When I read "when happiness knocks on the door", this film makes me feel how hard it is to have no money in the world. When Crete Gadens wife left, homeless, took his son to sleep in the toilet, he cried, he felt he was incompetent, helpless, even down to the toilet. He said to his son: "you are the best, to adhere to your dream, no matter who can not control your dream, that is, your father can not write." In him, I saw that he was in a very clean suit even though he was down and out. Because he knows, only professional, in order to attract more customers. He tried to make a phone call, not a phone. In order to make a phone call, not even drink water, so you dont have to go to the toilet. And at any time in the role of the younger brother, for the manager of tea, buy food for the manager. But even so, he is still very optimistic, because although his wife left him, but also his son, the son is the backbone, the son can live a good life, have a good education, being wronged, tired by the point and is what?
Finally pays off, he finally found a big customer, in order to get close to him, Crete Gaden accompanied the customers to watch the game, the game introduced a lot of customers in the customer for him, said: "the big customers in a short time, I wont let you control my money. But I appreciate you, so I am willing to make friends with you, after 100 days of hard work, Crete Gaden finally passed the examination, he won the first performance, he became the only one who was admitted to government securities company. When Crete Gaden entered the directors office, a securities company executives told him that you have become a formal securities agent, his heart very excited, tears in his eyes, in addition to the 3 top repeat saying thank you, he can not say a word. He thought that he and his son would never have to sleep in the toilet again, and no longer go to church workhouse, and he couldnt help but shed tears. It was tears of happiness. He thought of the future to give his son the best life, the best education, and he tears, gave a happy smile, he ran to his sons school, a Chinese opened for poor children studying in the school, hugged her son, thought: "son, Dad after you can get good life, have a good education!" By 2005, Crete Gaden had become a million dollar banker.
This is the "pursuit of happiness", their happiness will never knock on our door, we want to fight for their own, as long as the hard work, unremittingly, happiness will come knocking never yield in spite of reverses, our door.
在现实社会里,人们都在学习知识,为的是做一个有文化的人。但是,现在社会上却出现了假文盲。
有一幅漫画是这样的:一个很冷的冬日里,四个男子霸占了车站上母子上车处的通道。第一个男子身穿大衣,脚穿着皮鞋,双手放在口袋里。眼睛微微眯着,似乎不想让人看到他不安的眼神。第二个男人头上戴着一顶棉帽,穿着一双白色的鞋子,看起来文质彬彬。第三个男人身穿羽绒服,眼睛紧闭着。第四个人戴着口罩,眼神有点紧张。一旁有一位衣着单薄的女人抱着孩子,无奈地看着他们,眼神是那么孤独无助。可那四个男子却无动于衷。
看了这幅漫画,我的心中有许多感慨:他们难道不识字吗?他们难道没有一点不安吗?他们难道是冷血的吗?不是的'啊。他们都是看起来很有文化的人。他们的外表看起来光鲜亮丽,腹有墨水。其实他们的内心是无比的丑陋,为了一己私利,丢弃了道德,他们就像禽兽,多么无知,多么自私。
生活中类似这样“假文盲”的现象比比皆是:在拥挤的公交上,有些人无视车厢内“老弱病残专用座”几个字,霸占着好心人留着的爱心专座,让腿脚不便的老人无奈地站着;在公园里,有些人无视草坪上警示牌的字“请不要踩进草坪”,踩着草坪拍照,让青青的小草身上留下一个个黄色的脚印;在书店里,有些人不顾墙上“请勿大声喧哗”的大字,大声喊叫,让正在看书的人皱起了眉头……
那次,我和妈妈乘公交车回老家,公交车上座无虚席,人们有的低头看手机,有的在睡觉,有的在打电话,我们只能站着。我们身后有一位老爷爷颤颤巍巍地,车子一路颠簸,老人站不稳,可是公交车上的爱心专座被一些看起来很有文化的年轻人占着,老人无助地问:“哪位年轻人可以给我让个座?”车上没有一个回答,也没有一个人给老爷爷让座。老爷爷没有办法只好站着,但是又不能站稳,差一点就要摔倒了。妈妈把自己站的有栏杆的位置让给老爷爷,说:“您站在这里吧,这里会站得稳些。”她自己站到过道里,老爷爷感激地看着妈妈。
如果社会上可以少一些自私自利,只顾自己利益的假文盲,多一些乐于助人的好心人,那么会使世界上多一些美好。
After watching this movie, the heart can not be calm, it let me see the heros optimistic, strong, confident and never give up, but also understand the worlds apathy, helpless and uneasy. The cause of the failure, his wife abandoned, life distress and defeat Chris, on the contrary, the suffering experience made him become more self-confidence, he never give up faith, in trouble, finally it comes to firmly grasp their own happiness.
How could we not be so in our life? Life is a long journey, and no one on this journey is smooth sailing, and no one can predict what will happen on this journey But one thing we can believe is that when God closes a door for you, she opens a window for you.
This story reminds me of the scene thirteen years ago. Thirteen years ago, just graduated, I left home with longing and hope, came to the provincial capital of Jinan, then only in the pocket of my mother gave me one hundred yuan. After a lot of trouble, I found a job of selling commodities for a trading company. Every day carrying a packet of small streets, hard to imagine. The scene of the first customer rejection, the scene of being scolded by the customer for the first time, a man hiding in the corner crying...
Still fresh in memory. That experience made me realize that when were in trouble, letting go of our self will only make us worse, and we can get nothing except a little sympathy. On the contrary, this is the moment we make efforts, energy savings, firm belief, lock the target, hold on and never give up, you can in the happiness comes and firmly grasp her. No one has ever been alone. Recently, a colleague has passed his own effort to enter a financial institution in the city. In the eyes of everyone, he is a lucky man. But perhaps no one saw the hard work he did in the process. In this world, everything is a process from quantitative change to qualitative change. When we envy other peoples luck, we may not see how much others pay in the process When were watching TV, when were having fun, when were chatting......
Perhaps others are studying business, perhaps is study of professional knowledge, perhaps is to fight to win or die......
We often see the success of others, but rarely see the hardships of others behind the success. One hundred people, one hundred people, different lifestyles, there are one hundred different interpretations of happiness, you choose what kind of life, what kind of action. So dont blindly envy others success, if you want to succeed, if you want to decide your own happiness, it starts from a little bit, starting from your nearest goal, adhere to! Insist! Insist again!
When one day happiness knocks at the door, you can catch her without hesitation, and then you will also become the lucky person in the eyes of others. In daily work, we should always remind ourselves, when happiness knocks at the door, are you really ready?
溺爱孩子是祖国的未来,是社会的花朵,家庭的希望,所以会受到国家、社会、家庭的充分关注。但具体说来,一个孩子能否健康成长关系到他的未来。所以孩子的教育问题成为社会普遍关注的问题。
我们中国的一些孩子受家庭的传统试教育而显得畸形发展。孩子是爹娘的一块心头肉,可以说孩子从他(她)降临到世上的那一刻起就已经深深的系在爹娘的心里。家长对孩子的疼爱能够发展到溺爱的程度。比如说,孩子走路跌倒了,家长肯定要急忙跑过去把(他)(她)扶起来,还要用甜蜜的语言抚慰一下孩子跌倒的心灵。于是乎,传统的家庭溺爱式教育开始付诸实行。孩子吃饭,爹娘给他(她)把饭送到嘴里,孩子睡觉,爹娘给他(她)被子铺下,尽管这些孩子已八九岁有余。如此,这些孩子对父母的依赖程度伴随了多半生或者一生。而我们看看美国一些家庭教育孩子的模式,往往是不同于我们中国的。美国的孩子跌倒了,父母绝对不上前扶他(她)。从这点根本上反映了我们中国的父母对孩子的教育。家长对孩子的疼爱本来是人之常情的事,然而这种疼爱如果一旦转变成溺爱,就变了质了。我们常说:“溺爱就等于抹***了一个孩子,适度的疼爱才是有分寸的家长”。常有适度的疼爱,合理的引导而成就一个孩子。但我们中国的有些家长常常是孰视无睹。这不但害了孩子,而且害了父母。我们说一个人的成长主要受三方面的影响:A、家庭B、学校C、社会,而A选项则是至关重要的。因为一个人来到世上首先见到的就是父母。
难怪我们从小首先开始学的称呼就是“妈”或者“爸”,其次才是“叔”“伯”“舅”等等,至于以后的老师朋友之类更是很远。所以,家长的一言一行深深的刻在孩子的心里。如果家长代替了孩子所力所能及的事情,那么客观上家长已经抹***了孩子的独立生活能力,更谈不上自我创新与实践能力。诚如我曾经听过一个故事:说中国科学院有位博士生,他的成绩非常优秀,但因他不会如何吃饭而被该院开除。看官可能有点不信,但这是真实事例。人天生是有惰性的。如果人有其他非人而不同于人的`东西代替他所做的一切,人绝对不会自己动手,丰衣足食了。我们想用机器人代替我们的日常生活,我们就可以足够的享受人间安逸的乐趣。可惜这种幻想是暂时不能实现的。所以,我们每个人天生是存在惰性的。只不过这种惰性在某些人身上显的突出,而在另一些人身上则略显甚微。所以,如果一个人从小习惯了父母的溺爱,那么他(她)绝对不会是祖国的未来,家庭的希望。就中国目前情况而言,这种情况农村中出现的比例要略高于城市一些。城市毕竟聚集了大多有知识有文化、有素质的中、高产阶级。他们在教育孩子方面还不是过于溺爱。可农村就大不相同。有的家长好不容易生了个能够“传宗接代”的男丁。这下可好了,溺爱到形影不离的地步。连名字都叫的异常可爱:南方叫“阿猫”“阿狗”,北方叫“猫猫”“驴驴”“狗狗”“牛牛”甚至“猪猪”之类,以表溺爱。但我们不排除城市中一些家长出现的溺爱现象。总之,不论城市还是农村,溺爱是普遍存在。
因为溺爱,所以出现了许多无能的书呆子,无能的健康青少年,更有甚者,“成了监狱里的囚犯”。因此,我们不难发现,中国一些家长对孩子的溺爱确实存在着极大的弊端。为了孩子的健康成长,为了爹娘的心头肉充满希望!为了祖国的花朵充满美好的未来!请家长们吝啬一点你的“溺爱吧!”吝啬”你们的一份关爱,就等于挽救了自己的孩子!如果你们不想听“救救孩子!”的呼声,就做一名践行者吧!
Last night, I read an American inspirational article "when happiness knocks on the door", I feel a lot. Each of us has experienced some hardships before we know what happiness is. Chris experienced the most difficult stage in his life. From the step by step to the final success of the ordeal. The film also became popular applause of the American inspirational article. Perhaps inspirational articles have a common plot, all is the master, through the rough life course, finally to success. But if thats not the case, can it be inspirational?
When happiness knocks on the door, Chris. Gardiner represented a medical device, his main job is to do the work of medical device salesman, every day is carrying a scanner shuttle in the street, around to sell. Sales promotion is not so smooth. He goes out every day, but he comes home with money every day. He has a wife and a son. His wife works for 16 hours a day in a factory. He lives in poverty, and is often subject to various economic pressures, such as rent, car fines, taxes, etc..
Chris had a chance to see a group of stockbrokers working very happily, and he was determined to become a stockbroker. But he has only a high school diploma and has no experience, even if he makes an application. So he took the initiative to go to the examiner, hoping to achieve his wish. And it was his effort to make it happen. He got the chance to interview. He didnt get any income after the interview. The wife watched him unable to get out of the trouble and left him. It was another test for him. He decided to live alone with his son. At this point, he had no income during the 6 months practice of the stockbroker company. He could only take his son to the shelter when he was in a desperate situation. Despite this frustration, one after another, the difficulties ensued, and he never gave up. His belief in success and happiness remained unchanged. With this dedication, he worked hard, every effort to seize every opportunity, sincere treatment of his customers, and finally he ushered in the dawn of happiness.
The most impressive part of the movie is running. There are a lot of running scenes. Chris was running when he saw the stolen instrument; he was running to pay for the taxi fare; he was running for the interview; he was queuing in order to go to the hospice. Running in our lives is also possible, in order to squeeze into the bus, in order to quickly arrive at a certain place. And when Chris was running for his life, we thought of more bitterness and his effort to live. The film is the use of such a run of the subjective action, showing peoples most tenacious ability to survive and never yield spirit. We will also encounter difficulties, setbacks, whether we can correctly treat, and whether we are in the face of all this, can calmly think of ways, can take the initiative to beat the difficulties? If we can, we are the strong person in life.
The film left me with one of the deepest impression is Chriss tears. When he and his son were evicted from rental housing, he led his son to find a place to live. His friend refused him. So they came to the subway station. He came up with a story to coax his son to accept the difficulties he faced. So they went into a public lavatory and spent a night in the sound of a barrage of crashing sounds. Chris cried. He didnt cry for such difficulties. But let his son suffer with him, make him feel sorry for his son. This point of view is that he is a kind and respectable father. Treat his son, his affection is so strong and deep. Another scenario is that he was hired as the official broker, he cried, wanted to share this happy moment of the man is his son with him, can feel how much he loved his son.
We see these scenes can not help tears trickling down cheeks. A touching scene, from a subtle point can feel the power, we lack is such a force. We want to succeed, we want to become brave, and we face difficulties and setbacks, we also indomitable will and faith to support it? So, when it comes, we dont panic anymore. Because we think the world is nothing to fear. The terrible thing is that you believe in what you can do if you believe in what you want and what you will do.
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