有了书房,还要想办法让孩子喜欢上阅读,不然书房就成摆设了。这里家长一定要参与进来,从给孩子讲最简单的故事开始。这个过程我是深有的,虽然孩子在家听故事APP讲了许许多多的故事,她还是希望我能亲自给她讲个故事,不管是脑海里现有的,还是照着书本讲,都可以。孩子听完故事后感受到了乐趣,会不由自主地去找书自己看,和我们成人,看了一部不错的电影或者电视剧,会找原著阅读一个道理。这是非常重要的阅读兴趣启蒙。
孩子开始爱上阅读了,买书就是必须要做的事情,这时候家长一定要摒弃功利心,而是以孩子的喜好为前提。孩子的兴趣是不断变化的,这一点,家长一定要清楚。
“在家泡书房,外出逛书店。”目的是让孩子接受大环境的熏陶,她一个人读书时左顾右盼,但是当和很多小朋友一起在一个环境里读书,她对阅读的认知会大大提升。这里我有和书里相似的,太小的孩子,自制力较弱,多去书店、图书大厦,少去图书馆,因为太安静了,孩子受不了,坚持不了几分钟。北京西单图书大厦是我和熙熙经常去的地方,那里吵闹,但不嘈杂,很适合遛孩子。
Animals are friends of human beings. Most of them are lovely. I like giraffe the most. They are very tall and have many brown spots.
They have very long necks, so that they can eat the leaves in high trees. Giraffes are gentle and lovely. They are friendly to people.
When I go to the zoo, I always look at them. They move slowly. I can’t keep it as a pet, because it’s so huge. It’s a big pity.
I have a big dog ane I love him very much .he has two round black eyes and his sense of hearing is sensitive .
His claws are like four plum blossoms .His tail always shakes and looks very cute .In the daytime ,he likes sleepping under the sunshine .
But at night ,he is careful and keeps like the doorkeeper guards .He is smart and always eat a lot .He is meek to me but when he meets strangers ,he will bark to them .
When I become tired ,he will come and lick my face with his tongue .when I am not busy ,he will play with me .He can give me so much happiness and now I can not leave him .I love my dog because he is one of my family numbers .
My favorite animal is the dog. Dogs are the most loyal animals to people.
My family also has a dog, its name is lu lu, is a male dog. It was a shish dog, covered with long, golden hair and felt soft and comfortable. It had big black eyes and a twinkle in the evening. There's also a lovely flat black nose that is always wet, so it likes to lick its nose. There was a cute little braid tied to the head, and a red bow tied to the braid.
It has been with me since I was a baby. I remember one time I made a mistake and my mother was going to hit me. Lulu saw it, and ran quickly, Shouting at her mother, trying to protect me, and her mother gave up.
My dog has a skill that other dogs don't, and whenever I play the harmonica, it will sing in rhythm, in a deep, sometimes high-pitched way. I think it's going to be a concert of its own! Do you mean my dog is tough?
So, I like dogs very much.
我最喜欢的动物是狗。因为,狗是对人最忠诚的动物。
我家也养了一只狗,它的名字叫噜噜,是一只公狗。它是一只西施狗,浑身上下长满了长长的金黄色的毛,摸上去软软的,舒服极了。它有一双黑黑的大眼睛,一到晚上就会发出闪闪的光芒。还有一只可爱的扁扁的黑鼻子,上面总是湿漉漉的,所以它总喜欢舔自己的'鼻子。噜噜的头上还扎着一个超可爱的小辫子,辫子上还扎着一只红色的蝴蝶结,分外耀眼。
从我还是婴儿的时候起,它就开始陪伴着我成长。记得有一次,我犯了一个错误,妈妈要打我。噜噜看见了,就飞快地跑过来,对着妈妈凶狠地大喊大叫,想要保护我,妈妈见它那么凶,只好放弃了。
我家的狗还有一个别的狗没有的本领,只要每次我吹响口琴时,它就会按节奏唱起歌来,时而委婉深沉,时而高亢激昂。我想,它肯定能开一个属于自己的演唱会了!你说我家的狗厉害吗?
所以,我非常喜欢狗。
我家熙熙刚四岁,都让我误以为已经到了青春期,“顶嘴”和“抬杠”已经成了家常便饭。对照此书反思,我发现自己对孩子有过分娇宠之嫌,经常迫于她哭闹的压力而放弃原则,答应了一些不合理的要求,进而让她变得越来越任性。
自我总结与调整就是,首先保证不情绪化,不和孩子对抗,要平等相处,注意说话的技巧,不使用命令语气,时刻表达爱。另外,不要盲目批评孩子,不在公众场合批评孩子。
“真正的威信来自于言行合一的言传身教,来自于对底线和原则的坚持。”
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