导语: 有趣是人性的最高境界。做个有趣的人并不难,首要之事便是自己要先觉得这个世界有趣。趣味主义是一种生活态度。
时下大多中国人评价一个人成功与否的标准,大体不外乎是通过一些很刚性的指标,比如身份、地位,职业、收入,房子、车子,孩子的教育、本人的游历等等,似乎一旦拥有这些也就可以称之为成功了。至此,想起了央视新生代名人芮成钢说,在国外评价一个人是用“有趣”来界定,如果被人说“没趣”,那将是很失败的。为此有人说,人生最大的敌人是——无趣。
无趣是有历史源渊的。我们这几代人恰巧碰到我们这个时代简直让你无法有趣:上一辈人经历了一个灰色年代的洗礼,看世界的眼光是阶级斗争是非观,有趣的含义基本等同于“小资情调”,是无产阶级专政对象。我们的下一辈过着色彩炫目的新生活,世界变化之快让你都来不及想有趣这件事。而俺们这辈人在上下夹击下,负担之沉重,思想之矛盾,成就了咱舒展不开的眉头。所以我们的身边有很多人很善良,很能干,事业成功,财富不少,只是一点也没趣。有些女人,美是美,靓是靓,也让人很乏味。
什么是“有趣”呢?按照拆字的方法来解释,有趣二字的关键是“趣”字,“趣味”“情趣”“兴趣”。台湾著名诗人余光中在《朋友四型》里把人分四种:第一型,高级而有趣;第二型,高级而无趣;第三型,低级而有趣;第四型,低级而无趣。把有趣和无趣当作分类的标准,可见有趣之人是多么可人。“鬼才”贾平凹说:“人可以无知,但不可以无趣”(见《观云奇石》序,想必土得掉渣的大作家也是个有趣之人。凤凰卫视女记者闾丘露薇也说:“要让自己成为一个有趣的女人”。
做人若无趣,这很煞风景。人一旦“没有趣”了,就会变得粗糙、麻木、肤浅,变得不再可爱了。整天愁眉苦脸、忧心忡忡、唉声叹气,面目可憎,好像这个世界谁都欠着你似的。这样的人活着,只会给别人添堵。而一个有趣的人则不然,由于他、她的存在,而使周围的人群变得热闹起来,他、她的“气场”催化着人生的精义,叫人奋发,让人快乐。有趣的人,是生活中的“开心果”,是人群中的“快乐源”,与有趣的人相处,你会觉得世界变得有趣,生活变得有趣,自己似乎也变得有趣起来。
有趣的人,是热爱生活的人。生活中的吃穿住食行哪样没有深奥广博的学问,光吃一样,他就能巴嚼出不少趣味来,吃得好看,吃得稀罕,吃得兴趣盎然,吃得阳光灿烂,都是可以追求的境界。《别闹了,费曼先生》里有这样一位科学家,他对所有关于动脑筋的事情都充满兴趣,魔术、开锁、解密码、猜谜、心算、赌钱……对兴趣的.不断追逐,让这位怪才的生活成了无数人的梦想。
有趣的人,并不是现代人一定比古人更有趣。总觉得古代的有些人比我们现在活得有趣。今天我们读《论语》,也许会觉得孔老夫子是一个无趣的人,可是,你若知道他和他的学生讲话是那样的幽默,见到美人南子时竟俯下身子去吻伊的鞋,就会明白所谓“圣人”者,却也竟是一个性情中人,一个有趣的人。
有趣的人,未必有多显赫的名声,但肯定潇洒脱俗。晋人王子猷居山阴,一晚忽降大雪,子猷被冻醒,索性来到院中边饮酒边观赏雪景,不由得心绪起伏,吟起诗来。
有趣的人,心无羁绊,直抒胸臆,至性至情。国学大师、楚辞泰斗文怀沙老先生,快一百岁的人了,偏偏喜欢穿大红大绿的衣服,戴着能盖半张脸的大墨镜,比小伙子还时髦;每次出席活动,必要主持人介绍他为“青年诗人”,一发言就引经据典、插科打诨,逗得满堂喝彩。见到美女,不仅两眼放光,用尽“花言巧语”赞扬,而且还想办法亲近,他在哪儿,哪儿就热闹。
有趣的人,或许境遇并不好,但特立独行,不改本色。金圣叹一生诙谐,因“哭庙案”而被判死刑后,仍一如既往。眼看行刑时刻将到,金圣叹的两个儿子梨儿、莲子望着即将永诀的慈父,泪如泉涌。金圣叹却从容不迫,泰然自若地说:“哭有何用,来,我出个你们来对。”于是吟出了上联“莲子心中苦”。儿子哭跪在地哪有心思对对联。他稍思索说:“起来吧,别哭了,我替你们对下联。”接着念出了下联“梨儿腹内酸”。这副生死诀别对,一语双关,对仗严谨,撼人心魄。
有趣的人,不见得能成就大事业,但让人看着就高兴。《射雕英雄传》里老顽童周伯通,是最让人喜欢的一个角色,他虽然武功盖世,却是儿童心态,整天疯疯癫癫的,爱搞恶作剧,玩心太重,围绕着他发生了许多喜剧,使得打打******腥风血雨的江湖,多了不少浪漫欢快的生活气息。
需要提醒的是:有趣是这个世界上的稀缺资源,有趣与读书多少无关,与挣钱多少无关。有趣和身份、地位,男女、年龄,环境、条件无关。有趣之人是很容易被曲解的,有人误认为打架泡妞、吃喝嫖赌、粗言烂语、举止猥琐就是有趣,那就大错特错了。
有趣是人性的最高境界。做个有趣的人并不难,首要之事便是自己要先觉得这个世界有趣。趣味主义是一种生活态度。有趣的人大抵聪明、乐观、幽默,并且感性。有趣的人才是懂得生命真谛的人,也是懂得享受生命的人。有趣的人越多,我们的幸福指数就越高,但愿我们都能变得有趣起来。
Beijing time, in the early morning of August 5th, Sun Yang defend title successfully with the score of 14 points 41 seconds 15 in 2013 swimming world championships men's 1500 meter freestyle finals. This is the third gold medal in this tournament for Sun Yang as well as the fifth goal of China’s swimming, which is slower 10 second 13 than the result of the London Olympic Games when Sun Yang achieves the champion. Sun Yang uses the score of his fifth goal in his career life to tie with the medal record that Luo Xuejuan keeps in the Chinese swimmer World Championship. He also becomes the person after Hackett in the 2005 Montreal World Championships and a single tournament winning the gold medal of “the king of long distance " in men’s 400, 800 and 1500 meter freestyle.
北京时间8月5日凌晨,2013年游泳世锦赛男子1500米自由泳决赛,孙杨以14分41秒15的成绩赢得金牌成功卫冕,这是孙杨本届赛事第三枚金牌,也是中国泳军收获的第五金,这一成绩比伦敦奥运会夺冠时慢了10秒13。 孙杨也以生涯五枚金牌的成绩,追平罗雪娟保持的中国游泳选手世锦赛夺金纪录,并且成为继哈克特在2005年蒙特利尔世锦赛后,又一位单届赛事包揽男子400、800和1500米自由泳金牌的“中长距离之王”!
When I was in high school, one of my classmates sit right beside me. His name is ChenLiang. He is my unforgettable person in my life.
I remembered my mathematics was just mediocre at that time, but he was extraordinary and excellent in calculating and solving mathematic questions. He often received perfect scores. Of course, I wished I could reach at his level. Since we talked all day long, I asked how he could solve those difficult questions. He was so patient and polite to answer my sometimes ridiculous thinking. Gradually, I built my confidence at mathematics and finally passed the college entrance exam.
Now, we are apart, but I still remember his great attitude and willing in study. I am so obliged to my classmate, who is my friend always and forever.
My favourite swimmer is Sun Yang.He swims very fast.He took part in the last Olympic Games.He is my hero.
He is 21 years oid.He is very tall.He is 198cm tall.He is cute.I love him.
He is good at swingming very much, He has had all-round success in his study olypic games.
My favorite sports star------ Sun Yang
Born on December 1, 1991 in Zhejiang Province, Sun Yang is very tall and the height is 1.99 meters. He was from a sports family.
He won the China's first gold medal in men's swimming game. He worked a miracle. Sun Yang is not only gifted but also diligent. He keeps training and has tenacious willpower; these are worth learning by other people. Sun Yang is a new frontrunner at the sports worlds.
Sun Yang is very popular with the young. He is adorable, charming, childlike and cool. He is kind and has the vigor of youth, and he is a little shy. But Sun Yang is easy-going, always with a smile on his face when he faces our. He sings well and sounds beautiful. To my surprise, he likes dolls very much.
Sun Yang sets us a good example, and Sun Yang has set a new world record of swimming, of which the whole country’s people are proud
When I was in high school, one of my classmates sit right beside me. His name is ChenLiang. He is my unforgettable person in my life.I remembered my mathematics was just mediocre at that time, but he was extraordinary and excellent in calculating and solving mathematic questions. He often received perfect scores. Of course, I wished I could reach at his level. Since we talked all day long, I asked how he could solve those difficult questions. He was so patient and polite to answer my sometimes ridiculous thinking. Gradually, I built my confidence at mathematics and finally passed the college entrance exam.youtheme
Now, we are apart, but I still remember his great attitude and willing in study. I am so obliged to my classmate, who is my friend always and forever.
翻译:
当我在高中的时候,我的一个同学坐在我旁边。他的名字是亮。他是我一生中最难忘的人,我记得当时我的数学成绩很平庸,但他在计算和解决数学问题方面表现不凡,成绩优异。他经常得到完美的成绩。当然,我希望我能达到他的水平。既然我们谈了一整天,我问他怎么能解决这些困难的问题。他是那么耐心和礼貌的回答我有时可笑的想法。渐渐地,我对数学有了信心,并最终通过了大学入学
现在,我们分开了,但我仍然记得他的伟大的态度,并愿意在学习。我很感激我的同学,他是我的朋友,永远和永远。
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