什么是追求追求,是人内心深处对某些事物想要拥有的一种强烈***。
追求必须具有三个特征:一清晰明确的目标,二具体的实施计划,三为之付出行动。
根据追求目标的不同,追求分为两个方面:物质方面的追求和精神方面的追求。事实上人们对物质的追求,最终目的是为了满足精神上的需求。
人们时常把理想、愿望、梦想、以及对未来的憧憬,看成自己的追求,这些东西与追求有很大区别,人们的愿望、理想、憧憬往往都比较笼统、模糊。例如:想有个高薪的工作、想成为有钱的人、想过富裕的生活、想有个温馨的家、有个漂亮的爱人┈┈。而追求则具有明确的目标,例如:我要成为一名百万富翁,我要做外科医生,我要拥有一辆奔驰600┈┈。追求与理想、愿望最大的区别在于,追求一定会实现,而理想、愿望则不一定能实现。
如果询问一百个人,问他们有什么追求?九十九个人会说:想得到很多钱,想过上美满、富裕的生活。其实这些都是他们美好的愿望而已,并非是追求。只有极少数人能讲出自己的追求。这就是为什么只有少数人会实现自己的目标,过上令人向往的生活,而多数人却在失望中度过一生的原因。
成功者与一般人最大的区别在于,成功者都有自己明确的追求目标,为之付出一切,从不动摇和改变。而多数人恰恰相反,很少有明确的追求目标,即使有愿望,还时常是朝三暮四。
追求,是你为之奋斗一生的目标。
追求决定了人生“人生十之八九不如意”,许多人对此都有同感。人最大的缺点在于总是从外部环境找原因,很少发现自身的因素。当我们在唉叹命运的不公时,却没有想到命运是每个人内在思想的具体表现,正是你内心深处的追求引导着你走到今天的位置。有什么样的追求,就有什么样的人生和命运。
追求对命运的影响主要表现在两方面:一,没有任何的追求,大多数人是这样。或许年少时曾有过追求,在遭遇一些挫折后,逐渐放弃了自己的追求。当一个人的内在自我没有任何追求时,他的思想就会象无人照管的花园长满杂草。如果没有追求,消极的东西就会占领你的内心世界,吞噬着你的思想,消磨着你的意志,最终使你的生活陷入困境。二,只是注重物质财富的追别求,而没有顾及精神方面的需求。( )追求物质财富,是为了满足精神方面的需求,我们必须知道这一点,如果只是一味的追求物质目标,而不考虑精神方面的追求,当你实现了目标,会发现这一切都毫无意义,最终还是被命运玩弄。
你的人生走向何处,决定与你的追求。
追求决定了人的行为我们每天都在忙忙碌碌,有些事情是必须要做的,有些事却要选择地去做,例如:下班后,有的人去休闲娱乐,有的人在看书学习。他们之所以会有不同的行为,是因为他们具有不同的追求。一个毫无追求的人,他的行为具有很大随意性且毫无目的,一个有追求的人,他的行为都是围绕着目标进行。
我们的社会已经进入信息时代,我们周围的一切每天都在发生巨大变化,我们必须不断丰富自己,才能适应社会的变革,现在处在知识大爆炸的时期。新生事物层出不穷,事物在日新月异。我们应该学习什么?掌握什么?我们今天在做什么事?所有这些行为都取抉我们追求的目标,今天的行为决定你明天的状态今天你有什么样的行为,明天你就会有什么样的结果。许多人向算命师打探自己的未来,这是最愚蠢的行为,你只要问问自己有没有追求、追求的目标是什么?你就知道你的未来是怎样得。你有什么样的追求目标、你就会有什么样的行为,有什么样的行为、就会有什么样的结果?
追求反映了人的思想一个人的追求目标,是其内在思想的具体表现。
不同的人会有不同的追求目标,有的人追求金钱、有的人追求权力、有的人追求享乐,有的人把为他人服务视为自己的终极目标。不论你的'追求目标是什么、是大还是小、都是你思想的再现。如果一个人没有任何的追求,说明了他的思想是一潭死水,这样的人与行尸走肉没有区别。
在确立自己的追求目标之前,应该检查一下自己的思想,追求的目标是否是自己真正需要的、是否损害了他人利益,有没有违背自己的价值观,追求的目标必须与内在自我的精神需求是保持一致,否则实现了目标不但不能满足自我,还会引起痛苦。
确立你的追求目确立你的追求目标,简单地说就是你要成为什么样的人。
这个问题是人生中最基本、也是最重要的问题,大多数人都没有考虑过这个问题,或者说大多数人不相信自己能够成为想成为的人,他们宁可相信命运,而不相信自己。对于这个问题的怀疑也正是他们处于目前状况的根本原因。
要想改变命运、成就人生,第一步就是要确立目标。要射箭之前必须先立好箭靶。
确立你的目标必须要认真对待,你要认真思考一段时间,什么是你内心真正渴望到的,然后写下来,越详细越好,要把目标分为近期的、长期的和你的终极目标,目标确立后就不要随意改变,改变太快的目标,会让你的内在自我难以接受,就不能激发起实现它的动力。
确立目标简单,如何实现目标,具体地实施过程是多数人望而生畏的。实现目标必须有科学方法,许多人之所以不能实现自己的人生目标,就是因为没有掌握方法。只要你学会其中的原则,无论你的目标是金钱、财富、还是其它,实现这些目标就非常容易,而且超出你的想象
Has the winter vacation year after year, all is often different. Formerly, I all only was busy in the winter vacation is making merry, but this difference, not only I have not played, but also almost closed the confinement. Asked how I do fall so the fate, ya, all is the calamity which wants to play all the time annoys!
That day clear and boundless sky, solar especially beautiful, my in high spirits running to the maternal family, father and mother and the relatives and friends disappears for a long time, therefore particularly is excited. After finished eating the lunch to chat a meeting, they on full of enthusiasm played the playing cards. I am idling the safe, a person exits the extension, and brought a cigarette lighter, several dozens firecrackers along with; Transferred had not seen any interesting thing, thereupon I put the firecracker on a person in the courtyard. But that day wind especially big, I originally want to lose on the place the firecracker actually and I do to, rode the wind but has flown on the side haystack, a detonation, unexpectedly a ten feet high flame for to ignite the haystack, I was startled immediately had, hurried brushes with the bamboo pole, but the haystack roasted in the overpoweringly hot hot sun roasts has dehydrated completely, in addition that wind helped an evildoer do evil in the one side, the flame fled in a twinkling Lao Gao, I was scared immediately, got a sudden inspiration nearby the discovery well to have a washbasin suddenly, hurried the water used fire fighting, just has irrigated a trough, That presses the hydraulic engine also to press did not sail upstream, really awfully, this heaven resembles is intending to oppose with me resembles, my anxious tear has all fallen, wants to let loose the throat to shout, can how also shout does not make noise; The younger sister comes out by chance asks me to play, she hurried the human has all called, everybody busily has opened immediately, barrel barrel trough trough water straight upward irrigated. This water is originally may suppress the fire, but this fire gentle breeze becomes the ally, the fire has borrowed the circumstances, the wind helps the fire prestige, the situation is not more and more wonderful. By now although greatly burnt down was the haystack but likes actually is burning my heart, from caught up with the villagers in all directions which put out a fire also to, they did not know lifted a small water pump from where, finally, this water pump drew up the water has all supplied, was seeing this fire had to irrigate extinguished, but did not know how, the water broke suddenly. We run as soon as looked that, the original water source is far, that splices the pipe joint place 散架, Shui Zhenggu 汩 braved to outside, to flow place. When we fix the pipe, this is irrigated the fire which extinguishes to resurge quickly. Has not been good, this time wind has gotten up greatly, again does not take the measure, not only this haystack has not guaranteed, all must suffer disaster including the side on haystack and the house. In this critical moment, sees only the uncle to take up the pipe, flushed the haystack which burnt, he did not attend to the intermittent thick smoke to destroy completely the exterior fire diligently outside, also let the public hoe push aside the haystack, the water used to has Mars the place pouring to go, but most was anxious certainly is I, one side me was snatching the fire fighting, at the same time unceasingly the mouth read "the amen", really was turns to any doctor one can find when critically ill. But, this move resembles also very is effective, soon, the wind really has stopped down, this fire also naturally extinguished. My deep sigh one breath, in a heart big stone finally fell to the ground.
Although the fire extinguished, but my responsibility feared was the inescapable, I have finished the full psychological preparation, in just a little bit, the maid ablaze with anger walked, very far away I the smell of gunpowder, but fortunately, the maid has not begun, otherwise I also could write the thesis in this? Oh, I now really regretted that, I do must put that to provoke the right and wrong to me the firecracker?
译文:
年年有寒假,一切往往不同。以前,我只在寒假里忙得不亦乐乎,可这次不同,我不但没玩过,还差点关上了禁闭。问我怎么会落下这样的命运,哎,都是一直想玩的祸烦!
那天天空晴朗无垠,阳光格外美丽,我兴高采烈地奔向母家,爸爸妈妈和亲戚朋友久久不见了,因此格外兴奋。吃完午饭聊了一会,他们就兴致勃勃地玩起了扑克牌。我在闲逛保险柜,一个人从分机出来,带了一个打火机,几十个鞭炮一起;转移到没有看到任何有趣的东西,于是我把鞭炮放在院子里的一个人身上。可是那天风特别大,我本来想把鞭炮丢在地上却和我做对了,乘风却飞到了旁边的草堆上,一声爆响,竟有一股十尺高的火焰为草堆引燃,我顿时吓了一跳,赶紧用竹竿刷了刷,可是在烈日下烤的草堆已经完全脱水了,加上风在一边扶着一个恶人作恶,火焰瞬间就窜了老高,我顿时吓了一跳,突然发现井边有个脸盆,急忙用水救火,刚灌完槽,那压着液压机也压不上船了,真是太可怕了,这天堂像是要和我对抗似的,我焦急的眼泪都掉了,想放开嗓子喊,可怎么也喊不出声来;妹妹偶然出来叫我玩,她赶紧把人都叫来了,大家马上忙开了,桶里的水直往上灌。这水本来是可以压制火的,但这火和风成了盟友,火借了情,风助火威,情不愈妙。这时虽然大火烧成了草堆但却像是在燃烧着我的心,从四面八方赶来的村民扑灭了一场火也到了,他们不知道从哪里举起了一台小水泵,最后,这台水泵抽上来的水已经全部供应了,看到这场火已经被浇灌扑灭了,但是没有不知怎么,水突然破了。我们一跑就看,原来水源远,那拼接管接头处散架,水正鼓汩冒到外面,流向处。当我们修好水管时,这是浇灌灭火后迅速复活的火。一直不好,这次风大了起来,再不采取措施,不仅这草堆没有保证,连草堆上的`边和房子都要遭殃。在这危急的时刻,只见叔叔拿起水管,冲着烧焦的草堆,他顾不上时断时续的浓烟努力把外面的火烧得干干净净,还让众人锄起草堆,把曾经有火星的地方浇去,但最着急的肯定是我,一边我在抓紧救火,一边不停地嘴里念着“阿门”,真是转危为安时找不到任何医生。但是,这一举动似乎也很有效,很快,风真的停了下来,这场大火也自然扑灭了。我深深的叹了一口气,心里的一块大石头终于掉到了地上。
虽然火扑灭了,但我的责任恐怕是无法推卸的,我已经做好了充分的心理准备,就在一点点,女佣怒火中烧地走了,远远的我闻到了火药味,幸好女佣还没开始,不然我还能在这写论文吗?哦,我现在真的很后悔,我一定要把那个挑起我是非的鞭炮?
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