亲爱的爸爸:
您好!
我有许多心里话想对您说,可是每次鼓起勇气到您面前时,我总是说不出话来,我就趁这次写信的机会跟你说说我的心里话吧!
自从我们家买了电脑以后,我很高兴,可是我每次想玩电脑的时候,您总是找这样或那样的理由来拒绝我,可是我曾经偷偷的看了您在上网的时候,你竟然在打扑克,我真觉得不公平,你娱乐,我为什么不能娱乐呢?只有在双休日才可以勉强玩一会,当我没写完作业的时候,您总是催我赶快去写作业,可我根本没心思写作业。您应该让我放松一下心情再让我写作业,这不是两全其美吗?比如老师说要我们写日记,您要我写完作业才能出去玩或玩电脑,可是我没有做什么有意义的事情,您让我怎么写日记呢?所以说,您应该让我做一些有意义的事情,才能让我打开思维更好地完成作业。
您不给我玩电脑我可以理解,但是您望子成龙的心也太强烈了吧!每次有同学来找我玩,爸爸总是说不要和一些成绩差的同学玩,古人云:“近朱者赤,近墨者黑”啊!如果他跟我玩能让他的成绩提高,这也算一种美德啊!难道你不想让我们黄家永留芳名吗?难道你不想让祖宗为他的子孙而骄傲自豪吗?所以您应该让我和成绩差的同学玩,让我们的下一代子孙为我们而感到无比的骄傲与自豪吧。
祝爸爸工作顺利、万事如意。
您的儿子:黄杰
20xx年9月5日
亲爱的爸爸:
您好!记得有一次,我的头晕得不行,你的眼神里露出了焦急的眼色,而我却在那大喊大叫,您急忙背着我去医院。在医院里,您又一刻也没闲着。当针扎进我的肉里,我看见您的眼神里露出了紧张的神色,而我却让您买吃的。那时下着鹅毛般的大雪,您冒着大雪给我买来了香喷喷的饭菜,当我咽下去第一口饭菜,我的身体里就立刻充满了暖流。我问您,饿不饿,您却说,不饿。当我一觉醒来的时候,发现自己的身上多了一件大衣,而您却在那里裹着被子打着哆嗦。我心中突然悔恨不已,悔恨自己不该这样连累您,您为我付出的太多了。唉,爸爸,对不起您啦,看着您那样子,我的心里真的不好受。
当护士给我来拔针的时候,您还在那呼呼大睡,我告诉护士不要吵醒您,我轻轻地走到您身边,把衣服披到您身上,我看到您的脸冻得通红,我的心里又是一阵酸楚。这时,您一下子惊醒了,把衣服披到了我身上,还说:“爸爸还热得很呢!”说完,还假装扇着扇子,把我们俩都逗乐了。
爸爸,您为我付出太多了!当您打扫卫生的时候(),我会主动帮助您打扫;当我再生病的时候,我不会再大喊大叫了。
爸爸,您太累了。爸爸,您应该休息一下了。爸爸,亲亲您的左脸颊。
此致
敬礼
祝:工作顺利、万事如意!
亲爱的爸爸:
我心里有许多话想对您说,但一看见您,就说不出口,现在趁写作文的机会告诉你吧!
爸爸,每当我踏进学校的大门时,总有一种负担跟随着我,它总提醒我要好好学习,不能给您丢脸。一旦,我考了80多分的时候,您总是严厉地批评我、狠狠地打骂我一顿。因此,每当我成绩考不好时,心里都闷闷不乐的,不敢把考卷拿给您看。我多么地希望您能和别人的家长那样,用心地辅导我,给我分析题目做错的原因。
您还记得吗?上次我们第二单元考试,您也知道,那是我最讨厌的一个单元,我学习时总是心不在焉。当第二单元考试时,我的脑子一片空白,再加上我的数学基础不是很好,因此,我在考试时边考试边在草稿纸上涂涂写写,到了最后,考试的时间都不够用了。等到考卷发下来以后,成绩只有84分,我看了以后,心里非常难过。当我把考卷递给您看时。您立马大发雷霆,恶狠狠地说到:“你是怎么考的,才84分,这个成绩怎么进广海中学读呀1我听了以后,难过得伤心起来,心里默默地想:我可真笨呀,又让爸爸大发雷霆了。下次一定好好学习,考出好成绩,让爸爸高兴。突然间,您又唠叨起来:“你看你,这些题目都是不应该被扣分的呀¥·····”“什么,你连加减的口算都错了那么多题,还想干什么呀1我听了以后,心里更加难过,真希望您能体谅体谅我的心情。您一直这样地教训我,会使我幼小的心灵受到巨大的伤害。
爸爸,在这儿,我想对您说:“爸爸,以后您能不能像别人的家长一样,耐心地辅导我的功课,不要整天沉醉在电脑游戏当中。我会听您的话,认真学习,相信不久,我的数学成绩就会有所提高的。您等着我带给您的惊喜吧1祝: 身体健康!
您的女儿:xxx
亲爱的爸爸:
您好!
我是您的儿子,从我出生起,你们就一直在为我操心,而我就是一个捣蛋鬼,经常给你们捣蛋。每一次捣蛋后,面对的是你的生气、愤怒及皮鞭。每次被你痛打一顿后,我心里对你的讨厌、憎恨就会增加一分。自从我做了最大的一件错事后,才发现你对我用心的照顾,我才明白了你的辛苦。
记得那次,我玩同学带来的枪一不小心打中了给我玩枪同学的眼睛。看到同学受伤的眼睛我很害怕,虽然我不是故意的,可是这次的祸闯大了。更害怕面对你,那是因为以前我一闯祸你就会痛打我一顿。
我以为你会像以前一样,没准更加变本加厉的惩罚我。没有想到你知道这件事后,没有骂我,也没有打我。爸爸把我叫道跟前语重心长的说:“你长大了,也应该懂事了,下次别玩这么危险的东西了。
幸好你同学的眼睛没有打问题,要不然,儿子你可就害了别人一辈子,也害了自己一辈子。”第二天你到学校给同学的家长道歉,你一辈子争强好胜,没想到这时的你却是低声下气,嘴里不停地说:“我没把儿子教好,都是我的错……”
看到你低声下气的样子,我对你的讨厌、憎恨都消失了,心里却是莫名的心酸。这件事发生后,老师找我谈心。老师说:“你的爸爸一直都很关心你,从你开始转到五(三)班时到现在,你的爸爸每个星期都打电话给老师,寻问我你在学校的情况。语气充满了关切。”老师说完后,我很感动,原来爸爸的心里是很爱我的。
爸爸我想对你说:谢谢您亲爱的爸爸。
祝:您身体健康!
您的儿子
When I was a freshman in college I watched the film Gua Sha Treatment for the first time, now I am a junior student and I come back to review the movie from a multicultural aspect, I have many different feelings after watching the film again.
At the beginning of the film, XuDatong is given an award and later he delivers a speech. What makes me impressed most is in his speech he says “one day I will become one of you, a truly successful American, today this award proved that America is a true land of opportunity and I am the living proof of that.” At that moment Xu thinks he has realized his American Dream totally with his lovingly wife and adorable son. However, I think it is ironical that to make a speech like that and I assume it is made on purpose to hind a clue for the story's development. How many non—American people have such a beautiful American dream? One of my classmate studies in American now and before he went aboard he told me his American dream is he can stand at the top of the New York. To be honest, I also dream that one day I can get the Green Card living there happily and successfully maybe working at the Wall Street. When Xu gets the award he thinks he entirely melted in the melting pot neglecting the multicultural obstruct, later the plot goes against the way he thinks. And later Quinlan asked Xu'why you be the scapegoat of your father?' Xu answers 'because he is Chinese.' Then maybe Xu knows that there is always a wide gap between Chinese and American cultures.
The second scene is Xu hit his son Denis because Denis hit the son of xu's boss, at the middle of the film xu tells his boss that he hit his own son is only to show his respect to his boss John Quinlan, that time Quinlan feels puzzled “what a Chinese logic”,yes, American can never understand such a logic full of Chinese characteristic, because they respect everyone including the children, they won't beat a child to please the boss, and there is no such a conception of degree between employee and employer, they feel everyone is equal, which is quite different from china.
Connected to the second scene, the third difference I want to analyze is the care for the children. In America, people pay more attention to the right of children which can be seen from the law—leaving children alone at home is illegal, while in China it is so common that almost everyone may experience such loneliness. And Children Welfare Agency does work in America which shows the importance Americans attach to children's right. What's more, I remember a line 'No one won the case, especially the child.' In my opinion, it also manifests the universal concern from the American public to the children.
The fourth aspect is following the procedure, in the film, more than there times, the people focus on the rule, the law, the procedure. At the Christmas Eve Xu wants to return back to his home pretending as a Santa Claus, what a pity, the security recognizes him and persuades 'you are always a good tenement, never causes troubles for me.' And another scene is at the end of the film , the judge says 'I have to follow the procedure.' However, in China people always have to ask for a favor to do something, and later you have to pay back the favor,for myself, I prefer the American style, strict to the procedure.
The fifth and the last point is the humors, Quinlan says 'you can't fall, your health security is the company paid.' 'Datong, welcome home, maybe next time, you can come from the front door.' 'dady, why you come from the window' ' because we don't have a chimney.' I really adore this distinguished American humor, especially in dangerous situations, which is quite rare in China.
That's my whole reaction to Gua Sha Treatment.
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