王海鸰的《成长》讲述的是一个出生在军人家庭男孩的成长历程,父亲彭湘江是标准的军人作风,由于工作原因很少在家,与儿子的关系比较疏远;母亲海云属于贤妻良母类型,为了照顾家庭而放弃了自己的理想;儿子彭飞聪明好学、调皮任性,但是对父亲有抵触心理。青少年时期的孩子都有叛逆的性格,彭飞也不例外,就是因为跟父亲赌气,高考时毅然放弃了名牌大学而报考了空军学院,他的理想就是不花家里一分钱,实现父亲没有实现的理想,以此来盖过父亲的光环。但是军校的生活与自己的理想有着极大的差距,在经历了一系列挫折时,终于产生了放弃的念头。关键时刻母亲的举动使他重新坚定了信念,并最终当上了飞行员。
事业上的顺利不免让人会产生各种想法,但是关键时候与父亲的交流给了他莫大的启发,使他在以后的道路上更加顺畅。但随之而来的却是婚姻带来的问题,成家立业后的喜悦伴随着儿子的到来结束了,事业与家庭的冲突皆然而至,现在的年轻人已经与父辈们的想法不一样了,夫妻双方都不会因为孩子而放弃了自己的理想,摆在面前的问题就是孩子的教育,最后又把重担母亲交给了母亲,而此时的父亲对他们的做法却产生了极大的意见,两个人也差点离了婚。这时候的彭飞事业上也因为身体的原意受到了打击,母亲对儿子的关心却丝毫没有减少,当母亲看到儿子自暴自弃的生活,由此对儿媳的看法越来越深,但当深入了解时,却改变了对儿媳看法,并与儿媳联合起来,最终让儿子战胜了病魔,重新回到了自己的岗位。
没有暗礁的人生不会完美,没有风浪的生活不会丰富,没有挫折的成长不会让我刻骨铭心。
每个人的成长历程需要的东西都会有所不同,无限的鼓励与关怀会让有的人上进;一张书桌、一个上学的机会会让有的人知足。而我则认为,成长,需要挫折。
或许有人会问:“一帆风顺的成长不好么?”我会摇摇头说:“只有挫折,才能让我真正成长呀!”
倘若成长的道路总是畅通无阻的,那只会让我依然拥有着那份娇气,不懂得天外有天,不懂得在逆境中成长,不懂得在风雨中寻觅那一道彩虹。只有亲身经历挫折,才会刻骨铭心,那样才能让我真正成长。
我们成长的道路的主题之一就是学习,面对高手如云的竞争,我却保持异常的镇定,因为,失败过后让我懂得更多。
以前我总认为我的成绩不错,没有谁能抢走我在年级前十名的宝座。可是,在我沾沾自喜的时候,别人早已埋头苦干了。终于,在第一次的月考中,我失败了。以前心中的沾沾自喜,却化作考试后伤心的泪水。那一次失败的痛楚在我心中抹不去。窗外的雨淅淅沥沥,窗里的我却在思考如何在挫折中站起。那一次,让我明白自己实在太在乎分数了,坦然面对或许就是成功。法拉第曾说过:拼命去争取成功,但不要渴望一定成功。学习上挫折或许会在成长历程中留下烙印,但是它总能让我真正成长,也意味着只有加倍努力,成功才会属于自己。
淅沥的雨将会化作明日的云彩,成长的挫折将会给我带来动力。虽然我没有斐然的成绩,但我依然努力,即使荆刺会给我带来再多的挫折,我也会坦然面对。
成长,需要挫折。只有挫折,才能让我成长,才能让我在以后的人生道路上步履轻松。
挫折只会是成长历程中一道美丽的风景线,我会在挫折中站起,踏入更遥远的成长道路。
昏暗的台灯下,我凝视着这一杯茶,沸水一次又一次的冲击,让我感到了茶的清香。那苦涩中略微含着的一点甘甜,也被我贪婪的嘴给霸占了,眼的朦胧,勾勒出朦胧的记忆,可记忆却已不再朦胧。
作业之多“难为”了嬉戏之少,老师之严肃“阻抑”了欢笑之渺,压力之沉重,“造就”了在梦幻中的我们——成长的烦恼。打开厚重的回忆之书,那思绪点点,也许是不倦回眸的一些往事。
“初”来乍到,一个脆弱的我,被“敌人”瞄准了“弱点”猛开了一炮,那个不堪一击的我,在“血”场上牺牲了,可一个“睡里挑灯看卷,梦回铃响背诗”的我又一次站了起来。那段岁月,正在黑暗中迷茫的我,学习之余,有时我也找一席尚未枯黄的草地,有时也会是书桌前、窗台边,看伫立在远处的一排排树正在拼搏,为的只是能发出最后的一丝艳绿。那些是什么树?我无从得知,可这又有什么关系呢?只要它们是树,就足够了。当我看着它们发呆时,心里就会思绪万千,当我的眼睛重新回到树的时候,心情豁然开朗,压力荡然无存,转而投身于繁忙的学习之中。
似乎茶的清香已弥漫了“世界”,我的心情也随之沸腾起来。
我的拼搏,战胜了烦恼,战胜了一切,让那似乎是最后一丝艳绿,同样放出等同于盛夏的光彩。“少年不知烦滋味”,可在这“山重水复”的转弯处时,有谁要是放松下来,等待你的便是“沼泽千里,棘丛万丈”。反之,若要是拼搏和毅力,等待你的便是“柳暗花明,青山绿水”了。莫非你还真要让烦恼化作青烟一缕,缠绕你的灵魂,让你烦闷,让你苦恼吗?
若成长是一篇着作,那么烦恼便是藏在段落深处的错字;如果成长是一张白纸,那么烦恼便是附在背面的一个瑕疵。这些微小的东西似乎是似曾相识,似乎是一直打扰着我们,在成长的大自然中,过去那似微风抚面般的学习,现已被暴风雨般的学习和压力的进攻吹散在记忆的深处了。
双手已经感觉不到茶的温度了,弥漫在屋子里的清雾也悄然消失。更加用心地品味那“苦中有乐”的水,去品味成长的烦恼,“烦着烦着”,时光也“走着走着”,经历也“多着多着”,再一次去品味那茶,那“苦涩”似乎已随着温度、随着用心灵丈量的时间而荡然无存了……
2、两个人最好是不要在一起,也不要不在一起。
3、很多人,因为寂寞而错爱了一人,但更多的人,因为错爱一人,而寂寞一生
4、想念只是一种仪式,真正的记忆与生俱来。
5、我唯一的信仰就是能牵着你的手一直走下去,走到尽头再看到底错到哪里。
6、谁寂寞了繁华,埋葬了天涯,散尽一身的`戎甲。
7、也许一个人要走很长的路,经历过生命中无数突如其来的繁华和苍凉才会变的成熟。
8、既然忘不了,就刻骨铭心的记着
9、时间会让你了解爱情,时间能够证明爱情,也能够把爱推翻。
10、如果我们能真正地举重若轻起来,至少在表达上,该是多么好。
11、浅浅的睡眠,沉沉的梦幻。醒来,你已在彼岸。
12、年华里, 我们失去的是种心情。
13、你在的时候,你是一切,你不在的时候,一切是你。
14、你永远也看不到我最寂寞时候的样子,因为只有你不在我身边的时候,我才最寂寞。
15、那些执念,那样的旧时光,一晃就过去了。
16、回忆是一座桥,通往寂寞的牢。
17、风空空洞洞地吹过。一年又这么过去。而来年,还要这么过去。我不知道是安稳的背后隐藏着沮丧,还是沮丧里终归有安稳。只是我们,无法找到。
18、朝花夕拾,捡的是枯萎。
19、在那样的电影里,一生就这样过去了。比一朵花开,要来的沉重与短暂。
20、遇到你时,我尚是一张白纸。你不过在纸上写了第一个字,我不过给了一生的情动,心底有了波澜。但我知道波澜总归平静。
21、一些事情渐渐变得淡灭,你知道它存在过,但却已经忘记怎样的存在过 。
22、心若没有栖息的地方,到哪里都是流浪。
23、想爱不能爱才最寂寞,我试着勇敢一点,可我无法面对镜中颤抖的双眼,所以只能跟靠近我的每个人说再见。
24、希望我的手没有弄脏你的手,希望我的心没有伤害你的心。
25、我们都对了还是错了,我们都爱了但是忘了,走的时候你哭了还是怎的,我只是疼了但还是笑了。
26、我颠倒了整个世界,只为摆正你的身影。
27、太阳尚远,但必有太阳。
28、世界之大,我却不知其折或远。
那年冬天,雪下得纷纷扬扬。除夕前那晚,我趴在窗边看雪。灯光中满是飞舞的雪片,仿佛抑制不住满心的喜悦。接连不断的鞭炮声,洋溢着春节来临时温暖的气氛。一切仿佛都映在橘红色灯光的背景里,包括父母发丝里所夹的依稀可见的几丝银发,在这幅冬夜画中闪闪发亮。
我不会忘记,父母是如何把我养育成人的。他们用淳朴与善良浇灌着我,让聪明和热情渗透了我,使我这朵小小的花儿快乐茁壮地成长。记不清有多少次,我摔倒过,父母用鼓励的眼神与亲切的笑容,让我振作,重新站起来;忘不了有多少夜,我在灯下温习功课,父母也在灯下呆呆地坐着,默默地陪伴我大半夜……记不得有多少件充满父母亲爱意的小事,忘不掉有多少父母亲太阳般的关怀。
记得儿时,整天都是无忧无虑地玩闹,与父母也总是那么亲近。那时,我喜欢和爸爸捉迷藏,喜欢和妈妈去集市上买零食,喜欢在爸爸怀里撒娇偷懒。我曾经偷偷地在爸爸身后学他走路,也曾经悠悠地在妈妈身后看她洗刷。那时,总觉得有父母在的地方就是我快乐的天堂!时光流逝总是如此之快!一转眼,我已不再是小孩子了。
我不再喜欢妈妈来安排我的生活,不再喜欢爸爸的督促;不再喜欢妈妈的叮嘱,不再依赖爸爸的怀抱……我开始讨厌爸爸粗糙的大手,开始厌恶妈妈无尽的唠叨;我宁愿将心事告诉好朋友,也不想向父母倾诉。但爸爸妈妈却不以为然,他们仿佛没有看到我的冷漠与叛逆,依然为我默默地付出着。那天早上,太阳依旧是那么明艳洒脱,父母依然是忙忙碌碌,而我,依然重重地摔门,昂首而去。
可当中午,我拖着沉重的脚步踏进大门时,妈妈立刻开门迎出来,拉我进屋。进门,我被眼前的情景震住了!美味的蛋糕,摇曳的烛光,动情的歌声,陈列的佳肴,和谐的氛围,灿烂的笑脸,还有和蔼的爸爸和慈爱的妈妈,这个日子与以往相比是那样不同,此刻我才恍然大悟,原来今天是我的生日啊!父母竟然还把顽固而叛逆的我天天放在心上,此时,往日的一幅幅画面在一瞬间全部涌现在眼前。
最近读了王海鸰的新作《成长》,特别喜欢她的小说,那本大校的女儿看了不下三遍,也是我特别喜欢的小说。小学语文教学论文之所以喜欢她的小说是因为她的小说总是以女性为视角去描述,特别的细腻特别的真实,又可以让你从中学会生活理解人与人之间的关系,教会一个女人坚强自信独立这样你才会不会如此寂寞。她的新作品里的人物云海,一个优秀的女性,为了儿子她放弃了自己外交官的梦想,对于一个北大毕业的高才生而言放弃事业投入家庭是件应该是件难的选择。我特别喜欢她的个性,也特别的`向往可以成为她那么一个人,因为她将她的全部奉献给了儿子,而和儿子之间的感情是别人无法超越的,作为一个母亲的我,面临的也是女儿的教育问题,和爱女儿,而则么样给她更好的爱,这种方式很重要。
他特别了解自己的儿子,在儿子人生关键的转折点(迷茫期)她帮儿子走出来,因为她了解自己的儿子,她知道儿子的承受能力。可能我也是想成为这样一位母亲,不光在生活上可以照顾好她,在她迷茫了可以成为她精神的靠山,默默的陪她站在一起。云海在儿子几次重要的选择上并没有特别干涉,作一名飞行员,娶安叶当老婆,虽然以她的人生阅历明白这样的选择在以后的家庭生活中要坎坷多了,他告诉了儿子。但她了解她的儿子,会坚持自己的选择。写到这里想到了徐老师说的一句话:“对待自己的孩子不是教她要则么做,而是在旁边纠正她做错了的”。
人总要经历才能真的成长,只有这样才知道前人为什么要这么说,才知道一切是这么不易,就像有了孩子,才会更加的理解和关爱父母。
本人在参加英语BEC中级考试取得了不错的`成绩,现把我半年来在准备作文时常用到的一些句型推荐给大家,希望对备考英语BEC的网友有所帮助。
第一部分、BEC作文段首句常用句型:
一、对立观点命题形式的首句:
1. Many people do not doubt that A is superior to B , while others think quite differently on the issue of _____. Personally, I stand on the side of A .
2. Some people say A , other people argue B . In a word , _____. But I cannot agree this point of view for many reasons.
3. There are different views concerning this topic . Some people like to CHOOSE A , some prefer to CHOOSE B . Personally , I prefer B . I think B has more advantages.
4. From my point of view , it is more advisable to CHOOSE A than to CHOOSE B . 5. Despite the fact that most people prefer A , I would like to choose B because the following reasons .
6. In general , I prefer to _____ .
7. As far as I am concerned , I would like to prefer _____ .
8. When it comes to _____ , most people tend to believe A . But others consider B as _____ .
9. When asked about _____ , the vast majority of people would support that A . But others regard B as _____ .
10. At the risk of address the issue too direct , I prefer A because I think that _____ .
11. When asked about _____ , many people give their opinions that _____ , but other people may see _____ differently .
12. When faced with _____ , quite a few would claim that _____ , but others , in contrast , deem _____ as _____ .
13. When inquired about _____ , the vast majority of people would like to _____ , but other people , who hold an opposite view , consider _____ as _____ .
14. When _____ is mentioned _____ , most people believe that _____ , but other people would rather think _____ as _____ .
15. While many people may stick to me idea that _____ , I would like to prefer _____ .
二、单一观点式
A . Agree
1. One of the greatest writers once said that _____ . Now , it still has its significant realistic value .
2. I would follow the reasoning that _____ .
3. Many people advocate that _____ . They claim that _____ . My opinion is the same as theirs in the following reasons .
4. I totally agree with the statement that _____ . The reasons are presented below .
5. After pondering this question on many occasions , I finally reached the conclusion that _____ is something worthy to do and I cannot skip it .
6. my arguments for point are listed as follows.
7. I agree with the above statement because _____ .
8. Nowhere in the world has the issue of _____ been so much debated like in our society .
9. I agree with the statement that _____ without reservation because _____ . 10. Thinking logically , I can only say that the title statement is valid because _____ .
11. I fully support the statement above because I am very sure that _____ .
12. Some may hold the opinion that AAA . But others have a negative attitude . As far as I am concerned , I agree that _____ .
13. Many one have the idea that AAA . However , many others disagree with this argument . But both side of the problem whether _____ are supported by good reasons .
14. Recently , it has been much debated over the problem of AAA . Those who object to AAA announce that _____ . But those who favor AAA utter a sonorous voice that _____ .
15. Recently , there is vehement discussion on the issue of _____ . Those who criticize _____ argue that _____ . They claim that _____ . But people who firmly advocate _____ , on the other hand , argue that _____ .
16. There is a much-debated problem today about _____ . Those who object to _____ argue that _____ . They are very sure about _____ . But people who prefer _____ , on the other hand , claim that _____ .
B . Disagree
1. Until recently , _____ was viewed as _____ . But people are taking a fresh look at it .
2. Recently , we often hear about _____ . But is it ?
3. These days , it is often heard about _____ . But is this really the truth ?
4. I feel such an attitude is negative , and that it can bring _____.
5. Some people argue as if it is a general truth that _____ . But to be frank , I cannot agree with them for the flowing reasons .
6. Despite the fact that many people believe that _____ , I doubt whether the argument can bear much analysis .
7. Although some people hold the opinion that _____ , I wonder whether the argument could bear close examination .
8. In the nationwide , discussion , many people argue that _____ . But I can say nothing but _____ .
9. Advocates of AAA proclaim that _____ , but I _____ .
10. Until recently , _____ was regarded as _____ . But _____ .
11. Some people think that _____ , but I disagree with this opinion for numerous reasons , as presented below .
12. Now , it is increasingly mentioned that _____ . Such people think _____ . But I can only cast doubt on whether _____ .
13. Now , it is widely believed that _____ . These people think _____ . But I wonder if _____ .
14. I cannot totally the idea that _____ . Because , in my point of view , I believe _____ .
15. As a matter of fact , I support that _____ , but I cannot agree with the title statement .
16. Nowadays , it is widely held that _____ . People of this kind think _____ .But I doubt whether _____ .
第二部分、BEC作文常用结尾句:
1. Taking into account of all these factors , we may reach the conclusion that_____ .
2. All reliable evidences point to one saying , that is _____ .
3. For the reasons presented above , I strongly commit to the notion that _____ .
4. While it is true that _____ , I think that _____ .
5. Given the factors I have just outlined , I can only say that _____ .
6. This is not to say that _____ . But in terms of _____ , it is _____ .
7. Therefore , it is easy to draw the conclusion that _____ .
8. Recognizing the fact that _____ should drive us to conclude that _____ .
9. To put all into a nutshell , I _____ .
10. In a word , I support the statement that it is better to _____ because Good stuff! Wonder why there are so few hits.
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