Everyone may encounter a scene when he or she wonders what the meaning and purpose of life is. Answers to this question vary from person to person. As for me, I agree with the view that the meaning of life is to discover your gift and the purpose of life is to make the best of it.
On one hand, one's gift could be the source of his inner happiness, providing spiritual impetus and correct orientation. Take the world-renowned Chinese pianist Lang Lang as an example. His gift was noticed before he was 3 years old, which laid the foundation of his glorious life. On the other hand, proper use of talent helps people to realize their value in a positive way, thus making contribution to the society as a whole. For instance, Isaac Newton made a universally amazing discovery by digging into his gift and finding the Newton's law of gravitation.
In conclusion, let's search for our true gift and utilize it to the fullest to achieve a happy and valuable life.
The popularity of smartphones has exerted great influence on the way people communicate, so much so that an increasing number of individuals contend that face-to-face communication is being replaced by texts and images on the mobile phone.
There are more than one angle to consider this phenomenon. On one hand, it is pleasantly acknowledged that smartphones shorten the distance between families and friends. Even people from different sides of the globe can share pictures, feelings and thoughts through various types of apps on the phone, thus building a long-distance connection. On the other hand, as the picture warns us, too much smartphone addiction interferes with people's real-life communication. Statistics show that over 70 percent of face-to-face communication consists of facial expressions and body language, which is why people should stay away from mobile phones when they have the chance to actually talk and communicate with others.
In a word, mobile phones act as an appropriate platform where people can always stay in tough however long the distance is, but a wise man should know when to put down his phone.
幸福以各种各样的形式呈现在我们的生活中,它是一种生命的感受,一种人生的体验。在很多的时候,幸福不是去盼望我们没有的东西,而是尽情享受自己现在的“拥有”。 孔子曾在《论语》中提到:“贤哉,回也!一箪食,一瓢饮,在陋巷,人不堪其忧,回也不改其乐。贤哉,回也!”而《陋室铭》中刘禹锡也有言“谈笑有鸿儒,往来无白丁。无丝竹乱耳,无案牍劳形”的圣地,何陋之有?亦或是范仲淹劝诫被贬的滕子京,应有“登斯楼也,宠辱不惊,把酒临风;不以物喜,不以己悲”的潇洒心境。又如五柳先生用“世外桃源”来比喻理想中,生活幸福安宁的地方或与世隔绝、脱离现实斗争的空想社会。
历代文人墨客、往哲先贤都有共同的见解:只要幸福住在里面,简陋的柴门又如何,朴素的茅屋又如何!幸福的笑颜从没有因身份的尊卑贵贱失去它明媚的光芒!因为真正的幸福来自于内心,不能以金钱、权力、荣耀来衡量。
有钱可以买车子、买房子,但买不到幸福;有权可以让人服从、听话,但拴不住幸福;有名可以得到尊敬、羡慕,但这也不等同于幸福。物的享受、权的力量、名的荣誉,只能使人产生一定的满足感,即使这就叫做“幸福”,那也只是一种短暂的感受,因为贪欲是无法满足的。
然而,在变幻不定的生活中,我们每个人都想远离不幸,逃避挫折,但没有人能躲过命运的安排。
一个活在黑暗中却给人类带来光明的女性,一个熬过87年无光、无声孤独岁月的弱女子——海伦·凯勒,用一颗不屈不挠的心,用生命的全部力量,向世界证明她并没有不幸。《假如给我三天光明》并不是幻想,而是海伦内心的'真实写照。只有珍惜当下,才能拥有幸福,这便是人生的价值所在。
同样,被命运捉弄,但信念仍在的张海迪,在遇到挫折时,打破了命运的枷锁。在5岁时,因患脊髓血管瘤造成高位截瘫,但身残志坚的她,并没有自暴自弃。她觉得自己还能用手写字,用眼睛看书便是幸福的。最终,凭借自己的能力,学成多国语言,攻读完了硕士研究生的全部课程。被我们铭记的还有霍金、史铁生……
生命绝非一帆风顺的旅途,每一次不幸的遭遇都是一次生命的洗礼。要么,在痛苦中一蹶不振,放弃希望;要么,把痛苦踩在脚底下,活出崭新的自己。经历了苦难的洗礼,才会更加珍视自己所拥有的现在。
由此可见,幸福是当我们对自己及周围环境或人生目的感到满足时的一种状态,是拥有身心的平和与宁静,不管境况或顺或逆,都能知足常乐,惜福感恩。一个人,只要拥有个好心态,一个坚定不移的信念,那他的生活便是幸福的。幸福像阳光、空气和水一样,不会因为身体的残缺而不充斥在你身边。正如一位日本学者说的,“我们不应该追求那种浅薄、瞬息即逝、海市蜃楼般的幸福,确立坚实的主体精神,不为环境所左右,也不为命运所桎梏,能克服任何困难、坚强有力而悠然自得地度过自己的人生。我认为这本身就是可谓真正的幸福,绝对的幸福”。
其实,幸福是主观的,因而幸福无处不在。人们常常是在幸福的金马车已经是过去很远,捡起地上的金鬃毛说,原来我见过它。这说明我们的生活中并不缺少幸福,而是我们缺少发现的眼睛,搜集起一点一滴的幸福,你就成为了一个精神上的富翁,而当你无限悔恨的追忆往昔点滴的幸福时,幸福却已随风而逝。
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