您好!非常感谢新浪能够提供博客这个空间给我们发表文章,也非常感谢你们百忙中抽空审阅和整理空间。
每个人对是非判断的标准不同。或许您觉得我的帖子违反了新浪的发帖,可以删除,但是,在我看来,博客里的文章并没有违反规定。因为是非标准不一样,这是一个重要原因。我觉得在是非方面,没有必要争论,因为我完全尊重您的删帖需要,这个地盘归根结底是你们的,我对您的删贴没有任何异议。
但是,希望你们在删帖之前能事先纸条通知博主,能让博主对自己认为重要的帖子保存下来,我觉得这是对博主的一个基本尊重。
一方面,因为一个博客的`文章往往是多年的积累,或许有些文章在博主眼里是很重要的,或许有的文章删除后无法找回,有的文章是一个个字打上去的,等等。有博主的努力和汗水在里面。如果没有事先知道,就被删帖,对博主来说是一种遗憾。
另一方面,博客的稳定性是一个博客空间最基本的要求。如果帖子经常被删除而没有事先通知,那么长此以往,众多的博主是不是会感到不受尊重的感觉?是否会寻找更为稳定的空间呢?
我希望管理员同志能认真考虑我的建议。我想,这不仅是我个人的利益问题,同时也对新浪博客自身的发展也是有价值的。希望你们认真考虑。谢谢。
When I was a freshman in college I watched the film Gua Sha Treatment for the first time, now I am a junior student and I come back to review the movie from a multicultural aspect, I have many different feelings after watching the film again.
At the beginning of the film, XuDatong is given an award and later he delivers a speech. What makes me impressed most is in his speech he says “one day I will become one of you, a truly successful American, today this award proved that America is a true land of opportunity and I am the living proof of that.” At that moment Xu thinks he has realized his American Dream totally with his lovingly wife and adorable son. However, I think it is ironical that to make a speech like that and I assume it is made on purpose to hind a clue for the story's development. How many non—American people have such a beautiful American dream? One of my classmate studies in American now and before he went aboard he told me his American dream is he can stand at the top of the New York. To be honest, I also dream that one day I can get the Green Card living there happily and successfully maybe working at the Wall Street. When Xu gets the award he thinks he entirely melted in the melting pot neglecting the multicultural obstruct, later the plot goes against the way he thinks. And later Quinlan asked Xu'why you be the scapegoat of your father?' Xu answers 'because he is Chinese.' Then maybe Xu knows that there is always a wide gap between Chinese and American cultures.
The second scene is Xu hit his son Denis because Denis hit the son of xu's boss, at the middle of the film xu tells his boss that he hit his own son is only to show his respect to his boss John Quinlan, that time Quinlan feels puzzled “what a Chinese logic”,yes, American can never understand such a logic full of Chinese characteristic, because they respect everyone including the children, they won't beat a child to please the boss, and there is no such a conception of degree between employee and employer, they feel everyone is equal, which is quite different from china.
Connected to the second scene, the third difference I want to analyze is the care for the children. In America, people pay more attention to the right of children which can be seen from the law—leaving children alone at home is illegal, while in China it is so common that almost everyone may experience such loneliness. And Children Welfare Agency does work in America which shows the importance Americans attach to children's right. What's more, I remember a line 'No one won the case, especially the child.' In my opinion, it also manifests the universal concern from the American public to the children.
The fourth aspect is following the procedure, in the film, more than there times, the people focus on the rule, the law, the procedure. At the Christmas Eve Xu wants to return back to his home pretending as a Santa Claus, what a pity, the security recognizes him and persuades 'you are always a good tenement, never causes troubles for me.' And another scene is at the end of the film , the judge says 'I have to follow the procedure.' However, in China people always have to ask for a favor to do something, and later you have to pay back the favor,for myself, I prefer the American style, strict to the procedure.
The fifth and the last point is the humors, Quinlan says 'you can't fall, your health security is the company paid.' 'Datong, welcome home, maybe next time, you can come from the front door.' 'dady, why you come from the window' ' because we don't have a chimney.' I really adore this distinguished American humor, especially in dangerous situations, which is quite rare in China.
That's my whole reaction to Gua Sha Treatment.
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