Dear Future Husband,亲爱的未来老公:
I'm not yet sure whether you exist, though I'd like to believe that you do. While it may not make much logical sense, you've been on my mind lately. I haven't thought much about what you'll look like, how tall you'll be, or what type of car you'll drive — I'm not too concerned with the minor details. However, I have been thinking about a few things I want you to know.我尚不确定你是否存在,虽然我愿意相信你的存在。虽然有点不太符合逻辑,但你最近总出现在我脑海里。关于你的长相、你的身高或者你开什么车子我都没想太多,我不太关心这些无关紧要的细节,然而我一直在想有几件事你需要知道。
I want you to know that I am happy — right now — as a single, 26-year-old "millennial" who lives in a small apartment with a roommate and eats Chipotle for dinner more times than I care to admit. I love my job, I love my crazy friends and family, and I love spending quality time alone. I want you to know that my life has purpose apart from and before you. When we do meet one day, I want you to understand that I do not expect you to complete me, or to be my God. That's way too much pressure for anyone to bear. I am already complete.我想要你知道,现在单身的我很幸福,一个26岁的千禧一代,和室友一起住在一个小公寓里,晚餐吃墨西哥便餐的次数多得我自己都不愿意去想。我喜欢自己的工作,喜欢疯狂的朋友和家人,喜欢独处的宝贵时光。我想要你知道没有你的时候和遇到你之前我的生活都有目标。某天我们遇见了,我想让你明白我不需要你来使我变得更完美或主宰我的生活,那样我们的压力都太大,我的生活已经很完整了。
I want you to know that I am not a trophy. Apparently, a lot of guys think this is a compliment. However, I want you to know that I have no desire to be seen as a trophy — a symbol of your own perceived success. I was not raised just to sit and look pretty on anybody's shelf. I want to have intellectual conversations. I want to help you chase your dreams. I want to be your partner, not your prize.我想要你知道我不是你的战利品。显然很多男孩都觉着这是恭维,但我想要你知道我不想被人当做战利品来象征你自己的`成功。我的成长不是仅仅为了坐在别人的架子上成为漂亮的摆设。我想要有头脑的对话,想帮你追求梦想,想成为你的搭档,而不是你的奖品。
I want you to know that I am a feminist, and I want you to be a feminist, too. This doesn't mean I am anti-men, and it doesn't mean I think myself superior to you. It merely means that as a woman, I believe that I should have the power and the choice to define what it means to be a female. Maybe I will continue to work a full-time job for the duration of our marriage. Maybe, one day, I'll decide to take on the onerous yet rewarding task of being a stay-at-home mom. Either way, I'll be "working." I am hopeful that you and I will be able to come up with a solution that works best for our relationship, and for our future family, free from societal expectations.我想要你知道我主张男女平等,希望你也是。这不是说我对男人反感或感觉自己比你优越。我只想说,作为女人,我相信我应该有权力选择去定义一个女人的意义。可能结婚以后我还会继续全职工作,也可能有一天会决定选择繁重但却值得的全职太太的任务。无论选择哪一个,那都是我的工作。我满怀希望地认为你和我能找到最适合我们自己和未来家庭的方式,而不会为世俗所累。
I want you to know that while your opinions will be valuable to me, I will try my hardest not to exchange my personal identity for your stamp of approval. It has taken me over two decades to become comfortable in my own skin, and I don't ever want to compromise that. I hope that you will love me whether I decide to wear my hair long or short. I hope that you will think I am beautiful whether I choose to walk around with a fresh face or eyes adorned with mascara. If we choose to have children, I hope that you will appreciate my body post-pregnancy just as much as you did the day we met.我想要你知道虽然你的想法对我来说很重要,但我还是会尽最大努力不用自己的身份来换取你的认可。我花了20多年才适应自己,我可不想做出让步。我希望无论我是决定留长发还是短发你都爱我;我希望无论我是选择素颜还是刷上睫毛膏出门你都觉着我很美。如果我们想要宝宝,我希望你会像刚遇见我时那样喜欢我生完宝宝后的身材。
I want you to know that I am not concerned with the size of my future engagement ring, and I will never pressure you to propose. Sure, I've thought about those things. I'm inundated daily with images of blushing brides and fairytale weddings. But at the end of the day, my goal is not to get married, but to stay married. If you promise to be my best friend for life, I promise not to get caught up in all the wedding madness.我想要你知道我不在乎未来订婚戒指的大小,也决不会给你压力让你求婚。是的,那些我都曾幻想过,我每天都不停幻想红着脸的新娘和童话般的婚礼。但最终我的目标不是结婚,而是维持住婚姻。如果你答应作我一辈子最好的朋友,我就答应你不会陷入对婚礼的狂热追求。
Most importantly, I want you to know that when we do fall in love, I will love you unconditionally. I don't expect you to be perfect, and I can guarantee you that I won't be either. I do, however, expect you to accept me fully for who I really am, and I promise to do the same for you. I will never try to change you, I will never let you feel unseen, and I will always be your number one fan.最重要的一点就是,我想要你知道恋爱时我会无条件地爱你。我不期待你很完美,我敢保证我也不完美。然而我真地希望你能完全接受真正的我,我保证也如此对你。我永远不会努力去改变你,永远不会让你感觉被忽视,我永远都是你的头号粉丝。
Yours truly,爱你,
Perfectly Imperfect Me.完美却又不完美的我。
亲爱的老公:
这是我第一次给你写情书,我不知道要怎么写,可我真的很想说说我的感受。
我们结婚八年了,从一开始没有感情基础的婚姻走到现在,我真的不知道自己是那么的幸福。我真的感觉到很幸福。以前我做过很多对不起你的事,我想你道歉:老公对不起,原谅我的任性吧!
在这八年里我并不知道自己是那么的爱你,我总是活在自己的初恋里,总是用我的初恋来和你比。总是让我觉得你在某些方面做的是不足的,你是不如他的。可现在的你是一个不一样的老公,为这个家是如此的幸苦,真的让我很心疼。每看到你疲惫不堪的回到家里,你知道我有多心痛吗?
我不需要鲜花和戒指,我只要你真的是为这个家,真的伤为我着想,真的爱我,就足够了。
xxx
20xx年x月x日
莫名的又想你了,我只想对你说人是有心的,树是有根的,我爱你是真的。谢谢你让我找到了生命中的温暖!有了你以后,我再也不是一个高傲的人,有了你我不再自恋,你要用你的警示来改掉我的缺点,而乖乖的听从你的命令。你生气时,我让你当出气筒。我生气时,我把自已当出气筒,你问我如果你爱上别的男人了我会怎样,我说我要***了那个男的。如果我爱上别的女人了你会怎样,我替你回答“你要阉了我自己”。。。。。。
不要问我爱你有多深,我真的说不出来,只知道你已成为我生活中的一种习惯,不可或缺的习惯,每天每天,可以不吃饭、不睡觉,却无法不想你,真的,我每天都想听见你的声音,一辈子不凡,我知道,要是我再不向你表白话,就再没机会了.那样的话,我想我会后悔一辈子的.于是,我鼓起勇气,当然,我知道,你有权力不喜欢我,但是你却没有权力阻止我喜欢你,不管你接不接受我,我都会尽最大的努力去争取的。我的世界因你而精彩!我是会让你幸福的,我给不了你最好的,但是我会竭给所能更你更好的。。我不希望你会放弃一个真正爱你的人!
好好照顾自己我不想等到下辈子再来爱你,每次我感到失意时,都回忆起你的浅笑,你的鼓励,它们使我坚强的面对下去,谢谢你!
我想就算世界上最美的景致也比不上你浅浅的一笑,明亮的眼眸,平凡的心,温柔的轻声细语,能握你的手就算用全世界和我来交换我也不要。
爱一个人,是要她幸福;爱一个人,是要她离开烦忧;爱一个人,是要她每天容光焕发;爱一个人,是要她不再经受心灵的折磨;问你一件事你在我脑子里跑了一天,你累不累?
雨在下,风在刮,有人为你牵挂;有人哭,有人笑,有人为你睡不着觉。我发誓:五十年后,我还是像现在一样爱你。如果,我只有一小时的生命,我会打电话给你,只想告诉你,认识你我真的很开心。
你占据了我的心,偷走了我的魂。你一定要学会贪心把我的整个心站的满满的,因为我已经把他存放在你那了,你一定要好好的保护好他,他不能再受伤了。如果再受伤,他将无法修复。
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