After watching this movie, the heart can not be calm, it let me see the heros optimistic, strong, confident and never give up, but also understand the worlds apathy, helpless and uneasy. The cause of the failure, his wife abandoned, life distress and defeat Chris, on the contrary, the suffering experience made him become more self-confidence, he never give up faith, in trouble, finally it comes to firmly grasp their own happiness.
How could we not be so in our life? Life is a long journey, and no one on this journey is smooth sailing, and no one can predict what will happen on this journey But one thing we can believe is that when God closes a door for you, she opens a window for you.
This story reminds me of the scene thirteen years ago. Thirteen years ago, just graduated, I left home with longing and hope, came to the provincial capital of Jinan, then only in the pocket of my mother gave me one hundred yuan. After a lot of trouble, I found a job of selling commodities for a trading company. Every day carrying a packet of small streets, hard to imagine. The scene of the first customer rejection, the scene of being scolded by the customer for the first time, a man hiding in the corner crying...
Still fresh in memory. That experience made me realize that when were in trouble, letting go of our self will only make us worse, and we can get nothing except a little sympathy. On the contrary, this is the moment we make efforts, energy savings, firm belief, lock the target, hold on and never give up, you can in the happiness comes and firmly grasp her. No one has ever been alone. Recently, a colleague has passed his own effort to enter a financial institution in the city. In the eyes of everyone, he is a lucky man. But perhaps no one saw the hard work he did in the process. In this world, everything is a process from quantitative change to qualitative change. When we envy other peoples luck, we may not see how much others pay in the process When were watching TV, when were having fun, when were chatting......
Perhaps others are studying business, perhaps is study of professional knowledge, perhaps is to fight to win or die......
We often see the success of others, but rarely see the hardships of others behind the success. One hundred people, one hundred people, different lifestyles, there are one hundred different interpretations of happiness, you choose what kind of life, what kind of action. So dont blindly envy others success, if you want to succeed, if you want to decide your own happiness, it starts from a little bit, starting from your nearest goal, adhere to! Insist! Insist again!
When one day happiness knocks at the door, you can catch her without hesitation, and then you will also become the lucky person in the eyes of others. In daily work, we should always remind ourselves, when happiness knocks at the door, are you really ready?
When I read "when happiness knocks on the door", this film makes me feel how hard it is to have no money in the world. When Crete Gadens wife left, homeless, took his son to sleep in the toilet, he cried, he felt he was incompetent, helpless, even down to the toilet. He said to his son: "you are the best, to adhere to your dream, no matter who can not control your dream, that is, your father can not write." In him, I saw that he was in a very clean suit even though he was down and out. Because he knows, only professional, in order to attract more customers. He tried to make a phone call, not a phone. In order to make a phone call, not even drink water, so you dont have to go to the toilet. And at any time in the role of the younger brother, for the manager of tea, buy food for the manager. But even so, he is still very optimistic, because although his wife left him, but also his son, the son is the backbone, the son can live a good life, have a good education, being wronged, tired by the point and is what?
Finally pays off, he finally found a big customer, in order to get close to him, Crete Gaden accompanied the customers to watch the game, the game introduced a lot of customers in the customer for him, said: "the big customers in a short time, I wont let you control my money. But I appreciate you, so I am willing to make friends with you, after 100 days of hard work, Crete Gaden finally passed the examination, he won the first performance, he became the only one who was admitted to government securities company. When Crete Gaden entered the directors office, a securities company executives told him that you have become a formal securities agent, his heart very excited, tears in his eyes, in addition to the 3 top repeat saying thank you, he can not say a word. He thought that he and his son would never have to sleep in the toilet again, and no longer go to church workhouse, and he couldnt help but shed tears. It was tears of happiness. He thought of the future to give his son the best life, the best education, and he tears, gave a happy smile, he ran to his sons school, a Chinese opened for poor children studying in the school, hugged her son, thought: "son, Dad after you can get good life, have a good education!" By 2005, Crete Gaden had become a million dollar banker.
This is the "pursuit of happiness", their happiness will never knock on our door, we want to fight for their own, as long as the hard work, unremittingly, happiness will come knocking never yield in spite of reverses, our door.
这部电影讲述了一位失去了妻子的穷困父亲通过自己的努力最终获得人生成功的电影,或许大家看完都会感动,为这位父亲鼓掌,通过他的努力,仿佛看见了努力地自己,然而我想说的是,这不是终点。
现实中很多人和这位父亲的状况很类似,自己的经济收入不太高,而且有老婆孩子,虽然很努力地作者销售工作,但是却没有什么成就。就现实来看,这类人真的算是失败的,在中国,如果你已经有了孩子,还不能给他一个稳定的生活,就连自己也过得有些穷困潦倒,我相信,这样的生活早就逼疯了许多人。所以,不难理解,男主的老婆为什么选择离开,贫穷真的会使一个人失去和曾经最亲近的人共度一生的念头。当然,我相信绝大多数的人都是理性派,这种没有太大成就的人,在如今的中国,父母也不放心把自己的女儿教导他的手上。影片中为了前后的对比鲜明,这样的套路也是正常的。
接下来,男主在老婆离开后开始带着孩子到处找地方睡觉吃饭,不过,作为理性派的笔者,真的很感叹美国的福利政策是真的好。每天一大批人去占领那些救济的床铺和食物,让我想到究竟什么滋生出了贫穷?除了极少数真正的贫穷,绝大多数人在开始经历贫穷时便开始放弃自己的人生,他们更愿意每天去排队占领极少的社会福利,也不愿意去工作。看过一个报道,说是外国的乞丐不似中国的那般,他们乞讨很有骨气,也从不开口求些什么,只愿意顺其自然。不过,乞丐终究是乞丐,靠人吃饭,看人脸色,一开始可能会害羞,久而久之就也成了一种习惯。男主是个努力地人,这没有成为他最后的归宿,无论说是为了孩子也好,还是为了自己也罢,至少身在低谷中的我们不能就此一蹶不振。尊严不是丢在地上就捡不起来的东西。
或许这部电影给人的感动,来自父亲的爱,来自父亲的努力,但是在这基础上,我们也不要忘记来自母亲的痛和来之母亲的无奈。生活不逼你一把,你永远不知道你可以多优秀。当男主通过千辛万苦终于争取到那5%的转正机会,这一幕感动了多少人。或许现在的我们坐在办公室里,吹着空调,喝着星爸爸,却在感慨自己的工资这么低,工作又多又无聊,然而这一切终究是个心态问题。放大男主的细节,我们可以发现其实他也不算是个特别优秀的人,我们看到了他后期的努力,却忘记了他前期的遗憾,为了弥补这些,他只有通过后期的努力才能追的上,所以啊,当幸福来敲门,其实这道门一直在那里,就等着我们自己去慢慢接近。
最后想说的是你的失去,不意味着你再也得不到。同样,你的努力也可能没有到达应有的努力水平而获得不了任何东西。年轻人,或许你还觉得自己挺努力的,就是没有什么成功,为什么?你开始变得抱怨,变得焦虑,却忘记了,成功之道,不光有努力就够了,去看看你身边成功的人,哪怕是你的同事中的佼佼者,你会发现,他做的,不仅仅有你表面的努力,还有更多你不愿意去尝试的事情,而你只愿意努力到这里。
《当幸福来敲门》这部电影上学时看过,当时只有感动,觉得男主生活不易。因为当时还未踏入社会,不知道社会的残酷,不知道生活的无奈。其实这部电影看过有几遍了,我高中时候和现在看感触完全不在一个层次上,每次的体会感觉都会更深一层,现在已为人母,感受到的就更不一样了。
《当幸福来敲门》名字是有非常意义的,幸福其实很简单它存在每个人之间,我们和他相比,就是幸福。所以,当幸福来的时候我们应该珍惜。我觉得这部电影的精彩之处就在于让大多数人都能感到共鸣并且产生一股正能量。影片整体给我感觉有如下几点:
1、着装是给人的第一印象,即使穷困潦倒,依旧要穿着整齐。这是态度;
2、抓住可以让明天变得美好的一切机会,哪怕是坏了,也不放弃一丝希望。这是坚持;
3、对孩子,倾尽所有。这是责任,担当;
4、从实习到考试,只要停下来,他的手里始终都会有一本培训的书。机会始终是留给准备好了的人的;
5、更欣赏男主无论多难的境地,始终保持最后的礼貌和基本情绪,除了带儿子被敲门那一段,这个男人一直没有崩溃,有的只有豁出去***坚毅和战胜窘境的信念。
影片让我看到了一个男人从最低点往上爬的一个过程。无论重重困难重重阻力都无法阻挡他前进的脚步和勤奋的学习。这样的过程才叫人生,是值得我们深思的。在这个世界上无论什么事情,办法总是有的,只看你想不想去做,和有没有能力去做是两回事。除了儿子他失去了一切,和儿子相依为命,过着居无定所的艰难日子,带着儿子睡在地铁站的厕所,当有人敲门时,父亲躲在厕所内紧紧抱着熟睡的儿子。强忍着眼泪,只希望门外的人快点离开,不想让别人看到自己落魄的样子,虽然他知道这样做很不礼貌。作为父亲,家里的顶梁柱,他承受了多少压力。只有抓住最后一丝希望,拼命努力,改变自己的人生。这让我回想起20多年前的母亲,有着相近的经历,当时的妈妈也曾是含着泪咬着牙把我和姐姐拉扯长大,被生活的现实与艰难洗礼着,不管多么艰难困苦,乃至流离失所,也没意志消沉,也不曾有一句的抱怨,没有人愿意这样苦着,现在的我更能感受到母亲的伟大,和她的不易,女子本弱为母则刚。
现在很多的年轻人,也包括我,已经没有了向前的冲劲,总觉得自己经历了人生,停滞不前成了唯一的选择。可能偶尔心中还会出现一点涟漪,不过也仅仅只是涟漪。心中非常渴望成功,希望收获。付出却只有少的可怜,懒惰不知什么时候常伴我们身边,所有的一切都只是脑海中的想想,每天重复着劳动,微薄的薪水,不想就这样穷极一生。但总是停留在不想,而不是去做。是现在生活得太安于现状。
不管生活多么艰苦,男主人公永远给他的孩子希望和正能量的一面,是这部片子最感动我的地方,努力不一定有机会,不努力一定没机会!希望我也能变得坚持和有毅力——致自己!
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