人生只有走出来的美丽,没有等出来的辉煌,因此直面痛苦,用积极乐观的心态去化解痛苦,跨越痛苦才是我们的最佳选择。以尽忠守节而闻名的西汉大臣苏武在匈奴的压迫下,在饱受地窑中饥寒交迫的打击下,他以尽忠国家的信念、积极乐观的心态化解了那如地狱般备受煎熬的痛苦,他挺了过来,主动跨越了痛苦。西方神话中有名的西西弗斯不断推石上山,这是他必须承受的`惩罚,可是他在这循环往复的痛苦之中用积极乐观的心态去看待一切,从而他听到了石头滚动时悦耳的声音,获得了心灵的愉悦,感受到生命构成的快乐与美好。西西弗斯如黑夜中的一只蝴蝶不会迷失在自己的痛苦之中,他将这黑暗般的痛苦用积极乐观的心态化为一种美好,一种快乐。可见,直面痛苦,用积极乐观的心态去化解痛苦,可以将痛苦变成一只破茧而出的彩蝶,在你生命中翩翩起舞!
而放大痛苦,回避痛苦的人,只会被痛苦所压垮。为国担忧的楚国诗人屈原将楚国逐渐走向灭亡的事实逐渐放大,仅为此担忧,不断去回避它,不愿相信这个事实,而不去主动为此付出自己的行动。最终,这个痛苦扩大成了一片苦海,将屈原淹死在其中。著名的画家梵高因为不敢面对现实生活中的残酷,一直回避这种痛苦,一直在心中将这个痛苦放大再放大,以至于后来不能从中自拔,从而自刎身亡。他就这样被痛苦所压垮了,痛苦就这么将一个如此好的画家给粉碎了。可见,痛苦你不能躲避它,否则它将不惧怕你,将你一点点吞噬,直到你不能自拔,直到它把你压垮为止。
人生难免遇到挫折,经历挫折就会产生痛苦,只有我们自己以积极乐观的心态直面痛苦,从中逃离、挣脱出来,痛苦才会远去,你才能犹如那只彩蝶般在人生道路上翩翩起舞!
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晓月临窗,淡淡的月光如水般纯净,悄悄透过窗根,轻轻泻在阳台上,书卷上,我的心上,一切如在图画中!欲睡不得,索性披衣凭栏,临空数星,目光不经意掠过你——我的《红楼》。于是,我与你,于这个如诗的夜晚,进行了一次美丽的相遇。
仿佛从悠远的亘古世纪翩翩而来,黛玉,你的水袖,微微地拂过,留下的,竟是满地芬芳。许是前世的仙水,浸了天地的灵气,才使你美得像一个不真实的梦。即使在“风刀霜剑严相逼”的大观园里,那份“质本洁来还洁去”的小小情怀,仍是一道不变的风景。可是,现实总能把愿望击得支离破碎。前世还泪的美愿,却在腐朽的封建里,世俗的偏见中,成了美丽的错误。烧了那定情的帕,是否就能把深深的思念也随着烈火燃成灰烬呢?答案怕是否定的,数百年来无数人带着哀怨的眼神看你,可你,虽是带着遗憾离开了,但这一世,你终是没有再欠着宝玉。恍然间,你走近我,空气里弥漫着沁人的灵慧与凄凉的美好。你告诉我:无论身处怎样的环境,都不要丢失了心中的自我与本真。
翻过一页,于是,我见到了你——宝钗。都道你无情,谁又知道多情总被无情恼。你有你的无奈。“不离不弃,芳龄永继”倒成了一生的宿命。若真让你选择,是否你会愿意选择这样从出生便被设计好运行轨道的人生呢?答案怕也是否定的。悲哉,悲哉,叹只叹时代的黑暗。但你终究没有屈服,宝玉出家后,你毅然用一双柔弱的肩膀扛起了风雨摇摆的贾府,即使是活在别人不解和误会的目光中。朦胧中你走近我 ,平静的话语中透着坚定,你说:要精彩地活,哪怕不为人所懂,也要演绎属于自己的人生。
月亮摇着船儿,为万物蒙上了薄薄的轻纱,似乎,于茫茫书海中相遇《红楼》,是偶然,又是必然。总之,这人世间最美丽的相遇,它清晰明白地告诉我,青春年华属于我,诗意地长大属于我。
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