《不要等到毕业以后》是一本让人看了目录之后就不想停下来的书。目录里的很多东西,直指每个看书人的心灵,虽然这本书的受众,是针对大学生的。可是像我这个毕业好多年的老人来说,看到这个目录,还是有好多可以提高自己的地方。
我想本书的最大目的是想告诉读者,一定要建立起独立思考的习惯。独立的思考自己的专业,独立的思考,独立的解决问题,独立的看书,阅读等等。
1、学会独立学习。把知识能够转变为自己的个人能力。
2、在大学的时间里,不在于学了多少东西,而在于,是否已经建立起自学方法,建立起一套有用的思维框架。
作者的方法是分析背景、找准问题,提出对策,建立行动,效果评估这5步来,像是做一个项目那样等。而我现在还只会其中的3部,即计划,执行,评估总结。我想,后续还应该把背景分析的东西加入到我的计划中来。这样子,可以把我的目标建立起来,为后续真正的评估,打下一个切实的基础。不在只是做事,还有做事的目的。
定义一个清晰的目的,对比各种可能的策略,落实详细的计划,寻求合适的资源来完成,监督和完成计划效果。
3、书中还提到了如何读书,我想对于这个问题,当然是再是去重新温习一遍《如何阅读一本书》更好了。书中提到一句话,我觉得很好“读书的目的,看清自己,明白世界,让自己无所依靠时,有一种严肃的力量可以寄托!”
4、习惯养成与不拖延,注意力集中等。
在书听启发下,我开始在思考着自己的生活人生。
A、我要成为什么样的人,我现在是什么样的人,哪些习惯阻碍我进步。对于上述3个问题。我想我应该是现在写下一个答案,等到3个月后,我再来思考这样的问题。再对比一下。
B、想我的习惯养成计划。总的来说,我有这样的认识,可是这样的习惯养成计划,总是会在我的加班过程中,把那些好习惯给落下了。(健身,看书,早睡,早起等等)。所以我,希望通过我的努力,能够把时间安排好,然后能够很好地贯彻我的计划和任务。
C、我觉得我缺少较好的一系列清单系统来促使我完成相关的习惯,任务和工作。
比如,阅读,在阅读时,我应该思考哪些问题,我目前为止没有建立起很好的清单系统。比如,每看一本书,我都能梳理一下相关的阅读目的,阅读收获,书中的精彩抄录等等?
再比如,我的周总结回顾清单,感觉还是做的够细,好多东西,总结过程中,感觉无法进行记录。所以针对上述的问题,我想,能不能总结出或者找到这样的总结规律。
D、番茄是个好方法,希望我能够在这之中好生实践之。
大学毕业了,可成长远远没有毕业。
这本书就是一剂催化剂,加速你的成长,师傅领进门,修行靠个人,要看顿悟时间早晚,也要看自己的领悟和执行能力,就像作者说的“让一个人受到刺激是不够的,还得让他学会有效的思考;一本书只让一个人陷入思考是不够的,还的让他开始采取行动。”
拿到书,几天之内把它用心读了一遍,给我的第一感觉,就如乔治奥威尔《1984》中写的“最好的书,是把你已经知道的东西告诉你”。毕竟经历过大学,所以对这些话题也都似曾相识,而他更有力更系统地把零碎的观点整理出来。
我没有按照秋叶老师的要求,立刻写一篇长微博(但是在激发下写了关于其他方面的已有十篇),因为觉得自己的文采不好,写的也不深刻,仅有思考而没有经过行动实践,也只是痴心妄想。
后来,又把我书中关注的重点再重新过了一遍,并做了摘抄笔记。希望按照“思考→行动→总结”的步骤,开始着手做一些改变,把身上积累的灰尘掸一掸,强制自己输出,和自己的惰性死磕,这是一个漫长痛苦的过程。虽然现在也没有突飞猛进的改变,但还是鼓起勇气写下这篇迟来的书评。
就是这样不完美,使他更生活化,仿佛看到自己的一些影子,我们不会望尘莫及,可以模仿学习的榜样,充满正能量。那他的成功有迹可循吗?
所谓转身,就是从传统的产品经济到体验经济的转变,注重用户体验,开发全新模式。立定,就是自己像植物一样茂盛生长,站在自己所擅长的那个领域,然后拥有自己合适规模的客户。单点突破,实现微创新。***,是把大喊变成嘟囔或***。通过这样一个“圈层现象”人际传播,以点带动面,直径不断扩大,先聚集气味相投一小撮人,然后带动一群人,创建个人的品牌影响力。躺倒,就是接日月之精华,体察微小的变化,接受市场环境的信息信号。躺倒是一种放松的姿势,是为了更容易被激发。每个人的生命都可以燃烧。
马云说:“我就是打着望远镜也都找不到对手。”对这句话的理解,除了表明马云自身强大,还有一层意思,就是大佬们对小人物力量的警惕。因为在互联网时代,技术爆炸,再加上迅速聚集资源的力量,会有“给我一个支点,我可以撬动地球的能量”。这是互联网带来的福祉,同时,在翻云覆雨变幻莫测的时代,大企业也要时刻保持危机感,一炊烟功夫就可能被社会淘汰了,比如以前我们看电视用的PPS一不小心就被爱奇艺收购,还有听歌的什么千千静听也不见踪影了,为什么百度掷重金收购91,就表明他意识到了威胁。曹启泰在《人脉存折》书中说“在你心目中被认定的敌人,你一定想得到防范的方法,怕的是跟你不平衡条件的对象”
而秋叶老师的成功之处,正是个人崛起时代的一个范例,他没有自己的团队,凭借自己一人,拥有擅长做PPT这个技能,并且做到小有名气,实现单点突破,这就是立定。上一篇文章中讲到U盘化生存方式:自带信息、不装系统、随时插拨、自由协作。他就是这样数字时代的一个手工艺人,请和自由职业者区分开来,这里只是说明专业能力的重要性,拥有一项生存技能,才能更好的团队合作。可能爱好PPT的人,才知道还有这号人物的存在。通过微博博客、微信、豆瓣等自媒体以及书籍等,这得益于互联网的发展,营销推广自己的个人品牌,形成小圈子,获得更多的粉丝关注,逐步扩大影响力。在任何一个行业,你做到顶尖,把它做到极致,你的收入都不会太低。
逐张逐页的读完《不要等到毕业以后》这本书,暗自庆幸自己看这本书的时间真是恰到好处,对于我们这些对未来充满了迷惘、期待、恐惧而又兴奋的大一而言,这本书为我们解释了另一种大学生活的样子。
这本书其实跟我之前读过的书很不一样,并不是那种泛泛而谈,说说大学生该怎样的怎样,秋叶大叔用自己的经历与成长感悟,让这个分享显得那么的真切,同事每个话题还花心思设计了一个训练题目,并且书中还额外的提供了很多有价值的素材,为这本书增加了许多额外值。
书里有句话“在大学,读什么专业不是最重要的,最重要的是学会独立学习,把知识转变成个人的魅力”。我当时选这个专业,老实说,确实是为了有个本科读,再加上以前也学过跳舞,童子功还尚在,对舞蹈也还算喜欢,但丝毫没有考虑以后就业的问题,但我仍庆幸读了个好大学,对各种舞蹈都有喜欢的我,使得我甘愿花大时间的时间精力去学习各种舞种。专业和职业里有一小节讲到通才和专才。这两种人才社会都需要。秋叶大叔的看法很赞,“在走向通才的路上,得先在某个方向成为专才”,生存毕竟还是需要一门技能的,或者说,我们靠着一门好的技术生存的得好,烤着兴趣特长而活得好。
以前其实是不怎么喜欢读书的,但上了大学后不知怎的就很迷恋读书了,而且一发不可收拾,读书带给我的好处是没法估量的,“读书的根本目的是为了让自己明白世界,看清自己,让自己在无所依靠或者无所事事时,有一种严肃的力量可以寄托”,这句描述我很喜欢,在这个大数据时代,信息量太大了,所以也涉及到如何选择适合自己的内容去看,做到耗时短收获大,又是一个选择的问题,读书和学习这章谈到学习独立思考,培养自己的思维能力,这种能力也是让我从一个浅薄的读书者上升一步的必备能力。
章节开头的两句话“年轻的时候,经历一场轰轰烈烈又黯然心碎的爱情,真的是人生宝贵的经历”和“年轻的时候,能够交到志同道合的人,成为一辈子的知己,真的是很幸运的事”,至此,第一句还没有达到,第二句的幸运的事则已拥有,我也不清楚自己到底懂不懂爱,八成还是不懂吧,论年龄轮经历,都还是刚发芽的嫩草,不过在这样的年华里,有一段能让自己成长的成熟的感情经历,也很好,即是不是happyending,爱情可能很短暂,但友情会一直在身边,没有血缘,以后也许各奔天涯,见面的机会变少,但这辈子都别想抹去这份难能可贵的情谊。
打算毕业后就工作,那提前的准备工作一定要做好的,书中提到的如何了解面试的单位,如何写一份好的简历实习、考证、礼仪等,都是非常好的建议,可以借鉴参考,至少对我就有很好的帮助,比如我在看完书后思考大四去哪实习,怎样做足准备应对面试等。创业者也有很多种定义,现在更重要的是先积累些社会经验、资本、知识,然后再考虑创业,就算不立志做多么成功,但一定要尝试。
以前看到一段话,谈人生就是再走一个圈,走了半天,以为自己走了很远,才发现怎么终点就是原点,不如一开始就不走好了。可想想看,如果不走的话,又怎么能发现原来这就是终点,这就是原点呢?每天看似重复,但能把大部分日子都坚持重复好的人,有一天就一定能爆发,往往是你坚持的还不够久,“堕落不会让我们沉沦,如果我们知道如何从中站起来的话”。
我个人觉得这本书还是很值得看的,再一次庆幸我没有到毕业才发现这本书的存在,也许今后的大学生活会跟我原先设想的大不相同,但是还是很期待,总是得归功于这本书,带给我思想上的一次转换。期待之后的讲座,相信又是一次不错的启迪。
前段时间读完了秋叶大叔的《不要等到毕业以后》,我很庆幸没有等到毕业以后才读这本书,这本书对于现在的我确的确影响很大。之前读完一本书,会觉得那本书很不错,受到很大启发,对我的影响很大。但具体表现在哪里,我自己也没想明白。究其原因,就是因为读完后没有进行进一步的总结反思,让那些好的思想在短时记忆结束后就消失了。而读完这本书,促使了我开始行动,也就有了开始每天写日记,写总结。不管写的好与坏,对我来说,总归有所改变,这是个大进步。
这本书跟我跟我之前读过的书很不一样,并不是在泛泛而谈,说大学生应该怎样怎样,秋叶大叔用自己的亲身经历和成长感悟,告诉我们读大学,到底在读什么。这本书每一节都很简短,但语言很实际,结构也很有特色,有实操训练、推荐书目,还有同学的精彩分享,给本书带来了很高的价值。目录中共有十个大标题,我想挑几个谈谈我的收获与感悟。
This is a story about a special and unreserved woman who has been exposed to a hostile environment but continuously and fearlessly struggling for her ideal life. The story can be interpreted as a symbol of the independent spirit.
It seems to me that many readers’ English reading experience starts with Jane Eyer. I am of no exception. As we refer to the movie “Jane Eyer”, it is not surprising to find some differences because of its being filmized and retold in a new way, but the spirit of the novel remains----to be an independent person, both physically and mentally.
Jane Eyer was a born resister, whose parents went off when she was very young, and her aunt,the only relative she had,treated her as badly as a ragtag. Since Jane’s education in Lowwood Orphanage began, she didn’t get what she had been expecting——simply being regarded as a common person, just the same as any other girl around. The suffers from being humiliated and devastated teach Jane to be persevering and prize dignity over anything else.As a reward of revolting the ruthless oppression, Jane got a chance to be a tutor in Thornfield Garden. There she made the acquaintance of lovely Adele and that garden’s owner, Rochester, a man with warm heart despite a cold face outside. Jane expected to change the life from then on, but fate had decided otherwise: After Jane and Rochester fell in love with each other and got down to get marry, she unfortunately came to know in fact Rochester had got a legal wife, who seemed to be the shadow following Rochester and led to his moodiness all the time ----Rochester was also a despairing person in need of salvation. Jane did want to give him a hand, however, she made up her mind to leave, because she didn’t want to betray her own principles, because she was Jane Eyer. The film has finally got a symbolist end: Jane inherited a large number of legacies and finally returned. After finding Rochester ’s misfortune brought by his original mad wife, Jane chose to stay with him forever.
I don’t know what others feel, but frankly speaking, I would rather regard the section that Jane began her teaching job in Thornfield as the film’s end----especially when I heard Jane’s words “Never in my life have I been awaken so happily. ” For one thing, this ideal and brand-new beginning of life was what Jane had been imagining for long as a suffering person; for another, this should be what the audiences with my views hoped her to get. But the professional judgment of producing films reminded me to wait for a totally different result: There must be something wrong coming with the excellence----perhaps not only should another section be added to enrich the story, but also we may see from the next transition of Jane’s life that “Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you would get.”
What ’s more, this film didn’t end when Jane left Thornfield. For Jane Eyer herself, there should always be somewhere to realize her great ideal of being independent considering her fortitude, but for Rochester, how he can get salvation? The film gives the answer tentatively: Jane eventually got back to Rochester. In fact, when Jane met Rochester for the first time, she scared his horse and made his heel strained, to a certain extent, which meant Rochester would get retrieval because of Jane. We can consider Rochester’s experiences as that of religion meaning. The fire by his frantic wife was the punishment for the cynicism early in his life. After it, Rochester got the mercy of the God and the love of the woman whom he loved. Here we can say: human nature and divinity get united perfectly in order to let such a story accord with the requirements of both two sides. The value of this film may be due to its efforts to explore a new way for the development of humanism under the faith of religion.
I read the Chinese version of “Camille” a few years ago. At that time I was deeply moved by the main character Marguerite Gautier. “Camille” or “The Lady of the Camellias” by Alexandre Dumas, fils, is the story of Marguerite Gautier, a young courtesan, or kept woman, in Paris in the mid 1800's, and how she falls in love with a young man, Armand Duval, and then tries to escape from her questionable past. Unfortunately, it comes back to haunt her and she ends up returning to that life and dies painfully and alone, but with the knowledge that she was a noble woman at heart. When I first began to read the book, I did not care for Marguerite or her attitude or lifestyle, but as I got further into the narrative, I realized that her saucy attitude was a front to cover the lonely woman that she really was. She felt used, abused and unloved, until the gentle Armand Duval came into her life and showed her that he loved her as a person and not for what she could do for him. It must have taken great courage for Marguerite to leave the life she had lived for so long, knowing all along that it was probably too good to be true and would not last indefinitely. And it also showed that Marguerite really loved Armand Duval for she could even change herself for him.
However, happiness didn’t last for long. When M. Duval, Armand's father, came to her, pleading for her to leave Armand to save both Armand's reputation and that of his younger innocent sister, Marguerite saw a way to become pure of heart, if not in body. She felt that it was her duty, because she loved Armand so much, to do this even though it meant giving up her own happiness and hurting Armand temporarily. She reluctantly returned to her former life, knowing that.some day Armand would forgive her. Sadly, she died in debt and basically alone, except for her one female friend, Julie Duprat, who helped her during her illness. She had her journal sent to Armand after her death, explaining why she had made the choices she had. I think Dumas's last few lines about Marguerite being the exception, not the rule were quite true, and I also agreed with his view that while her lifestyle could not be condoned, we as a society assume that all of these type of women are cold and heartless, while this may not always be the case. A person can make the wrong choices in life when they are young, and try to redeem themselves, but sometimes past situations prevent them from changing their lives, even though they desperately wish to do so. This applies to both men and women in many different types of circumstances: involvement in crime; drug or alcohol abuse; gambling; prostitution; financial problems; poor marriage choices; etc. And this is the fact, which exists in the whole society.
As far as the other characters in the book, I think Marguerite was right in saying that no one truly cared about her, but only wanted something from her, the only exceptions being Armand and Julie Duprat. Of course, the Comte de G. and Comte de N. wanted her body and appearance. The
Duke needed to “wake up and smell the coffee” and realize that she could never replace his dead daughter. If he truly cared, he could have helped her leave her lifestyle without “keeping” her himself. And lastly, Prudence was a blood-sucking leech who used Marguerite almost worse than the men. I also think she was jealous of the fact that Marguerite had so much more courage than herself and someone truly loved her.
Last morning, when tiding my bookshelf, I took this book out of the shelf, and a dried flower flew away from the book. It was pale blue, very transparent, with thin fine veins. a dried flower flew away from the book. It was pale blue, very transparent, with thin fine veins. I held it against the morning light and blew on it. The soft breeze carried it away. Camille is just like the camellia, she could never escape from the destiny of withering. But it wasn’t her fault; it’s because of the evil of Capitalism and the hideousness of that society.
Suddenly, I remembered a saying: “Women are like the flowers”. Those pretty women are like those beautiful flowers; their delicate beauty makes people feel they are the miracle of life. However, even the God envies their beauty. It seems that beautiful women always have tragic endings. As we are normal persons, even we can see the hideousness of humanity that results in their fate of withering, we can at most ask quietly in our hearts: Where have those beautiful flowers gone? Where have they gone?
The Life And Adventures Of Robinson Crusoe
It seemed to be such a coincidence that the night after I finished reading The Life And Adventures Of Robinson Crusoe, I was to dine in a restaurant distinctly related to the book itself. This restaurant was no other than the famous American-styled “Friday ’s. ” The reason for mentioning this restaurant is quite straightforward to all the gentlemen, ladies and children who have read the novel and enjoyed it, which is the fact that this restaurant was, most likely, named after the American Native in Robinson Crusoe, called Friday. This restaurant offers very exceptional service, for instance when the waitresses are asked to order dishes they kneel rather than stand, which, unlike the other restaurants I have been to, makes it easier for the customers to hear them speak. Moreover, Friday’s friendly services to the customers help them to make better choices when ordering dishes. I remembered when I went to Friday ’s last time; the waitress kindly described the items on the menu with precise details. It turned out that the combo I initially wanted was designed to be shared among a large group, not to be eaten by one person. I think this restaurant shows many commendable features similar to that of Friday. Friday brought emotional warmth to the people around him with his appealing personality. I think it was this personality that affected Crusoe and made him say that he loved Friday when Crusoe didn ’t express love for his parents, brothers, sisters, or even his wife. “When he espied me, he came running to me, laying himself down again upon the ground, with all the possible signs of an humble, thankful disposition, making many antic gestures to show it to let me know how he would serve me as long as he lived.” This was what Friday did after Crusoe had rescued him from the two savages chasing him. It was easy for me to see why Crusoe had loved Friday. After sometime, Crusoe and Friday were to rescue Friday’s father. When Friday reunited with his father, the scene was easy to move anyone: “It would have moved anyone to tears to have seen how Friday kissed him, embraced him, hugged him, cried, laughed, halloed, jumped about, danced,
sung; and then sung and jumped about again, like a distracted creature. It was a good while before I could make him speak to me.” This is my favourite chapter in the whole book. It is hard to see why Friday is an ex-savage when he can have personalities more praiseworthy than many civilized people, viz. Crusoe himself. “When he (Friday went to him (Friday’s father, he would sit down by him, open his breast, and hold his father’s head close to his bosom, half an hour together, to nourish it; then he took his arms and ankles, which were numbed and stiff with the binding, and rubbed them with his hands.” Furthermore, Friday’s expression of loyalty in asking Crusoe to kill him rather than leave him is more heartfelt than anything Crusoe ever says or does.
Crusoe, on the absolute contrary, seems incapable of deep feelings, as shown by his account of leaving his family—he never shows any emotions. After a moving lecture from Robinson’s father about his future, he still decided to follow his own wandering ambition. Careless was he about the wishes of his parents to keep him alive and prosperous, as he was the only child left in the family. When he came back from the island which he had lived on for twenty eight years, he found that it had been too late to tell his parents that he was still alive, but yet again he did not feel sorry for them; he also did not feel sorry for the two people who had to live in misery for nearly thirty years under the allusion all of their sons were dead. He had the same feelings for his wife: when he was married, he said it was “not either to my disadvantage or dissatisfaction”, implying that it was also neither to his advantage nor his satisfaction. Moreover, after his wife died, Robinson did not think of looking after the three children they had, but went back to the island, which he had lived on for twenty-eight years. It was on this trip which Robinson Crusoe revisited “His Island ” as he called it. I feel that Robinson ’s indifference to his family is almost emotionally cruel.
Before had clearly shown the contrast between Crusoe’s and Friday’s personalities, as when Friday, in his joyful reunion with his father, displayed far more emotion toward his family members than Crusoe, whereas Crusoe never mentions missing his family or dreams about the happiness of seeing them again. I think Defore is very successful in introducing Friday as part of the novel, it makes the whole novel seem much more complete and gripping to the reader, as well as proving that Defoe’s ideology of racism is civilized unlike many other Europeans at that time; natives and savages are not worse than others but can perhaps even be more modern and civilized. Those are the reasons of why I like The Life And Adventures Of Robinson Crusoe and Friday.
书得到的很早,却一直没有时间读,今天在无情“耿妈”的英明决定下,很赶的把书读完了。当我读完这书后,我发现这书不仅仅是要读后有感,而是要有用。
类似的书看的不少,但都很空洞,那些所谓的成功和大师都仿佛隐藏在云端,而《不要等到毕业以后》却很接地气。不要等到毕业以后!毕业前我该干什么?无意之间就有了一种想要去行动的热血,而我想作者的本意也正是如此。
这本书不像是一位朋友带给我的建议,而像一位严厉的老师,快,快去思考,行动!在书中每一章节后面都会有一个“实操训练”,挺像课后的随堂练习,这一点是这本书的亮点和成功之处,也正是我为什么说他像一位严厉的老师了。
紧赶慢赶读完这本书,有两个很深的感触:思想、梦想。所以趁热打铁的丁点激情写下这些想法。
思想作为一种本能,主要体现去思考、去解决问题。同大家面对的问题时往往会去思考,现在就会出现两种情况:
1、我想想感觉做不到,算了吧。
2、想想感觉有点困难,先不想了,行动吧!
秋叶老师在这本书中几乎把大学生可能遇到的困难给归类了。然后没有写下那些可能来取捷径而带来的成功,他只是教会了我们思考,不说对与错,并且给了一些要靠自己去实践的真理。把精力用在解决问题上,不要让自己陷入一种虚假的“二难选择”。在纠结中无作为还美其名曰自己在思考。在书中还有秋叶老师推荐的书籍、网址、练习,给我们实践和练习的空间,正是因为这些药靠行动的真理让我们知道了学会思想的魅力。
二是对于梦想,你的专业成就、恋爱期待,自己的以后可达到一种追求,小到生活中小小的幻想。它就存在于生活的每一天,并不是想象中的遥不可及。在这梦想中秋叶老师加入了自己的思想、感怀和个人经历,看到后我也会遐想高中的时候我就老想着毕业之后,快点进入大学,毕业后的三个月我来到了我的大学,一个我四年后必须带着完成梦想走向成功桂冠的人。对自己做一些小小的要求:进入学生会、拿奖学金
考研、留校……我做了些什么?精心的准备面试,然后从两三百人种选入校学生会、系分团委。这是我当时的所思所想,然后我去做了,也算完成梦想了。原来,梦想并不遥远,我知道我想要什么,我去做。而且我想在去回忆甚至觉得很快乐,为了不吃午饭参加面试是快乐的,忐忑的等待面试也是快乐的。享受这个完成梦想的过程是我对要拿奖学金、考研、留校的梦想更坚定不移。
我想说,我会等到毕业以后,看着我一步一步去成为会思考、行动、合格的大学生,那是我的大学想估计也被一一完成了把。
很庆幸能在大一就读到这本书,感谢饿着肚子的`灵感,感谢英明的耿妈!
人们都说,到了大学就特别轻松,课余时间多,一天也就几节课而已,想怎么玩就怎么玩。但是,真正到了大学以后才发现并没有他们说的那样简单……我们有很多事需要了解、准备。不要等到毕业以后……
人生规划、就业、生计与梦想,这本书里应有尽有,它不像哲学书那么深奥难懂,难以接近,也不像儿童故事书那样过于浅显。它不仅让我们看完后思考,还设法在每一个要点后面设置题目让我们采取行动,特别适合我们这种对大学生活和未来十分迷茫的大一新生,如同一场及时甘露。以下是我目前感受最深的两点:
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