these young people are wrong. in my opinion every student should have a knowledge of housework. after all, they will have a family of their own, and they should do their part in keeping a good home. boys should also learn to do housework, for what will they do if they remain single? though not all boys remain single, yet they will be very helpful in the family if they know some housework. anyhow they will not lose anything, but, on the contrary, they will gain something useful.
for what i said above, we can find some eamples of our fellow-students studying abroad. all young men do housework as girls do. someone would argue that we can employ servants. this is true. however, what shall we do if the servant leaves us and all things are left to ourselves? we just cannot leave our clothes as they are and let worms and ants eat them up. and what can we do it we go and study in a foreign country where servants are out our means to employ? we must work for ourselves. why not start to learn to do housework now or else it will be too late? everyone should learn to do housework. what do you think about my idea, boys and girls?
你们在国内更习惯应试教育这种教育模式,而国外是截然不同的开放式教育。你们出国后面对这种教育模式的变化,短时间内会出现不适应,需要一段时间来适应和磨合。当你们在国内的时候,多了解一下外国的教育模式与中国应试教育的差异,会让你们在心理和实践上都有一个准备过程,那么,这个磨合期就会大大缩短,有利于你们快速的进入学习状态。
有些家长听到了我的意见定会说:“小小年纪就上网,如果上了瘾,上课不专心听讲,满脑子的游戏,学业也会荒废。互联网这个东西是弊大于利的`!"其实,这些家长只看到了互联网的坏处,无视了互联网好的一面。互联网就像一片海洋,在这片“海洋”之中,你有任何问题,都能解决。对于学生来说,上网的好处不仅仅在于能够解决问题,还可以打网游(网络游戏),还通讯方便,有“QQ”“email”等通讯工具。在家长的那一方面,上网给他们带来了方便,实惠,快捷,休闲。方便可以在家中开会;实惠快捷可以网上购物;休闲可以在网上听音乐,种种地,还可以认养一只动物作为自己的宠物。
其实,这些家长不让孩子上网,是应为怕上网时间太久不肯下来了,不肯下来了,可以控制好时间,或者使用打一个小时还一个小时来做作业,这样家长就能放心的让我们上网了。
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学会沟通,乐于沟通是你们出去之后面对的第一大难关。因为陌生的环境,陌生的人群,远离了亲人,你们过去之后第一感受到的就是寂寞。学会沟通和分享就显得特别重要。学会沟通的第一步就是敢于张嘴说话,有问题直接联系你的朋友和老师不管是中国人还是外国人,绝大多数的外国朋友还是非常友好的愿意帮助你们的;学会沟通的第二步就是学会理解,理解对方的文化习俗,理解对方的喜好与习惯,毕竟你们出去会遇到各个国家的同学和老师。所以在国内可以适当的去学习些这方面的知识。
在澳大利亚和新西兰留学,对你们的自主学习能力提出了相当高的要求。国外的孩子从小在这种开放式的教育背景下成长,已经习惯了自主的研究式的学习方式,但是在国内你们仍然习惯于授课式的学习,习惯了听讲、记笔记、做作业以及频繁的,在这种约束之下,成绩出来了,学习的自觉性和主动性却降低了。你们到了国外开放式的教育环境,没有了这么多的约束,自觉性和主动性就显得尤为重要。在国内的时候,就要有意识的去培养自己自学的习惯和能力。
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