The happy spring festival spring festival is on the first day of the first lunar month.chinese people most like the spring festival.
during spring festival,Chinese people like having meals with their families,playing fireworks in the open air.my sisters and iplayed fireworks on that day.We had many fireworks.they were very beautiful.they were running into the sky and breaking into pieces.they looked like flowers in the sky.we were very happy and excited.After that,I made awish.I hope that,we can have ahappy and healthy life next year and everyone in my family can be happy.
I enjoy the festival very happy!
画面中,第一个孩子第一次考了100分,得到了表扬,第二次考了98分挨到了耳光;第二个孩子第一次考了55分不及格,受到了批评,第二次考了61分被表杨透过两个孩子得到不同分数后的不同遭遇,我们不禁要感叹:唯分论英雄,功利何其重!
孩子或许能在得满分,有进步时感到成功的喜悦,但当带着惩罚性质的耳光降临,孩子的心中便陡然多了“失败”带来的焦虑与压抑,最终甚至可能导致孩子的心理素质由于这种奖惩的反复而一低再低,对考试畏惧,对成功焦虑。
说到底,这还是爸妈们“唯分论英雄”的功利心态在作祟。心中太过渴求孩子的成功,以致自己先患上了成功焦虑症,还在潜移默化中让孩子也染上这种“病症”:凡事必求完美,即使离完美只差一小步也是失败。长此以往,不管是爸妈还是孩子,都容易急功近利,心态浮躁,更不利于孩子的长远发展。
放眼当下,这种功利心态、焦虑心理也并不少见。茶余饭后,人们津津乐道的总是那些出大名发大财挣大钱的人;毕业生择业先看薪酬再谈兴趣;一些人甚至为名为利不择手段,什么都可以抛弃!
其实追求成功是一种态度,要让这种态度趋于理性平和,而非虚浮躁动。爸妈和孩子都需拥有驾驭心态的能力。
人生须有一颗平常心,在追求中懂得取舍,在纷繁中保持本真,人生一世草木一秋,懂得知足才能快乐,懂得取舍方可轻松。
人生一世当摈除功利之心态永怀淡然之内心,唯有如此才能在纷繁的世俗中不迷失自我。
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