我们知道,婴儿有所谓的陌生人焦虑,一般到八九个月大的时候,被陌生人抱会哭。这是因为孩子的大脑发育到了一定程度,他的记忆系统成熟了。当然,每个孩子出现这种情况的时间稍有差别。这种突然害怕陌生人的表现和他们大脑中的记忆系统的成熟有关,表明孩子已经有能力记住熟悉和陌生人的差别。但很多孩子到了两岁以后,还会再经历陌生人焦虑,一直到四岁左右,这种焦虑才逐渐消失。你会发现两岁以前还开朗活泼的宝宝,突然又开始怕生了。其实,你不用担心,这是他心理发展的正常过程。
我非常的害羞的孩子从后台推到前台,强迫孩子,在别人面前表演不害羞。这是很有害的,是典型的拔苗助长。
对付发脾气的小孩有三个要点:
一是表示,理解,帮她描述情绪;
二是和他一起分析发怒的原因;
三是引导他反思整个过程,指出发怒并不能解决问题,沟通才能解决问题,并引导他体会他人感受。
创意脑。在未来脑计划创意脑模块,本书介绍培养孩子创造力、想象力的方法,关注如何帮助孩子养成好习惯,并讲述孩子具体怎样用音乐、美术、游戏等方法进行“创造”。
所有的这些都基于父母要了解并学习一定层次的脑科学、认知科学、发展心理学、教育科学等等科学,从而做到科学养育,孩子的生命会更加精彩,幸福当下,不惧未来。
育儿育己,做父母的要和孩子共同进步,才能走好无法重来的路,照亮孩子的未来。
It wasn't until we moved into our new home in 2006 that I found it again. It was addressed to me with explicit instructions not to open until my birthday 2005. It was now 2006 so I decided to open it. This is what it said:
Dear Sherri
By the time you read this you will be 30. At the age of 18 I had so many hopes and dreams about where you'd be, what you'd be doing and with whom you'd spend your life with.
Right now I hope that you have traveled and seen everything you've always wanted to, both in Canada and overseas, and maybe even settled down somewhere in Australia doing some research in the field of biology (genetics.
I hope you're married to the man of your dreams. The man of mine is Gwynn. He is originally from South Africa (another place I wish to visit.
You'll probably have two children of your own – a girl(Michaela Anne and a boy (name yet to be decided.
If everything goes according to plan you'll be living in Australia in a big house in a small town outside of a big city with a lot of land, a dog, Gwynn and your two beautiful children. Hopefully you have a career in the medical field, maybe doing research in genetics. Gwynn will be a computer programmer and you will be doing alright for yourselves.
However, if things don't go according to plan for you, I wish you all the love, happiness and joy in the world and don't settle for anything less than the best since that is absolutely what you deserve.
Live long, be happy and live life to it's fullest.
Love Sherri "18″
When I read this for the first time since writing it I was floored. Even now having dug this up again another 4 years later I still can't help but think this is really cool.
So much of what I wanted for myself has materialized.
I did travel to a few more places in Canada although I haven't seen everything I'd like to.I did marry the man of my dreams and yes he still is my one and only.I've traveled to the UK, South Africa, Australia and New Zealand. I lived in Australia for nearly 4 years in a big house, in a small suburb, in a major city (close enough. I had a career in Biology in the field of genetics for 10 years.I have two lovely kids – both boys (names now decided.
I have not one dog but two dogs. Both yellow labs from Australia.Gwynn is a computer programmer. We are doing okay for ourselves.
After writing this I quickly forgot about what I had put in here actually. The things that materialized were all met with quite a bit of resistance (all internal but I suppose these were things that I really did want. Having never strayed too far from home overseas travel was a huge deal. Having never been away from my family moving to Australia for several years was an incredibly huge decision.
I find it fascinating how the dreams of a young and naive little girl can become a grown woman's reality.
I'm curious if you guys have ever written anything to your future self and how it stacks up to your current reality. If you haven't, will you join me in writing a letter now to yourself in say 10 years from now? It's an interesting little experiment.
洗星海生活在一个非常贫困的家庭,全家都靠打鱼为生,他一出生就没有了爸爸,和妈妈、外公相依为命。星海自小就很喜欢音乐,他用海螺、贝壳、破罐儿制成乐器,将自己只听过几遍的音乐用筷子敲打着发出很美妙的声音。后来星海非常想上学,他的妈妈曾便当手镯让他上学,可是他手当了同学们的欺负,是教书先生产生误会,而被开除。
天有不测风云,他外公出海丧生,这无疑是对他们雪上加霜。无奈之下,妈妈带着他去投奔亲戚,在姨妈的帮助下,星海又一次进入了学校,遇见了肖老师,从此勤学苦练,开始了他的音乐生涯,他边读书,边学习,终于成了一名著名音乐家,实现了他的梦想。
电影其中有一段台词让我记忆深刻,星海问肖老师;“音乐为什么那么伟大,音乐家为什么这么贫穷呢?”老师回答他的话说:“人得贫穷和富裕不是用金钱来衡量的精神也是财富。”我们想想,当你弥留之际的时候,你留在世上的金钱、权利、地位没有一样是可以带走的,唯有你在世界上创造出有价值的事物,才会永远留在世上,永垂不朽。“
看完这部影片后,我陷入了沉思。星海的'生活环境是那样的恶劣,而他却坚强不息,终于实现他的梦想。今天的我们是何等的幸福,我们的家舒适温暖,还有爸爸妈妈对我们精心的养育;我们的学校宽敞明亮,设施齐全,还有老师无微不至的关心与教育,但我们经常意志松懈,目标不明,因此,现在的我们要更加努力的学习,像洗星海一样做一个自强不息,有作为的人。
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