如晚饭后到睡前的空闲时间。这段时间内作者要照看孩子,无法静心读书,重读笔记是很好的选择。另外,出差途中乘坐火车或者飞机,读书感到无聊时都可以重读笔记。
在阅读阶段在书中做一些记号,为读书笔记做准备。作者推荐了“通读—重读—标记”的筛选程序,把有用的信息记录下来。
巧用记号区分不同的内容,保持页面的条理清楚。 普通直线:用于重要、客观上很重要、暂时先画出的情况 波浪线:用于非常重要、主观上觉得值得重视、想记住以后再运用的情况 圆圈:用来圈出重要的专有名词、关键词、关键句等需要吸引眼球的内容。
善用书签和记号,做笔记时还是能体会到当时的心情,也能更有效率地将必要的内容记录到笔记本上。
Dear all,
I am writing this letter to express my gratitude to my parents for teaching me to be positive and to be strong. “Educating the mind without educating the heart is no education at all.” is the opinion held by Aristotle. It is the experience of our forefathers, however, it is correct even today, including my parenting.
It is widely acknowledged that parenting, which can also be explained as family education, is of great significance in our character forming and manner acquiring. To be more detailed, setting good examples instead of just giving precepts is the greatest achievement of my parents. They not only taught me to think for the best and prepare for the worst; they taught me how. They not only told me the benefits of being strong in mind; they proved it. All those things require huge amount of time and work, but it’s worth it.
Without my parents’ contribution and education, I would never be who I am now. But most importantly, I would never be more gratitude to them than today.
Yours,
XXX
1、建立自信。相信自己可以学得很好。就是用好罗森塔尔效应,亦称“皮格马利翁效应”、“人际期望效应”,相信自己,给自己积极的心理暗示。预期越好,结果越好。这个尤其是对小孩子的教育,具有非常积极的意义。
2、明确意义。罗列学习的用处清单,短期的好处,长期的用处。比如打发时间、充实自己、提高认识,这个可以根据自己的期望去罗列,在显眼的位置挂起来,如自己的电脑显示器旁边,手机屏保、书桌抬眼就能看到的地方等等。
3、及时反馈。就是对学习成果进行奖励。比如,看了半小时,奖励一个苹果;看完半本书的时候,再定一个奖励;看完整本书,再给一个奖励。这个要根据自己的实际情况来制定。如小孩子看完一本书,就带她到哪里玩半天之类的'。
只有意识到自己的无知,我们才能更聪明
有两个误区:
1、知识的错觉:你以为你知道。
什么意思呢?举个例子,看到知乎上的一些提问,你觉得看起来简单,觉得无非就是怎样怎样,但是真正你去写回答的时候,却发现自己并没有那么清楚。
2、知识的诅咒:你以为别人知道。
比如,学医学的,他平时交往的同事大家一点就明白的事情,但要他说给一个完全没学过医的人去听,他就说不清楚,然后他还觉得不可思议。这个在大人和小孩的沟通中也非常明显。要改变的不是别人,而是那个“你”,怎么样把专业的知识,把别人不知道的知识转换成大家听得懂的语言。做到了才叫学会了。
如团队管理,就需要领导帮助团队成员意识到自己的无知,又不会觉得自己特别愚蠢。
Dear my father and mother,
This letter is my inner feelings. I want to thank both of you for so many years’ care and help.
During my growth, you have made a lot of efforts and love for me. When I make a success, both of you are more excited than me, and support me to do better. Even though I have failed, you always share sorrow with me and encourage me not to give up. Especially, during my preparation for CET-4, the support from you is always everywhere. I have passed the exam successfully.
You love is so unselfish that I am deeply affected, so I will study hard to be a useful person and won’t make you disappointed. Anyway, I would like to express the deep gratitude to you.
With best wishes.
Sincerely yours,
Li Ming
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