some bottles of water with us for lunch. of course we didn't forget to take some fruit and we even took some tomatoes and cucumbers.
we left home quite early in order to avoid the traffic jam.about two hours later, we came to a nice place. it was near a river. we put our bicycles under the trees and went swimming. it was a very hot day. the water was very refreshing.
after having a swim, we had lunch in the cool shade under the trees. then we went for a walk. we didn't come back home until the night fell.
上周末,我们去乡下野餐。我们带上了几个三明治和几瓶水午饭时吃。当然我们也没有忘记带上一些水果。我们甚至还带了几个西红柿和几条黄瓜。
为了避开交通高峰,我们很早就出发了。大约过了两个小时,我们来到了一个不错的`地方。它附近有一条河,我们把车子放在树下就去游泳。天气很热,河水使人振奋。
游完泳,我们在树荫下吃了午饭。然后我们去散步。直到夜幕降临,我们才回家。
it took us about two hours by bike to get to the nice place in the countryside. there was a rive there. the water was clean and it was a good place to swim. we threw our bikes on the ground
and jumped into the water. it was hot, but the water made us refreshed. after we swam around:'the river, we were tired.
we took out the sandwiches and water, and had our picnic in the shade under the trees. the most popular food are sausages and tomatoes.
after lunch we took a walk. there we saw many beautiful flowers and GREen grass. we smelled sweet air. how nice the picnic was!
我们骑车花了约两个小时,终于到了野外那个美丽的地方。那里有一条小河,河水清澈,真是个游泳的好地方。我们把自行车往地上一搁,就跳进河里。天气真热,河水让人感到舒爽。游了几个来回,我们有些累了。
我们拿出准备好的三明治和水,开始在树阴下野餐。最受欢迎的食品是香肠和西红柿。
午饭后,我们散步。在那儿我们看见许多漂亮的花和碧绿的草,我们闻到空气的芬芳。多么愉快的野餐啊!
Boys and girls,attention,plealse. I have something to tell you . We are going to have a picnic at Dongshan on the coming saturday.You are asked to bring your own water and food by yourselves because there is no store there. Do remember to put on your sport shoes because we will climb the moutain after lunch.At last, we will get together at half past six at the gate of our school.It takes us 2 hours to get there.
Do be late please! thank you very much!
In this picture, we can tell that the son is talking to his father about his concern about the nuclear waste. His father told him that if he can empty the dustbin first, he can do anything. This is an easy but very important story, telling us that we have to focus on things around our daily life first, and then the things great enough in the world.
In our daily life, it is very common to find some people that talk about their great minds on topics that far away from their lives. However, they provide little concern on staffs that around their own daily lives. These people are usually not very successful because their minds are beyond their grasp. To this end, students who want to be a better man, have to know that one can become greater and greater if they can complete things around their daily life well one by one. They may stand on the top of the mountain in the society finally.
二胎政策是今年后半年国家放开的新政策。yuwenmi小编整理了相关的范文,欢迎欣赏与借鉴。
Today, I'm going to talk aobut a change to China's population policy.
今天我将来说一下中国的人口政策改革。
China introduced one-child policy in the late 1970s. This policy has been credited with helping to control China's population growth.
中国在20世纪70年代末推行了独生日子女政策。这一政策被认为可以帮助控制这个国家的人口增长。
It's also been criticized for forcing parents to make difficult personal choices, or in some cases face huge fines.
批评者认为该政策迫使父母做出艰难的个人抉择,或甚至有时候面临巨额罚款。
According to a statement issued on October 29th,2015 by the Communist Party of China Central Committee, China further relaxed its more than three-decade-old family planning policy. The statement said the country's aging trend would be actively addressed by the universal two-child policy.
2015年10月29日,中共中央委员会发布公报称,中国将进一步放开实施了30多年的计划生育政策。“全面二孩政策”将有效应对人口老龄化趋势。
Additionally, From my personal view, One reason for the change, economics. In China, many people care for their elderly relatives, so a single child could end up being financially responsible for parents and grandparents. This new policy could help with that.
改革的其中原因之一是经济方面。在中国,很多人都需要照顾上了年岁的.长辈亲戚, 所以一个孩子最终可能会对父母和祖父母的财务负责。而新出台的政策就可以在这方面起到作用。
Another reason, China wants to improve human rights by the universal two-child policy.
另一个原因是中国希望通过全面二胎政策来改善人权。
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