奖励与惩罚是树立行为规范的手段。在是否惩罚孩子的问题上,家长可以施加不是太过分的惩罚办法。但是,惩罚不应该是家长感情用事时的行为。只有当孩子有错误行为,或者必须要为自己的行为负责任时,惩罚才是有意义的。
父母的榜样作用。言传不如身教。父母热爱学习是对孩子的最大鼓励。在学习气氛浓厚的环境中长大的孩子,往往对学习有浓厚的兴趣。
其实这个英语课程也挺不错的,每天上午40分钟的电脑学习和40分钟的教师拓展。我个人认为,这个方法非常好,第一节课摆脱了教师的整体知道,自己根据自己的漏洞来学习;而第二节课则是阅读理解拓展,正好也是我的漏洞,所以这380元花得值。最令我难忘的则是第一天,并不是因为电脑的事。 在上敏特英语的第一天,我起晚了,7:15才起的床,我以最快的速度洗漱完毕,穿好衣服,以豹子舨的速度飞奔向学校。虽然速度快,可还是迟到了,晚了5分钟。我想到学校的老师基本上都很严厉,迟到一会就会“没命了”,我不由得紧张起来,我只听到咚咚的声音,原来是我的心脏跳动的声音。我不由得放慢了脚步,反正已经迟到了,早受罪不如晚受罪。我走到机房门口轻轻地敲了一下门,我只见到一位和蔼可亲的\'老师,她对我说:“今天迟到了,下回不要这样了,去开机吧。”我没想到我竟然奇迹般的躲过了一劫。我打开了电脑,班长坐在我旁边,他笑呵呵地对我说:“咱们真够幸运的,遇上了和蔼的老师,否则你就……”电脑打开了,我认真地学习初三的英语单词,不知不觉中,35分钟过去了。 第二节课我也必须要提一下。进入了第二节课,老师发给了我们一张卷子,让我们先做,这里面的题对于我来说不算太难,但依然有难题。尤其是完型填空,最让我头疼。这位老师在学生中漫步,看到了我就剩一道题,她面带微笑地对我说:“又遇到难题了?自己仔细想想,你肯定能想出来。”我同时似乎吃了信心丸,努力想,终于在老师讲题之前想出来了。
时间如流水,敏特英语已经学习了8天,这就预示着过完年了,要开学了,英语学的怎么样不是说就能所表达出来的,别人不知道,自己却心知肚明。开学了,你准备好了吗?
今天,我和女儿一起观看了王金战老师《怎样让每个孩子都爱上学习》后受益匪浅,感触颇深。望子成龙望女成凤是我们每个家长的愿望,作为家长,我们都希望我们的孩子爱学习,学习好。"别把学习当罪受。"一语道出了孩子的心声,也何谈不是我们家长应该思考的。我们应正确认识孩子不爱学习,通过正确的`方法改变这种状态,让孩子爱上学习。以下就是我自己的一些小体会。
有一位教育名家这样说过:"谁放弃了家庭教育,谁就几乎葬送了孩子的前程;而谁赢得了家庭教育,谁就赢得了孩子辉煌的未来。"家庭教育对一个人的启蒙、成长、成才有着不可估量的作用,家长的人生观、道德观和价值观都会对孩子成长产生极为深刻的影响。我作为一名家长同时也是一名老师,我深知家校的联系和配合对孩子的重要性有多大。配合老师是为了你的孩子,不是为了老师或是学校。充分认识家校共建共育的重要性,提高教师和家长的合作共建教育意识,才能使教育的途径得以畅通,教育才能有成效。学校与家庭若在学生教育问题上产生分歧,就会给学校的教育和管理带来种种的困难,降低学校教育的效率。家庭教育既是学校教育的基础,又是学校教育的补充。"十年树木,百年树人",因此要努力促进家庭教育与学校教育的相互配合和协调。
Jane Eyre, is a poor but aspiring, small in body but huge in soul, obscure but self-respecting girl. After we close the covers of the book, after having a long journey of the spirit, Jane Eyre, a marvelous figure, has left us so much to recall and to think:
We remember her goodness: for someone who lost arms and blinded in eyes, for someone who despised her for her ordinariness, and even for someone who had hurt her deeply in the past.
We remember her pursuit of justice. It’s like a panion with the goodness. But still, a virtuous person should promote the goodness on one side and must check the badness on the other side.
We remember her self-respect and the clear situation on equality. In her opinion, everyone is the same at the God’s feet. Though there are differences in status、in property and also in appearance, but all the human being are equal in personality.
We also remember her striving for life, her toughness and her confidence…
When we think of this girl, what she gave us was not a pretty face or a transcendent temperament that make us admire deeply, but a huge charm of her ersonality.
Actually, she wasn’t pretty, and of course, the ordinary appearance didn’t make others feel good of her, even her own aunt felt disgusted with it. And some others even thought that she was easy to look down on and to tease, so when Miss Ingram met Jane Eyre, she seemed quite contemptuous, for that she was obviously much more prettier than ‘the plain and ugly governess’. But as the little governess had said: ‘Do you think, because I am poor, obscure, plain, and little, I am soulless and heartless? You think wrong!’ This is the idea of equality in Jane Eyre’s mind. God hadn’t given her beauty and wealth, but instead, God gave her a kind mind and a thinking brain. Her idea of equality and self-respect impress us so much and let us feel the power inside her body.
In my mind, though a person’s beauty on the face can make others once feel that one is attractive and charming, if his or her mind isn’t the same beautiful as the appearance, such as beauty cannot last for, when others find that the beauty which had charmed them was only a falsity, it’s not true, they will like the person no more. For a long time, only a person’s GREat virtue, a noble soul, a beautiful heart can be called as AN EVERLASTING BEAUTY, just as Kahill Gibran has said, that ‘Beauty is a heart enflamed and a soul enchanted’. I can feel that how beauty really is, as we are all fleshly men, so we can’t distinguish whether a man is of nobleness or humbleness, but fleshly men, so we can’t distinguish whether a man is of nobleness or humbleness, but as there are great differences in our souls, and from that, we can know that whether a man is noble or ordinary, and even obscure, that is, whether he is beautiful or not.
Her story makes us thinking about life and we learn much from her experience, at least, that is a fresh new recognition of the real beauty.
目前,许多小学在推广"快乐教育"的,为的是让孩子在高兴中学习,这不失为是提高孩子学习兴趣的一种手段。以前我的孩子总有一种为了我和他爸爸在学习,在这一方面,我也是花费了很多心思,让她明确学习是为了他自己。所以,家长一定要帮助孩子树立一种观念,告诉孩子学习成绩同以后个人的前途和职业是联系在一起的。做父母的还可以向孩子讲述自己的经验,讲述自己在课堂上学到的东西怎样在自己的生活中发挥作用。这样,孩子对学习的愿望就会增强而且持久。
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