This is a hot and beautiful love story, the heroine Margaret beautiful, clever and kind, although prostitution, but still maintained a pure and noble soul. She was passionate and hopeful to pursue a real love life, and when this hope was disillusioned, she was willing to sacrifice herself to become a man.
A prostitute and a very good young man love each other, and they use all their power to love each other. But they can not save their love, not to want the happiness. Deep will eventually become an indelible status for gully love, how many people love can transcend everything eventually defeated in the match with reality. This book is a realistic fairy tale, with a beautiful vision, a bright hope, but cruel to the social nature of social standards out of apathy.
I sympathize with Margaret, but I admire her more. While Armand's depravity in higher education, Margaret, a prostitute, was constantly sublimated. A weakness of social system underlying women are hard to find new ways to change the fate, she had to use the body in exchange for money to maintain and Armand poor love, nobody has the power to accuse her lowly, on the contrary Margaret bones is pure pain ".
In the end she was unable to be with her beloved Armand, a tragic death. But she never regretted for her short life. She fell in love with a person, a person who brightens her life and gives her confidence and hope. With the love of the tea flower girl, although still in the flower pattern years of death, but has already got a person's sincere love. No matter how stumbling on the road of love, she never lost her dignity.
某日。上了二年级的儿子正在预习课文《青蛙看海》。课文的内容大意是这样的。一只住在湖边的青蛙很想去看海,苍鹰告诉它:“只要爬上前面的高山就可以看到大海了。”青蛙叹息山太高。苍鹰同意了它的看法,给予简单的劝诫后就飞走了。正当青蛙想要放弃的时候,却得到了松鼠的帮助。松鼠鼓励它、陪伴它爬上一个又一个台阶,直到顶点,看到了大海。这个故事看似简单,却给了我很大的启迪。
青蛙的.心情与感受,和处于发展 中的孩子是多么地相似。心中有看海 的向往,我们也总在鼓励他们去看海, 却忽略了他是否具有登山看海的能 力。对于孩子来说,他们的各种能力只 是处于发展的初级阶段,刚刚起步,成 人如果只知道培养他的鸿鹄之志,而 未给予相应能力的培养,那么志气永 远不会成为现实。如果不给予适时、适 当的帮助,对于自己向往的那片海,孩 子所能做的,往往只能是知难而退。如 果一直不给予积极的引导,那么孩子 将逐渐失去探究的愿望和向上的心愿。而变得安于现状,不思进取。
故事中的苍鹰,实际上是泛指那些给孩子以劝告,却不给孩子以恰当帮助的引导者。在活中,很多老师会给孩子讲一些大道理,提一些大要求。如.你要做一个乖孩子,却不给予孩子所谓乖孩子的规范,让孩子不知所为。而当孩子犯错时,也不给予正确的引导,只批评一通,就放弃了对孩子的教育。有的老师也经常在自己的心目中擅自给孩子定位,认为这个孩子不具备这方面的能力,就放弃对他们的帮助,放任他们停步不前。而一旦孩子跟不上,就抱怨说:“这个孩子比较迟钝,学什么都慢。”却忽略了正因为他们迟钝,才需要老师更多的帮助,更耐心的引导。而不是高调的教育或者泛化的指责。
文中的松鼠,代表了良好师德的楷模。它永远欣赏孩子,鼓励孩子,使他们勇于尝试,积极克服困难;并在孩子尝试着克服困难,获取成功的过程中。时刻予以关注,用耐心与爱心陪伴着孩子一起向上攀登。孩子的成功不是一朝一夕的事情,但是,只要努力地每天向上一点点,脚踏实地地向着目标攀登,就能逐渐到达梦想中的目标。对于处于成长中,对自己还不够自信的孩子来说,松鼠的帮助无疑是及时而富有积极意义的。
孩子是发展中的个体,作为老师,我们与孩子的心中其实有一片共同的海洋.那就是孩子的进步和成长。但是,教师和幼儿却有着完全不同的立场与方式。孩子希望能够得到切实有效的帮助,而老师则希望能够付出较少的心力取得较大的发展,所以有时候,对于幼儿的引导往往不够细致,或者过于泛化,不能适应不同幼儿的发展需要。这个故事提醒我,在教育教学中.老师做苍鹰还是做松鼠,决定着幼儿是否能够得到发展的机会和获得发展的可能。看了这个故事,我想,作为幼儿教师我更清楚了面对孩子应该如何去做。
BOOK REPORT_Oliver Twist
Charles Dickens is one of the most famous novelists of the Victorian Age. When Charles Dickens was young, his father was put into prison. During this time, Dickens was living by himself and working in the underground cell of a shoe blacking factory. Maybe it is because this period of experience that makes Charles Dickens’s works are more focused on the living condition of the poor. In many of his novels, Dickens showed his sympathy for the poor. Just like this book-Oliver Twist in which Charles Dickens described the miserable life of the poor children and exposed the seedy side of the society at that time.
Oliver Twist is one of Charles Dickens' most popular stories. Oliver Twist was born in a workhouse in 1930s. Later, he was sent to a Coffin shop as an apprentice. As he couldn’t endure the oppression from his boss, he fled to London. However, on the way to London, he was cheated into the haunt of thieves and trained to be a thief. On one occasion, he was taken in by a rich man—Mr. Brownlow. But unfortunately, he was framed and entrapped into the haunt of thieves again. But Oliver still believes that there are hopes in his life. Finally, Nancy, a kind-hearted woman pickpocket, rescued Oliver from dangers despite the threat of the thief-in-chief and told Brownlow that actually Oliver is his good friend’s son. Nancy was killed at the end of the story, but the police surround the haunt of thieves immediately and Oliver reunited with his family members.
Of the characters in this story, Oliver, Nancy and Miss Ross represent the goodness that they are born in suffering, grow in dark world, but still keep a heart ofgold. None of the hardships can through them into the hell. Oliver is a brave and strong child that he suffered enormous pain, such as hunger, thirst, beating and abuse. But no matter how tough his life is he never gives up his belief. What’s more, in Oliver Twist, morality and nobility are always black-and-white issues. Just like Monks, who was a greedy, ruthless, shameless person, represents the black, Olive can represents the white. But Nancy, a thief who has done something bad, finally been influenced by Oliver and decided to help Oliver. This gives us the implication that the boundary between virtue and vice is not always so distinct.
Charles Dickens praised ideal human nature and interpersonal relationships and he hoped to use his pen to express his ideals in that the reality is very cruel. So, through this novel, Dickens criticized the seedy side of the capitalist society at that time and expressed his deep sympathy about the bottom class who lived in a miserable life. In this way the people could realize the social reality and consider more about their behavior. But on the other hand, Dickens shows his wish through this novel that people should firm their belief no matter what they are suffering about and evil can never prevail over good.
"La Traviata" is the most successful Dumas pen works. It tells the story of a dirty whore in the eyes of the world with a romantic, inexperienced youth poignant love story.
The theme of "love" is an indispensable part of literary creation. Depicted in Dumas's love and will not feel embarrassed, shy, and I read his description in, see is sincere and pure love.
I was moved by the image of the heroine, Margaret. The author was not afraid of her prostitutes habits: loved luxury, dissolute life, often binge drinking. It is the real image that makes me feel the truth of the story and the delicacy of the emotion. On the other hand, the author goes deep into the inner world of the character. The life of merry is a reflection of Margaret's abandonment of life and the reality of ambition. Similarly, Margaret also has some simple things. She pursues this sincere love, is willing to sacrifice herself, abandon the luxurious life, and also with the beloved. Everywhere for Valentine's Valentine's sake, do not want to spend a penny, so she sold her carriage, jewelry, shawls. In the end, even for the future of the lover and for the marriage of the beloved sister, give up the happiness that he has already got. You say that this woman is not worthy of love?
"In a Zhang Yan hues oval, inlaid with two black eyes, like painting Daimei - curved, general: this pair of eyes covered in thick eyelashes, when the eyelash falls, red cheeks seemed to cast a shadow on the nose, delicate, graceful, full of aura, nose a little outward open mouth: well proportioned, soft lips enlight gracefully, then revealing a white teeth, a layer of hair and skin colour, like people without hands touched the peach." this is the same sweater Dumas description of the Margaret trade, meticulous, clear and vivid. She seemed pretty face just act on paper, want to let people enjoy a.
In the article there is such a scene: Margaret is an alcoholic, put his body down, pain, heartache Armand Margaret, hold her hand, put it on his lips, two drops for a long time could not stop the tears dripping wet her hand. Armand loved tears and wept for Margaret. She didn't care for her tears. Armand didn't retain his feelings to express his feelings. Margaret was so touched by the fact that his work was so successful through the description of the task and the portrait of love.
Such a sincere, lovely woman, the last fate is miserable: soon after leaving her lover, she dies due to pain. When they die, they rush to collect accounts and interest immediately, and rush to auction her articles.
Margaret's red and purple, behind but very lonely.
1、男女理结构上的不同。男人的脑室之间是分隔的,女人的脑室之间没那么分离。其中也有历史缘由的,远古时代男人出去捕猎,需要专注于自己的目标,女人在家需要小心是否有野兽来袭,有声响是发生了什么。这导致了男人可以分开看很多东西。而女人会比较容易去联想。这里作者有个建议,女生有什么想法可以直接说出来,因为不说出来可能男生真的不理解。女生也可以反问自己,到底是在和联想的情绪对话还是在和对方对话,男生要多反馈,给女生安全感。
2、男女关系之间存在一个跷跷板的关系。在婚姻的初期,女人由于青春加上生育,在家里地位会处于跷跷板的顶端。而等到孩子到了小学初中,女人生理上的更容易衰老,加上要协调孩子与父母亲之间的关系,在家庭中的地位容易处于跷跷板的底端。再等到下一个阶段,孩子长大了,女人反而容易放开了,更会去追求自己的人生,这时候又处在了跷跷板的顶端了。
3、现代社会不同以前。女性也更加独立。社会诱惑太多,夫妻之间要想保持和谐幸福的关系,需要去建立一个底线。双方都要知道这个底线。在面对诱惑时要想明白,到底是不越过底线维持家庭对自己更重要,还是要追求一时的诱惑更重要。如果对方真的跨越了底线,那另一方也要走出舒适区,明白维持糟糕的关系对所有人的伤害更大,要能洒脱结束。
4、人际关系当中要相信和肯定自己。如果因为原生家庭而不相信自己的话,那需要理解不被善待的背后可能有其他的原因。要能跳脱出自己去看待他人这些言行后面的.事实。
妈宝的解决:去和绳子背后的妈妈的和解以及一些行为治疗。
5、拒绝受害者情节。
6、打破一个东西很简单,建立起来却很难,关系也是。
7、自己做的选择和决定自己承担选择决定带来的结果。留下和离开都自己承担结果。
8、情绪的管理。中断一些负面的情绪。甚至可以用几秒钟的时间中断管控起来。去练习情绪管理的过程。
虽然是一个单身汉,但其中的一些观点对自己也是有一些启发的,比如说不要被自己的情绪掌控,又比如有时候不是要执拗讲对错,而要注意怎样去维系情感。以及关于关系和自我的部分也有点受到启发。
《双城记》
After reading "A tale of two cities" "A tale of two cities" is one of Dickens's most important representative works.The novel profoundly exposed the society contradiction before the French Revolution,intensely attacks the aristocratic social clais dissolute and cruel,and sincerely
sympathizes with the depressed classes.The novel also described many magnificent scenes like the revolt people attacked Bastille and so on,which displayed people's great strength.
The novel has portrayed many different people. Doctor Manette is honest and kind but suffers the persecution actually , Lucie is beautiful and gentle ,Charles is graceful and noble,Lorry is upright and honest ,Sydney is semblance of indifferent, innermost feelings of
warm,unconventional but also selfleand lofty,MiProis straightforward and loyal,Evremonde brothers are cruel and sinister......The complex hatred is hard to solve, the cruel revenge has made more hatreds, loves rebirth in the hell edge,but take the life as the price.
As an outstanding writer,in Dickens's work,the language skill is essential.Each kind of rhetoric technique,like the analogy,the exaggeration,the contrast,the humorous,and the taunt are handled skillfully,and the artistry of the work is also delivered the peak."A tale of two cities" has its difference with the general historical novel, its character and the main plot are all
fictionalizes.With the broad real background of the French Revolution,the author take the fictional character Doctor Manette's experience as the main clue,interweaves the unjust charge, upholstery and so many techniques,causes the structure integrity and strictness,the plot winding anxious and rich of theatrical nature,it displayed the remarkable artistic skill.the style "A tale of two cities" is solemnity and melancholy,fills indignantion,but lacks the humor of the early works.
The Adventures of Tom Sawyer 汤姆?索亚历险记
By Mark Twain [美]马克?吐温 著
Summary:
Tom Sawyer loves adventures. He has adventures at home, at school, and other mysterious places with his friends. One day, Tom has an adventure in the graveyard. And they sea Injun Joe kills the doctor. He wants to kill the boys. Some days passed, Tom and Becky have an adventure in the cave. They hear Injun Joe! They run out of the cave as soon as possible. Later, Tom and his friends go to the cave again. They find that Injun Joe was died, and they the precious treasure. They go out of the cave with the box of money!
Comment:
Tom Sawyer is an active and pretty smart boy. He has a strong courage to go for an adventure. He is a brave boy, and he must be a reliable friend. He can always help you at the important time. Tom Sawyer is a good boy and his adventures are really interesting and be expectin
Alice in Wonderland 爱丽丝奇遇记 Lewis Carroll [美] 卡罗尔 著
Summary:
One hot summer day, Alice and her sister are sitting under the tree. Alice sees a white rabbit, and she run after it. The rabbit goes down a rabbit whole and Alice follows it, she is now in a strange wonderland. Alice eats some special things, and she changes her size! Everything is different and strange there. The animals there can speak! Alice meets many interesting things. At last, she wakes up. It’s just a dream!
Comment:
This story is really interesting, and attractive. Alice is a sincere gentle girl. She is ready to help others and is able to face to the dangerous things. In this way, Alice is also a brave and clever girl written by author.
The story includes three parts. They are respectively talking about: Gulliver in Lilliput, in Brobdingnag, and in Houyhnms.
Gulliver travels to the South Seas. On their way to the East Indies, a strong wind carried them to the wrong way. Most of the people died. Some days later, he comes to Lilliput, everything is small there. Three days later, he comes to Brobdingnag. This country is opposite from Lilliput, the thing are huge, very huge! Then he travels to a place called Houyhnms, which is also very interesting. Comment:
This is an exciting and interesting book. It’s also kind of humorous. I enjoy the story very much. And after reading the book, I find that we must learn from Gulliver. Learn from his braver, intelligence and wisdom.
Heidi 海蒂
By Johanna Spyri [瑞士]施皮里 著
Summary:
Heidi is a cute and kindhearted girl. She lives in the mountain of Switzerland, and has no mother or father. One sunny day, she goes to stay with her grandfather in his little wooden house, high up in the mountain. She soon has a friend——goat-Peter. She makes Alm-Opa no longer lonely. One day, Heidi’s aunt takes her to Miss Rohmer’s house to be a servant. Later she helps Clara to stand up from the wheel chair, and can even walk more!
Comment:
Heidi is a nice and kindhearted girl. She is helpful, and is kind to everyone. She will try her best to help others. She helps her grandfather goes out of lonely; she let the blind grandmother finds out the happiness; she also helps Clara to stand up from the wheel chair, and can even walk more! In a word, we must learn from Heidi a lot!
Summary:
“Always be good, so people will love you. Always work hard and do your best.” These were the words of Black Beauty’s mother to him when he was young. At that time, they lived with farmer
Grey. But when Black Beauty grown up, this was sometimes difficult. Not everybody was as kind as farmer Grey. Even someone heart him. Ata last, Mr. Thorouhgood helped him and took him on his farm. It was Black Beauty’ last home.
Comment:
There were many thousands of horses or other animals at work. Some of them work for kind people, but some do not. The animals have to pull heavy things, and have to works for hours and hours. So what may we do now? I’m calling for helping animals. Protecting them in our best. Then, we’ll have a piece and wonderful world!
By Daniel Defoe [英]迪福 著
Summary:
Robinson Crusoe is at the sea when there is a great storm. His ship goes down, and everybody dies. Crusoe is on the island along. He is not daunted by the difficulties. He has built a tent, a ‘castle’, made the appliances…At last, he has returned to his hometown London.joozone.com 本文来自地带:/yc/1837_4.htmlComment:
This is an exciting story. Robinson is a great man. He lived on the island for about 30 years without food, tool, or habitation. He wasn’t afraid of hardship. He was brave in adventure, and he was good at labor. I admire his courage very much. He is a real hero. He makes a great personal miracle on the one-man-island!
In fact, we also need to have the sprite of being undefeated and indefatigable, just like Robinson. If we believe ourselves, and never give up, do as possible as we can, we must be successful!
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