一个孩子,不忍看到蝴蝶在蛹中痛苦挣扎,便剪开蛹壳。不想,这只蝴蝶身躯臃肿,双翅干瘪,根本飞不起来,不久便死去。
蝴蝶必须在痛苦中挣扎,直至双翅强壮,方可破蛹高飞。人类不适当的爱,反成埋葬它的坟墓。蝴蝶如此,青少年又何尝不是这样?家长的溺爱,也恰似一把残酷的剪刀,只扼***孩子,使他们永远无法腾飞。正如著名的诗人汪国真所言:“怕只怕,爱也是一种伤害。”溺爱成伤,历史上不乏先例。仲永5岁能诗,聪颖超群,却在父母及众人的赞扬和宠爱之下,最终“泯然众人矣”;赵武灵王对儿子放纵娇惯,最终被不孝之子活活饿死;晋武帝纵宠儿子奢侈享受,其子继位后治国无方,西晋王朝走向亡。无论是仲永之“伤”,还是赵武灵王的“悲”或西晋王朝的“衰”,都是宠爱的恶果。“宠”,是宝盖下面的一条龙,这龙是无法腾飞的龙啊!
相反,对孩子严格要求,不但不会对孩子造成伤害,还有利于孩子的成长。王羲之年幼时,他的父亲便教他习字,要求甚严,结果王羲之终成百代书驿;曾国藩严整家规,教子有方,曾氏家族赫赫名扬;巴顿的父亲要求他每早苦读,造就了一位叱咤风云的人物……须知这些家长并非不爱孩子,只因他们清楚,宠溺不是正确的爱,纵宠只会带来伤害。
可悲的是,当今的某些父母却不明白这个道理。孩子矫揉造作,说这是天真可爱;孩子挥霍浪费,说他将来准挣大钱;孩子口出狂言,说胸有大志;孩子要摘月亮,这些父母就可以去找梯子。殊不知,这样做只会使孩子独毒骄娇,自由放任,不懂长幼尊卑,缺乏集体观念。如此爱出来的“小皇帝”,将来只怕是误已、误家、误国的“昏君”!
家长爱孩子本无可非议。但这爱,不应是牢笼,不应是蜜罐,不应是保险箱,只应是孩子放纵时家长严厉的目光,孩子懒惰时家长频频的叮嘱,孩子犯错时家长谆谆的教诲。……因为只有这样,蛹中的蝴蝶才能飞起,稚气的少年才能成长;只这样,爱才不是一种伤害。
一位父亲有几个孩子,这些孩子时常发生口角。他丝毫没有办法来劝阻他们,只好让他们看看不合群所带来害处的例子。为了达到这个目的,有一天他叫他们替他拿一捆细柴来。当他们把柴带来时,他便先后地将那捆柴放在每一个孩子的手中,吩咐他们弄断这捆柴。他们一个个尽力去试,总是不能成功。
然后他解开那捆柴,一根根地放在他们手里,如此一来,他们便毫不费力地折断了。于是他就告诉他们说:「孩子们!如果你们大家团结一致,互相帮助,你们就像这捆柴一样,不能被你们的敌人折断;但如果你们自行,你们就将和这些散柴一般,不堪一折了。」
Dear parents,
How is everything these days? I miss you very much.
I am very happy at my new shool. My teachers and shoolmates are very friendly to me .They ofen help me with my study.Now I am not worried about my English because I make a lot of progress in it anb I become more and more intrested in it. My shool life here is also wonderful. I take part in many part-time activities . I make many friends there and learn lots of learning methods.
Now final exam is coming. I am busy preparing it . I will try my best to do well in it.
I am glad that the summer holiday is coming. I want to take part in a GREEN CITY GROUP.I think I should make a contribution to protecting our environment.
It\'s hot these days but I can take good care of myself.You should pay more attention to your health.
Best wishes to you.
Love you,
Janemia
Dear father、mother:
Nice to meet you!
Dad,mum,you give me everything,give me the world.You told me:“Nothing is empossible .”I remeber it.Dad,mum,you are the best people in my world,I can\'tleave with you.
Mum,I think you are the best chinese teacher.You teach me chinese,let me know that what is china.You work in my old home,that\'s a pretty city.Maybe I will work in my old home one day,too!I think,you will be a good writer one day!
And,dad,you are a good enjineer!!You teach me enginsh and math.Thank you!
Dad,mum,you teach me many things,thank you ,and ,Ilove you!
Love you,
Janemia
你们好!我很高兴是你们家孩子的英语老师。近段时间我经常遇到家长对我说Misslee,我不会英语,我也不知道在家怎么辅导孩子?今天我就给大家说说这个问题。对于父母不会英语的家庭,家长应这样帮助幼儿学英语呢?
第一,多陪。每天陪幼儿15分钟的时间,为幼儿播放光碟和录音磁带,配合幼儿做游戏。
第二,多夸。幼儿在幼儿园做各种英语活动,在家看光碟和听录音磁带,看似没有下苦功夫,开始比经意间英语在天天进步。家长要仔细观察幼儿的进步,及时给于夸奖。高明的夸奖其实是很重要的、很有效的“教”。
第三,与幼儿共同成长。在“陪”幼儿学习的\'同时自己也努力学习,跟着幼儿一道接受英语启蒙。也可以让幼儿当您的小老师,当幼儿察觉到他们可以帮助您学习的时候,这种“成就感”会激励他们好上加好,加倍努力地学习英语,您也一定能到与幼儿共同成长的快乐。
我希望以上的建议,会给您带来不少的收获。祝小朋友天天快乐,健康成长。MissLee
Dear mother:
I think you are not only my mother but also my friend,my best friend!
When I was a child,you teached me a lot of things such as walking, saying, counting numbers and so on.You also teached me how to communcate with others.And you always told me that to be an honest student is very important.When I was in trouble,you often tried your best to help me.
But you maybe don\'t know how deeply I love you now.I must say \"thank you\"to you for what you did for me.
I love you,and I hope you can still help me in the future!
Love you,
Janemia
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