刚刚看完了这部新加坡电影<小孩不笨2>,一时间心里涌出很多感想…。.有感动,也有反思…
本片主要讲述了一个五口之家---爸爸妈妈是工作达人,大儿子是正处于青春期的叛逆少年,小儿子是懵懂的孩童,还有奶奶。父母忙于工作,疏忽了孩子。每当面对做错事的孩子,身心疲惫的父母只有非打即骂。孩子跟父母之间渐渐的衍生出一道不可逾越的鸿沟。即使父母为孩子创造多么好的物质生活都不能拉近彼此的距离。就这样,家里不是温馨的,学校里老师也只是一味的责备,冰冷的语言浇熄了学生心中所有的希望。还有另一个单亲家庭,下岗的父亲带着儿子生活,不善表达爱意的父亲,用拳头打散了亲情……一系列的问题发生之后,人们(父母,老师恍然大悟---原来"好"孩子仅仅需要多一点的爱,耐心,鼓励和宽容。影片中老师把"不争气"的学生叫做没用的"烂苹果",末尾有这样一幕:医院里,校长跟一个老师看见一个家长教育自己的孩子不要把烂掉的苹果扔掉,因为用刀削去烂掉的部分,苹果一样可以吃,但是扔掉了,就浪费了,不会再有机会!就像学生,就像孩子,当他们犯错时,老师和父母的打骂是对他们的否定,是对他们的放弃……
今天,我看了一部电影小孩不笨,影片中主记录了两个家庭,第一个家庭里是学谦今年15岁,还有个弟弟,叫杰利,今年8岁,爸爸是公司的经理,妈妈是杂志编辑,他们家很富裕。第二个家庭是成才一家,他今年也15岁了,爸爸的脚被打瘸了,以前也是社会的流氓,成才没有妈妈,他们家很穷。
有一次学谦的爸爸电脑坏了,学谦帮爸爸修好电脑,爸爸却说他玩坏了,又修了,而且逃课了,学谦很伤心。这一件事情让我想起了曾经发生过的一件事。有一回,我要为妈妈做了一束鲜花,但是爸爸妈妈让我去写作业,我做好给妈妈,妈妈说:“你不好好学习,做这些没用的东西干什么?“”他们不知道我当时有多伤心,多难过。
影片中还有一件事就是现实生活的翻版,一次,学谦在吃饭时,要打电话,父母说不能打电话,一会儿爸爸去打电话,妈妈也去打电话。开饭了,大家都去接电话了,还没吃饭一家人就散了。看了这部电影,我相信天下没有教不会的孩子,只有不会教的父母。我也相信每一个孩子都不笨,也希望每个小孩要有快乐!
看了《愤怒的小孩》这部电影后,我改变了对生活的一些看法。
孙小傲在家里是寂寞孤单的,此时他在家里很难和小朋友交流,也见不到忙碌的爸爸妈妈,他最后愤怒地离家出走。我深深地到了他的怨恨和寂寞,我同情无数像孙小傲一样的留守儿童。
我十分喜欢孙小傲的优秀品质。当他用工具扭开猫眼把钥匙吸出时,我明白他善于研究,当他用弹弓把坏人打中时,我明白他是神射手,当他把油倒在路面上阻碍坏人的车前进时,我明白他是智慧的象征,当他混入卡车时,我明白他有007间谍的潜质。我最欣赏孙小傲的智慧、沉着和诚实。他利用自己的聪明才智,打败邪恶的坏蛋,保护了兰兰;他被坏人抓住之后沉着、冷静,没有一丝恐慌,没有露出任何破绽;他凭借自己的诚实而赢得了津门五侠的'信任,从而得到了救助。
从孙小傲身上我看到了他寂寞孤单的眼神,也看到了他优秀的品质和无穷的潜力。比较我此刻的生活,我真感到幸福。在家里,每一天有爸爸妈妈的陪伴,在学校,有很多同学一齐学习,我要珍惜此刻和爸爸妈妈一齐的日子,我要珍惜和同学们一齐学习的日子。我要发奋读书,挖掘自己的潜力,不断完善自己,做一个优秀的孩子。
认真观看《小孩不笨》后,我的心情久未平静。对比影片中家长,我不禁扪心自问,作为家长,我称职吗?合格吗?下面就影片中涉及的问题,谈几点观点和看法。
要吝啬对孩子的赞美。影片中成才的爸爸就是一个不会赞美孩子的典型,以致他在学习邻居第一次对孩子说出“我爱你”三个字时,我们看到了孩子异样的表情。都说好孩子是夸出来的,一点不错。当你对孩子给予赞美时,他一定在心里想:下次我一定要做的更好!
做孩子的朋友,架起一条相互理解沟通的桥梁。这一点我深有体会,我和孩子之间的沟通也毫无保留,因为我是站在朋友的角度去倾听他的内心。我经常鼓励孩子和我聊天,聊聊他的喜怒哀乐,帮他指点迷津,教他解决问题。这样敞开心扉地畅所欲言,孩子自然不会将我拒之他的心门之外。
尊重孩子的特长和爱好。现在的孩子大都有报的兴趣班、特长班,我认为在报班之前家长一定要听听孩子的心声,尊从他们的意愿,尽量不走弯路,避免事与愿违。
成才的爸爸在生命的最后一刻说:“没有教不会的孩子,只有不会教的父母”。是的,我们每个人都在学着怎样去做一名合格的家长,记住:家长是一种责任,一种使命,千万别把当家长作为一种特权。
Early morning,sun farther—in—law showed smiling face,small alarm clock “ bite the bell bites bell “ the ground cries,seem to saying:“Beautiful,should get up!Should get up!!
Li Lixing,see sun farther—in—law came out,asperse on pale green branch full bright sunshine。 Li Li wore a beautiful powdery dress,wore a sky—blue pants again。 At this moment,transmit outside the window “ chirp “ cry,li Li looks up to look,a birdie is crying,seem to saying:“Li Li has breakfast quickly,I and you go to school together。 I and you go to school together。
Li Li eats breakfast rapidly,carry small satchel on the back,go to school together with birdie。
The kite flew away, my mother ran to chase, but ran a few steps to stop the footsteps. We watched the kite flying higher and higher, farther and farther, gradually became a small black spots. I can not help but think: the strength of the kite is so big!
At this time, my mother gave me to see her hand, the original is to fly a kite when the line was a small wound. I said to my mother, "be careful next time I fly a kite!" Mother said: "the next time we fly a kite to do adequate preparation, could not help but want to prepare a nice kite discs, but also to bring gloves, so that a foolproof." It turned out that there are so many exquisite kite ah. I'm looking forward to the next time I fly a kite!
In the afternoon, my mother and I went to South Lake Park to fly kites. As a result, it was found that many years ago to buy the puppy parachute kite is broken, so I and my mother in the park and bought a new kite. A silver kite plane. It's beautiful. We tied the string together, and put it up when there is a wind. The wind comes, kite flying, but the wind stopped, the kite fell down again, so repeated several times. Originally, kite flying is not as simple as imagined.
In a little while, to a great wind, the kite flew very high, has been flying into the air. I was dancing with joy, very happy. "Oh dear! Not good." Mother suddenly called out. I quickly asked her mother: "what?" My mother said, and who do not know the plane kite kite line. At this time, I saw a lot of aircraft flying kites, not only worried, "how to do? How to do?" I saw my mother side line side goes to go forward.
At this time, the owner of the kite winding --- a small brother also came. The little brother and mother together with the patient to tie the line to solve. The line was untied. I looked up and saw the plane flying kites flying in the sky. The air of the kite flying high, the hands of the mother line also put more long. I suddenly saw something on the kite line spinning quickly. Mom said, that's a kite line. Suddenly, the kite line is joint involved with the high flying free.
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